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Laryfrosh:
I really want to know about this devops...
Please let's connect if you don't mind

airsaylongcome:
What's your day job about? Devops is an interesting field to venture into and I find that a lot of young Nigerian Tech Bros and Sis focus more on Frontend and Dev. What's your motivation for going into Devops?

Theundertaker:
nope , u don’t smoke , so u don’t get it

Juell:
There's a whatsapp group, check the previous pages of this tread.

Theundertaker:
Who else thinks introverts are born smokers we are actually the ones who love thinking , extroverts brain is two shallow for it ,, that’s why when they take it , it turns to something else , but introverts are mentally strong . We understand highness more than anyone, in our comfort zone , in our homes . Hving no one around as usual , lol , ignore my mistakes .

Fidelismaria:
Lol



I'm loving the gbas gbos between those two upstairs

Pls don't stop

Keep it coming

XhosaNostra:
Now I do that, but back then I was just a keen observer that took a lot of mental notes, occassionally.

XhosaNostra:
In a sense he was I'm a note-taker by nature, so I learnt a lot from that train wreck Relationships are a great learning tool about others & self.

XhosaNostra:
I wouldn't say I tried to understand him per se, I just have this natural curiosity when it comes to how people tick & tinker in general. He was a great case study & provided me with more material than I could ever need to revisit in a lifetime. His issues were that many.

XhosaNostra:
What happened in that relationship from your teens? That could be where it all began.
I knew someone who told me that he lost his 1st love because she was forced to marry someone else. I think that experience had a tremendous impact on him because he'd fight tooth & nail to avoid situations where he'd have to be vulnerable. He also CRAVED affection, but when he felt himself reciprocating, the inner conflict would start. I was often left feeling that he preferred any other girl to me. But of course that wasn't the case because he couldn't stay away either, when I'd send him packing. Sometimes I felt he resented me for making him feel because he'd do things to hurt me on purpose, so I'd break up with him, which gave him a fleeting feeling of relief, I guess. But he'd always return lol. He once admitted that he didn't like feeling out of control with his feelings, he preferred no attachments because that's the only way he'd have full control over his heart. It's almost like love embarrassed him if that makes sense. Like he felt it weakened him as a man or something like that. It's difficult to love someone like that. In contrary to their behaviour, they have a difficult time letting go. They're obsessive & stalkerish when they succumb to their emotions, even if it's for a brief moment.

Liliantalks:
did u even read my comment, did I specify that introverts are scared of rejection !! Like are u even okay ,, I think u guys misinterpreting my comment hv serious mental issue,, n that’s not my problem!!I don’t tolerate nonsense, thats me for you ,, there is nothing wrong with what I wrote. N yes he deserved to be insulted , just as u also , but u know what ? I will ignore you , cause if I insult you , u will hate urself and ur miserable existence.



And my dear I won’t even battle words with things like you about who’s introverts or not cause I know ur type and I may not want to pick up a fight with them but definitely they disgust me so much!!

I am an introvert and u can’t tell me shit cause I ain’t like u with ur bad character!! mingled with a lot of introverts in my school days . so trust me I know the disgusting ones just like urself.

You must even be scared of rejection , and hv serious inferiority complex while trying to decieve people around you !!

xrayj:
He should get lost
Did he insult u? He only quoted your wrong points!
U have been making snide remarks at that boy in all your comments & u talk about rudeness?
I think u are new here on this thread or this may be your alternate. The funny thing is u keep talking about rudeness & I am sorry to say u are the rude one here! What are u even saying?? U don't even sound like an introvert! I just checked your profile & I must say your signature statement is very rude! Very unusual of introverts! This is a sacred thread for many, if u post any misleading info here, everyone reserve the right to quote u & correct it immediately!
Let me correct some points you argued above;
Introverts don't want many friends because they love spending time alone, not because they fear rejection! The greatest treasure of all introverts is their personal time! No true introvert joke with this!
Introverts don't engage in meaningless conversations because they enjoy quietness, not because they are proud!

Some of you having self esteem issues should stop forcing yourself on this thread and causing problems here, this is one of the most peaceful thread on nairaland. I just can't imagine how someone will say his importance is based on likes he gets from Instagram or Facebook, so if there is no Instagram, u are of no value?? Someone said the other day his importance is based on a woman's acceptance?? Like wtf??
Many of u here aren't introverts, but people with personality disorder & self esteem upset like this one I am quoting now! Don't cause trouble here...

Liliantalks:
oh please it isnt!!! Just stop this nonsense!! U hv bad character, introverts ain’t rude like you and ur fellow !! Wtf, hv u even read the thread!! U most swing ur rotten personality and blend it with introvertion. Most introverts are nice people , and listen they may not hv much to contribute but they will definitely listen. Not call conversations pointless cause u feel u need solitude. People like you are the reason people see quite people and call them proud and rude when they ain’t !! Stop pushing this ur rubbish agenda. I am not rude n I listen to my friends when they cm around.

MysteryGirl:
First post on nairaland since I registered

I’m a bit jealous that some of you introverts are able to get into relationships .

I’m chronically introverted or you can just call me a recluse. Back where I grew up, my neighbors didn’t know I ever existed because they only saw my siblings and thought they were all my parents had lol. Got into the university and found it difficult going for classes or even leaving my room that one time I stayed indoors for 2 months straight and had my sister get me all I wanted. Years later, nothing has changed just that I have to be in school every day but after that I crawl back into my room.

Never been in a relationship because I’m not sure if I can cope in one and there’s nowhere a guy can find me to even ask me out . I’ve met a few though but I’m just not interested because I feel being in a relationship would be an invasion of my sweet quiet and private life.

Looking forward to making new friends here .

Karleb:

I feel your pain.

This is exactly what I hate about this thread.

They all come here to celebrate how awesome and great it is to be an introvert but deep down, that's all a facade.

Many here are married, have a good job but are still suffering from social anxiety. Many here have never made a single friend in their life, the friends they have made them.

...and y'all still think this is normal?

This thread should be focused on how to make people better. How to make people come out of their shell and face the harsh realities of life.

But what do we have?

I think the thread should be deleted. It has lost its purpose.

dammypat:
You nailed it sis,
Introvert-introvert or ambivalent relationship is the best,The said guy in my write up was an extrovert, my staying indoor was literally a big deal to him,he thought I was abnormal,it was hard for him to understand my kind of person,major reason we couldn’t stay long,he was my opposite.
I believe in introvert-introvert relationship,they’ll understand each other better,bring out the best in each and have a peaceful marriage

haymekus:
Hey guys

How do an introvert survive this nysc camp of a thing, cus I graduated last year and I’ll be joining the next batch. All through my university life, I stayed off camp and I lived alone, the thought of staying with so many people makes me feel terrified, like I can’t just survive there, I might just run home after few days, and I have been telling people around me that I’ll soon be leaving for camp, any alternative?

JentuPrinz:
I'm wit u bro,dahz d best time i luv pass wen i was in uni.Everywhr would be quiet

DivineGrace123:
Lol. I agree. When I read his post, I wanted to respond to it. But then, I just had to ignore. He made some valid points but passed his message in the wrong way using "inappropriate terms". When I got to where he said "they talk to me with so much respect, even those older than me that it baffles me. I still don't understand why"....I said in my mind..."Just by reading your post, I can understand why people talk to you with so much respect"...Lol.