Yes, you do. You deserve a happy, trusting marriage. We all do and shouldn't settle for less. Just play it cool.

Lol. This nuclearboy ehn. I hail back o, ilosiwaju. . .

YEH VAADA RAHA

La, la la la la la, la la la la la la la
La, la la la la, la la la la la
Tu tu hai vohi dil ne jisse apna kaha
Tu hai jahan main hoon vahan
Ab to yeh jeena tere bin hai saza

O mil jaaye is tarah, do lehre jis tarah
O mil jaaye is tarah, do lehre jis tarah
Phir ho na judaa, haan yeh vaada raha

Saw this movie again. Along with Ghazab and Amar, Akbar, Antony, my favourite Indian movie. A few thing need forgiving. Sunita not only changed her face, the surgical operation changed her height, shape and personality too. Oh. And her fashion sense. And Vikram manages to recover and leave the same hospital she's in, ostensibly in daily contact with nurses and doctors, without finding out his mother lied. Doctor Mehra is magnificent: another Kapoor, and one of the very best actors India has ever produced. That was when India knew what acting was, and their best was far better than that smirking Sharukh Khan. Vikram's mother doesn't quite seem the villain I remembered. Poor Sunita.

I'm not too sympathetic though. The first Sunita is stunningly beautiful, the second is married to one of the world's wealthiest men, so there's only so far I can take sympathy. The scene where Kusum is leaving Doctor Mehra had me in tears. And the lovers' re-union at the end. Corny, but so wonderful. Extremely melodious and poignant music. Every single song is so good. My favourite, and it's hard to pick, would have to be the one sung after Vikram's passed his exams and Sunita runs to tell him, and a mule-drawn cart deposits them in a meadow. Beautiful classic. Ageless.

How old are you, nine? The whole thing has been about you from start to finish. You might want to take some time to, um, I don't know, grow up?

I guess.

The woman in the cave is a figment of DiCaprio's imagination. He was perpertuating his desperate delusion to escape the awful reality of what happened to his family. He was talking to himself in the cave. The Doctor explained everything in the lighthouse, and you were showed the rest of what happened, what led to DiCaprio's madness. What's confusing about the movie? It's perfectly straightforward and isn't half as complicated as, say, Fight Club.

Wow. What were you before? Most of us were raised as something till we knew better. Catholic? Protestant? Pentecostal? What changed your mind and led you to where you are now? Sorry if I'm being intrusive.

That's very unusual. How come? Don't people give you grief about it, urging you to their church or temple, trying to save your soul?

Lol. There are people who haven't seen it. SPOILER ALERT.
Everything the doctor says is true. DiCaprio murdered his lunatic wife, who deserved to be murdered at least a dozen times more. He opts for a lobotomy rather than continue to be what he thinks he is, a monster. They'd warned him if he regresses again, it would mean the elaborate treatment had failed and they'd have no choice but to lobotomise him. He pretends he has regressed at the end, to end the nghtmare once and for all. You know he's pretending because when the other doctor calls him by his fake 'deluded' name as he's being led away to the lighthouse, DiCaprio doesn't respond. It's not his name. He did not regress. The treatment worked, but he doesn't want to live with himself.

Your post is sort of unclear. I don't recall The Usual Suspects too well. And lol, how can anyone 'know' the why of a movie character's motives?

You say we are bits of God that return to God after death, and that biological death is it. That's intriguing. Could you elaborate? I've no interest in an argument or anything like that. I'd just like to understand that view.

Saw your wife working her lips like a demented blowfish. Watching a Matt Damon movie. Will post a review later.

MyJoe:

^^^ You are essentially right about our inherent ability to tell good from bad. But it may not end there. Why, for instance, do "good" men turn bad during war, natural disasters and similar upheavals?  Why, indeed, is there so much evil perpetrated by humans in spite of their inherently good nature? At the most basic level of looking at it, I think it's selfishness. It appears the ME factor alone is spectacularly successful in subverting the inherent good in us.

So right. Do we have inherent good though? Knowing right from wrong isn't the same as choosing right over wrong. Look at all we do to protect ourselves from each other. Take away all police and all armies, leave people to themselves, and you'll see just how 'inherently good' we are.

Lol. Well. Seth something is gay. I think it's Green.

ifele:

Christianity is the hypocritical poo that comes out of the butt of the Pope in Rome.

Not quite.

You'll have to take that up with the Jews, alaper. No one here wrote Deuteronomy, or anything in the bible for that matter. Between scuttling to the US for money and weapons and harrassing Palestinians, I'm sure they'll make the time for questions on what their ancestors wrote.

She's not only gay, she was in a gay relationship for a decade and a half, and no one had any idea. She's remarkable. Quite a lot of them are gay, but won't come out. Jolie admits she's AC-DC, as did Anna Paquin of True Blood, who's now engaged to her Vampire Bill co-star. I think Queen Latifah's gay, and the press is looking at Elijah Wood suspiciously.

Kilo ga n be? Hope you've sent out your play script. I don't know much about it as it's not my field, but aren't there competitions for writers and stuff to get you started? I admire someone who can sit down and write stuff as long as a play or one of those gigantic novels like The Stand by Stephen King. How do they do it? If you enjoy writing plays you should take it seriously.