₦airaland Forum

OtuologyProf:
If you like ooooh have plenty of cash, if like go broke, know all the sex styles in the world, be caring, arrogant, brutal, humble, accommodating, educated, alpha male or simp.
Your woman will experience this picture with some other person, with the right opportunity, and price.

No kill yourself
Humans are insatiable
Women are not aliens
Women are also Humans

you referring to the females in your lineage and siblings?il stay away from the likes,how to tell your childhood was screwed up without saying it.

Persephone1:
"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

Cc Nlfpmod 😡🤬

have you finished defining what you want for yourself? you totally forgotten that bad eggs litters all over communities in the world,in my opinion you preferr a man who would slave for you ? yet you don't want to slave for him? how just is that? would you call yourself a lioness or s queen?do you know what female lions do for their king?most of you women dont want to accept that men are automated and genetically wired to be dominant ,why wont people just let life be life?men are the positive part of this energy field,dont forget that in a rush,we may be robotic as the creator made us to be but we deserve to be understood too,when you are created to be something its unfair to try to be something else,i have seen women in trouble and all they say often is i wish i have a man or a son,you wont understand that part,my sisters husband would hurt her certain times,this time he did something terrible,when he came to my house he wanted to force her to leave with him and was struggling with her,i heard them then went upstairs, with a single stare from me i could feel chill going down his spine,i told him to leave since she said she wasn't ready to go with him,he stood up without a word and left.why do you think he left? he left because a real man never underestimate another man and he knew i got my defences up,this isone mans language to another man, my intention wasn't to fight him but to let him know he was disrespecting me by what he was doing and he got the message, since then he has been carefull towards my sis. sometimes a dominant force needs to fend off another that's just the way its , therefore you can't just rule out men for being who they are,men are not women and we are trying hard to understand women,there is a man for every woman except if that woman decided to build walls around herself which has blinded her from seeing the man made for her, maybe we shouldn't write what we think our stories should be in life,may life just want us to live so it can make our stories,no one should try to change anyone, sooner or later,you come to realise in this life " its each beauty to her own beast". that kind of man you are looking for isnt on earth, something's are called wifely duties or chores,if you think wifely chores and dutiy is suffering then marriage isnt for you.

Defloral:
nope. Not at all, since I'm not scouting a real boyfriend. Just a fake boyfriend for few hours

okay goodluck with your scout,by the way i left you a message on the other post , feel free to ignore it.

Defloral:
I need a matured man from age 35 and above to act as my boyfriend for an occasion. Strictly Yoruba pls. Dm if interested. Thanks

you are not scared to scout for a boyfriend on nairaland?

this Nigeria issues,why can't we just buy refinery abroad? fairly use refinery in the us goes for about 3billion dollars or so, lots of refinery went bankrupt due to the advent of electric cars in America, building new refinery would cost close to 12 billion dollars in today Nigerian economy, buying refinery abroad could see us buying fuel at a lower price,im no economist but i know it would would be way more cheap than the price we are buying now.we already have oil tankers so bringing in fuel from abroad wont be an issue,this can even create japa opportunity for some Nigerians who want to work at the refinery plants abroad.advantage of this is we can save enough money to build our own refinery then sell that back, Nigerian refined oil (pms) could be sold to American's when they need it but at their pump price,it would even make sales more profitable and easy,i am aware of the taxation policies, these would be same with American owned companies,as long as ww dont violate their environmental policies, i heard they now use coal, because its environment friendly, Nigeria can resume mining coal in Enugu and kogi then transport the coal to the refinery using returning empty oil vessels to cut down cost.

weather is currently 23c in jos at night it could go down 18c

if marriage isn't an achievement why are the married assigned a tittle such as mr and mrs after the event?if marriage isn't an achievement, nothing else is. low IQ people should stay away,the woman is right.

prostitution is prostitution,yes people trying to investigate their loved ones should hire professionals to do so,its the professionals job to reveal any secrets, anyone found on any hookup app is a culprit,be it Facebook, twitter, Instagram etc. their intension maybe different but "as you make your bed naso you go lay ontop am". if women do not give men the chance,men wont have any women to sleep with, anything which happens would be deemed as a criminal act, therefore women are the ones luring men into sex for their personal gains,when sex happens its often because the woman agrees to it.men are only victims of their own body and women are simply manipulators,its easy for one woman to bed a thousand men in a day than a man bedding 20 girls in a day,out of those 1000 men 800 men would shower the woman with gifts and money,out of the 20 women a man sleeps with he is the one paying them off,you get the logic? men are victims and women know this to their advantage.its the bitter truth.

thats why highly intelligent people only do it for procreation sake or remain celibate, Nikola Tesla for example.too much sex or porn causes dopamine to damage brain function by affecting their mood and decision making.

the reason could be due to the ape aggressive behaviour genetics they received from their ancestors ,makes them attracted to rascals.

this thing has been in jos since 2018,we recharge light using digits wirelessly from inside the house,you can also check your remaining credit on the device,it also uses battery,but you must mount a main meter on your pole.

they should try working out together,if they can,some time fitness routines does magic.

most of them are happily married sports women and have children,this is just a body shaming trend op mind yourself. yes i can if its a woman and not a trans.

Elliotwaveforec:
Just the way Tyson Fury tired out Wilder.

exactly

not everything up there is true,quick cum in some males could be associated to excessive masturbating using their hands,but its not an indicator,also some guys just like missionary style,some men also don't do pre-intimacy dey just want to nack if you want to touch yourself you can do so while dey knack you, intellectual compatibility differes when it comes to pillow talks therefore a guy not always talking in bed or during sex isnt a sign that he is a virgin, bleeding during or after sex also isnt an indicator sorry.but i have a tip for you,there is something about peoples skin,there is a 70% chance that a man or a woman with a dull skin are still virgins,the skin begins to glow after they loose their virginity, well some people who have never had sex but only masturbate would consider themselves virgins, those people skin may glow but they have never had sex with a real person.also when the guy doesn't have an erection when you cuddle,or when you sit on his tighs,it could be an indicator, lastly when he doesn't respond well to unexpected tickles,yes you heard that right, tickles around the rib area,that also might be an indicator.i hope this might help you,dont go about tickling peoples sons.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, my male cousin who recently left Nigeria for the UK and then to Canada is always taking pictures of himself around white people and tags himself as a “public figure” on instagram…

Why is he doing this?[/color]

to show people he is doing well,to earn respect etc,mama gee hope you are not racist? does this make you think its an inferior thing to do? is he disgracing you?

he has gained more tonned muscle and weight,it would have been unwise for him to exhaust himself by throwing punches which wont count,he needed his opponent to get fatigued then he took advantage,figters fatigue usually kicks in from the 5th round up,at this round if a boxer punches himself out in the last 4 rounds he is just a standing dead meat in the ring when it comes to heavy weight boxing.

Rokiat:
Had group sex with three guys? Damnnnnnnnnn!

Some women are really usuless in this world. Smh. To each their own I suppose.

interesting op are you trying to console yourself? i also learned that smaller breast's often starve their babies, because they easily run out of milk, therefore baby formula comes to their aid. lol just messing with you,im not a fan of big boobs or small boobs,i like them moderate.

those girls who often masturbate using their hands and fingers cum faster take note, i didn't say d!ldo or v!berators.

BiafraAburi:
Nigeria and sanction in the same sentence? A cesspit that it's people are in severe hunger crises is sanctioning a more richer country? Wait until Niger republic award the contract of building their dam across their river that supplies water to River niger, and let's see who go beg.

they cant stop the river from flowing as it would flood also dams need momentum to spin turbines ,they may have considered this before now but have statistics which shows they won't be able to generate enough power for the whole nation without a stretch into Nigeria, which makes it a futile attempt in the end,the best option was to depend on Nigeria,also creating hydro electric dams are extremely costly also,the British hold claims to the exploration of the river niger, Nigeria is a British colony save guarding their legacy in africa,i feel bad for niger but there is nothing they can literally do right now, going Spartan isn't always the best decision sometimes, especially with people who outnumber you.

Kobicove:
Na person wey don chop belleful dey pay fro cryogenic services to freeze eggs

that's why I said if they can afford to do it.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Mad scientist.

thats my name you twa.t!

Zxcvbnmghtr:
I still wonder why it's so easy to control men with what is between our legs. Lol.....men are very weak and not really intelligent beings all they have is nothing but ego. Very, very, very easy to manipulate.

this is why you women would continue to suffer under the wrath of men in this world, spitting sh!t any how, tomorrow you would be out in the streets with your bloody pucy wailing for free pads and tampons from the same men you are cursing now,just so you know tampons and pads would never replace condoms.with ya mouth like eroded stockfish.

well i learned women can freeze their eggs and later have children in the future just as naomi Campbell did,my advice is for them to freeze their eggs ,if they can afford to,about children looking after their old parents you are right, sometimes i wonder what would have been the fate of my dad if he had no child,i think he feels blessed for having us,he has been unable to walk for two years now but we have been supportive, despite spending millions in surgery and physiotherapy he has not start walking yet but no giving up,this thing opened my eyes to the importance of having money and having children,only your children and grandchildren can take care of you,when you grow old in Nigeria.

Maynman:
How were they destroyed? By who?

Unlike the subsequent fate of Atlantis, which was submerged by great tidal waves, the continent of Lemuria perished by volcanic action. It was raked by the burning ashes and the red-hot dust from numberless volcanoes. Earthquakes and volcanic eruptions, it is true, heralded each of the great catastrophes which overtook Atlantis, but when the land had been shaken and rent, the sea rushed in and completed the work, and most of the inhabitants perished by drowning. The Lemurians, on the other hand, met their doom chiefly by fire or suffocation. Another marked contrast between the fate of Lemuria and Atlantis was that while four great catastrophes completed the destruction of the latter, the former was slowly eaten away by internal fires, for, from the time when the disintegrating process began towards the end of the first map period, there was no cessation from the fiery activity, and whether in one part of the continent or another, the volcanic action was incessant, while the invariable sequence was the subsidence and total disappearance of the land, just as in the case of Krakatoa in 1883.