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amanze54:
Happy sunday. Any mature Igbo sister here? I am in my late thirty n would love to meet an Igbo sister who is mature and homely and who like 2 settle down next year. I stay in Lagos. U can send me a mail @ amanze54@gmail.com
Nice day to all.

Hmmm....ur welcome bro. I hope u find wat ur looking for here. Over to you ladies!

udysweet:
@Magneto,chai Abasi mmi mbok,u dnt evn knw if I've eaten dat fud in years,u dey hypE me,lol! @neoapocalypse,wetin u dey roger,gerarahia mehn,lol!
Happy sunday to everyone,God bless us all.
Am out!

Daa udy udy, fogerabout mbok...I trust my ayin eka anytime anyday! una no dey fall hand at all...lol. Just blow d apocalypse comot for him name wit ur resplendent culinary alacrity and panache, mokop?

gratefulme40:
Nna mehn.....ochi atogbuom. Icheterem nno asusu umu boys wasup n'asu n'aba. Kai.....i miss Aba with their unique way of speaking Ibo.

How are you?

Lol, ezigbo nwa di sharp! Asampete pino pino nwa...isi gi no dia! Okwa k'anyi si asu ya na york wit umu guys o. Imana ndi aba si na nwata kwuo aka ya well, o soro men kuo abu...lol.

Adim ok nne, kee maka ndi be gi?

neoapocalypse:
I sure say you like comic wen you dey young ( Marvel comics most likely ) as this your moniker reminds me of my favorite villain. We are cool my bro , work is usually tedious for me this period of the year so I haven't been so regular.

Udysweet I sight you o , I for like come chop that your famous Afang soup on Christmas day.

Good day to all guys and ladies in the room

Yippee! we have just 2 weeks to Christmas and 3 weeks to New year. For those travelling please be security conscious and do not travel at night , if you're not comfortable about the passengers in a bus its better to go with your gut feeling. Do not accept free rides from unknown people , always let people know where you are at all times ( those you have left and those you're going to see ). If you're not travelling , parties and get together are okay from family members , workers , colleagues , friends and acquaintances but always be on the look out for trouble , better not to keep late nights and limit your partying to "good" hours. The rate of crime has increased and security has never been more weak in the country. My people please keep safe , let us all meet in 2016.

Bros ur head dey there...na my all time favorite super hero be dat o (villian or not). Take am small small for d work sha, and find time to do some fun stuff in between. Udysweet sabi tidy beta 'ekpang nkukwo' too, no be only afang soup....just so u know

udysweet:
Magneto(my semi ayin eka,lol)

Udysweet bae, I hail u plenty! How u dey flex d xmas nah...hope d harmattan dust is not dealing wit u as e dey do me. Merry xmas to u dear!!

nouvelle:
Hiya Halexito. Good evening to you. The write up you pasted earlier is really good. I am not where the lady is but I have saved it just in case I ever get to that point so I can read it and remember the reasons I fell in love. Thank you

And as always, special greetings to udysweet, gratefulme40, magneto, siamia and everyone else. Vivaciousvivi I am sending hugs your way.

Merry Christmas.

Always a pleasure to hear from u dear...tanx for d mention and merry xmas to u too!

milychocs:
@henryhemon, @magneto
....hola2frank@yahoo.com....I hope they wont ban me for posting my alternate email address here...I cannot receive, or send pms...faulty email
I chose to do it on this place so as not to go against any rules on that 30 and plus thread.....

I contacted the thread owner to add me on the whatsapp page though
Cheers

Done

milychocs:
Hello everyone...hope you are all fine/well

thanks for having me
@siamia, yeah...you are right..milychocs is chocomilo ....I could kill, for those, then..was my nickname too, smh.

@magneto, thank you for the mention..hope your day is going good

Hmmm chocomilo...I love those too! Hope ur good dear.

gratefulme40:
Nnaa..... ina anwa mana igbo gi adiro nma like that. I ga akwu ego ole ka mu kuziere gi?

Hehehe, biko kuziekwara mu o....anam agbali mana olu'm esiro ike

Tanx for d mention

zubinike:
nwanne @magneto, hustle strong bro. he ga gba December na Lagos? how was your day

Zubi nwoke oma...I di ok! Nna owukwa na 042 ka'm pasa o, wit ndi alobam

Kee way gi nah? O n'agakwa ofuma na eko?

COMPLIMENTS OF THE SEASON my lovely people!!! Sorry for the break in transmission ooo ....I've missed dis place like crazy, feels so good to be back from d land of no internet service. Wow, so many posts to read....so many new peeps to meet! Lemme just start by wishing everyone a wonderful and exciting xmas celebration!! Joy to the world y'all!

Shout out to all my ppl dat make dis thread a pleasure to come back to everytime... Siamia, toks2008, udysweet, missbronze, ddshow, nouvelle, halexito, gratefulme40, torqque7, melsan, blessedbeads, myminder, sparkle003, fourfunmi, klassic, bisjosh, sonofananimal, bluepearls, milychocs, zubinike, venusbetty, neoapocalypse, vivaciousvivi, u guys are the best!!

Abeg no vex if I no remember ur name to mention, my brain don full ryt now but I'll sure remember to hail u ltr ...oya let me go back and read comments.

Bisjosh:
Lol

How's your Christmas gonna be like?

Exciting I hope. I'm only free from work on the public holidays, but I intend to make d most of it.

How about u, wat are ur plans?

Bisjosh:
Yes I am and u?

Been busy jare

I can relate my dear...I can't recall d last time I've been so busy as I've been the past two weeks. Gosh! So many dying minute loose ends to tie...no be small tin o

tollyB:
Happy new month to Every one... wish you all the best of the month... may you achieve all your heart desires before the year ends.. cc: udysweet

Amen! Same to u too my dear...remain blessed!

Bisjosh:
Happy new month to beautiful and handsome peeps

Wish u d same sweerie ...howfa na, been a while I've seen u here, hope ur good?

MYMINDER:
Which one is tougher to deal with: Remaining a spinster or bachelor for life OR getting married without experiencing the joy of parenthood I. E. The couple cannot have children.

The one assumption here is that you already know you cannot have children if you do get married.

Will you prefer not to be married if you cannot have children in the marriage or you will still rather be married even if you cannot be a biological parent?

Where do you stand in this tough dilemma?

Marriage is supposed to serve two purposes: unification and procreation. Since the former is still satisfied, I will go with marriage.

Thoughts?

I'll go with marriage too. No amount of girlfriends and concubines can successfully substitute the role of a godly wife in a man's life.
To me marriage is much more than a union...its a covenant! A sacred bonding of two kindred souls, forged in the eternal flames of genuine love, and consecrated before the altar of the one true God. What an awesome, epoch making, lifetime experience! Can't wait to begin dat journey soon...

Happy December my pipul! Hustle wan wounjure una guy for here o...u knw say na 'season' we dey so

@halexito, lovely post bro...dats one clever system analyst! How u been?

@zubinike nwanne, glad to see u back bro! I follow miss u o...kee nke mee last?

@siamia, ur still da best dearie... I wish u a very special december to remember!

@everyone else...udysweet, missbronze, ddshow, toks2008, melsan, nouvelle, klassic, bluepearls, myminder, milychocs, sisisioge, vivaciousvivi, abeg no vex if I no remember ur moniker... May God bless u all and enlarge ur coasts dis season!! Have a wonderful, blissful, colourful, and prosperous new month, IJN!!

milychocs:
Good morning Let me fix my NL mail and join the whatsapp group Cheers

Ok, great.

milychocs:
Thank you for the welcome @ magneto.
I cannot receive PMs (my address and password don't match)...I also can't send. However I have an active email address, if it is not against the rules I will give it to you?


Cheers

Hmmm don't really know if its against d rules o, but here's wat u can do...drop ur email on any random thread and mention me in the post. I'll confirm receipt (mentioning u too) and then u can delete the post. QED

milychocs:
Hello all
I have been reading the posts here from day 1. Nice, entertaining and relevant, this place.
I would have commented earlier but for the fact that Siamia stopped posting, among a few other things
But magneto, MYMINDER brought me out with their posts....which I love

Then to add icing on my cake Siamia returns, and sisisioge delighted me with her entrance

So I am here....I am in my thirties, female, and Igbo..I am a Christian, but I am also not conceited enough to believe salvation is for Christians alone...so I guess I am okay with free thinking, I do not mind humanists, free thinkers and agnostics but not so with atheists...cos I have to believe in a Higher Power, true. I live in Enugu, and realise I have not visited many cities around. I want to travel round...I would love to know the date for the Lagos party @ Siamia...I am interested in being friends with anyone here that I connect with (I am on a new life chart and want to try new things)..I would especially love to visit Calabar, so anyone living there? I would come, sort myself out as per accommodation etc but hang out with you, and hope to make a friend, or more (this is all platonic, no sinister motive lurking anywhere).

With regards to pictures/profile...I am on here anonymously, I honestly cannot upload my picture here...and I have nothing to hide. I would be mortified if someone I know recognised me here. I like NL because of the anonymity it provides...this does not mean I am fraudulent or fake....but I will attend a meetup/party, etc. Thankfully that avenue is now available. @Siamia, I am willing to call you? So you can interview me and see if you can have me in your group?

Lastly, my biggest peeve here is when people encourage people who are not qualified to post on here ( under-30 and esp the belligerent ones)...by continuing to respond to their posts...it is somewhat disrespectful esp to Siamia, considering that she initially opened the thread for the 40 and above but had to reconsider to include people younger. Honestly, enabling them when they post is not so good.

I apologise if my first post antagonises anyone, it is not meant to. And furthermore, I was here at the beginning. So I belong, right? . But seriously, I come with openness, no disrespect at all

A happy day, and week ahead to everyone

Ur welcome to d family dear and tanx for coming out of d shadows. Check ur pm

Melsan:
Happy sunday everyone

Happy sunday dear

siamia:
Am having featherweight pancakes topped with maple syrup. One of my weekend delights! Yummy!

Chai, some ppl too like beta tin o...lol . Happy sunday dear and tanx agn for starting dis thread, u have blessed so many lives with good and healthy friendships. Kudos to u!

Good morning my wonderful ppl, I dey greet all of una special...wishing everyone a prosperous and fulfilling day!

@siamia, gud to see u back

Just for laughs!! I found dis hilarious post on one thread like dat...

In the morning,I went downstairs for breakfast hoping my husband would be pleasant and say, 'Happy Birthday darling,' and possibly have a small present for me.As it turned out, he barely said good morning, let alone 'Happy Birthday'. I thought....well, that's marriage for you, but the kids.... they will remember. My kids came bouncing down stairs to breakfast and didn't say a word. So when I left for the office I felt pretty low and somewhat dejected.As I walked into my office, my handsome boss Rick said, 'Goodmorning, lady, and by the way Happy Birthday!' It felt a little better that at least someone had remembered.I worked until one o'clock, when Rick knocked on my door and said,'It's such a beautiful day outside, and it is your birthday, what do you say we go out to lunch, just you and me.' I said, 'Thanks, Rick, that's the greatest thing I've heard all day. Let's go!'We went to lunch. But we didn't go where we normally would go. He chose instead a quiet bistro with a private table. We had two martinis each and I enjoyed the meal tremendously.On the way back to the office, Rick said, 'It's such a beautiful day...we don't need to go straight back to the office, do we?' I responded, 'I guess not. What do you have in mind?' He said, 'Let's drop by my place, it's just around the corner.'After arriving at his house, Rick turned to me and said, 'If you don't mind, I'm going to step into the bedroom for just a moment.I'll be right back.' 'Ok.' I nervously replied.He went into the bedroom and, after a couple of minutes, he came out carrying a huge birthday cake, followed by my husband , my kids, and dozens of my friends and co-workers, all singing 'Happy Birthday.'And I just sat there....on the couch....stark Unclad. So that's why I'm divorced!

Have a peaceful nite rest y'all!

MYMINDER:
People perceive what they want to perceive. That's why people react differently to the same stimuli.

I neither seek acceptance nor rejection from males or females on this thread. I say what I believe needs to be said; how people decide to react or perceive my content is 100% outside of my control and I will not lose sleep over it.

I have no agenda whatsoever: udysweet said I am here to make trouble (wrong) or you that is now linking this to showing off. People will always think what they want to think; I am not going to dwell on it. Live and let live.

I have spoken MY MIND as always

Best wishes

Bro the above bolded is not entirely correct. Of cos u can control how u want to be perceived; its not by WHAT ur saying but HOW ur saying it. Using expressions like "low hanging fruit" and "barren expeditions" may be realistic reasoning, but the choice of words is poor. Emotions cannot be ruled out from these kind of interactions, u know. U can't be all efficient and logical about hookups and dating. Ur just gonna rub some ppl off d wrong way and u don't want dat bro, trust me. Ur suggestion is not bad at all, but u could've presented it in a more "acceptable" way...hope u get my drift.

Btw, why don't u put up d link to ur thread so some of us can't comment there as well. One luv bro.

matrix199:
Don't u think ur moniker is working against u?

Little Ba'wow had to grow to "Ba'wow" before Ciara cld say yes to him. Our Nigerian ladies are quite sensitive to some details.

I remember how a date of mine told me point blank I didn't polish my shoe. In my mind I was like, "wah has mah shoe gat to do wit me loving u?. But I figured she fit think say as I no make my shoe shine, I fit no make her shine if she becom ma chiquita.

So, ur moniker fit make some ladies think say if dem follow u go special occasion, other men go dey order for beer, u go dey order for "BoBo fruit juice"

I hope u got my point shey?

Lmao! Dis cracked me up real good...all dis monica palava sef, chai

fourfunmi:
@magneto , it means the boy is now a man! Infact, a wise man; a wise man who is aware that such superficial things are irrelevant to life's pursuit of happiness! I'm happy for you.

Tanx

Dis is incredible!!! Our scientists are becoming very scary these days o...

O my God! Dis is so sad...RIP to the dead

fourfunmi:
@magneto...your write up is lovely. I did a little soul searching too fter reading it. God bless you for the lovely piece. Truly, we attract who we are and are also responsible for that. We should try to imbibe those virtues and characteristics we look out for in ourselves so we can attract same.

Exactly my sister, these days I find myself swerving around some "green lights" I would have ordinarily pounced on b4. At moments like dat it almost feels like an out-of-body experience where I'm watching my reactions in 3D and wondering who da hell dis new guy is!? Lol...its a sweet, liberating feeling tho. Dis stuff works I tell ya.

Melsan:
@magneto,mek you take am easy with this your epistle oooo,nor be everybody sabi comprehension

Lol, abi ooo...issorite, but I'm sure u got d gist sha

udysweet:
Oh nice. So u be my ayin eka small,lol! Mak u go try learn am small,cos I knw dos efik mums dnt hide dem language o,dem de speak am well. Song idem o ufan

Songidem ooo, lol...u bring back some good ole calabar memories