MathsChic: Thanks for your advice. You summed it up pretty well. The competition is INTENSE! Intense is probably an understatement. It's under such atmosphere that you need to watch your back incessantly it starts to bother on paranoia, lol. Thanks though. I'll try not to be discouraged and press on.
Babes the above comment is troubling. U have to seriously start considering a different path asap. Think of something ur passionate abt and can enjoy doing even for free...then privately train urself to be good at it, and when the time's right get da hell outta there and free ur destiny! Pls don't let the oyibo system turn u into an efficient, emotionless, humanoid. Who knows, sometimes God puts us in these boiling pot situations in order to force us out and into our destined paths. Remain strong and true to yourself ok, and don't bother too much abt dem haters... Management obviously don't!
Just want to say "thank you" for all the love, solidarity, fun times, and stimulating conversations we've shared as a family. I cherish every single moment of it, and I pray that the good Lord see us all safely into the new year IJN, amen!
@emzila, welcome to d fam
@siamia, God bless u too dear
@missbronze, wish u same honey...u knw ur d best!
@ilaje44, may ur days be longa dan east-west rd! The gods are wise!
@udysweet, special merry xmas to u my dear...oya take 30mins e-hug! Close ur eyes and begin to count...
@ucnwafor, eh alobam kee ife n'eme na osha? I sim tuo down?
@halexito, I'm luving ur posts bro, keep em coming
MathsChic: Thanks oh! I agree sha. Being wise and smart is better. I try to be wise.
Yes oh, my dear... Its wisdom dat helps u maintain ur cool wen u've not yet achieved ur goals, but know fully well dat u still can. Its dat quiet voice within u dat reminds u of how far u have come regardless; and reassures u of ur innate capabilities and potential for greatness. Its d wisdom dat makes u recognize and take advantage of opportunities dat come ur way as much as u can. Its wisdom dat keeps u humble and always ready to learn from evry single person u come across in ur life journey.
@nipple, @sonofananimal, @xerum, @myminder. Tanx for ur contributions guys... I think I agree with y'all on compatibility, but I have a follow up question...
Would u marry someone who ur compatible with even if u don't love that person at all?? Eg: an arranged marriage situation.
Now I'd like u guys to really consider carefully b4 answering. I know its easy to say "yes of course" cos it sounds like d sensible tin to do in dat situation, but remember dat feelings and emotions play a powerful role in our lives.
udysweet: Hahahaha! Chai,NL o,making me happy since july 2013! @missbronze bia dis my nwannem nwanyi,pls be sure to be present to offer toast on our wedding day o,when magneto finally magnets udysweet(abi no b u matchmake us ni,lol) @ilaje44,u and magneto don join dis "lips" issue ni. I tot d mata had died dwn o,was a hot topic for a while b4 u guys joined,now una do re awaken am,lol! Mak I go remove dat dp mbok,lol(by d way I filteredt it o) @ilaje44,pls sir are u into music?I see a lot of music videos links,u seem to hav a sizeable collections churning out wats best for each scenario. Abg find one to describe my mood now mbok. Apologies also,I hv noticed d "ilaje" in ur name,so now I knw d lang u and @fourfunmi converse in. But I think "ilaje" is found in almost all d riverine areas in naija abi? I might be wrong o. @halexito,loverboy extraordinaire,lol! Nice write up dear. @bisjosh,am fine dear. How did your day go? @all(honestly d list is growing I can't keep up wit names,make I no offend dos I fit forget to list,lol. But trust me I'll edit my list again)hope our day went well? And harmattan nko? Not much lik dat in lag but enof to mak me go abt wit hanky and tissue cos of dust and sneezing,lol! @myminder,I called u out?lol! U dnt let go tins,do u? Have a great nite. One last one,magneto. So na only okpa u wan use mesmerize me? Oda o,kontinu,lol
My dearest udy omalicha yoriyori asampete nwa! Okpa is only the appetizer ni o...d main course and dessert is beta kept a secret for now; just be rest assured dat ur belle shall be full to d maximum and extra! ...by d time u go back to eko, walahi missbronze will not recognize u again
Ilaje44: Udysweet, abegi, ma binu. Mi o mo wipe lips woyen ti da gobe sile tele tele ri. My mouth no go put me for gbege sha, him dey too like to talk wetin my eyes dem see.
Ilajes are indeed found wherever this water, but we are mostly at home in Ondo state. You will find us in Gabun, Cameroon, Akwa Ibom, Cross River, Rivers, Delta, Ogun, Lagos, Benin republic...
Magneto, Okpa nikan ko ni wa fi fe Udy o. Gbo nkan ti Oritsefemi so nibi:
My people, my people...I dey greet all of una special o! Shout out to the newbies in da house, xerum, nipple, talk2docee...y'all are warmly welcome.
I've been pondering on a particular matter for some time now, and I'd luv to get ur opinions on it... Between these two qualities "COMPATIBILITY" and "ADAPPTABILITY", which would u say is a more important quality in a potential mate and why??
May God give the families of these departed ones the grace and strength to bear this unspeakable loss. Unfortunately, in the world we live in, bad things happen. The unexpected, the unplanned and the unforeseen sometimes happen. I pray that as we mark christmas, let's realise that life is a precious gift. Make ur life have meaning. Live right, live well. As u go out this week, make urself a blessing to someone who cannot repay u. Be nice to someone. Say a kind word to someone. Show forgiveness to someone who hurt u, even when they do not return to say thank u, keep bein good, bcs that's who u are. Its not how many years u spend on earth; its how u live it...its all about putting value to the days that God has given u. So that, when ur own time comes, ur life will be celebrated, and not regretted. We the people of 30plus and single, stand with these families in their moment of grief. May God console you all. May God see you through this trying times. He may not answer all ur questions, but He will surely stand with you. It is well.
halexito: Bademosi Aanu Omotayo DO YOU KNOW THIS ABOUT DATING It's NOT about being engaged, married, or in any relationship. It's about being secured, happy, safe, relieved, and feeling good....It's about having a peaceful state of mind. It's about sleeping at night without the fear of losing what you've got. It's about being yourself and not someone else. It's about feeling loved, happy, respected, understood and appreciated. It's all about the right person and the right time. • Sleeping alone is better than sharing your BED with someone who shares a BED with someone else when you're not around...! • Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss, meet or have sex with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so your partner wont see them, you are already there. • 1. If a man is crazy about you, pray he doesn't get well, if he is getting well, know that another woman is giving him some tablets. •First love may not die, but true love can bury it. •If you still believe "LOVE IS BLIND" then i know for sure MARRIAGE WILL OPEN IT FOR YOU. •A woman's beautiful face attracts a flirt; A woman's beautiful heart attracts a lover; A woman's beautiful character attracts a man. •Don't fall in love because you are lonely, fall in love because you are ready. •A blessed garri is better than a cursed fried rice. A Godly Poor Man is far better than an Angry Rich Man in marriage. •I will rather have you stay in your father's house that you are sure of, than pack into a man's house you are not sure of. •Most men base their capacity of manhood and their abilities to fertilize ovaries and produce children. Any man can impregnates a woman. The real deal is HOW MANY MEN CAN BE THE FATHER TO THEIR CHILDREN, not promoters of ABORTION? •HOLY Wives don't just speak in tongues, they MANAGE their homes, make SUPER meals, raise GODLY kids, and bring out the KING in their man. •When you tend to your garden diligently you will be the one to reap the fruit of the vine thereof.... • You can say "sorry" a million times, say "I love you" as much as you want, say whatever you want, But if you're not going to prove that the things you say are true, then don't say anything at all. Because if you can't show it, your words don’t mean a thing. Don't lie in order to satisfy somebody for a moment, because the pain that you cause them in the future can last them for a lifetime. - Fb.
Halexito my man!! U have done it again....beautiful post bro! I love the above bolded best. How ur endz man?
Ilaje44: Udy, o se jare! Magneto, if you sweet like agbalumo, I am afraid you're in danger. These lips I am seeing are made to eat the sweetest agbalumo on earth. If I were you, I would start saving for the dowry already!
Here are some songz you can play for herwhile treating her to the delicious Okpa in Enugu:
udysweet: Chai dis magneto,ur own sef wan pass bronzy own o,loool! @bisjosh,been a while,glad to see u here. @ilaje44,ekabo sir,glad to hav u here and to also see that uav settled in fully. Choix007,harmatan not dat bad in lag as is every were else,but d thin is still hooking us sha,lol! Aaawww,dnt mind @missbronze dat ddnt matchmake u,dis match maker come and finish ya work,mbok,lol! @fourfunmi,dis una language ,me no undertsnad o,is it ijebu language? Halexito d poet,d loverboy,d diehard romantic,lol! How u today dear? @DDshow,love nwantintin,@fourfunmi must be blushing to high heavens,pls let d wedding bells ring fast jo*winks* Oga patapata,oga to sure ju,awon olori oko general one of gbo gbo every,hahaha. Make una guess who I wan hail so? Who else if not @Toks2008,hahah(he go kill me) How are u sir,hope ur gud. @tollyB tnx dear for d mentions @alabakunlekam,welcome. @vivaciousvivi,how re u sis?hop ur doin fine now?*hugs* @klassik,na once a green moon u dey show now abi?abg come post jo,lol Aight guys,enjoy d rest of ur weekend,hugs
Hehehe udypeperempe, how I go do na? U knw say na soso totori ur mata jus dey totori me so... . Do come abeg, I go keep one warehouse of okpa for u only.
@mathschic, being smart is good but being wise is better. A smart and wise person will achieve far more than a regular wise person. There is still plenty hope for u....I see u going places and achieving great things!
Abeg o,i am as lowly as you can ever imagine infact very vulnurable..but ladies usually think guys are strong headed..infact most bachelors of 35 and above as as vulnurable as you can imagine..infact i will be priviledged to have someone like you.
Tell her my brother, na true talk be dat! Gratefulme40...sebi u have hear??
halexito: It feels so bad when a year is coming to any end when you have not accomplished a quarter of your plans. You can feel a void in your heart. You can feel like you have no meaning to this world. You can even think that maybe you were cursed to live such a life of failed dreams and goals. But my friend, today I am here to tell you that you aren't a lone going through such a situation. Many people out there are undergoing the same and they feel bad about it but they are still holding on and they have hope for the best. Meaning, you too don't lose hope and don't give up on your life and dreams. Just be encouraged. If you still have a gift of life just be with hope that some day all your plans and dreams will come true. Also keep praying to God and trust Him to change your situation anytime. You were not cursed and you were not meant to live such a miserable life. You were meant to be happy and to enjoy life like other people. Your day will come soon. It might not be today, tomorrow, next week, this month or next month, but it will come. ~ Dr. Gero Albs
udysweet: Don't u jus love her,loool! Bronzy! OAP of life,the ultimate matchmaker,match made in heaven be dis o,lol! Where is dis radion station located? I tink I know Before I proceed,@nouvelle,howdy ma'am? Hope ur gud? @magneto dem say ur magnetic force is pulling me to u all d way in enugu,dat one I go chop okpa till I pass out,looool! Anyways,anytin can hapn. I do hope our day went well?
Yes o our day went well my dear, oya do come the enugu already na...can't wait to sample ur delicious edikang ikong! I assure u d boy is sweeter dan agbalumo, walahi I go dance beta etighi just for u
missbronze: Eya. Sorry and take heart. Just be strong.
Today makes it the third month I lost my kid sister. My best friend, my love. She brought so much joy, laughter, happness among us. She died in my arms on the 17th Oct. My mum was sharttered, for the first time, I saw my dad shed tears.
What breaks my heart most, was that she promised me she won't die when on her sick bed, she promised she will fight the stupid two weeks sickness. Several times, she told me " Adanne, stop crying, I will be fine".
But, you know what? she didn't keep the promise. She died. Leaving me heart broken every day of my life.
Everyday, I go thru our chats on wasapp and Fb. I read and read all her txt msgs to me. I go tru her pixs. And, I break down. I can't believe she is dead. It still feels like I am dreaming.
I am sorry I am writing this epistle, I am letting out my pains. I am mourning her the way I can think of. And, I am trying to let go.
Just like everyone said to me, " time heals all wound" I believe you will heal too with time. Just take heart. and accept my condolence.
Hmmmm...the silent pains we all bear in one form or another. So sorry for ur loss dear. Thank God u still find the courage to vent ur pain and receive some measure of healing. Take solace in God's promise that we shall surely meet our dearly departed once more in the hereafter, where shall part no more. God bless u.
nouvelle: @Magneto, I am good o, Oga at the top is fine as well. Thanks for asking. Meanwhile, I would never have thought you Urhobo, mavo? How far my okpa
Lol, yeso I'm urhobo but bred and buttered in alaigbo...I tell ppl I'm igbo by induction all d time. I'm also efik from my mother's side (dats where d ayin eka comes in) so I'm full blown niger delta!
Your okpa is always hot n ready! For all who luv okpa like me cc: missbronze, udysweet, *add ur name*...kindly endeavour to visit enugu one of these days n experience for urself the oily, soft, yummy, bittersweet taste of dis delectable delicacy...hmmm
Ikuku christmas n'acho iburu nmadu plus oyi di excess na my end.
Nwanyi oma aru dikwam ofuma nno. Aburokwam full flegded like dat o, abukwam nwa afo delta urhobo (area original) mana echirigom echichi n'alaigbo gburugburu....rapu d'banj, mua bu ezigbo igwe osi na nwata buru ogaranya confam!
udysweet: @magneto,na ayin eka I dey call u from day one,oya come disclaim wetin bronzy talk o,loool!
Lol, no mind am my dear. U no say enugu far from lagos nah...but make I hear say u enter area no spend weekend for my kaban! (still on ayin eka tinz o, lol)
nouvelle: Happy Birthday Siamia. December Baby, God bless you plenty plenty, May He line your path with lots of sunshine and laughter and May He fulfill your heart desires. AMEN.
Udysweet, I am fine dear, can't complain about the weather anymore, it's unpredictability has become normal JD is fine, thanks for asking.
Magneto and gratefulme40, reading both of you converse is entertaining keep it up
And shout out to all the interesting people that have kept this thread going, 102 pages!!! amazing
Tanx dear, I miss u small o...how u dey na? Wat of our oga at d top.
siamia: Gdmrn folks. I want to use this opportunity to ask everyone to join me as I celebrate a new year in God; as I thank Him for His faithfulness, His grace, His mercy, His goodness, His love, His kindness, His compassion, His forgiveness, His blessings, His power. God has been good to me. Many who began this race of life, are not here today. Its not bcs am better than them. Its all bcs of Jesus. And so, I say, Thank You, Jesus. The God of my lifting, the God of my breakthrough, the God of my unending laughter, the God of my testimony, the God who is the same yesterday, today and forever. The God who is bigger than the biggest, He is wiser than the wisest, He is more beautiful than the most beautiful. The only handsome God. The only One who loves even when there is nothing to love. The God who is the last Man standing, when everyone has fallen by the wayside. The God who will never leave me alone in Time, and who waits for me at the other side of Eternity. The love of my life. Wonderful Jesus. Eternal Father. The King of kings and the Lord of lords. I say thank You. Blessed be Your name for giving me a day of celebration. In Jesus mighty name. Amen.
I love dis post! God bless u dear and keep u strong. Have a great week ahead!
Career › Re: Should I Be Bothered About Leaving? by magneto(m): 10:26pm On Dec 25, 2015
