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yarimo:His outburst didn’t move a single needle. It was theatrics, not leadership. The shouting, chest-thumping, and near-chaos only risked his staff without shifting the chain of command an inch. A smarter operator would have quietly taken the officer’s name, traced the order, and escalated it through the proper military hierarchy, clean, precise, and effective. Real power doesn’t scream; it documents, escalates, and gets results. |
zeuss:Officer → CO → Service Chief → CDS → President Only time they can disobey this command is if it goes against the Constitution of Nigeria. Only then can they disobey even the President. |
The Nigerian Army deserves uncompromising respect, and Wike’s outburst crosses a clear red line. When a uniformed, commissioned officer identifies himself and states he’s acting on orders, the proper response is simple: take the chain-of-command info and escalate appropriately—not humiliation, insults, or threat-laced theatrics. This kind of behavior demoralizes the very institution that has held the country together in its darkest hours. Respect for the uniform isn’t optional; it’s foundational. As Commander-in-Chief, Tinubu should step in, demand a public apology, and make it unmistakably clear that no minister, no matter how politically favored, gets a free pass to degrade a serving officer. The officer’s composure was exemplary. Nigeria owes its soldiers gratitude for serving under harsh conditions, meager pay, and constant danger, yet still maintaining dignity even when confronted by a minister who was a local government chairman not long ago.
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The circulating video captures Minister Wike verbally dressing down a commissioned Nigerian Army officer even after the officer calmly identified himself. Wike repeatedly called him a fool, ordered him to get out, snapped shut up your mouth, labeled him a big fool, and even threatened to ensure the officer “leaves there.” At one point, the officer’s own guard cautioned Wike not to touch him again. Through it all, the officer maintained remarkable composure, holding his salute to discipline, addressing Wike as Sir, reaffirming that he is a commissioned officer, and stating that he carries integrity by the standards of his training. There was a tense scuffle between the Officers fully armed men who were pushed and shoved by Wike's MOPOL and fully armed security. This could have degenerated into something bad but the Naval Officer showed restrain and he told his men to back down and not engage. Nlfpmod Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSyqO40BIhA
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Ikaeniyan0:So Chinedu Nwokolo will get the same treatment as the kings brother or as Ike Ekweremadu ? |
ceejayluv:Prince Andrew did his in America. They punished him in England. Even though he was the kings brother. |
We can’t keep pretending the healthcare crisis will fix itself. The time to rebuild Nigerian hospitals is now, not after foreign governments finally end the quiet subsidies that make our medical tourism possible. When that door closes, as it inevitably will, rushing to construct “emergency” hospitals overnight won’t save us. Those who step off a plane and walk straight into a foreign hospital for treatment, funded indirectly by their taxpayers,have effectively been put on notice. That era is ending. President Tinubu should declare a national state of emergency on healthcare. Even the presidency relies on treatment abroad, which is the clearest evidence that our system is broken from top to bottom. Nigeria does not lack medical expertise. Nigerian doctors keep the American healthcare system functioning. Our crisis is not skill, it is governance, leadership, and administrative collapse. If we fail to act, we will wake up one day with the borders tightened, the doors closed, and no choice but to build a collapsed sector from the ashes. Better to start the reconstruction now, deliberately, strategically, and urgently, before we are forced to do it in panic. |
Foreign nationals seeking to immigrate to the United States could now be denied visas and green cards based on pre-existing chronic health conditions such as diabetes and heart disease, under new guidance issued by the Trump administration.Source: https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/us/us-to-deny-visas-to-people-with-diabetes-heart-disease-and-other-chronic-illnesses/articleshow/125170705.cms
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brain54:The onus is on the man to verify. If a 13year old girl shows you document and birth certificate that she is 20 years old and you sleep with her. You will still go to jail for statutory rape. Unfortunately thats the law, its made to protect against pedophiles, who can always present the "document" case in court....That the victim had documents to show they were older. |
Just wait till they question Chinedu christian Nwokolo who is also a British citizen and a licensed solicitor in Britain. Which makes him fully answerable to British law anywhere in the world The kings brother prince Andrew was evicted and dethroned of all his titles because he was rumored to have slept with an underage girl in America. Who is Chinedu Christian Nwokolo...... He will probably be Ike Ekweremadu's cell mate in UK very soon.
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cr7lomo:Do you know Chinedu Christian Nwokolo is a British Citizen. When Prince Andrew, the Kings brother went to America to sleep with underage girls, they removed all his monarchy titles and kicked him out of the kings estate, who is Ned Nwoko.........They will jail him in uk. |
ceejayluv: Parental Consent .....Her Father disagreed and expressed his widely publicized disapproval and you need consent of both parents especially when they are not together. Chinedu Christian Nwokolo will go to jail, just like Senator Ike Ekweremadu |
wirinet: Senator Ike Ekweremadu did not commit any crime. He was just doing things the Nigerian way till he reached UK. Chinedu christian Nwoko is a British Citizen. He is fully answerable to British laws inside and outside Britain. If you don't know the laws of dual citizenship, wait and see. |
iLoveYouToo:Old Bailey awaits Ned Nwoko, I hope they give him a prison cell next to Ike Ekweremadu. |
HacheNoire: This is not about a lawyer taking up the case......Nigerians are not ignorant. He will face the Ethics committee of the Solicitors regulation authority Statutory Rape is a big deal for any queens counsel If you don't know what you are talking about, i advice you do your research Ekweremadu walked into the same trap, thinking he was in Nigeria. I wont be surprised if Ned Nwoko is arrested the next time he steps in the UK A lot of petition are already flying against him. |
You married her at 17 years.....which under the British law which you are a licensed solicitor is underage Its statutory rape under British law. You will be reported to the the solicitors regulation authority. If the parents and the hospital she was born confirms her age as we are in the process of getting her birth certificate. You might be powerful in Nigeria, but you will get the Ike Ekweremadu treatment when you go to any country abroad. Dont forget even the king Charles brother (Prince Andrew)who went to America to sleep with underage Virginia Giuffre and he was expelled from the monarchy and removed from his official residence talk-less of you who is a British citizen and married an underage girl in Nigeria.
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Educationalserv:Kids or not.....a crime is a crime !!! |
baconline:The crime is statutory rape The mother will not get in trouble. The mother didn't sleep with the girl. The mother is likely not a British resident or citizen Ned is a British citizen |
brain54:In America and UK sexual crimes committed abroad are punishable as if there were committed in America or UK. Example if you are and American resident or citizen and you commit a sexual crime in Nigeria. If they get proof, you will be arrested within the USA and persecuted for that crime. Thats the law. Please feel free to check it and verify. The world has changed, If he married her at 17 its statutory rape. He knows , he is a lawyer. |
If she was indeed 17. That's statutory rape under uk law Under which Senator Chinedu Nwokolo is a licensed solicitor Whether he knew she was 17 or she lied to him, he is still culpable as ignorance is no excuse The way the case is going Senator Chinedu Nwokolo might end up like Senator Ekweremadu |
Things that you will end up doing if you marry a malignant narcissist 1. Emotional and Substance Dependency – Constant manipulation and emotional chaos can push you toward alcohol, drugs, or other coping mechanisms to numb the pain. 2. Severe Mental Health Strain – Anxiety, depression, and in extreme cases, suicidal thoughts can develop due to persistent abuse that is hidden from outsiders. 3. Targeting of Vulnerability – Malignant narcissists actively seek young, naive, or inexperienced partners because they are less likely to recognize manipulation early. 4. Rapid Devaluation – Once control is established, they will discredit, belittle, or publicly shame you to maintain dominance and prevent outside sympathy. 5. Obstruction of Happiness – They are intrinsically envious of your joy; even small achievements or independence are undermined to maintain control. 6. Hoovering and Relentless Pursuit – If you attempt to leave, they will employ hoovering tactics—flattery, threats, and even stalking—to pull you back into the cycle. 7. Isolation from Support Systems – Narcissists subtly cut off family, friends, and allies to make you dependent on them and limit anyone who might see through the abuse. 8. Chronic Gaslighting – Your perception of reality is constantly questioned; you doubt your instincts, memory, and judgment, making escape psychologically challenging. 9. Control Through Financial and Social Power – They often leverage wealth, social status, or connections to restrict freedom, creating practical barriers to leaving. 10. Lifelong Residual Trauma – Even after leaving, the effects linger: trust issues, PTSD-like symptoms, difficulty forming healthy relationships, and hypervigilance around manipulative behaviors. |
When a high-control personality marries or enters a relationship with a significantly younger partner, the interplay of narcissistic tendencies, trauma bonding, and manipulative tactics can create a psychologically coercive environment. Imagine Ethan Nworo, a wealthy, powerful senator in his 60s, who marries Rina Daniels as his 6th wife, an actress bright but inexperienced, naive 17-year-old. At first, Ethan showers Rina with attention, gifts, and public praise, what psychologists call love-bombing. Rina feels special, unique, and dependent on his approval. Narrative cues: • Ethan’s staff, friends, and media reinforce the image of Rina as perfect and compliant. • Behind the scenes, subtle control mechanisms begin to appear: Rina’s time, opinions, and social interactions are monitored or gently questioned. 2. Psychological Mechanisms in Play 2.1 Narcissistic Control Ethan exhibits classic narcissistic traits: • Grandiosity: The world revolves around his desires and image. • Lack of empathy: Rina’s discomfort or anxiety is minimized or dismissed. • Power assertion: Financial and social leverage ensures compliance. 2.2 Trauma Bonding • Rina receives intermittent reinforcement: days of warmth and approval are followed by coldness or subtle criticism. • Emotional highs and lows create a strong attachment to Ethan despite stress or harm. • This cycle makes it psychologically difficult for Rina to step away—even when she senses manipulation. 2.3 Breadcrumbing • Ethan provides small rewards of attention or approval just enough to keep Rina invested. • These crumbs of affection maintain the illusion of intimacy while reinforcing the imbalance of power. 3. Tactics and Social Manipulation • Public image control: Ethan portrays Rina as devoted and glamorous in media appearances, normalizing the dynamic. • Gaslighting: Subtle questioning of Rina’s perceptions (“You’re imagining things”) undermines her confidence. • Isolation: Friends or family are discouraged or portrayed as threats to the relationship. • Conditional love: Compliance is rewarded; dissent triggers withdrawal of approval or public embarrassment. 4. Psychological Consequences for the Young Partner • Confusion about personal boundaries • Low self-esteem and anxiety • Dependence on the abuser for emotional validation • Difficulty recognizing manipulation due to intermittent positive reinforcement 5. Educational Insights 1. Early recognition: Love-bombing, conditional attention, and control signals the start of manipulation. 2. Support networks: External friends, mentors, or counselors can provide perspective. 3. Understanding trauma bonds: Knowledge of intermittent reinforcement explains why leaving is difficult. 4. Promoting autonomy: Encouraging young partners to maintain independent social, financial, and emotional spheres. 5. Public awareness: Education helps society distinguish between criticism of manipulative behavior and prejudice against age-disparate marriages or specific communities. Ethan Nworo and Rina Daniels, we see a clear pattern of narcissistic control, trauma bonding, and breadcrumbing. Awareness of these dynamics is crucial for: • Protecting vulnerable young adults • Educating society on subtle manipulation • Supporting independent decision-making and emotional resilience Even in high-profile or socially visible relationships, psychological literacy is key to preventing long-term harm and promoting healthy relational dynamics.
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We are waiting for you guys..... Vietnam was a joke.... We miss Late General Sani Abacha Have you heard of Sam Larry
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Wizzy na their Papa.......(I am a biased wizzy fan) I cant hide it.....because wizzy did it from nothing !!!! Popular in Surulere and popular in London and New York. With fans that will literally die for him. Burna's got the world stage...... Davido is the NEPO baby, that has done very well despite his background........Respect to Davido, There is no NEPO baby in the world with Davido's hunger and ambition. Ayra starr is talented no doubt........ Nigeria is proud of you guys.....a win for anyone of you is a win for us all. "My music travel no visa....Oya ask your sister" "Awón eleyii awon eleyii wón bad gán" |
Kukutente23:That's dirty and unhygienic..... |
I am sure that FENDI stinks by now. I hope he at least changes underwear....... Bad Hygiene, all those people visiting him cannot bring him fresh clothes...... I just hope the government has checked his mental competence and capacity to stand trial, because the person in the above pictures looks like Yaba Left. |
They’re furious at every country that took a bold pro‑Palestine stance. 😏😏😏 Nigeria suddenly looks primed for conflict; South Africa should be kicked out of the G20 — constant public rebukes, warnings about anti‑Israel trade moves, and veiled threats to cut aid and cooperation. Colombia’s president lost his U.S. visa after fiery remarks at a pro‑Palestine rally in New York (Sept 2025), and that row has only worsened broader US–Colombia tensions — from decertification on counter-narcotics to other diplomatic strains. Venezuela’s treatment is familiar: sanctions, restricted diplomacy, travel and trade limits on senior officials. USA and Zionists are targeting smaller, third world countries that dare to defy U.S. policy and pro‑Israel pressure. Whether you think Washington is right or wrong, challenging that posture invites serious push-back. Don't forget, they went after Gaddafi by saying he was planning to kill a lot of civilian Libyans. Today we have more insurgents , more separatists in Libya than when Gaddafi was alive !!! My take: I wouldn’t be surprised to see a renewed Gaza operation before year‑end or an escalated push to force regime change in Iran.
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This a senator that swore to Nigerian constitution Senator Dickson, If your wife complains of not being fully satisfied in bed with you. Donald trump overhears her complaints and offers to come and Knack the living daylight out of her, will you be this happy and hand him your bedroom keys ? Do our senators know the meaning of sovereignty. Are you aware accepting Donald Trumps gesture means you are accepting your failure as a senator to legislatively solve Nigerians problems. If you are calling for America to solve Nigeria's problem, its time you resign and let those that can solve these problems contest for senate. These are the people that wrote the letter to Trump to intervene, dont be deceived. |
Ndume says it as it is........ He is a one man Opposition within the ruling party...... |
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