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PoliticsRe: Soldiers Block Wike & FCT Officials From Snatching Abuja Land – Video Inside! by malali(op): 3:57pm On Nov 11, 2025
yarimo:
This is very commendable from the FCT minister
His outburst didn’t move a single needle. It was theatrics, not leadership. The shouting, chest-thumping, and near-chaos only risked his staff without shifting the chain of command an inch.

A smarter operator would have quietly taken the officer’s name, traced the order, and escalated it through the proper military hierarchy, clean, precise, and effective.

Real power doesn’t scream; it documents, escalates, and gets results.
PoliticsRe: Soldiers Block Wike & FCT Officials From Snatching Abuja Land – Video Inside! by malali(op): 3:50pm On Nov 11, 2025
zeuss:
The military officer should have respected the representative of government even out the barracks after all government is the employer of the military and is maintained with taxpayer money moreso nobody is above the law.
Officer → CO → Service Chief → CDS → President

Only time they can disobey this command is if it goes against the Constitution of Nigeria.

Only then can they disobey even the President.
PoliticsRe: Soldiers Block Wike & FCT Officials From Snatching Abuja Land – Video Inside! by malali(op):
The Nigerian Army deserves uncompromising respect, and Wike’s outburst crosses a clear red line. When a uniformed, commissioned officer identifies himself and states he’s acting on orders, the proper response is simple: take the chain-of-command info and escalate appropriately—not humiliation, insults, or threat-laced theatrics.

This kind of behavior demoralizes the very institution that has held the country together in its darkest hours. Respect for the uniform isn’t optional; it’s foundational. As Commander-in-Chief, Tinubu should step in, demand a public apology, and make it unmistakably clear that no minister, no matter how politically favored, gets a free pass to degrade a serving officer.

The officer’s composure was exemplary. Nigeria owes its soldiers gratitude for serving under harsh conditions, meager pay, and constant danger, yet still maintaining dignity even when confronted by a minister who was a local government chairman not long ago.

PoliticsSoldiers Block Wike & FCT Officials From Snatching Abuja Land – Video Inside! by malali(op):
The circulating video captures Minister Wike verbally dressing down a commissioned Nigerian Army officer even after the officer calmly identified himself.

Wike repeatedly called him a fool, ordered him to get out, snapped shut up your mouth, labeled him a big fool, and even threatened to ensure the officer “leaves there.”

At one point, the officer’s own guard cautioned Wike not to touch him again.

Through it all, the officer maintained remarkable composure, holding his salute to discipline, addressing Wike as Sir, reaffirming that he is a commissioned officer, and stating that he carries integrity by the standards of his training.


There was a tense scuffle between the Officers fully armed men who were pushed and shoved by Wike's MOPOL and fully armed security. This could have degenerated into something bad but the Naval Officer showed restrain and he told his men to back down and not engage.

Nlfpmod


Source:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSyqO40BIhA

PoliticsRe: Regina Daniels And Her Family Are Absolutely Wrong In Their Actions Ned Nwoko Mu by malali: 2:21pm On Nov 11, 2025
Ikaeniyan0:
The king brother never went to prison because her mother settled out of court and paid the victims millions of pounds
So Chinedu Nwokolo will get the same treatment as the kings brother or as Ike Ekweremadu ?
PoliticsRe: I Married Regina Daniels At 19, Not 17 - Sen. Ned Alleges Blackmail Against Him by malali: 2:19pm On Nov 11, 2025
ceejayluv:
For a marriage done in Nigeria?. Keep playing
Prince Andrew did his in America.
They punished him in England.
Even though he was the kings brother.
TravelRe: US To Deny Visa To People With Diabetes Heart Disease Other Chronic Illnesses by malali(op):
We can’t keep pretending the healthcare crisis will fix itself. The time to rebuild Nigerian hospitals is now, not after foreign governments finally end the quiet subsidies that make our medical tourism possible. When that door closes, as it inevitably will, rushing to construct “emergency” hospitals overnight won’t save us.

Those who step off a plane and walk straight into a foreign hospital for treatment, funded indirectly by their taxpayers,have effectively been put on notice. That era is ending.

President Tinubu should declare a national state of emergency on healthcare. Even the presidency relies on treatment abroad, which is the clearest evidence that our system is broken from top to bottom.

Nigeria does not lack medical expertise. Nigerian doctors keep the American healthcare system functioning. Our crisis is not skill, it is governance, leadership, and administrative collapse.


If we fail to act, we will wake up one day with the borders tightened, the doors closed, and no choice but to build a collapsed sector from the ashes. Better to start the reconstruction now, deliberately, strategically, and urgently, before we are forced to do it in panic.
TravelUS To Deny Visa To People With Diabetes Heart Disease Other Chronic Illnesses by malali(op): 2:08pm On Nov 11, 2025
Foreign nationals seeking to immigrate to the United States could now be denied visas and green cards based on pre-existing chronic health conditions such as diabetes and heart disease, under new guidance issued by the Trump administration.
The directive, which significantly expands the criteria for who is deemed a potential "public charge," has been sent by the State Department on to US embassies and consular offices worldwide.


A cable sent by the State Department to visa officers instructs them to flag applicants whose medical conditions could require "hundreds of thousands of dollars' worth of care." The list of conditions cited includes, but is not limited to cardiovascular diseases; respiratory diseases; cancers; diabetes; metabolic diseases; neurological diseases; and mental health conditions.

The guidance also specifically advises officers to consider conditions like obesity, noting that it can lead to costly complications such as asthma, sleep apnea, and high blood pressure. All these chronic illnesses are now being assessed as potential indicators that an individual might become a future financial burden on the United States.The policy shift, revealed on Thursday, is one of the most aggressive moves in the administration’s broader immigration crackdown, effectively linking an applicant’s health status to their eligibility for entry.

It was not immediately clear if the directive applies to tourist and student visas. While it technically applies to all visa applicants, including those seeking non-immigrant visas for tourism (B-1/B-2) and studies (F1), it is expected to be primarily used for those seeking to permanently reside in the US.

As things stand, tourist visa applicants are required to demonstrate they have sufficient financial means for their trip; they intend to leave the US at the end of their authorized stay; and they will not become a "public charge" during their temporary visit.


At the heart of the new guidance is a stricter interpretation of the "public charge" rule—a century-old immigration provision designed to exclude those likely to become primarily dependent on government assistance. While health screenings have always been part of the visa process, traditionally focusing on communicable diseases like tuberculosis, the new directive vastly expands the list of conditions to be considered.

Immigration advocates warn that the new rules grant consular officers, who lack medical expertise, sweeping authority to make subjective judgments about an applicant's long-term health since no one is expected to disclose their ailments in visa applications.

Under the new framework, visa officers are explicitly instructed to determine whether applicants have the financial resources to cover the costs of such long-term medical care "over his entire expected lifespan without seeking public cash assistance or long-term institutionalization at government expense."

Immigration experts contend that this policy will dramatically reduce legal immigration for older applicants and those with common chronic illnesses. Effectively, the policy will favor the wealthiest and healthiest applicants.
Source: https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/us/us-to-deny-visas-to-people-with-diabetes-heart-disease-and-other-chronic-illnesses/articleshow/125170705.cms

PoliticsRe: Regina Daniels And Her Family Are Absolutely Wrong In Their Actions Ned Nwoko Mu by malali: 12:12pm On Nov 11, 2025
brain54:
Including if Regina was untruthful about her age...?


Because her documents says she wasn't 17 when she married.

It states she was 19!
The onus is on the man to verify. If a 13year old girl shows you document and birth certificate that she is 20 years old and you sleep with her. You will still go to jail for statutory rape.

Unfortunately thats the law, its made to protect against pedophiles, who can always present the "document" case in court....That the victim had documents to show they were older.
PoliticsRe: Regina Daniels And Her Family Are Absolutely Wrong In Their Actions Ned Nwoko Mu by malali: 11:42am On Nov 11, 2025
Just wait till they question Chinedu christian Nwokolo who is also a British citizen and a licensed solicitor in Britain.
Which makes him fully answerable to British law anywhere in the world

The kings brother prince Andrew was evicted and dethroned of all his titles because he was rumored to have slept with an underage girl in America.

Who is Chinedu Christian Nwokolo...... He will probably be Ike Ekweremadu's cell mate in UK very soon.

PoliticsRe: I Married Regina Daniels At 19, Not 17 - Sen. Ned Alleges Blackmail Against Him by malali: 11:26am On Nov 11, 2025
cr7lomo:
Are u slow or what?? U think UK will arrest Ned for marrying a 17yr old Nigerian girl in Nigeria... do u even know the meaning of the word " jurisdiction "....
Do you know Chinedu Christian Nwokolo is a British Citizen.
When Prince Andrew, the Kings brother went to America to sleep with underage girls, they removed all his monarchy titles and kicked him out of the kings estate, who is Ned Nwoko.........They will jail him in uk.
PoliticsRe: I Married Regina Daniels At 19, Not 17 - Sen. Ned Alleges Blackmail Against Him by malali: 11:23am On Nov 11, 2025
ceejayluv:
Arrest him because he allegedly commited the crime where? As at the time of Regina's marriage, the minimum age of marriage in the UK was 16 with parental consent.

Parental Consent .....Her Father disagreed and expressed his widely publicized disapproval and you need consent of both parents especially when they are not together.

Chinedu Christian Nwokolo will go to jail, just like Senator Ike Ekweremadu
PoliticsRe: I Married Regina Daniels At 19, Not 17 - Sen. Ned Alleges Blackmail Against Him by malali: 11:20am On Nov 11, 2025
wirinet:
Arrested for what? Did he commit any crime in the UK? Or did Nigeria say he committed a crime in Nigeria, and labelled a fugitive?
A lot of you guys are just parroting Western (European) law and customs, and applying it to others without looking at their unique socio-cultural background. Even in the US, people marry multiple wives or under 18 girls. One even documented his "bigamy" in a series called sister wives.

Nigeria operates multiple laws, there is tradition laws, religious laws and English law. And the Nigerian constitution recognises all three laws, with only a caveat that the English law is superior. Then there are different laws between the north and south. The south use the criminal code, while the north use the Penal code. Sometimes these two laws are at variance with each other.

Now back to this case. First Ned is Muslim. He married under both Muslim law and traditional law. Muslim and traditional law permits polygamy and underage marriage. Please note that the Nigerian constitution recognises both Muslim law and traditional law. So it would be interesting for someone to sue a man and the families engaging in underage marriage ceremony.

As much as I detest Senator Ned for marrying an underage girl, I blame Regina's mother and her family more. They openly came out to deny Regina was 17 at the time people raised concerns. They claimed Regina was 19 in unison, and they participated in the marriage ceremony, along with their whole community. So how can you then blame Ned for marrying an underage girl? Na him born am?


Senator Ike Ekweremadu did not commit any crime. He was just doing things the Nigerian way till he reached UK.
Chinedu christian Nwoko is a British Citizen. He is fully answerable to British laws inside and outside Britain. If you don't know the laws of dual citizenship, wait and see.
PoliticsRe: I Married Regina Daniels At 19, Not 17 - Sen. Ned Alleges Blackmail Against Him by malali: 2:29am On Nov 11, 2025
iLoveYouToo:
If you’re a lawyer, you’ve failed the institutions that awarded you all the degrees you’ve earned so far. A shame to the profession.

You can read and write but you do not understand a darn thing.
Old Bailey awaits Ned Nwoko, I hope they give him a prison cell next to Ike Ekweremadu.
PoliticsRe: I Married Regina Daniels At 19, Not 17 - Sen. Ned Alleges Blackmail Against Him by malali: 12:37am On Nov 11, 2025
HacheNoire:
🤣😃🤣😃🤣

You people are comedians. No sensible lawyer will even take that case to court. Seems you forgot the social media fanfare that came with this marriage, and the fathers and mothers position.

Any lawyer that takes up such case is just hungry and trying to make money. No reputable lawyer will go and disgrace himself in the court of law.

This is not about a lawyer taking up the case......Nigerians are not ignorant.
He will face the Ethics committee of the Solicitors regulation authority
Statutory Rape is a big deal for any queens counsel
If you don't know what you are talking about, i advice you do your research
Ekweremadu walked into the same trap, thinking he was in Nigeria.

I wont be surprised if Ned Nwoko is arrested the next time he steps in the UK
A lot of petition are already flying against him.
PoliticsRe: I Married Regina Daniels At 19, Not 17 - Sen. Ned Alleges Blackmail Against Him by malali:
You married her at 17 years.....which under the British law which you are a licensed solicitor is underage

Its statutory rape under British law.

You will be reported to the the solicitors regulation authority. If the parents and the hospital she was born confirms her age as we are in the process of getting her birth certificate.

You might be powerful in Nigeria, but you will get the Ike Ekweremadu treatment when you go to any country abroad.

Dont forget even the king Charles brother (Prince Andrew)who went to America to sleep with underage Virginia Giuffre and he was expelled from the monarchy and removed from his official residence talk-less of you who is a British citizen and married an underage girl in Nigeria.

PoliticsRe: On Senator Ned And Regina Saga by malali: 1:06am On Nov 10, 2025
Educationalserv:
una just suddenly remember after she produce two kids
Weldone
Kids or not.....a crime is a crime !!!
PoliticsRe: On Senator Ned And Regina Saga by malali: 5:29pm On Nov 09, 2025
baconline:
Does she really know the implications? Both Ned and her mum will be in trouble
The crime is statutory rape
The mother will not get in trouble.

The mother didn't sleep with the girl.
The mother is likely not a British resident or citizen
Ned is a British citizen
PoliticsRe: On Senator Ned And Regina Saga by malali: 5:26pm On Nov 09, 2025
brain54:
Did he marry her under UK laws or jurisdiction...?
In America and UK sexual crimes committed abroad are punishable as if there were committed in America or UK.

Example if you are and American resident or citizen and you commit a sexual crime in Nigeria.
If they get proof, you will be arrested within the USA and persecuted for that crime.
Thats the law. Please feel free to check it and verify.

The world has changed, If he married her at 17 its statutory rape. He knows , he is a lawyer.
PoliticsRe: On Senator Ned And Regina Saga by malali: 4:45pm On Nov 09, 2025
If she was indeed 17.

That's statutory rape under uk law
Under which Senator Chinedu Nwokolo is a licensed solicitor
Whether he knew she was 17 or she lied to him, he is still culpable as ignorance is no excuse
The way the case is going Senator Chinedu Nwokolo might end up like Senator Ekweremadu
RomanceRe: Narcissist Manipulate Partners: Trauma Bond, Breadcrumbs & Psychological Control by malali(op):
Things that you will end up doing if you marry a malignant narcissist

1. Emotional and Substance Dependency – Constant manipulation and emotional chaos can push you toward alcohol, drugs, or other coping mechanisms to numb the pain.

2. Severe Mental Health Strain – Anxiety, depression, and in extreme cases, suicidal thoughts can develop due to persistent abuse that is hidden from outsiders.

3. Targeting of Vulnerability – Malignant narcissists actively seek young, naive, or inexperienced partners because they are less likely to recognize manipulation early.

4. Rapid Devaluation – Once control is established, they will discredit, belittle, or publicly shame you to maintain dominance and prevent outside sympathy.

5. Obstruction of Happiness – They are intrinsically envious of your joy; even small achievements or independence are undermined to maintain control.

6. Hoovering and Relentless Pursuit – If you attempt to leave, they will employ hoovering tactics—flattery, threats, and even stalking—to pull you back into the cycle.

7. Isolation from Support Systems – Narcissists subtly cut off family, friends, and allies to make you dependent on them and limit anyone who might see through the abuse.

8. Chronic Gaslighting – Your perception of reality is constantly questioned; you doubt your instincts, memory, and judgment, making escape psychologically challenging.

9. Control Through Financial and Social Power – They often leverage wealth, social status, or connections to restrict freedom, creating practical barriers to leaving.

10. Lifelong Residual Trauma – Even after leaving, the effects linger: trust issues, PTSD-like symptoms, difficulty forming healthy relationships, and hypervigilance around manipulative behaviors.
RomanceNarcissist Manipulate Partners: Trauma Bond, Breadcrumbs & Psychological Control by malali(op):
When a high-control personality marries or enters a relationship with a significantly younger partner, the interplay of narcissistic tendencies, trauma bonding, and manipulative tactics can create a psychologically coercive environment.


Imagine Ethan Nworo, a wealthy, powerful senator in his 60s, who marries Rina Daniels as his 6th wife, an actress bright but inexperienced, naive 17-year-old. At first, Ethan showers Rina with attention, gifts, and public praise, what psychologists call love-bombing. Rina feels special, unique, and dependent on his approval.


Narrative cues:
• Ethan’s staff, friends, and media reinforce the image of Rina as perfect and compliant.
• Behind the scenes, subtle control mechanisms begin to appear: Rina’s time, opinions, and social interactions are monitored or gently questioned.


2. Psychological Mechanisms in Play

2.1 Narcissistic Control

Ethan exhibits classic narcissistic traits:
• Grandiosity: The world revolves around his desires and image.
• Lack of empathy: Rina’s discomfort or anxiety is minimized or dismissed.
• Power assertion: Financial and social leverage ensures compliance.

2.2 Trauma Bonding
• Rina receives intermittent reinforcement: days of warmth and approval are followed by coldness or subtle criticism.
• Emotional highs and lows create a strong attachment to Ethan despite stress or harm.
• This cycle makes it psychologically difficult for Rina to step away—even when she senses manipulation.

2.3 Breadcrumbing
• Ethan provides small rewards of attention or approval just enough to keep Rina invested.
• These crumbs of affection maintain the illusion of intimacy while reinforcing the imbalance of power.

3. Tactics and Social Manipulation
• Public image control: Ethan portrays Rina as devoted and glamorous in media appearances, normalizing the dynamic.
• Gaslighting: Subtle questioning of Rina’s perceptions (“You’re imagining things”) undermines her confidence.
• Isolation: Friends or family are discouraged or portrayed as threats to the relationship.
• Conditional love: Compliance is rewarded; dissent triggers withdrawal of approval or public embarrassment.


4. Psychological Consequences for the Young Partner
• Confusion about personal boundaries
• Low self-esteem and anxiety
• Dependence on the abuser for emotional validation
• Difficulty recognizing manipulation due to intermittent positive reinforcement


5. Educational Insights
1. Early recognition: Love-bombing, conditional attention, and control signals the start of manipulation.
2. Support networks: External friends, mentors, or counselors can provide perspective.
3. Understanding trauma bonds: Knowledge of intermittent reinforcement explains why leaving is difficult.
4. Promoting autonomy: Encouraging young partners to maintain independent social, financial, and emotional spheres.
5. Public awareness: Education helps society distinguish between criticism of manipulative behavior and prejudice against age-disparate marriages or specific communities.


Ethan Nworo and Rina Daniels, we see a clear pattern of narcissistic control, trauma bonding, and breadcrumbing. Awareness of these dynamics is crucial for:
• Protecting vulnerable young adults
• Educating society on subtle manipulation
• Supporting independent decision-making and emotional resilience

Even in high-profile or socially visible relationships, psychological literacy is key to preventing long-term harm and promoting healthy relational dynamics.

PoliticsRe: “Nigeria, Wassup?” "We Go Soon Fall In - Says US Soldier by malali:
We are waiting for you guys.....

Vietnam was a joke....

We miss Late General Sani Abacha

Have you heard of Sam Larry

Music/RadioRe: Davido, Wizkid, Burna Boy, Ayra Starr & Omah Lay Dominate 2026 Grammy Nomination by malali:
Wizzy na their Papa.......(I am a biased wizzy fan) I cant hide it.....because wizzy did it from nothing !!!! Popular in Surulere and popular in London and New York. With fans that will literally die for him.

Burna's got the world stage......

Davido is the NEPO baby, that has done very well despite his background........Respect to Davido, There is no NEPO baby in the world with Davido's hunger and ambition.

Ayra starr is talented no doubt........

Nigeria is proud of you guys.....a win for anyone of you is a win for us all.

"My music travel no visa....Oya ask your sister"

"Awón eleyii awon eleyii wón bad gán"
PoliticsRe: Senior Advocate Of IPOB - Wike’s Aide Mocks Nnamdi Kanu (Picture) by malali: 10:47am On Nov 08, 2025
Kukutente23:
Lol
Delusion
Your think he wears the Fendi cloth everyday?
No man
He only wears it during trial just for optics sake
To deceive undiscerning like you
That's dirty and unhygienic.....
PoliticsRe: Senior Advocate Of IPOB - Wike’s Aide Mocks Nnamdi Kanu (Picture) by malali:
I am sure that FENDI stinks by now.

I hope he at least changes underwear.......

Bad Hygiene, all those people visiting him cannot bring him fresh clothes......

I just hope the government has checked his mental competence and capacity to stand trial, because the person in the above pictures looks like Yaba Left.
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Wants South Africa Out Of The G20 As It Gears Up For World Summit by malali:
They’re furious at every country that took a bold pro‑Palestine stance. 😏😏😏

Nigeria suddenly looks primed for conflict; South Africa should be kicked out of the G20 — constant public rebukes, warnings about anti‑Israel trade moves, and veiled threats to cut aid and cooperation.

Colombia’s president lost his U.S. visa after fiery remarks at a pro‑Palestine rally in New York (Sept 2025), and that row has only worsened broader US–Colombia tensions — from decertification on counter-narcotics to other diplomatic strains.


Venezuela’s treatment is familiar: sanctions, restricted diplomacy, travel and trade limits on senior officials.

USA and Zionists are targeting smaller, third world countries that dare to defy U.S. policy and pro‑Israel pressure. Whether you think Washington is right or wrong, challenging that posture invites serious push-back.


Don't forget, they went after Gaddafi by saying he was planning to kill a lot of civilian Libyans. Today we have more insurgents , more separatists in Libya than when Gaddafi was alive !!!


My take: I wouldn’t be surprised to see a renewed Gaza operation before year‑end or an escalated push to force regime change in Iran.

PoliticsRe: Senator Sirake Dickson Backs Trump’s Intervention by malali: 5:50pm On Nov 06, 2025
This a senator that swore to Nigerian constitution

Senator Dickson, If your wife complains of not being fully satisfied in bed with you. Donald trump overhears her complaints and offers to come and Knack the living daylight out of her, will you be this happy and hand him your bedroom keys ?

Do our senators know the meaning of sovereignty. Are you aware accepting Donald Trumps gesture means you are accepting your failure as a senator to legislatively solve Nigerians problems.

If you are calling for America to solve Nigeria's problem, its time you resign and let those that can solve these problems contest for senate.


These are the people that wrote the letter to Trump to intervene, dont be deceived.
PoliticsRe: Aso Rock Officials Demand Money Before One Can See Tinubu’, Ndume Alleges by malali: 9:19am On Nov 06, 2025
Ndume says it as it is........

He is a one man Opposition within the ruling party......

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