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PTH:
na wa o. . . where do all these girls find such heartless men/boys?

on niraland

Why is he afraid to come to the US? Could it be because he is illegal in Greece and thus cannot procure a US visa?

Has out stayed his welcome, or better said dose not have a permant residence permitt.
We all know that all embassies have tightened securities.
But its all assumsions

OH Man i will advice you to stop here @ H M please.
I can see IT comming

shit happens, sometimes even after 30 years of marrage.
I do not advice to put 100 % into a relationship.
At its best 75% will do

PTH:
after 5 years of phone conversations and lonely nights, you'd think they'd not be able to keep their hands off each other for that 1 month.

sooo but thats not what its all about.She is not dependent on him.
if she cant stand him then she can still have something out of her trip Greece is a fine place.Whats left of it,

mini pills but they have to be taken at the same time every day.and dear not forget any

Then she should keep her pride because thats all she has left.
exs always come back even if its after 1 year and only for a one night stand. or to cry over some thing.

ThiefOfHearts:
so already he had his eyes on someone else

No "downtime"?

Lame.

Good that is not fair and not advisable.
But you that know it better will not go out with a boy that just broke up .
Or you will give your self some timeout(btw an advice i would even give my kids).
But not every one is the same

Its his good right as long as one is not yet married all are dragging Boyfriend or girlfriend
In love and in war there are a lot of casualties

Now let me ask you something @ TOH.
Now you are at home with your girlfriends gossiping about you stars, doing your nails exchanging cloths etc (you have told your BF its a girls day)
And he phones because he wants to see you NOW. how will you feel.
Or if he keeps phoning ever 15 mins.
read the posters posts (cant sleep ,cant eat,cant think)wanting the phone all the time. a control freak

He set his eyes on another girlfriend when he decided to break up with her.
But had not broken up yet.
And he broke up because he did not need the stress.
For one he is still in school and for 2 he is responsible for his parents.
Good its not the good old gentleman way.
But when i have already made up my mind to break up . then mentally am free.
I only have to say the 3 words : baby its over

Inother words he wanted to break up because of the telephone terror.
all there "were are you" calls
just maybe you are out with the boys/girls
just maybe you are having dinner with your family
just maybe you are taking you sick mum to the DR
Just maybe you want to be on your own

There is this boy i know, he is just 18 and he was telling me he was thinking of breaking up with his girlfriend because he could not take her telephone terror and interrogations any more.
The only problem was that he did not know how to tell her without hurting her.
An example like i said he is 18 the oldest son and both of his parents have epilepsy.
After a long day of telephone terror he put off his phone and his dad had an attack. well his phone was off but they were able to trace him through his friends.
He slept at the hospital that night.
The next day , madam girlfriend called and ask whats up. When he told her she first called him a lier and later demanded why she did not tell him that he was in the hospital.
he answered her that she was the last person on his mind as of then and broke up with her.
But she still kept calling to ask if he has changed his mind.
What i wanted to say from the moment he made up his mind to break up his eyes were already open for new girlfriend but i advised him to keep it clean and break up with the girl first,

Its not the whole of greece burning
he sent her money for the trip
and she is not staying with him she booked a place of her own.

@ Holiness
That's not fair. She is going through a lot of pain.

But she will keep going through that pain if she dose not know how it came to be

What did the guy do wrong?
Is he not allowed to talk to other girls.
Was he not always good to her?
Is it not his right to move on if he dose not like or love her anymore?
Is love now by force?
Take the good times with you forget the past learn from your mistakes.
That relationship was just 5 months.
For me 5 months is a getting to know you time almost too early to get committed,
he was taking her to family functions how many girls can boast of that?
Its not only girlfriends that write messages. It could be something personal from mum dad or sisters what ever.

[quote author=Holiness_M link=topic=75410.msg1440987#msg1440987 date=1188323364]@Mamaput

In fact - i need to marry your daughter for that beautiful post u just made.[/quote]we talk about that when we agree on more  topices.

Guys are known for this crap and I HATE it with a passion.   the whole trying to act indifferent. In your case, he was probably just putting a show for the girl.

or he is fed up or he wants her to learn the hard way, or he is the "don't look back type.
I had a boyfriend that did that to me once i too just said OK. 2 weeks later he came back.

Maybe you should not answer any mor questions because nothing usefull will come up again.
every one starts some day to post.

@ Poster you know the guy for like just 5 months. I call this in the getting to know you phase.
Your posts are full of i demanded and i insisted.
If my daughter told me this story but the other way round with her bf demanding and insisting.
i will demand and insist she breaks up with him .I have no son but equal rights i will not want my son with a girlfriend that will not give him a break.
Do you not have girlfriends?. Must he be with you all the time?
Think very hard. He told you sunday no show could you not wait till Monday to call him.
He is slowly cutting you off-.
You want to keep him?
THEN STOP DEMANDING AND INSISTING

Jaguar1:
Women, women, women, women!!! How many times did I call u people. Can't help laughing sha.
@ mamaput, u are one hell of a womanyour heart is so damm hard but all the same a cheating man has little values to me. Having said that, so where's tha place of benefit of doubt? Some of your response are quite predictable.
Let me also say that robbers in Nigeria sometimes strip u of your clothes in order to make u look mad so that nobody will believe your story. A guy was robbed along the Benin express way, the robbers stripped him of his clothes and took his car. It was very difficult for him to stop any vehicle since everybody assumed he was mad and would not stop. So what if the robbers employed the same tactics?

For real from the look of his face i will not have to ask what happened.
Someone that has not had a gun  in his face can act it.

I do not care about that,
This is just the www. not my life

Abi its like begging for insult.

Not at 13 never.And not with any tom dick and harry.
you know its always the others doing it but not me

so did i . but that was more like all these petting parties.
lights off and dancing "Blues" as we called it.
But sex was not that common.
No we were not having sex at 13 .

osereka:
another divoucy

Thank god for small mercy's. then if my ex had beaten me. i would now be in jail for man saluter.

how horrible that a small thing like that can be carried so high.
I just hate men that cannot let things go.

crazykid  there is no difference between a "real man" as you call it  and a real  bulldog.
It takes more to be a real man than bashing a woman. much more

Not only that i will like to know the boys family to know what am dealing with.
But please god forbid bad thing

What if she is pregnant?
How serious dose a 13 year old take safer sex.
If i found out that my daughter is active at that age, i will take her to a DR not only to test her , but also to teach her more about safer sex.

As a child i wanted to be come a princess do not laugh.
Even when they showed lady Di's wedding i was wishing that was me.
Well now my kids dream too one wanted to become an actress but now she is into Markting.
the second wants to become a social worker when she was younger she wanted to become a backer oga with a parrot . that has a lot of people working for her.
my last wants to become an animal discoverer. something to do with wild life or sea animals,

Better take the child to do all the necessary tests,.

Its not always bout 419 or drugs.
some people are looking for honest jobs.
Its also not just a Nigeria or African thing even Aisans are doing the same thing and have a lot in common. when it comes to seeking papers.
What am worried about is that the man has never been married b4 or had children as he claimed.
If that was the case i would have had more hope for the relationship working out.

And if he takes the knive from her and kills er with it.?