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She was able to take a boy to her room at that age in Nigeria.
!3 is too young.
Any male visitors mykids get at that age, there is one golden rule.
The bed room door stays wide open,
BTW its not boyfineds but class mates.
for me 13 is too young to cope with boyfriends.

I can understand why she has not seen him for five years.
When you have a lot of things to do five years can fly past very fast.

Well as long as its a visit you can take her along.
I thoughtyou were relocating with out visiting first

Nobody is at fault all was just reflex

And when the father kicks him out who will pay his school fees.

Anyway i will not want to ask you too many personal questions or better do not answer the following questions.
Are you older than the man?
Has he been married b4 and dose he have children too.
If he is younger than you and has no kids, i do not think the marrage will work out well , Not in Nigeria.
I advice you to see if you can contact them Nigerwives.
They can answer all your questions. Up to good schools and school fees.

Nigeria is a place you can only love or hate.
I advise you to visit Nigeria and see for your self.
If you have no skills i advice you not to go at all.
Most people that i know that go back just do not move like that.
Most of the time the husband goes first to see if he can build up something b4 calling for his family. If it dose not work out , he can always come back.
Look for Nigerwives  Nigeria in Googel . Am not sure they are up dated. They are foreign wives married to Nigerians living in Nigeria and they have a web side.

[quote author=Holiness_M link=topic=74368.msg1433421#msg1433421 date=1188146459]Fools - I studied all through to PHd with Shell scholarship - so don't even utter a word - because u are nothing.

I live in the UK - so don't even shoot - just zip the opening called your mouth. This is waht we are saying - u are not anything better because u live abroad or because u study abroad -

Have u seen when the been tos go to Nigeria and look down on every body they come accross as if they are not somebody? Just because u went to Europe or America or worse still Asia?[/quote]welcome to the club,you are no better than the rest.
Sorry you are better you have a DR title inwhat you accuse others of doing

And that class thing is even worse in Nigeria.
Can a woman report to police that the husband beat her?
can a house girl go to police because her oga raped her.
Even barrow pushers are they not "men of god"
The megard that salutes you at the gate? is that what is making you happy. is he not a human?
You call it class to treat people with less than you like trash

[quote author=Holiness_M link=topic=74368.msg1433272#msg1433272 date=1188136248]Worse if u are mixed race.[/quote]Only those that do not Know were they come from.
I grew up with mother and father.
And as of when i left my fathers house  mum and dad were still together. (b4 you ask my mum is late)
my kids also know were they come from They know their mum and they know their dad and they know  their nigerian Family.

Thats my daughter, she is just 13 and a girlie girl.
But i always only have problems with Nigerians Grabbing after her even in my presences. And am talking about old men in their 40s.
What if she were in Nigeria? we all know how much time dirty old men spend on the road looking for prey (young blood
Luckily she can stay out of their way and now with my permission insult anyone that even looks funny at her.
The town i stay in is safe no kids gets shot .

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If you had been a first class citizen in your country you would never have left.
People that go waht better.
I forgot to add i do not have to fear armedrobbers or sugar daddies

Like i told you , one mans meat is another mans poison.
But if you have lived all your life in Europe , what do you know about Nigeria.
I have lived half my life in Nigeria and the other half here, and i can say i will rather be here.
I do not pay school fees, i always have light and running water. My DR is round the corner,.My kids even go on their own and never spend more than half an hour at the Dr's. If they are really very sick (thank god it has not happened) the DR will come to me.
I hate partys and i hate travelling. Why the hell will i do that to myself.

And in november i have an other 2 weeks off.
You can read all my posts if you want any post b4 the 6.8.07 was never between 10.30 and 21:00 oclock. weekends do not count.
I have had my good share of wild life nothing i wanted to do that i have not done.

I have a peaceful life.
I do what i want when i want to do it.
My leave started on the 6 of August it will be over on the 3 of september right now i just spend the day sleeping and doing nothing. to be able to do nothing is a luxury these days .
I Have no one telling me when and how to spend my money , when to go out or stay at home.
I have sent my kids on different trips, One is in Spain the others on a bicycle trip.
I thought of travelling my self but i hate stress.Whats boring for you is heaven for me.
Go out when i want i come home when i want. My kids are at an age that i can even live them alone over a long weekend.

oh yes they are.
That is till you become very rude.

We have flat rate.and we do not have "go slow" on the roads

Its not illegal and its not an infant.

Ps you are on your way to no were, why not hook up with a brother

Kc0022000:
So many animals on this forum, Fela said it before, well, mamaput you know your own story isn't better than the Nigerian Men here in Germany, your comment suck and it sounds you need a doctor

@poster, wish you fun time here in Germany unfortunately am on my way to Naija .

my story is better, i travelled in with a German passport. and i stayed with my German Family.
Sorry tom disappoint you.
I Had no need to look for sex starved woman to take care of me.
They do not give Nigerians asyl the new thing now is making babies and disappearing like magic.
Come of it we know how many lost mixed fatherless kids are running around.
there are well known clubs were dseprete ugly women hang out looking for desprate young blood. how many of the marrages last more than 5 years?

you want to find Nigerians in Germany go and check the kitchen and restaurant, they are bound to be working in there

No better go to the clubs they are bound to be hunting there for women.
Nigerian men and work here in Germany when wife is more or less Adopting them as they claim

At least you can wear highheel shoes to pack shit in Nigeria

To Greece, its one of the most expensive countries in Europe,
Generally the Greek people like to stick to themselves.
I will be more worried about beening black in Greece than in Nigeria,
Their alphabets are not like ours so its not only the launage you have to worry about.

And more than that people that relocate also desolve the household , give up their arpartment or even sell off their house.

Take a look at what she is going in for.
A Mother cannot just relocate to a place she has never been to and with a man she has never seen

If his father is still feeding him , he can do nothing.

As long as you do not know what to do , you are not ready for a boyfriend