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All these things are they really usefull?
If we had no TV internet etc we will spend more time with our family and friends.
I remember in Nigeria When Nepa used to take light everyone will go outside neighbors sitting together and chatting.
Sometimes we put off everything and play table games.

I did not know Enrique was a man.
I do not want to wake up with anyone that will spend more time in the bathroom than I.
crying over every little pimple

I cannot upload any pictures any more.

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OGa Seun you changed the name of my topic.
One day you too will have a Daughter i want to see your reaction if one stupid boy like that will talk to her

Radiant:
lol. . . Don't even get this topic and the whole essay.

Its all about a stupid boy of about 14 with a bad reputation that has decided to put his eye on my daughter.
I hate him and i hate his mother. What kind of mother will allow her son to Peirce his lips and eye at that age? and a Dundee for that matter.

Now am annoyed again.
Yesterday My big girl was in the bus one of her old school mates told her that her sisters hang out with his brother, they dress tatty and drink and smoke,.(His brother gave then alcohol to drink.
Well my daughters told him that can never be her sisters. They do not drink , smoke or hang out anywere and not with boys. And they do not dress tatty.
So he now called the names of the so called sisters.It was the name of the girl next door and her new friends.
Come see how they just spoil some ones reputation.
Well My daughter told her school mate those are not her sisters and .And her sisters do not hang out with them.
And by the way The brother must be very stupid to give girls drink at that age,.
Me is thinking I know the parents of these girls.If i should report them or talk to them my self. Or just do as if i do not know

I bet my life on it they will not.

For those reporting. I will tell you were it will end.
After fighting themselves and settling themselves.
Your mothers will come to you and tell you not to interfere in their marrage.
Your brothers and sisters will ask themselves or you . why you had to open your mouth.

Anyway i have cooled down a bit.
It was only last week i saw the bunch of them down the street hiding and smoking.
The only think that passed my mind was thank god that my kids are not among them.
They were afride i will report them . But i do not know ther parents from Adam so why bother

B$ i get smart answers my last born could pass for 8 or 9 years.
she is small childish and acts childish. even dresses childish

This foolish boy is my Daughters classmate (13) in the Summer he played stupid pranks , called house the Big Girl picked the phone and he says he wants to F**K my daughter (13) his bad luck was that his number was showing. My Bad luck is that when i phoned his mother she refused to listen even insulted me.
Well i saved the number just bin case.
Now yesterday i was going through the phone list and saw the number . I asked all my kid if that fool had phoned again.
Yes he had to speak to my last born (11).She was home alone.
You people need to see this boy. I do not know what country he comes from but his mother is German,. He has colored hair, Lip, nose and eye piecing am not sure about his thong.
My daughter (13) whos class mate he is says he is even quater to repeating the class.
If That happens he may land in my last borns class.


How did it all come about?

This girl next door i know her since she was born , she feels very free in my house (age 14) free enough to even come into my bedroom when am sleeping to ask me something. Or for me to message her into my handbag. . Besause she has repeated she is also in my daughters(13) class.
Well she came with some friends here to use the phone and call the boy to call them.
Only the little girl was home. And the Arrow of a boy now wanted to speak to my little girl.
I cannot talk to the Mother she is as stupid if not more than her son.
I have told my daughter (13) to tell the girl next door she is only allowed to come here alone and not bring her friends if i am not here or if she is not here.
I have told the llast born (11) not to let anyone into the house again if non of her sisters are home.
The big girl (17) told me that she has already driven them out of here b4.
She told them Ho ha that they are 14 and little girl is 11 so if the 13 year old is not here they have no biz here.
So what now.

What if the child is like 10 years not a baby

Coco29 we are not talking of just any child. even if the woman is not a prostitute and a normal working woman that dose not want the child.
The child is the out come of the pain your husband gave you a living remeinder

I forgot to add.
Nobody dear call that clild any name near me.

Well I may be able to give the child the bear necessities of life.
But not the love.

beckygirl:
i will advice the woman to take the child but not mixed him/her with her children.

because that child can inherit part of her mothers behaviour and she should be prayerful because that woman can come back to claim her husband.

Prostitutes Child.

I will not encourage my children to hate that child , its their brother or sister same blood.
Prostitutes are made not born.
I may never love that child but i willnot hate it.
I will not take care of it like something that is my own. But like something i am looking after for someone.
But who knows you may just see the baby and fall in love with it.

What if the mother wants to see the child

Memunah:
As human beings we all ve feelings which makes us human,at first i will be very upset(that is normal)and angry wit him for betraying my trust in him,But personally i will accept the child(i know it wont be easy because its not my biological child)but am a mother too and i know bringing up a child out of the matrimonial home has it hazards.So i will accept the child as mine.

really ? you will hug the child and give it a good night kiss?
You will say love you each time the child steps out of the door?

okwosi:
for d fact that it was not the woman's fault is still affecting her so is better they put heads together and solve d problem.

its not as easy to take in that child and love it.
If i hate the child what then?
Feelings are something that cannot be helped.

stay or go.
Its the man that has to do something about it. Its his child.
It was not his wife that held him at gunpoint to have sex outside

And tell them God dose not take bribe.
I never heard that Jesus took money from anyone.