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Why am just jealous.
No stop lying when you tried to compare your mother to me not only once i have decided to follow you till i uncover your lies . Just wait and see.

Well i do not tell  that kind of novel lie.
An Example.
Am a doctor , i graduated at the age of 21 got married at the age of 22 , had a baby at the age of 24 My husband was my one and only boyfriend. I had first sex on my wedding night.
I work do my household mind my kid. We pray b4 dinner. We do not raise our voices we go to church every sunday.
And i still have time for the net.
If i wanted to lie i would rather be a good girl than a bad one. ABI

Better to say nothing in this case.
Do not advise people what you will not follow up.
Go and read your posts the fairytale you have made up and give her your fairytale Barbara cartland advise.
Are you married to an old man.

Hey i never said i was a good woman or mother its about you miss goody two shoes.
What is a goody two shows doing on a topic like this. have a kinky mind or what

Why do so many people come here and make up stories about their lives
They claim all sorts of things they are not.
The typical am a super star story or i am a prof DR DR of mumbo jombo

venusmaze:
don't you guys think we should leave him and those interested to it on the thread?

So whats a good woman good daughter and good mother doing on a topic like this.
My daughter will never be found on a topic like this by the waz not even my mother

venusmaze:
Ima

If you two love each other and the age gap has not been an issue in your relationship, or you get on really well, go for it. Do not listen to what others say around you, as long as you are both making each other happy, you are comfortable with him, he respects you and does not put you down then all the very best. No one can tell you what to do, you are the one in the relationship.

so she should not even listen to her mother

venusmaze:
unfortunately many black men with these so called huge privates do not have a clue what to do with them.only the really older and more experienced men do. To answer the question , they love to date them because of the ''Myth ' surrounding their privates, it is for the thrills and then they get bored with them because they see that it was just a nice wrapping after all (reminds me of those Russian dolls) . Blackmen and their things --overrated

dose a good mother talk about things like this

venusmaze
You were so good in Quoting Lady T and what she said about personal life.
I advise you to keepyour mother out of this topic .
Every one takes their mother for holy OK.
But Back to , You Lie .
Mama put says you lie.
A Good girl never talks about here totto statues.
My daughter bleeps yes but you will never find her talking about her status in a forum like you are doing Married or not.
Go and be a good mama like your mama get off the forum and take care of your kid.

Its rudeand not done.
Well i have a set of friends and we spend time abusing ourselves.
But its only among this set because we know its not normal.
Maybe its JJc and she thinks its cool i do not know.
Let her know if she gose no like that she will not have many friends and if she has nothing nice to say she should shut up.

killacam:
men,your pastor use you shine in front of the congregation,4 real. as you fall people go think say u get that bad sprit 4 your body.i bet he is a football.damn
KILLA DIPSET ALL DAY NO HOMO

And if you do not fall then evil sprite is very strong

Maybe God has answered your prayers longtime ago and is showing you the true face of your man and what your marrage will be like.
God gave people free mind.
And God is not going to wave a wand and change him.

Well am not your mother and i have a mind of my own.
And i did not tell anyone to have a boyfriend. Go and bring one quot were i made that statement.
If i say its okey to have a boyfriend its not the same as saying go and get a boyfriend.
If i had started talking about my Village here ,21Bee would have preferred that to people asking her why she has a boyfriend.
By the way how old are the people asking her how old she is,?
Just because you want to play goody two shoes means nothing.
Its not about when you started but the number of men ABI
A woman can start dating at 30 but she can very fast overtake the woman that started with 15.
WE should start a topic with "How many men have you had sex with".

LadyT:
mamaput whether you like it or not if you ask people to put their two cents in you get more than you bargained for. Thats what happens. If you don't like it don't ask for public opinion.

And I only think your getting a bit upset because your daughter is her age and has a boyfriend and you feel like shes being judged.

Personally I would advise young people to have as much fun as possible theres loads of time for the heart ache that goes with relationships.
By thats just my two cents.

No am not upset but i judge people her age by her standard and she copes very well with boyfriend and school,.

ishmael:
So christians are infidels?? i never knew. i thought it was idol worshippers and pagans that are referred to as infidels, i mean those who do not believe in GOD?? Was Muhammad not friends to Christians and Jews during his time?? Did he not believe he was serving the same GOD with christians and Jews?? Did Muhammad not believe in Jesus Christ and other prophets mentioned in the Bible and Qu'ran?? There will always be conflict in this wide world, until muslims and christians see thmselves as worshippers of the same GOD. Mukina2, please what is your definition for infidel??

You forgot to ask her who are the people of the book , her holy bookreferes her to

Some men are the better mothers.
A woman like that can afford a day care but I think the kids are better off at home with the dad than in a Day care.
A woman with a very good job should not give it up.
A man may not iron well or clean well or even cook well but that is not what counts for children not at 8. and if they are much older and the state of the house is not good enough for them they can clean it up themselves.

Talk of answering a question:
That is a good question and i will like to know the answer too.
There are really many places in OT were God commanded to kill everything even the animals.
Some say Jesus came to teach a new way of life.
But many people still like to quote the OT to prove a point.
And according to ot unfaithfull women should be stoned to death.

am almost running mad about that one
its so annoying

Christino:
There's a new member on the forum who has about 70+ posts so far.

he goes into as many threads as he can and posts one single line: Na wa oh!

How on earth do we classify such as normal?

If you doubt it, check this link: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/action-profile/u-72724/sa-showPosts/start-32

Meanwhile his name is Oyinboaja.

venusmaze all she wants to know is was she cheating,.
she did not come here to ask if she is old enough to have a boyfriend.
And not because some people did not have a boyfriend all must do it that way.
Its like saying my way is the right way. There is no right way.
There are even married people with kids still studying.
That is the problem with Nigerians.When some one is telling something and asking . rather than just answer they go off point ask another question . well something like what is happing here.
The deed is done so just answer

He has a son,
Find out about the traditional law of inheritance in his place.
It is possible that the boy may grow up and kick you ot of his fathers house

Elizabeth:
How can i marry against my parent wish! is not possible.Who am i in the first place.

do you not value yourself.
They inheritance is going to the first son they are thinking of that.
But if she really wants nothing can stop her.
I would do it.

my papa get double barrel.
our village quarter to enter Asaba.
Anyway good night see you tomorrow.
That money will not even buy toilet paper.

ThiefOfHearts:
I guess I'm just not a fan of hypocrites MamaPut esp those that get on my back on things constantly while they do worse or watch their friends do worse things.

I am not a fan too but for me its limited to the religious ones.
Thats why i hardly go there

Toh i am a mature woman  am not offended.
We fight ourselves we settle our selves.
I do that every day.

you see so at the end of the day you want strong woman.
Anyway she wants to go to university and study accounts or some thing like that.
That makes it two houses ABI  igbo Bride price is high.
As i no get husband  i will still ask my papa what he wants. maybe also house.

chimaze:
Mamaput if I've insulted you in anyway or form I tender my sincere apologies.

The thing be say you talk plenty things way make your brother/inlaw vex.

I accept. But i do not blame you. I hear say UK Nigerian girls de fear well well for their man because nigerbabes de abundant. so if woman misbehave the next one is waiting to take him.
But me i fear nothing only cockroach

chimaze:
Why she no go marry? Babyosisi is a wife material anyday. All her post is full of wisdom.

She is a true woman and a mother unlike Mamaput.

3 insult am counting.
well like any normal of your kind you should be so mad now you should go and beat up some one.

Am sure because there were witnesses
And am sure he would have boarded that plane.
No be me get Germany but he would have boarded it.
Thats why they did not tell me who the person was.
You have insulted me and now my daughter calling her a lier.
Yes you do belong to the kind of men that say its a girls fault if she gets raped.
She was 16 when this happened and i found out the bastard was in his 30s and illegal here,
They even told me the reason for not telling me that i should cool down.
Even my daughter knew the reason for not telling me on time because she knows me.
The party would have scattered.