₦airaland Forum

uspry1 what is there to explain again he has explained more than once.
Sista are we all not desperate when it comes to matters of the heart?
Everyone has preferences not so?

Some men do not even care if the sit is up or down , They just do their biz and walk off with out looking back,
Some even do not put on the light in the night and some just cannot aim well.
Do you know what its like for a woman to sit in a flood? or step into one.

aviod smells and food you cannot stand.
normally after 3 months morning sickness stops i heard.
I do not know because i never had it with any of my kids.

No country in the world can permitt you to carry a gun in Nigeria,
Nigeria is an independent country.You will not even be able to carry on on the plane.

cute-ass .Is it not maria Magdalene that they wanted to stone . she was a prostitute not so  so who did she harm.
some people claim that computer language is only in small letters.

It is also an insult calling his name in vain.
In fact its even a bigger insult than using small letters to write his name.
By the way who told you that he minds.

cute-ass in that case you cannot compare the woman in question was only harming herself not others.
I am a mother of 3 daughters and i did not give birth to them for a man to beat.
He is not even the husband.
Any way jesus also said give god what is gods and the state its own.

I alway say . Kids are a suprise not an accident.
If the family of the pregnant unmarried teenager stand by her .
No outsider will come and open his mouth,
If my father would forgive me and let me have the child in his house. nobody will come there to talk to be.
If my father introduces the child proudly as his grandchild were is the disgrace.
I do not pray for any of my daughters to have a baby in teenage age. But if they do am there for them to help them with that child .
I will not see it as a disgrace.
A suprise baby is not the worst thing that can happen to a girl today

And there i was thinking he is one of those poor lost blacks that the white mother forgot to tell he is black.
I happen to know one woman like that she is mixed never met her black father.
She knows her father is black but she thinks she is white.

But these girls did not do anything because they were not allowed to have boyfriend in the first place.
The girls could not even report him.
I hope he gets a girl with many brothers .
let him meet them  and talk to them about his little problem

Has nobody told the guy he is not white

So you have the guts to beat up a girl comming from her fathers house?
Nawa
My papa for jail you

uspry1:
Get marriage first before getting pregnancy is a blessing from God. Getting pregnant before marriage is disgraceful to God.

Are not all children a blessing

When the Wallet is at home then the man is at home.
She should tell the mn she took it.
But some people do not like it at all in that case she should ask b4 taking it.
I for noe do not mind as long as am told.
I may think i have some money and go and eat out only to find out i cannot pay for my meal.

I will not call it stealing but after taking the money you have to tell the husband.
my husband used to take money out of my bag. Thats because he never went to the bank so it was actually also his money he was taking.
But I had to tell him to let me know what he took out.
Just think about it i may go shopping only to find out i do not have money to pay because someone took some money out without telling me.
My kids also take money out of my piggy bank for their needs but thats what the piggy bank is there for,. if they need something either for cooking, school or common Transport money when am not home they help themselves to piggy bank and tell me when i get home.
When piggy is empty they tell me.
But when my bag is at home am at home too and be it Husband boyfriend or kids no one should enter my bag with out asking.

I can count how many times i layed hands on my kids. And each time it was frustration.
Only once when my daughter was 3 and ran on the road and once still three wanted to throw something at me.
But i have found a better soulation.
My kids have all the freedom to do what they want and go were thery want sometimes i only find a note at home telling me were they are.
But they have to know for themselves were they can go and for how long. Because my motto is ."Nobody has to fight for their freedom but i can take it away from them"
They are not fools so they know by them selves that if they mess up they have a high price to pay. A very high one as that.

jjuummaaii:
please omoboy kindly hook up with the guy that offerd to giv u a contact, i don't think its a bad idea. I had an uncle who did same thin for his 8yr old son and there was such drastic changes in the boy

And the man never felt he was the one doing something wrong?
A man that cannot train his son of 8 years old ,what a mess.

But on the other hand i too was in boarding house in Nigeria.
And we had those using _{Apian way}(sp) sneaking out to go to parties, we had the smokers and drinkers.
Sometimes suprise inspection from teachers looking for everything that was not school uniform.

I should have said it suprises me that a Nigerian man cannot handle his son.
Well if the Mother is white then maybe he has no say.
I know its not easy i have 3 kids myself and am a single working Mother

By the way were is the mother to the boy.
Nipping at the bud starts from the birth of the child.

lets forget about what omo said or did not say at the end of a day he said nothing

It has nothing what so ever to do with beating the child.
Its about a whole way of life a philosophy if you want to call it that

Ho yes its easy to tell others how to bring up their kids and its easy to put blame one every
other thing except ones self.
When my kid was just 3 years old she would not hear one.
But the Nursery school teacher came and advised me to handle it fast.
She said the child will not grow out of anything it will become worse as she gets older.
Cut it at the bud , pull out the weed with the roots.
Oyibo method of bringing up kids is not for us (Nigerians)
All over the world people go to work and are not at home the whole day.
The boy is just 13 please.

It suprises me that a man cannot handle his 13 year old son.
I see many Nigerians here that try to bring up their kids oyibo style only to wake up to see that the kids are out of control.
I was at the busstop once and met a Nigerian that had just bought a cell phone for his 8 year old son.
The boy was packing it out and the father told him to wait till the get home. The boy did not even listen to the father. I told the boy in a hash voice to pack it away and he did it so fast.
I have warned the father if he dose not handle his son now he will grow into a monster.
Nothing can spoil a child that has a solid home foundation.

sisimose:
I don't agree with spanking or whatever you want to call it.

But with corporal punishment

It is not forbidden to spank a child.
You mean Trash the hell out of the chlid not so.
And whats the right boarding school in Nigeria.?
Please we all know whats going on there. What of in the holidays who is to look after the child.
Its always easy messing up and wanting others to clean up the mess.
send the boy to boot camp if you want

A man wants his wife to look like his wife and the mother of his children and his girlfriend like a LovePeddler

lamideey:
truth must be told,it is the fault of the women.try to look good for your husband,love and adore him.let him have a reason to always be at home.

So if we all look like you , our husbands will stay at home?? is that what you are telling me?