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chimaze now you have started to insult me.
you make my day. you have not disappointed me.
Talk of true colours.
And you dear to take the name of the lord in your mouth.

It shows the type of man he is.
Not more different than many of his kind.
Am igbo man for that matter.
Come do you belong to the type of people that blame women for getting raped,
Anyway you are now making me think I will never allow my daughter to go out with igbo man.
The last time my daughter was at a Nigerian party with me. There was this stupid igbo man that was all over her even tried to force a kiss on her. That type of thing had never happened to her in her life.
Pity she did not tell me on time. The other igbos there did not tell me who it was . They know me and that in some things i know no boundries.
The bastard would have boarded a plane to nigeria that same night

To butter your bread my husband did not want more but i did so i went ahead.
I knew i was ready to have them with or without the father.

my youngst is 11 not 7.
And after the first child i tried for years for one more to follow .The oldest will be 18 this year and the youngest 12,
I was not happy so i left ha .
some people can stay unhappy for the rest of their lives not me

I go out to the bar and meet  them.
They ask me were is my husband and i ask them were are their wives. We have a lot of fun together. I keep asking them to bring their wives but they say i will teach them their rights.
They want to keep their wives submissive.
And while they are spending time drinking way into the night , the wife the poor fool is waithing at home with the food.

someone asked his mother if she is happy she said now.
I wounder how many years.
If am unhappy a benz will not solve my problem only a man can think like that.
The same person should ask his wife if she is happy.

somebody said i have a family that means i cannot go out as i like.
Wrong i live onle once i have my life my kids theirs.
I have my friends my kids theirs.
It is my good right to go out once i have settled them.
And now even more because they are older

So some people have said the young man is a child and lap dog.
same gose to all women that are submissive.

chimaze man of little faith you are calling on Jesus?
You are like all Nigerian men i know in real life.
They all hide their wives from me so that i will not open their eyes.
These men are drinking  till day break  in a bar but they only allow their wives to church and work.
One Nigerian man ask me to boyfriend him a married man.
I said yes no problem but first we will go together and tell his wife she too is allowed to have boyfriend.
What do you think he said??
You men are all the same.
cheat on your wives with other mens daughters.

call it what you like .
My daughter is a head person not a heart person.
Maybe the lapdog is just a heart person that is in love and will do anything for her

Oh he is.
He is very good looking, very tall, comes from a good  family The only problem is that he is very shy.It took him almost 3 months to ask her out.But she knew he was interested so she waited.
Some men are quite by nature and do not like stress.

chimaze:
Mamaput You can pat your self on the back. What I know is that any woman that says she is happy to be a divorcee is a bloody lair.

This is what your post is directed at. That you're divorced and loving it. Mamaput You are the GREATEST LAIR OF ALL TIME.

thankyou you know am great.

That he loves his benz and will not allow anyone to drive it.
I send my daughters to hair dresser but cut my own myself.
what dose that have to say about me

Did someone here not write his mother is not happy.?

A woman has to lay in the bed she makes.
She has to make things clear to a man from the start.
For example she cooks for him so anyday he comes he will expect to get something to eat.
She dose not always have time for him so he will not be surprised that she takes time out with the girls.
She is very smart in school and can do his homework for him.
He knows now when he writes a test she will ask him about it because school work is important to him.
Its not her fault that he has an unconditional love for her.
If not she would have listen to his own rules take them or live them

GNature they say the way you start something.
She cannot control his life or command him.
But she is laying the rules.
Sometimes she dose not want him around she wants to do something with her girlfriends.
Sometimes his friends call him to play ball he will say no because he wants to see her. But she will make him go and play ball with his friends. Because she dose not want his friends to start hating her.
And if he has a test she will make him read for it and even help him.
whats bad in that.

You people are talking to me as if i am some white Arrow that dose not know what is going on.
Please i was born and breed in Nigeria went to boarding school.
And they all do it .
Am sure the Abotion rate in Nigeria is one of the highest in the world.
Thats the first thing a medical student learns to brush up his pocket money

babyosisi:
There's a big difference between the one you take home to mama and the one you just take home.

Not just take home. Join in family activities. like going to the granddads birthday.
Treated as part of the family.
The mother putting food down for her to eat.

I said i would let her move in not that i let her.
She is happy at home.
Morals my ass.Anybody that wants sex will have it. With our without our knowledge.
I was having sex and my people did not know.
What of the millions of parents that give their kids little or no pocket money to go back to school were is their moral. AS if they do not know their kids have sugar daddy.
lets not start about the double moral standard.
my daughter controls her boyfriend yes because girls at that age are more mature mentally.
He is not complaining.
And by control i do not mean she tells him when to sit down or stand up.
Whats bad in asking the boy to read his books and improve himself.
chimaze  my daughter dose not write here but but she reads sometimes. I might as well tell you "DO NOT SPOIL YEARS OF TRAINING IN ONE TREND"

Women have a better foresight.
Or is it just me.??
Behind every successful man is a woman as the saying goes.

oh he even bought me a car a few days ago.
I did not even ask for it.
Well he said its for his daughters 18 birthday in march.But it runs in my name and she will only need the car in the evening when i get back from work. and weekends . I do not work weekends

I hope it makes you happy i have trained my kids well.
As long as i can help it they will never be submitive.
My Daughter likes cooking boyfriend and petting him but at the same time she controls him.
makes him do his homework etc and etc. Yes i trained her well.

A man dose not have to be abusive to control his wife.
But as an adult no one can tell me when to go out and how much to spend or not to spend, A woman with all the money in the world that is not free is living in a golden cage,

Now i have to laugh again.
you will never find any were i wrote on how badly i was treated. Or on men hate.
Not every body gets divorced because the man was abusive or cheated. there are many other reasons.
My husband and i still get along with each other. we are not fighting and we never did.
Our divorce shocked many people and many still think we will get back together.
But that will never happen.
Has it occurred to you that some men are just not family material?.
There is a time to let go and we let go b4 a fight will even start.
Am not saying he did not try but he is not cut out for a family not with his hobbies,.
But he is always there for his kids when ever they call or want something.
My husband will never tell anything about me not to anybody. he is not that type.
And if non of us are blaming each other  who are you to come and put blame.
my husband knows he is not family material. Thats not his fault.
he too has a life to live so let him live it the way he wants.
If his idea of fun is Tramping and sneaking into Timbuktu getting caught and deported just for the fun of it thats his problem.

There were some other things but am not talking about them.

What i find so funny.
I have said it b4.
I have this Nigerian Friend. we laugh alot together have a lot of fun.
But i can never enter a relationship with him.
Now we get on very well the way we are but he has admitted if i were his girlfriend there are some things he will stop me from doing.And some things he will want be to do.
>Like smoking.
But why the hell will he want to change me if we get on very well the way we are now.
Well thank god am a head person. and not a heart person.

I know women maried for many years.
One year one tooth,
Am talking about the teeth the husband knocks out,

The nummber of years of a marrage has nothing to say on how good it is

For me its not cheating. its just sealing the breakup.
I will break up with him and learn from my mistake.Stop snooping nobody likes it.
She did not ask if she is old enough to have a boyfriend.
My daughter is 17 and has a boyfreind. Nothing wrong with it.

Her name is betty boo   or boop or ssomethinglike that not Idiot.
And she was involved in a big sscandal
I was a new commer then but it was all about the user(whats her name that faked her death)

yesher name was papermoon.
She not only ffakedher death but her whole life, from the job she had to the kids she had.
i mean did not have

Her name is betty boo or boop or somthing like that not Idiot.
And she was involved in a big scandle.
I was a new commer then but it was all about the user(whats her name that faked her death)

In our village we do not add tomatoes to egusi.
Thats for those that do not use palmoil.
And the Egusi has to cook for very long.
we also do not fry