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Even if a madman succeeds buhari, he'll do better him. 10 months like 10yrs for Nigerians.

newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME

Bro, I gamble as well upto now but wisely. One thing is I can't gamble what I can't afford to lose. I've been gambling since 2013 to date and presently I'm in the gambling house(bet9ja2 Ilorin) as I type this.
Gambling can take u from hero to zero.
I don't believe u can get rich thru gambling, having known these, I gamble for fun. Tho' I want to win but in my mind can't get rich here.
Take it or leave, if intend to stop gambling today, I would stop.
If u want to stop don't go near the shop, stop partake in that discussion,. Never play online by all means.
Immediately u get your salary keep it with your wife n give him warnings never to give u.
Telling yo wife, n colleagues your problem and your determination never to get there is the beginning of getting away your addiction.

B

newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME

Michelle70:
church and mosque is a place to worship not to hold political campaign

Stop this! Hotels are places for enjoyment but they campaign nothing is being mentioned. Take it or leave it campaigning in church or mosques has never been crime anywhere in the world.

We can see a working governor! Kogi state blessed with tyrants for 31yrs now. When a youth came we thought we're done with hooligan-style of governance but we got the worst. All projects claimed to have been executed were only done on paper.

The state billions borrowed fund were looted and hidden in banks according to the cbn. After the leaked secret nothing was heard.

Kogi state don enter one-chance.

How this take concern inec? I smell nothing but envy.

So sarki can still get sense?

I was surprised by the protest myself. Let them go to court if their is an initial agreement

Nigeria politicians go soon enter

dboY1123:
How please?

Some people on nairaland can't even differentiate right from left, be careful to take advice cos u will probably get discouragement.

However, op you'll get a good job with your discharge letter and statement of results. No problem. Even without statement of results lay your escuse with the employer, no results no in problems.

Buhari at work

naptu2:
Dr Olusegun Mimiko @Segunmimiko



https://twitter.com/Segunmimiko/status/1559330613311700996

This Donald duke isn't getting old?

What's good for the goose is good for the gander. No cost system in accounting. Everyway is a way.

At night there's a sure bet for light from 12:30-5:00am in my area in Ilorin but other time we use when we see

BentizilL:
Yet you and your people will sell your lands and family houses to have a taste of Lagos lives...
I hope you've good life and free yourself from unnecessary hatred...
Spits!

Nothing makes me laugh than a fool response. This is outright gibberish from a hungry ethnic mongering slowpoke

Augustenite:
See mumu Aba boys dey comment untop Lagos. Your useless governor Ikpeazu never do any meaningful things for Abia for more than 7 years. If Lagos is the second most unlivable city in the world, why your brothers no go back to SE that's most livable in the world.nna mumu don do. After 2023, all we go dey hear is Lefledum or biafla.

I laughed uncontrollably wen I read from a fool.

streetsoldier1:
And who is stopping you and your folks from staying in your liveable potopoto land

No sense here; no reply

ElSudani:
Partly because about 11 million Nigerians left their own states in the last decade to live in Lagos, putting enormous pressures on utilities and infrastructures.
Yes, the new light rail system was initiated by Tinubu as much as you would like to hear otherwise.

Population of Lagos is no where compare with Cairo in Egypt, Delhi India, and many more among developing countries like Nigeria.

Modphase:
Is that why your pathetic foolish Igbo father as been hating on the state right from the time of Azikwe ?

I shouldn't bother myself with this hungry idiot

adedehinbo:
lol,who carry your oil money? So south west doesn't produce oil too?are you not proud of your state? Relocate now

Where is the oil? How many barely per day? Lagos oil drill on newspaper
Moreover your people are here doing fine bara

Hussein035:
There's no state in your region as better as Lagos, even your family members are in Lagos because of joblessness in your state yet you still can't see those who developed and maintain the state as good people.

Useless IPOB, pls go back to your state and stop coming to Lagos for jobs.

We're going back to the country we belong. A hungry man like u will fight 4 tinubu instead of fighting 4 yourself. Lagos belong to us cos our oil money was used for the state.

ogunsbanjul:
This Lagos State developments dey pain you Sha. Anyway na so e dey pain your presidential candidate too.
You never see anything.
By the time Asiwaju takes over the mantle of leadership in ask rock. You will personal praise God for making it a reality. No be joke Asiwaju is the best candidate.

What do I expect to hear from u? Even when a Yorubaman die in silence they praise their tormentor in public with fear of confrontation. Curses are on Yorubaman by abiola, awolowo, kudirat and many more.

adedehinbo:
yes you re right and we love it like that,can you guys get out of lagos state?

No, until u give us back our oil money .
We'll leave Nigeria entirely.

Modphase:
Is that why your pathetic foolish Igbo father as been hating on the state right from the time of Azikwe ?

Pathetic individual like u? I'm not an ibo man.

If an armed robber, typical 419er is made a Lagos state govr he'll build reasonable projects.
Lagos is the 2nd most unlivable city in the world but these nuisances will come and hail Tinubu.

Realist12:
Yorubas can't be divided along religious lines. the NC has similar attributes with South west. those are the 2 zones with even distribution of both faiths , the only difference is there's no religious intolerance in the south west as everyone lives harmoniously with each other.

Are u speaking 4 yourself or 4 Yoruba. You're yourself not everyone.

lolu2019:
oga,yahoo don start before I enter school 2006.I even do pre degree 2005.nah greediness they cause am.yahoo boys are not lazy,they are just greedy.

Why are u in haste to quote me. Read btw the lines. I'm in university in 2009 n yahoo was known all over Nigeria but wasn't rampant like this. In 2003-2007, you must get to the internet cafe b4 u carryout internet fraud

Femifasola:
All these crying,. Any little thing in the east you guys will mention obi.
So you're also asking how Tinubu will manage skull mining in Ogun if he wins or how Atiku will do for the bandits. You guys are pathetic

I'm yoruba and I'm fully OBI-dient

You're ignorant of all I said. I never mention peter obi but chike obi. Professor Chike obi is the greatest mathematicians to come out of nigeria. He died about 5yrs ago

This is the time for Yoruba christians to vote wisely. Vote peter obi or Atiku Abubakar. Tinubu is out of this race.

Civil war claimed the life of over 2m people, majority are igbos. Imagine 2m in 1967-1970 from our growth rate would have been more than 10m.
I don't think we need chike obi(rip) to do the addition b4 know what would have the population of the east by now.
Be wise!