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Relax. Patience is key. Your old man wants you to have a house before you marry. Buy land where you are based. Show him the documents. Tell him you will build on that land within a certain timeframe. If your old man still insists on the village house. Report him to other elders in the family. He will calm down |
Another One. Seems fire hazard is too much in the farm. Or na d same fire? |
He has no problem as you lay your bed na so you go lie on top am. Let him get more babes. Na she go tire. Even use one of the babes to fight her sef |
Alexas58:then your uncle is just being greedy. do all the steps I advised |
what is mama position on his staying? well to me, na you get wahala. my house, my money, my rules. I don't take visitors both my siblings and hers becuase I love my privacy gan. familiarity breeds contempt. for the issue talk to his mum. he has gotten a job, its time to man up and start living his own life. whatever mama says follow. PS don't do it now wait till month end so that mama won't think u r chasing all her kids away. as for him. if mama gives u the go-ahead, tell him he needs to either a, get his crib or b pay for food and board. charge an exuberant sum for food and board. he will get the message. anyways know that when he is leaving you will refund the money |
administration of estates law protects your mum and the children. furthermore Ukeje vs Ukeje allows a woman to inherit. must I add the constitutional provision about no discrimination based on sex or manner of birth? the property involved was it in your fathers name? did it belong to him outrightly or inherited family property? if it was inherited family property, Native law will determine the sharing formula and yes your uncle has a portion. PS this depends on the customs of your tribe however if it was acquired by daddy during his lifetime, then your uncle is just being greedy. to protect yourself, get probate forms and fill. do not institute a case against the administration yet as it might lead to govt managing it. go round all the properties and mark this property is not for sale. |
hmmm |