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Do not buy anything that may be considered intimate. She is married and she works with you. Don't let unnecessary gossips fester.
Buy a very good toy for the baby. With that amount go to any mini sou shop in Lagos ( that is if you stay in Lagos) you will get good quality toys there. Or go to pep and get baby cloths.
Do not get anything intimate except you get another agenda. And if you don't find anything lasting buy diapers

Seperate your finances. If he wants to build let him do so but ensure you send a documented amount into the building project so it will be on record. Also increase your financial demands on the home front so that you can save money towards depositing for a house in UK for both of you.

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Hmm

Just man up bro. Forget them. Let them fight and quarrel its not your business. Mind your own business and that includes Mr A, Mr B, and ur younger bros. Ignore them all and face your hustle.

Yes.

Stop that play with another man's wife, whether na your brother own or not, stop am. U fit play other games with respect na.

He be like say one pastor Don talk say make u confess...
Anyways all habits are good or bad, since you know you don't like it or it's affecting you, go and do something about it by disciplining yourself.
Get new hobbies and interests and maybe you will overcome this

Yes

Hmm. One cannot actually say what occurred whether it was with consent or not.
However there is a child involved. U may report at the station for the alleged incident but also think of the child's welfare. I am not saying you don't treat the rape, also in the process ensure you get resources for the child also. So as the boss is facing jail, his money will be buying pampers

A scenario
Oga gets drunk at work and his secretary uses opportunity to take advantage of Oga. She gets pregnant, Oga has to take care of her, what will madams reaction be especially if maybe she is childless? Or what if madam decides that no be only Oga fit chop away rice and she revenge? What will Ogas reaction be?

stupidity:
thanks, what you just explained is nothing but greed from one or both parties. I believe couples facing this can put aside their ego and work on building the marriage. it takes a lot of guts to wake up, look your partner in the eyes and suggest a divorce as the only way out of whatever the situation might be.

May you not see troubles that is bigger than you. May you not carry load that is not yours. May you not carry load that is bigger than you. Things occur in marriages that may rock the foundation of the union. You do not envisage same during courtship, however it will arise during marriage. The reactions of the couple may lead to divorce. These issues are not limited to adultery, it could be ill health, an accident, a mistake, or even the death of a loved one. Things happen that one doesn't plan for, and how we react matters.

Nobody can say what causes couples to divorce. You can see people dating for a week and getting married forever and people who dated for years later get married and be divorced in a year. A lot of factors, opinions, perspectives are brought into the marriage that may not have arisen during courtship and when the parties now face such, the divergent opinions of each unit may lead to the other unit stating his displeasure in continuing the union, hence divorce.

broda wey mumu..

kudos

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stupidity:
8. This next story is the weirdest. Happened in the 90s as well. The two men involved, one was right at the back of my family house, while the other was kinda far but both men were good friends and hunters. So on this day, they both went hunting as usual, they mostly hunt at night. They do go in the evening and come back the next morning. So they went hunting as usual, getting to the hunting ground, they’d separate and hunt separately, so this man at the back of my house, was always fund of turning into a bush pig to terrorize his friend(co-hunter). He did it several times until luck ran out of him on this very night they went hunting, his friend shot at the bush pig, but instead he heard someone scream “yeyyyyyy, you have killed me” the shooter ran towards the bush pig and saw it was his co-hunter that was lying in the pool of blood instead, he quickly took his gun, ran out of the bush and straight to the police station to narrate what happened. In his statement “it was a bush pig that I shot”. That was how his friend died and was buried. This is no fiction as I attended the man’s burial just at the back of my house. Weird right?

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this is quite common. not the bush pig part but hunters mistakenly killing another Hunter at night

next time use a government hospital. it's cheaper and thier services are top notch. there are always qualified doctors.
and also, when ur wife carry Belle ensure u put aside something monthly for the birth and the naming.
anyways congrats on the baby.. na boy or girl?

YoungFr:
I don't want him to know I'm getting another cos that will make him think things are ok for me. His level of demanding nor be here

hmm. then scope him. just tell him you are getting one, and when he asks say something pressing came up.

he be like say na ur papa get the land? if not what is his business on how u take care of your property.
however I will understand if his reservation is that u are selling your assets, in that case ensure u let him know that you are getting another immediately. apart from that, he can only advise and not insist.

bro u didn't do anything wrong. only that u need to make amends to your uncle by apologizing. after that face your work. do not involve yourself with office gossips and politics. just mind your own business.
in future if u have any issues just go to HR and talk informally first, it's from thier reaction that u know if your issues should be made in writing. PS. also ensure that HR are your friends .

kk

Hmm. Incomplete story. The Landlord sued you and won his case.

Xisnin:
At the bold, why will you as a lawyer be encouraging statutory rape?

may we not see bad thing. may we be able to comprehend things. first is how old was she?

[quote author=masseratti post=79568418]its embarrassing sharing a country with a mind like yours... The girl is a minor for heavens sake and not married to him. [/qui
if u note, I asked how old was she when it occured. if she was 15yrs 364 days then it's rape. if she was 16 years then it's not rape. the law states less than 16 years.

Offpoint1:
You no gimme equipment you say make i start.... how I go find trouble when I never get number?

send PM

Offpoint1:
Your number Incase I ran into trouble, to slap SARS dey hungry these days.

find trouble first na...

Jeezuzpick:
He's 20. An adult.

She's 16. A minor.

Since no be Sharia Court, the law will take it's course. Sexual intercourse with a minor is a twin brother to rape.

the criminal code states less than 16 years. thats why I asked how old was she when it occurred.

wow FTC.. this is dedicated to whoever wants it.
as to the thread..
how old was she when the offence occured? can't the parties take another means of resolving this issue? maybe order the guy to marry the lady?
I have once seen where a court gave some strange orders in order to train or caution the defendant. this may be so in this case
anyways I am always available if you require legal advisory services.. meaning I be lawyer and trouble be my work.
ciao

hmm. let's hear his side.
but his babe must be so rich for him to be scared of her.
also.. he must be castrated and his ass given to the prisoners to fvck till death

this is wrong this is why one needs a lawyer when buying a property as issues like vacant possession will be discussed addressed and sorted. for me I would say until I get vacant possession of a premises before I can say I have bought or I fully pay for it. for instance if the tenants drag case for 3 or 4 years nko? I have had such horrible experiences.
now to the main issue. get concrete proof that it is the tenants that are stealing the property. if the agent can confirm they are the ones and is willing to swear in court to that fact. I will advise you arrest both of them immediately. you might not get the stolen items but you will definitely get vacant possession before month end.

I am on the opinion that u just lack motivation in your course of studies and don't see your self having a future in it. as a lawyer myself I get, but u can always combine the 2. that's the beauty of law. get the law degree just for qualification sake and then focus on your hustle.
there are a lot of guys out there who are lawyers and are into other things.
so just focus in school, then after u can do what u want. unfortunately we are not in America where dropouts end up being Bill Gates and the likes, we are in Nigeria where even PHD holders drive trailers.
get ur ass out of your head, face your books and combine it with your hustle