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Akerele44:
Na d juju b dat.. always look for a way to slap him twice in a day..e will always keep mute until u later find out that e already had 4 children outside

Don't state the obvious so explicitly na!

Palema007:
Aunty prepare for a divorce...it may be legal,it may not be. But I believe you are close if not erased off that man's heart. I would advise you summon courage and involve an elderly persons. Open up to them like you have here... This may not only save your marriage but it would go a long way in ensuring your safety.

Keep your hands to yourself una no go answer...see wahala you don put yourself into now.

Those advising that she shouldn't involve elders are either kids or fools... it will take a deliverance and sustained counseling for this man to heal

Tallesty1:
This story no add up.

It's either the woman is lying or she's not a good story teller.

She started by telling us what a horrible man the husband is. I was already having doubts, wondering if she was actually telling the truth or if she was trying to make herself the victim.

Seems the later was the case because she kinda shot herself on the leg when she said that her husband always reports to her parents. He tells them everything she do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting.

What are these things she do wrong? She didn't say.

I could be wrong though but I think the OP has been abusing this man emotionally for a while now.

She got physical finally and slapped him which to her was too far. She realized it later I guess. She was hoping he would call a meeting as usual and she would be blamed as usual and everybody will go back to their house but he didn't and that scares her.

She's scared because there's something ominous behind the silence.

If we want to be pragmatic, she's crossed the line, left a scar that may never heal. I have had a near-same scenario with young fellow friends, till date the guy seems not to have recovered from it, and it marriage is badly messed up

Yinkakolawole:
Call him to the room & apologize with tears on your face, if not one day he will just poison your drink & move on with another woman.

He does not need to poison her to be with another woman

Karleb:
Oga is planning something huge.

You know how predators play with their preys before devouring them?


Something huge dey come.
Something something huge dey come.

I think so too...

Ryda:
You saw where I quoted the bolded statement statement right?
Me not trusting an administration full of denials is my personal problem. Leave it that way!

Absolutely correct.... and I don't have a problem with that.... but when you submit a line that turns logic on its head like you did..... also not that I have a problem with even that, but just felt like pointing it out

Kate06:


More important personalities have died this year from bandits, acute hunger,kidnapping,rap and a host lot of social vices.

Some committed suicide as a result of failed bets and gamble.

I think the responsibility of this teenager's death should be on the Lagos State Govt and the FG should concentrate on how to make lives better.

He, the president is too big to meddle with this matter reason he has Govs, ministers to handle respectively such issues.

The Ikoyi building collapse,they meddled with it and now, its been swept under the carpet.

Enact laws to ban betting. Enact laws for price control. I heard the Police have not been paid Nov Salary. What is happening to the police service commission?

This is the first time i will comment this year on national issues. The govt is really not performing anything. No roads,infact, all roads are dead traps now whether state owned or FG owned roads.

Need I talk about employment? Why allow the youths into the sch when there are no provision after graduation? Is that not the biggest scam? Sch should have been free off charge since there is no provision of absorption after sch.

I have headache, I need to rest now.

You have headache becos it it not necessary to talk if you've not processed things properly

1. The death of the school boy is in national purview. It is only human that the President lends his voice. How that becomes less important to you is mind boggling
2. Ikoyi building swept under the carpet because the President meddled in it? What substance are you on? The owner died in the collapse, the LABSCA GM was fired, other investigations ongoing, what else do you want? Wake the dead and jail him?
3. ...and it's Govt's fault that some people decided to mortgage their lives away.

JustStupidity:
People that killed Sylvester are his fellow kids. So they're innocent, they don't know anything. And for the fact that you can spare and pamper Terrorist, then you've no other option than to spare them

Chai, hatred did not only make you say stupid stuffs nor use an appropriate moniker...but also be stupid

JustStupidity:
President doesn't have the right to interfere in AEDC management policies. People should learn to know their rights

and they told you the President did?

daddytime:
Regime of somersaults, denials and counter-denials.

No cohesion or policy direction.

policy direction in the happenings of a private company? Did you just use that phrase because you heard it and not bother to check the meaning?

Ryda:
“It is, therefore, totally out of place and inconceivable that the President would be linked to the management of a private organization, let alone sacking it.

So who sacked the guy man, or he was asked to step down but the media turned the story around.
But I don't trust this administration with their denials

How can you say "but I don't trust this administration...."? You're educated I believe, can a 40% shareholder sack a 60% shareholder?

Foodqueen:
Having sex with a preggy lady that is not carrying your child

Mehnn....

Na curse for where I come from...

daddytime:
The "Malaton" sex part did it for me...

My major concern for this whole story na the poor baby wey una dey rigmarole up and down like Fulani herdsmen come dey pour different akamu for the poor innocent kid head.

Such a disturbing story and mix to bring/raise a kid in.

Kog45:
It is on Nairaland you heard different opinions on what some don't even know anything about...Buhari cannot just act out of ignorance,he has the capacity to sack very fraudulent AEDC management........Imagine a company refused to remit pension funds of an employee to pension pensure company....also refused to remit cooperative monies deducted from staff salaries to cooperative thrift......many unpaid allowances ranging from productivity bonus,mileage allowance,

If AEDC management believe government acted outside it's jurisdiction then they should go to court and challenge the illegality.

Imagine a company spent a billion naira on jamboree training of staffs,not anybody faults but federal government that sold a company to a Zimbabwean when we have real business acumen in Nigeria.

Most comments here were based on hatred for FG,forgetting that Jonathan goofed on Discos...mind you am not in support of this government but sometimes we need to come out and condemn corruption,especially injustice against Nigeria workers.

Bros,

Just to tell you that on Nairaland, the ignorant buffoons are the first to jump at topics and demonstrate ignorance and lack of substance. You probably need to get to page 3+ (on the average) before you start seeing sensible comments

TheGoodJoe:
I like WhiteMoney's selense but he should keep the tracks coming. This will click for some but there is a track that he will drop that will blow the minds of everyone.

That is what he should keep pushing for. The talent is there, the knowledge is there, the charisma is there. Just keep pushing brother and keep shining.

Bros,

1. I don't even know Whitemoney neither do I follow BB Naija (I consider myself too old for that nonsense)
2. I came to this topic..... went on YouTube to listen to his song and I was like...... what the Bleep is wrong with people and herd-mentality? This song is a good song and well delivered....so what are people's problem? The moment something trends online seems everyone keeps their brains at home and follows the crowd...

Blue3k:
Its usually not hard to name people in publicly known organizations. Yes I watched the video and see he has a small following. I'll multiply by 10 since most members hardly show up to meetings even if they do pay dues.

I must change my stance and say its a small organization. The point about his weird press releases still stands. Unless he's some sort of control freak you would delegate task to other members or chapter leaders. Thanks for the information its been enlightening.

I am even more concerned that this is [most likely] a well funded organization and we must be careful where the funding comes from.

Blue3k:
Can you name 3 other members you met? I have noticed that in every press release he's the president, secretary and sny other officer position there is. You're telling me you witnessed him in bus loads of people which is new to me.

How can you ask me to name 3 other members? I am not a member neither a muslim...I only observe at a distant.... but to put your question in a context...let me point you to occurrences right under our noses

1. School / WAEC officials requested hijab wearing students to remove it to be accepted into the exam hall, who did the muslim community call?....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r3cLo8XG9-8

2. Sowore took his campaign to a target constituency....guess which body Sowore met?...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MslKNsd0SaA


Do you see his followers in the videos

Jayzel:
(laughing)
Wow i so much like the man behind this chat, i hope to see u some~day

My brother,

I strongly advise....Don't go that road.... you never recover from scenarios like this unscathed. The UBA lady is making a definitive move and such moves are precision guided. It is a "I must get this guy at all cost move". She wants to hangout all bills on her? That's a whole 9-yards move and you cannot even attempt to meet her half-way, it will not be enough... You have to be all in with her

There are some dangerous dimensions to this too.... UBA lady sounds like she wants to compete and takes no poisoners.... your friends, your girl friend, anybody.

....like Yoruba adage says "What you do not intend to consume, don't bring it closer to the nose to perceive.

Jayzel:
Can u say this in front of me ?

Even if you're elderly, I go wozz you factory-reset slap....

Jayzel:
....... plz help out peers.

Help out to what exactly? Validate your foolishness and needless lust?

Kriss216:
Women and their numerous wahala.

You cook, wahala
You no cook, wahala.


Wetin women want?

Blue3k:

omohayek: :

Exactly! The only reason why bloggers and the press pretend otherwise is because they know he will always have something ridiculous and outrageous to say, which is useful for boosting user clicks and selling more online ads. "Muric" is nothing but a single unhinged religious fanatic ranting and raving from his bedroom, and not once has Akintola dared to sponsor a standalone protest of his own that would risk showing the public just how little support he really has.

I honestly think this craziest phenomenon I've seen in the internet. I couldn't believe it at first when people brought it up until I saw nobody claimed to a member of this organization. The fact that he built up so much clout is honestly marketing genius that has to be studied. I'm hoping he's made money from a paid interview. Monetize before someone notable blast you.

You guys don't know Akintola that well...... his brand of "Religious Activism" and his penetrations in the society. I finished from LASU in 1999.... he thought us GNS 301(~1998)...

He had started his fundamentalism since the 90s to my knowledge..... I can tell you for free that he does have followership and is well funded. In the 90s I know his group had about 2 Hi-ace buses with Ahuja speakers on and they move around....

Akintola is not one to shy away from public debate (check his antecedents and current actions). At GNS class, he thought something about "Knowledge of Islam"; he was open to and practically encourage we Christians to ask him any question about Islam we needed clarification....

Under our very eyes Akintola is embedding himself and his platform into strategic aspects in the society unfortunately we're taking an uninformed narrative about him..... we may find out one day that his group becomes a political force......

ChiefSosa:
If sanwo-olu is sensible like I expect, then he wouldn't associate himself or even trust MURIC. Those guys cannot be trusted. They're only after themselves, not the welfare of the general public.

Well somewhat considerable.... but when those whom he initially invited for the Walk-of-Peace rejected the invite, refused to sit-down and dialogue like reasonable people, rather chose to behave like spoilt kids with allegations and lies that they cannot prove, then others who volunteered would definitely be welcomed.

The irony is that Sanwo-olu is taken a dangerous but decisive step on this matter. All these "Soro-soke" gang had better pray the Walk-for-Peace flops. If it succeeds, Sanwo-olu would have accidentally developed new sets of voices that will shape the narrative...

ejimatic:
. I will not respond to your comment because it is characterized by uncouth and unrefined expressions. Ensure that your response has elemnts of civility always. You are however entitled to your opinion.

Don't bother responding..... as your blatant lies are exposed.....

ejimatic:
Are you aware that 14 petitions of Lekki shooting alone were presented before the panel? Are you aware that Mrs Ibrahim before the Lagos Panel mentioned names of 12 among those that died in massacre? Are you aware aware that the army took some corpses away? Are you aware that the army didi not come to the panel to answer questions on the event? Are you aware that there are hundreds of casualties treated in various hospitals at Lekki after the shooting? I stand with the conclusion of the Lagos Panel

1. The same Ms Ibrahim that refused to show up again when she was summoned for cross-examination?
2. Army took corpses away? to where? evidenced by what?
3. Army did not come to the panel? Did you take Ukpuru-miri or something? Gen. Ibrahim Ahmed Taiwo is from the Boys Scout?
4. 100 of casualties treated in various hospitals at Lekki after the shooting and non of the petitioners deemed it fit to get those 100 of hospitals summoned to testify?

You stand by your beer-parlour conjectures you mean..

shiwex:
Why should they appear before the panel..so the government can kill them? The ones that appeared are already being attacked.

...and the government that could "kill" them at the panel can no more kill them in front of their house?

waldigit:
Take your position on issues based on what you are emprically privy to. Just because some people said no name was mentioned, that is it. That's why I asked the questions. Who was at Lekki? Who was at the panel hearings throughout? Who has gone through the 300 plus pages of the report? Not even Lai Muhammed. I took my position on Lekki based on my personal findings. I have inside source who confirmed it. I was at LASUTh the day victims from Lekki were taken there. I have a relative working there who confirmed what I saw to me. This informed my position. Always develop skills if finding out the truth so that you can be a smarter person.

Bros,

Speak for yourself and not hold (deluded) brief for others.... and save us of all the comical claims underlined above

LegendHero:
Lol. I said the same thing on the former thread.

Only God know what suddenly happened that the people that were so damn scared of coming out about their children suddenly summoned courage and went to the government office to protest.

They have turned this thing to comedy.

...and comedy it continues to be when we allow people that should be arrested be taking center stage needlessly. The Adetoun should be arrested and queried on how she came about these women. The women should be arrested and show proof of their lost one, identities, autopsy report or death certificates etc.

These people are playing with something sensitive and risks putting themselves in bigger trouble

Ade3131:
Bros wey mumu, please gimme a video where your governor used that word (bolded above) on the said day he acknowledged the death of one person.

And just to show how smart you are, your governor met the wounded at the hospital and it was confirmed on camera that those victims had bullet wounds. Does it mean that your hit squad that opened fire at the Lekki Tollgate did selective shooting? Like hey there, lie down and lemme shoot your leg.... You there, freeze! I'm aiming at your arm.


Bcus that's the only way to ensure nobody gets killed.

Remember where the counter allegations started?

The military was not at the Lekki Tollgate.
The military was there but did not fire any bullets.
The military was there, but only fired blank bullets.
The military shot live rounds but only did so into the air.

How do you explain these to your 4 year old daughter at home that all those statements actually meant the same?

You're a bloody waste of my time. Sanwo-olu said, the pathologist confirmed at the panel that the only death recorded on the 20th was as a result fo Blunt force Trauma. The second death was brought in on the 21st (the next day) with bullet wounds, pathology report has it that he was hit with bullets (pellets) [from locally fabricated guns]

[quote]"He tweeted, “Information reaching us now is that a life was lost at Reddington Hospital due to blunt force trauma to the head. It is an unfortunate and very sad loss"
https://integrityreporters.com/injured-victim-of-lekki-shootings-dies-in-hospital-sanwo-olu/


https://twitter.com/jidesanwoolu/status/1318862090833174530?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1318862090833174530%7Ctwgr%5E%7Ctwcon%5Es1_c10&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww..ng%2Fnews%2Fgovernor-sanwo-olu-makes-u-turn-confirms-a-life-was-lost[/quote]

PeaceJoyLove:
What kind pf intelligent talk is there to discuss with a dundie United who cannot differentiate btw law of karma and show of happiness at the death of others?

What should be done to an idiootaaa who wanted to score cheap goals blackmailing one with show of happiness of the dead? You are a wicked soul and an idioota. So, your intelligence is to blackmail people with cheap scores? You are an idotaaaa. Dont ever try that nonsense with me again. You can do it to your fellow dundie fellas.

You arent capable of engaging yourself in any intelligent talk. Na noodles full your brain. Continue enjoying your noodles, a no dey disturb you....Mu.mu.

Well if you're capable of celebrating and making reference to the death of Okeke just for his entitled political choice, then I believe you're a dangerous human being who should be pointed out to security agencies for surveillance. I am not even going to assess you for intelligence....far from it... what intelligence do I seek from a you who do not value human life? Law of Karma? You do not know the meaning of Law of Karma... if you do, you will know that there is absolutely no nexus between Okeke's person, acts or deed and what happened to him.

You need to visit a psychiatrist. Your despicable soul in on a path of redemption.... I just pity you kin, cos in this your state you may potentially visit this your "Law of Karma" on them