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wirinet:
From just reading the report of the Lagos State Pathologist, I can conclude that Sylvester Oromoniyi died from biological intoxication and not chemical intoxication.
Here are the proof from the report;


The Septicaemia must have entered the bloodstream through the oesophagus and stomach. This must have been from the liquid he was alleged to have been forced to drink. This was probably why the infection affected all the vital organs so fast.


Evidence the school and parents were treating the wrong diagnosis. If they had started treating the boy for acute and aggressive bacterial infection (Septicaemia), Sylvester would certainly have survived.


Instead the school and parents were treating for orthopedic injuries. They were massaging the body of Sylvester and giving pain relievers.



Further evidence there was no evidence of bone injury. All the ankle abrasions were as a result of aggressive massaging.

My conclusion
Sylvester was beaten and bullied, but the physical beatings did not kill him. It was the liquid he was forced to drink. Now since our we don't have labs in Nigeria that can carry out a complete toxicology examination and the body and all organs had been tampered with coupled with cover ups from all those involved, it will be impossible to prove Sylvester Oromoniyi was murdered. Biological intoxication is much more difficult to prove that chemical intoxication. You have to determine exactly how the biological agents were introduced into the bloodstream.

This has got to be the lamest and dumbest analysis of a case in history. It is worse than cut and paste.... worse still it is a misrepresentation of the misrepresented facts.

Barcaking2:
.....
Shame to all the so called celebrities who jump on the bandwagon. Seems they want attention from this calamity rather than wait for reports from both the law authorities.

Some of us called this out back then. It didn't just make sense that Celebrities and Social Media influencers were jumping over each other to make statements and videos crying, some insulting others. Many behaved like people lacking in wisdom..... I have come to conclude that beyond what you see on screen, many celebrities are as daft as they come

Brendaniel:
You see one thing I hate about Nigeria, secrecy is too much, something happened to the boy in the school which led to him falling sick and died, why are they not investigating the cause of what led to him falling sick based on events that took place in the school, the boy has friends, till date nobody has heard any testimonies from his friends and other school children in the school, secrecy is too much to be released to the public, there is no way witnesses would not have been in place during such event, but then this is NIGERIA

The same way, herdsmen will attack a village and police arrests the herdsmen, they find out who sent them, secrecy starts:
POLICE- You know the person involved in this case is the brother to the uncle of the inlaw to the sister of the wife of the president, we cannot divulge such information to the public, this is national security issue...

They are released to continue their havoc, This is not national security, this is Nigeria...

Except you want to work towards a preconceived answer, there is nothing you put up there that the police did not do in investigation. They invited the boys in question, investigated the teachers and students, watched CCTV recordings. They also relied on Pathology and Toxicology report....which showed there was no evidence of blunt force attack neither was their toxic substances in his system.

The problem with many of us is that we would have followed the herd in making conclusions instead of waiting for the outcome of an evidence-based investigation...

socialmediaman:
This was your intention all these while, to prove that his family was lying. I don’t have a problem with that, but you could’ve been honest with that when I asked you on the previous thread you created. Instead you claimed to be doing an unbiased reporting even when multiple people were calling you out.

What was wrong with saying, “I’m here to prove to you guys that the family was lying?” Why tell people you were doing an unbiased reporting when you were clearly pushing your own agenda all along? Talk about honesty

So if evidence suggests and proves that the Oromonis were lying all along, that amounts to pushing agenda?

Austeeenxx:
How many times will they tell you that the "y" in "your" girlfriend is silent?

Hausa:
Interesting. I lived in Owutu myself in the late 90s to early 00s.
Was living close to Inglewood. Don't know if you know the school.

I think I have a fair idea.... my first day moving into Ikorodu, someone bashed my car from behind. Na so we carry ourselves to Owutu Police Station...

NnolimNzubechi:
Hello Nairalanders.
It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me

Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..

Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.

So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol.
I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him

So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.


So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.

What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..


Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke

Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....

Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa
...
My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??

Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks

Gawd! what an entitlement mentality!

The moment you turned 18, you became a full-fledged adult by law, and capable of fending for yourself. If you will not listen to your Dad's instructions, then he has the right to throw you out. That you have ulcers and stuff not withstanding.... you can as well go and work and earn money to treat it.

If you continue on this path, you will not only incur your father's curse but also end up in waste....

Aidejay:
Firstly I will have to fault that priest.

he didn't act in wisdom. This is something he should have asked the holy spirit to help him navigate. Not to come on the altar and start ranting.

But this is not an igbo thing, it happens in many churches.

Something similar happened in a church I attended that was made up of many Yorubas, Yoruba songs dominated but the pastor a yoruba man changed it. Now songs from other languages are being sang.

Even songs from minority tribes,
and everybody sings along and enjoys the service.

This is why I like Yorubas very accommodating people, accommodate other tribes and their cultures and sounds.

I like a diverse church but you can achieve it without coming off as an undiplomatic person.

except if he has tried previously to introduce a little mix into the church singing and the igbos refused, that doesn't justify this his overreaction.

NOW THE CHURCH IS DIVIDED.

I was in the Choir in my young days and was a lead singer in the Choir band. I remember some Igbos aunties chatted me up one day that I don't sing Igbo songs at all, I only sing English and Yoruba songs. I told them I was afraid of bastardizing the songs as I don't speak Igbo and some songs I know the tunes I mess up the lyrics. They encouraged me to learn, I got some tapes and learnt. I love the fact that many of the Igbo songs I listened to on tapes had a great blend of Tenor and Bass that makes it sound like Zulu songs.....

Mzflexydeeva:
I am forced to comment. I am not saying what this priest has done is right but I can understand a bit of what he is saying. Banning is the solution rather ways to foster harmony among all tribes in the church should be sought for.


I for one, I am a catholic but going to church in Lagos has been very discouraging. I have attended a mass where the priest was practically giving sermon in Igbo. Most priest especially those from the East forget the term universal when they mount the pulpit. It’s actually discouraging when at a mass all the Igbo people are laughing over what a priest has said and you just sit there lost. If you are not Igbo sometimes going for mass is no use. Just find the readings and stay at home because you won’t enjoy mass. I am not Yoruba either but I know of a church that has Yoruba mass and others in English. So maybe having an Igbo mass strictly for igbos would help.

I agree with you. The Revd. Father being young and impulsive could have gone about it the wrong way. I see that many at times churches are using platforms which ordinarily should have served to unite the body of Christ to divide itself. I was driving along LASU-Iba road one day and I saw a sign-board "XXY IGBO-Anglican Church" I was like for Christ's sakes what is the meaning of this? If we go by the mantra Christ above all, then we will be guided

I am careful not to base by judgment of the situation of a potentially skewed reportage of the media....

Even though the beauty of worship is seen in our local dialects... but reversal of it is despicable and in bad taste. Some churches being mere association of ethic collectives and village meetings rather than true house of God. Positions and service functions ends up becoming guided by ethnicity and the place of God is relegated.... trust me such churches become spiritually stagnant...

I am an Anglican. I lived in Ikorodu till 2010. I remember when our church newly started... the then Bishop Adebiyi had cases of churches some churches with ethinic-laced challenges which was affecting its growth. He came up with creative solution - All churches stated from year 2000 upwards will conduct services in English and not any Nigerian language. Prayers and songs could be sung in any language....

My Church St. Paul's Owutu grew fast, we had a well blended congregation and we were more like family. Any time I visit Ikorodu and the church, I feel at home with people of all races, peoples, ethnicity and colours. This is what Jesus wants...

I want to give the Revd. Father a benefit of doubt that this is a typical problem he was trying to solve...

PS: If this was the "offense" does it warrant suspension? or is there something else?

chigator2:
You can go on and on to defend your senility.

If I was protecting GEJ image, I won't even create this thread. Logic seems far from you.

Anybody can cut and paste.... I wan'st protecting GEJ my arse.... Where is your moral compass I ask again......

Lasunray01:
Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.

Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.

I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.

I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.

Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.

Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you

Your case is simply laid down as such
1. You have extra-marital affairs wantonly and unapologetically
2. You have a caustic-mouthed wife
3. You wife blackmails you at every given opportunity
4. You wonder what will happen when you get abroad?

These are my take on what will happen when you move abroad
1. You will be buy a house, cars and stuffs
2. You will have extra-marital affairs in bigger proportion
3. You wife will not only break stuffs in the house, she will call the police on you and throw your things out
4. You will be ousted from your house... give the mandatory 200yards restriction...and divorced
5. Your visit to your kids will be supervised
6. You will pay child support
7. You will try to pick up your life again.... marry another woman.....have kids....
8. You ex-wife will complain that she's not getting enough in Child support..... get her lawyer to dig into your finances....find out you've been promoted 2-3x with a span of time....then your child support payment will be recalculated and recaliberated. You will discover you're owing backlog of child support...
9. Meanwhile you wife at home will wonder when are you ever going to support her and her children as a real Dad should...she will complain of distractions and drama with your ex-.... that you're not doing enough at home financially. For example you will be paying mortgage in a house that you ex- will be living (where other men will come and wozz her), yet you will not have enough for mortgage with your current family... your current wife will be frustrated and ask for Divorce....
10. You'll wake up and you're 60....and fvcked....

Hope this helps

Cheers!

Blackfire:
And you are what??


All you southerners trying to make the North look bad...anyway we will meet in 2023 election



Bunch of wailers

Unfortunately in your unnecessary agitation, you will miss out on being educated on what you do not know. Is it legal to collect consultancy fee? Yes! Is it legal to collect consultancy fee knowing that the nature of a contract is corrupt? Absolutely illegal. There are local and international laws that put this in proper context for example the FCPA Act. How can you claim to be legally collecting consultancy fees from a contract clearly riddled with bribes and illegality?

chigator2:
You sound like a silly child. What has become of comprehension before speech amongst supposed learned people in this country.

If I was excusing the government of GEJ, I won't even make this thread.
The individual quoted in my post was infact trying to make corruption seem like something peculiar to GEJ Administration and PDP in that post and his past posts.

You see people use the word comprehension and you honestly believe you're fitting to be in the same sentence with "Comprehension"?

So how was he trying to make corruption seem like something perculiar to GEJ administration and PDP in the post?. If you are not suffering from comprehension deficit, you would have seen from FreeStuffsNG submission that it was essentially about explication of the implications of the heist in questions. Were those things mentioned fictions? Did it not happen? Are they not consequences and outcomes linked to this corrupt Malabu contract?

I find it surprising that you're more tuned to protecting GEJ & PDP's battered image at the expense of excusing a damnable corrupt act. Where is your conscience? Where is your moral compass?

jaytee01:
You have comprehension problems.
That post did not excuse corruption from anyone, it was a response to a false claim that only the GEJ government that can be regarded as corrupt.

I have comprehension problems you say? Interesting! You also said the post did not excuse corruption..... It actually did worse. The post did not condemn corruption but tried to deflect from the principal culprits in this particular case. Pray tell what is more important in this context? the gravity of this wanton stealing or the lame attempt to find a soft landing for GEJ? why is it important in this context if only GEJ government can be regarded as corrupt or not. You lot are not even interested in getting the culpable ones to pay for this crime?

As far as am concerned what I see is a case of "my thief is lesser than your thief" which I find as classless, morally bankrupt and highly corrupted mindset.... I dare add highly unintelligent argument to booth

Blackfire:
Is that a crime to collect consultation fee?

in a corrupt deal yes

chigator2:
Are ex - members of his Government and party not part of your preferred party today.

Leave your online talk, if the crop of people you currently support remain at helm of affairs, then the only direction Nigeria can go is downward. And that is the case today.

Nigeria 2022 is worse than Nigeria 2015. Facts. More woes anticipated. Argue with yourself.

typical argument or a corrupt and classless mind. Wanton stealing of our wealth us shown to you in white and black, you still find a way to excuse it....

Truvelisback:
He would only do that when he is in power. Him no wan cast himself b4 Buhari, that's why he is acting; the man is good b4 Buhari and others.

Even when in power, he can't and won't. Do you think any sane man will let loose irritants to disturb his government? Do you think government will watch the likes of Kanu, Igboho and El-Zaki form another government in a country?

Vickyvice:
Useless . Y not direct this seriousness on agitators kanu and igboho to herdsmen killers, Boko Haram, bandits, iswap terrorists. Idiot

Tucano is already doing a good job at that

Btruth:
if the person in question is humble enough to take advices from us, why should I be worried about nuisance like you that's only been bought few data by your parents to run your phone?

Go and learn your manners.

Who are the "us"? You consider yourself important? The quality of your submission is so lowbar... your intelligence is not even basic to address decent conversations

I'm only shaking you a little you're sobbing, stay on this lane...you need to be taught what home failed at doing

Btruth:
like you know the value of my sentence muppet?



......who asked you to jumped into matter that doesn't concern you?

eranko!

Dodoyoyo! you consider yourself important.... "fall your hand..." crap. Even if we're talking of someone of value, who are you in the mix? And if you know you don't want me to "jump into a matter that doesn't concern me", why then are you commenting in public space? you despicable rat...

adetula148:
Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". .

Bros,

I did not bother to read your story, I was just skimming through...and lo and behold I found what I knew would be the end....

2dice01:
Men are cheap

As a man.... with this kind of OP.... I agree men are cheap....

autolearner:
Excellent work... you should share the resources you leveraged for study, so that other interested in towing this path may also be utilize it.

All the very best.

Many tutorials on YouTube

Idzitari1:
Awesome, but the colors are too looking shouting. Great job keep it up

Good point. You sound like someone with good eye for Visualization...

Ugaboy:
Nairalander, please rate my performance

First and completed Data Analytic Visualization Project... coming from zero to here just in two weeks...I would love to xplain everything in details but I think it not necessarily...this an analysis for U.S Passenger Dataset, I cant rate this so good...I want to xplore some more chart that can carry so much detail and prediction.

Though there is no prediction on this visual...but tell the story of the performance.

The dataset contains Date, Country and numbers of passengers.

With the Analysis, you can make prediction months and days U.S are likely to have more passengers traveling or migrating.

You can also tell the exponential growth, why 2020 has the lowest passengers

Though I have some Machine Learning project on Python, Excel and Statistics (I just choose to share this cus I joined a monthly competition on LinkedIn)

Let me stop here, I see how you all rate a new Barber, graphics designer.
Come and do this for me...man want to feel encourage

Great work. Did you use Tableau or PowerBI?

edoairways:
In this case it is different. Her service is pay on delivery. She was not wise enough to charge him before delivery knowing fully well how some Nigerians behave

...and that is why she cannot be absolved of her lack of thoroughness

Btruth:
You've not done well at all. If only you know the stress of traveling from Iyana-ipaja to Jibowu nii,.....you won't be here giving unnecessary excuses.

You fall my hands.

and what is the value of that your hand?

Stress to Jibowu? Business is not for the lazy... If you don't want stress, don't do business

Scrap:
You intentionally ignoring this question.

what about the linoleum?

As she won't be able to easily sell it due to the cutting. What happens to the item

Why did she cut the linoleum before payment. Is like you called a "mama alaso" in Oke Arin that you've never met and she proceeds to cut 90k lace materials and send to Motor-park before payment...

akpunda86:
He has 100% but on time at least 12hrs bf time. bros I personally know d seller as she dey hussle not wen one in a park u cancel Ur order

I suspected this was behind all the venoms thrown the way of StarchAndBanga

Apus:
The moment you requested for the goods, there is a contract already binding between both seller and buyer. You reneged on this. You could compensate for the cost of moving the goods from the shop to park in good faith.
That said, It's about time we begin to think of using professional ESCROW services to avoid cases as this.

There was no contract.... What has been exchanged? There was only an understanding or intention...

Bluffly:
So you don't have the money yet and went ahead to place order. To what end. Are not suppose to have earned before spending.

Same question should also be asked of the seller; was she not supposed to have had at least a deposit before cutting her linoleum?