₦airaland Forum

Olu is getting fat

donbachi:
And ASUU is still on strike

But all Kaduna Tertiary institution are not on strike

tfelicityk:
She should forgives herself first so as to get out of the psychological and mental truma she put herself. She should make sure the children seek for forgiveness from their father and they should gather all the people who witnessed their lies against their father, so as they will confess their lies. Those witnesses can also forgive them...

Secondly, the husband never divorce her. If she still loves her husband. She should go and do the needful so as to return back to her home. She should ready to accommodate the mess she created....

Lesson: she failed as a wife to build communication, tolerance and endurance, patience, forgive and forget, trust, trust and trust in her marriage.

Your take sounds like an expectation of a romantic novel. The piece said the man is about to get married to another. You want her to go back to a home she had already destroyed by herself and at the time the man is about to rebuild?

KingPipmarshall:
Enjoy life with my new wife. Then do DNA tests to be sure my daughters are mine....give them their inheritance. Since they are big girls, they should only call me when it's wedding day.

For me, I'd disinherit them immediately... I will not even be interested in their weddings... I say I will be far away from the accident of a wife and her daughters...

janvier27:
You suddenly remembered him because he is doing well. If he was nobody, nether you nor your daughters would have looked back, talk less of any confession.

She even regretted the man was not in jail... She would have been celebrating his downfall all the while and what triggered her anger was that something good is happening to the man

Transcriber:

LordIsaac: :
I will forgive them. But, I will have NOTHING to ever do with them on this side of eternity! Very serious allegations, I must say.

they are still your children at the end of the day. He obviously spoilt them for them to be so wicked

They should be my children from far away...

TheWolfen:
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Madam pls move on.

I particularly hate people that fail to trust one in desperate situation like this very one.
You made your choices and even went ahead to file for divorce.
God forbid but if I were in your husband shoe. I will forgive u and your Jezebelic, Delilah children but won't have anything to do with y'all anymore. It is even good y'all are miles apart now. Let the man start a new family that won't send him to early grave. If you and your children should need advice call but don't visit. Stay far away from his new home

They should not even call. They should just stay as far as possible. What if the man had had a heart attack and died on top this lie?

bluefilm:
I don't blame the woman for divorcing her husband at that time because she was acting out based on the prevailing situation.

But this life is a gamble and once you make a decision, you better learn to stick to that decision.

The only thing she can do now is to seek for forgiveness from the man.

There was no prevailing situation. There was a situation that required careful calculation and decision. What happened to a separation for some time. The Divorce was a self-induced shot. You take decision to divorce when you are absolutely sure and when all evidence points to him as the culprit. Let's even assume that she was confused, she didn't even leave a window of opportunity to redeem either the husband or the daughters in therapy.... went jumpy on the divorce train. The husband you shared deep, challenging and intimate moments with is one you choose to cast out so quickly

If I were the husband, my position will be to stay far away from this Jezebel and her daughters.

1. By law your Father owns the property .
2. You have not say in how the properties are administered. It is not bequeathed to you, any attempt to meddle means you're going out of line.
3. This your (and your siblings) sense of entitlement is worse than the man selling the property. Is this property the only thing you live for?
4. You better be careful, if you anger the man, he may exclude you from the Will.

Meanwhile, stop looking at other people as yardstick or signpost to your progress. Davido's father is not your father. What Davido's father gave him to start is not your business, nor your model to progress in life. Go and work!

Animegirl:
Put the microphone on speaker.

Men if you can't carry nine month old pregnancy or go through labour, you don't have any right to ask us what we bring to the table. T for thanks.

What a lame take! You mean when you hear what do you bring to the table, all that comes to your mind is to be an "abodo"(be fed and fvcked)?

Heffalump:
This people are not freedom fighters but terrorists.
IPOB has be infiltrated by thugs and criminals.
No sane human being takes power in this format. It thus clearly shows that the SE cannot produce the next president. They are not ready, at least for now.

How can IPOB be infiltrated when this is exactly what their leaders threatened and expressly directed

Heroicvic:
This might be fire outbreak or something
This isn't how they've been operating in the last 5yrs

No evidence whatsoever or any witness to validate this claim

Make everybody gettat abeg

Who needs witness with the "efficiency" of UGM

airsaylongcome:
DSS and Nigerian Army at work /s

No way an Igbo man will burn down the store of another Igbo man

continue in your line of reasoning, no one stops you

Proudlyomonna:
Everything still balls down to the fact that the Nigeria security system is a very big joke �
If you can't go against this ipob's esn/ugm bastards and their sponsors how you go come fit defeat boko haram??
Igboland will win this.
Destruction will soon befall Simon Epka and his esn/ugm with all their supporters.

You know logic suggests it's needless to expend energy on those who hit self-destruct button and protest when security agents attempt to quell it.

Peterobiisathie:
I stand with Mazi Simon Ekpa

We don't want you to stand any other way...

rollywise:
You can clearly see she's the only girl there in the room that means she came to their room. She must have been having a crush on that girl. Maybe you don't know, kids now lust on themselves even in primary school. Anyone who calls that rape is shameless. I read the school won a total of any 36 trophies. The girl is already too exposed. See the way she rode on the kid, she's practicing what she has watched over time. Exposing kids to gadget just because you can afford it is not love for a child o. There's time for everything.

Chrisland response

Girls were logded at the 11th floor, Boys on the 4th... this can only suggest she snuck out and found her way to the boys room in the middle of the night.

kullozone:
That her mum tho... What kind of person is she?
Didn't she see the video?

And she still get mind dey show face... Talking rubbish

Age is not equal to sense aswear

That one weak me. It seems there's a grand conspiracy to divert attention of something in plain sight. I was flabbergasted with her allegations that her daughter was threatened, taken for pregnancy tests and all sort...

backnbeta:
I'm sure the children were chaperoned to ensure proper behavior- they couldn't have been sent to Dubai without a guardian! Thus, should start by sacking the chaperones for neglecting their primary duty of watching over the kids. I have nothing much to say, but like someone said earlier; when you hand over the care of your children to other people, you can't expect much.

BTW, I hope the matter has been reported at the appropriate quarters- Twitter police and social media trial crew can't handle the criminal aspect

So you want Chaperones sacked for what exactly? For the children being corrupt or carrying out sexual acts? While the school was negligent in part though, this seemed to me like parent trying to cover their bad parenting and push it on the school.... and what was the use of the sensational lie that the girl was raped?

Googledman:
Hi guys, just opened this account to stay anonymous.

I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, everything I've been smooth until just yesterday evening. I was chatting with her through WhatsApp, it was all fun until i used a sticker of this skit maker ''ogb cultist". In that sticker, he raised his hand like he wanted to slap someone and his signature slang "You wan collect??"..

The response i got almost got me mad... She said she has known that I will be abusive, I'm wicked and all manner of talk. Then she said its over... IT'S OVER BETWEEN US. I tot it was a joke, like how can i explain me trying to joke and then the joke is now on me. I told her, i never meant it, it was just a joke. Even the preceding conversations before i sent in the sticker was all fun nd jokes but she said she couldn't risk being with someone that sees slapping someone as a joke. Moreover, why should i joke with such sensitive matters that just recently a claimed life of someone she look up to.

Now, this is serious has she have blocked my lines and no form of communication since.

Pls what should i do... A friend of mine said she is just looking for a slight opportunity to dump me. Is it enough reason to call a sweet relationship off. Pls i need advise.

What advise do you need? A better reason to dump you than this? Bros, she has dumped you, if after your explanations she does not see reason with you, then may be you dodge a bullet. You better thank God that has disengaged you from a psychological basket case early enough, else will you prefer a situation where she divorces you 24hrs after wedding at the slightest misconception or argument?

Sayishalom:
I am aware of a married man who is clearly cheating on his wife with a lady I know well. It disturbs me a lot cause I have feelings for the lady in question. Should I report to his wife or keep mute? I don't like women to be disrespected like this. The same lady doesn't care whether I am aware or not. Help a man with answers.

You go just use head carry jabbing that is not your own... that wife that you want to tell is the same one that will accuse you of trying to destroy her marriage

UncommonLogic:
Pls let's blame it on Fulanis and DSS as usual.

I was going to post this too

That was what we did. We couldn'teven complete the fence then, so a big part of the fence was wooden... but we hustled on

donforeign:
be like i go do this ur pattern....
my house na 3 flats, the first side is 3 bedroom flt, the 2nd part is 2bedroom flat and the last is self contain......
i go move enter d self con hustle complete d rest

sivel:
A very interesting topic @OP. In my opinion you need to assess yourself. Take all your possible earnings into consideration. Have a picture of a project you can afford over time. You do not need to have even 25% of the estimated cost before you start. Start with whatever you have and be disciplined. Building a house is not like buying a car. A building project is strenuous, the reason a lot of people shy away from building. Some will rather buy a car and flaunt around.

It is actually the WILL to start that is important... anybody.... everybody can build a house... just start..

`300k in 2009, moved in to back flat 2011...moved into main house 2014

9iceprince:
Nice one, though some won’t be happy about Positive things coming from the Arm Forces

You needed not look far.. Seyiemath above you for starters

yanabasee:
Op...

You should first of all admit that you tried to rape her .. and it wasn't successful.... And you should apologize to her....


Also, you have yourself to blame for whatever that will befall you.

You were bored, and you needed a random girl to sex for free... Why didn't you ask her out properly and then know that you're in a relationship with her ..


All the signals and greenlight she gave to you was for you to ask her out first... Not to try raping her...


I will ask you to control the situation and call or text her.. tell her you've always been I love with her and you didn't know how to express it. And that all what happened was because you had already seen her as your girlfriend and you are sorry for it and would love to ask her out if she will forgive you and give you a second chance.


You claimed that she's not in your level... But her puna is in your level to smash... Without going through the right means...

You claim you're handsome and you don't even have a girlfriend..

Being handsome isn't a ticket to sleep with women who shows you breast and discuss sex with you...

Get sense...

This is also my take

Yhungsarm:
Thanks i will do that, i think she is trying to make me date her or something and i can't bcus we are not in the same lane that is the plain truth, is not me been proud but you know how university life is now, i can be her friend, i don't mind but dating her can't work no matter the blackmail

This is where you lost me.... You're not on the same lane...and you called her up or allowed her to come to you? You yourself are a problem

ignis:
Oga, you sounded like an unapologetic rapist in your post.

Rape involve any form of forceful penetration, if you like use finger or cassava.
You don't know that stripping and fingering a girl without her consent is rape?

[s]Secondly because a lady comes to your house and sits on your lap does not mean she wants sex.[/s]

Learn how to control your John Thomas.

With due respect, the crossed part up here is BS and ridiculous opinion. If any lady is sensible as half, you do not go to someone's house, sit on his lap... That in itself is the beginning of sexual harassment if not seduction. Expecting a guy to control his JT even in the face of sexual harassment is hypocrisy. The lady should maintain a distant seat jejely, gist and do chores and go....

Fidinno:
The igbos are always targeted

then the igbos targeted should stay clean

Quiny32323:
When did efcc start investigating tax fraud in this country and how come it's only hustling boys are always in their net. All the politicians are guilty of this tax fraud also and guys should learn how to stay on the low because it doesn't reduce your money.

Silly takes!

Is tax fraud not a financial crime? The said hustling boys, how come they opt in part for money laundering and manipulate or don't pay tax?

stano2:
When will Nigerian government start tackling the major causes of criminality.

This one is a major

I believe Zungeru phase 1 will be commissioned this year