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KanwuliaJara:
Some women dey try gaaaaan!
So wetin the man dey do if this suffer-head woman and pikin dey "Limpopo" for one bedroom?

I swear! Widows are better than MOST married women!!!

What an image!
No wonder women and HEART-ATTACK are Siamese twins!!!!

Not my portion! Tufiakwa!!!!

Very funny.

The woman is wrong for the betrayal,
but the man is worse.

Very selfish man,why did he not use birth control?
Dose the man know the impact the abortion or birth control will have on the wife.

In future, he will be the one saying my wife has been trying to conceive and so on.

Even using his wife's pregnancy as an excuse to cheat
I blame the woman,she knows the kind of man she got married to.

Amhappy:
She got pregnant and he's cheating,all are betrayals. I find it hard to believe that he even requested for an abortion. She failed in their agreement but his reactions are unbelievable. I pray God remember ttcers,families that really need these babies. People who got things on a platter of gold most times place no value.

I so much like your post.

minor misunderstanding is common to every couple,but major once like : fighting, raining abuses on each other might be new to some couples.
I would say depends on the two people involve or the duration of their marriage.

she should calmly ask the man ; what his problem is,if he is willing to overcome it or continue with his lifestyle, or if it is the village witches at work in his life?
HIS reply would determine her line of action.

The injustice to women sha

love those boys pants,will contact you soon,

Toks2008:
All these sermons does not change the fact that a wife who allows a maid take over her kitchen should not cry foul if she takes over her bedroom.

When you eventually get married sleep with your maid if your wife is not there to cook for you.

Finish matter.

Toks2008:
Please read carefully again and stop making bias comments. Learn to read and comprehend.

I've read all what you are saying, so you will approach a helpless maid for se.x because she cooks delicious food?so when you impregnate her or she leaves you will also continue with d next maid abi?

Some maid will only agree because they are scared and helpless.You are thereby preying on the poor and needy which is wrong.

Stop giving reasons for cheating or adultery Or do you prefer the wife sits at home and not work because you want to be attended to like a child?

Mumu thread! This family section is gradually turning into a joke section

Imagine someone portraying men as childish, weak,senseless;that cannot control himself once he is not given attention.

In short, with this your thread men are the weaker being with fish brain.

At Op, don't quote the bible upside down abeg,so if is your wife's siblings or even your daughter doing all those things you listed, you will pounce on her abi? Or because she is a helpless maid now,you must sleep with her, because you are visual being .This your thinking no make sense at all.

@Op, talk to your husband and tell him what you really think of his action.Remove the insultive words out of your conversation to avoid a quarrel between you two,so that the real issue be addressed.

If he is so idle, he should be carrying the baby immediately you finish nursing,both day and night.

I don't know why some men like doing useless things that will not add any positive thing to their life or account.

byvan03:
Boys set.

Love those boys set,will contact you once I upgrade my watsapp.

And you believe such story,anybody that is foolish enough to go meet juju for questions will always have answers.

Things can go bad sometime in life,all you need to do is continue working hard and praying and things will turn back to normal.

The story has many parts,the second part you accused her of many things:
She has a spirit husband,
She can't read bible,
Her presence has brought only misfortune

I think you and your family are the once accusing her here.For a woman to leave her two children willingly, there is more to the story.

Just remember she is the mother of your children, don't deprive the children of their mother for superstitious reasons.

This modern world juju house I think you people should let the woman be,if you know so well you are not a witch,why summon her to a juju to kill her

Why ask such a question? Every human has fantasies regardless of the gender.

Sorry I was away,I would upload the pictures of the house,you can contact me with my email.

Tell you friend to ask her husband to choose either he his supportive or she get someone to help her in the house.

If he cannot choose, she should employ someone to be helping her, unless she is trying to be a robot.

Since you've started treatment you would get result, you don't pray without action.

Incase of anything, take your drugs diligently and you would get your results.Hope your husband also go with you for treatments?

Beware of fake pastors, they are only after your money, they will even give you false prophecy to make it seem as if they are real.

Just relax,follow up your treatment coupled with prayers and you will see results.

@op, try talking to him in a friendly tone,
Advice him on the importance of hygiene, and the disadvantage of the unhygienic things he is doing.

Ask him why he is not making any effort to change his ways.

Ask him if he can clean after you like the way you have been doing.

Note: it should be on a friendly tone, tell him if he dose not change you will start doing some things to irritate him also .

thegreengooner:
You didn't provide your contact information

Are you interested? I can provide my contact if you are interested

At Op,Imported as in how; are they frozen chickens.

Go and beg for forgiveness, so your own child will not call you a wizard.

If you really love your mum report him to the police, so that he will be cautioned.

A family friend has been killed by her husband early this year,her husband of 30yrs use a wooden stool to hit her head,she died a few days later.

Note :the beating has been going on since the onset of the marriage.

A plot of land containing a three bedroom mordern bungalow for sale.

House is newly built with every facilities in stock.

Location is at; Obechi Local Government Area in Eleme Junction ,Port Harcourt.

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If interested contact me.

SAMBARRY:
the mods are steadily wiping of this thread. Both the thread, thread maker and others encouraging him will soon be extinct

Better! They should not allow any psycho to be spamming the forum with his madness.

This type of thread is not suppose to be in the family section.

I have defaulted a lot let me go and do situp first.

As in eh,I just tire for Nigeria women and their mentality, all what they think of is marriage as if marriage dosenot consist of two persons .They don't even have a life again or even brain.

My dear nickibarb, don't ever think of killing your self because of somebody, ask yourself if he can die because of you? Which is a big NO.

Firstly your husband is an abuser and a pretender,don't be fooled by his remorseful ways ,if you have not caught him, he will still be doing all his EVIL deeds pretending to be a faithful husband.

He knows how emotional you are and he has alienated you from your parents,so that you would have no one to talk to you,making him your perfect victim.

What you have to do now is to start confiding in your parents immediately, still apply for jobs or if you have savings better for you.

Or move to your parents house immediately and plan from there, but never leave you children ,go with them anywhere you are going.

Goodluck with whatever you decides but know that you must value your life before somebody will value you,you are still young, your life has just started so make the right decision now.

A year old is big enough to be in creche, there is more to the story.

At topic,I prefer my baby to be In a creche than to be in at home with a nanny,at least in creche you can't do much harm to a child, because everywhere is open and beside it is a business that will fall if their duty is not done properly.

I'm also thinking of how to get a good creche to take care of my 8months baby since I will soon resume work.Some of the quality I would
look for in creche include:

Depends on your income, but the place should be a little bit classy to avoid story that touch.

Also make enquiry about the creche from people around and ensure the people there are also mothers. Lastly pray I'm sure God will led you to a good place.

I agree with you,I also have friends,some five to ten years, trying to conceive, it has also occurred

to me to advice them,but I don't know how they will feel. Why wait for so long when they are many babies begging to be loved.