Buy baby mats on the area he practice his walking skills regularly.

Yes,God is the all and all in everything but he has given you wisdom to use,that is why we are created in his own image and likeness.

So my advice is that we should use our wisdom, instead of calling God for answers when the answers are before us to see.

Please you guys should stop giving women advises, give advise to yourself first,and every other things will follow suit.
Research has stated that eighty percent, men are the causes of failed marriages.

I agree with your friends, I rather teach my kids French than Urohobo, who language don epp?
Although I don't mind them learning the basic once, so they don't look entirely like novices when spoken to in their dialect.

Hope your advise goes to the seyi law.

At OP, you probably think you are "Mr Right"
While your wife is always wrong. even when you think you might be a nag,you will not try and change your ways.
Abi have you not heard the word " Change begins with me"?

Nice, I will like to have this at my backyard, for personal consumption.

The woman is really devil's incarnate, all the four kids . No conscience.

Onegai:
So does it mean his neighbour gave up DNA for testing? Was that voluntarily?

Awkwarrrdddd.

Maybe after the DNA test that shows the man is not the father of the children, the woman was asked to confess, and she said the neighbor was the father of her children.

My own version of the story .

Nigeria sha,you cannot stay there without having some horror stories to tell.

At bebe2, the swelling will reduce,it happened to my sis,a day before her wedding, the two eyes were swollen after fixing eyelashes.

She nearly catch witch

Talk to him about his aggressiveness,
If he does not listen,when he is talking to you; reply in an aggressive manner like him,he will understand.
The last option, you can end your relationship with him if you think you can not live with his aggressive attitude.

God is number one,but he has also given everyone the wisdom to know the right thing to do.

At noblekid,I can feel your pain,
And some people will be saying cheating does not have any impact on the child

At your dad's age,his family is suppose to be the first priority in his life not some useless girl.

Don't listen to those telling you to mind your business, because it will also affect your life also in terms of finances, your mum contacting STD,the girl taking over your home and so on...

I will advice you,to go with your mum,sister and confront him respectfully, tell him to stop cheating if not it will ruin the family's peace and happinesses. That it is affecting all of you negatively, that he should consider his family first and change his ways.

Let them celebrate,it's their party,their child,their money and their business.

I think it is fun,and it hold's a lot of importance to some people, after all its is the child's first birthday.

They don't have problem, if their problem is the death of a gorilla.

Thank God,the child was not hurt.

pinkyliceous:
OP did you vote for Changii?

Most people will deny voting for change with the present economy

EfemenaXY:


Agreed.

And that's why a plan B should always be in place. A safety net. There's no harm in a woman looking out for herself and her kids, should the unimaginable happen.

People change. Life happens.

This is the best way to put it.

There should always be a plan B, life is unpredictable, if you can work,have a business, handwork and so on ....do it,provided it generate money.

I can't wait for my husband to provide all my need,I will feel better if I can provide some by myself

Elderly folks don't reason like the way we do,their thoughts are different from ours you have to understand that.

If I have such a mother in law,I will correct her negative comments with positive once.

She is your mother in-law, and your must learn how to leave with her peacefully and respectfully even our own mums can say some annoying things occasionally.

People just attend them because it is among the rules before you can be wedded.
It does not change a spouse, how many people even remember or practice what they said during those marriage classes?

"Pickin na pickin" Raising them right is all that matters, regardless of the sex.

They can be nice,caring and hardworking depends on how you nurture them to be.


As regarding the thread, am sure everyone will want a strong and loving male child that can take care of all the manly duties in the house.

Is there anytime the price does not crash

Nigeria has a long way to go.
Now I know why it is called a Zoo.

Eteo:



Thank God someone has identified that this story doesn't add up...she is pregnant wt second child meanwhile husband hasn't been in the country in the past 3 yrs...so is it d gateman that got her pregnant

Don't waste your time to analyse the story,
The OP,is working on his creative skills.

I get were you are coming from Op,
When it involves kids one have to take safety measures before hand,

Even when I take my kids to another state,in the same Nigeria. They still get sick through out our stay,from coughing to vomiting,to diarrhea. Upon my boiling of water,to sleeping in treated nets.

Change of environment affect kids a lot,
But with enough preventive measures they will be fine

Take anything take able along, to avoid stories that touch,and also to enjoy your stay.

Maybe your wife is looking at things from the traditional perspective that states that men are the sole provider.

You should let her know that we are in the modern era and women also contributes' to the success of the home.
Let her know you rented the shop for her so she can assist not for her to be hiding her money.
Tell her the difficulties you are facing,
She is suppose to understand.

And lastly, assist her in the house also,team work is the best.

The once I know around me play with their kids,I don't know about all African Fathers.

This stage will definitely pass, in the next trimester she might be stronger and be willing to meet your demand.
Do your best to support her;domestically,emotionally, and so on
And she might be the one yearning for what you want.

Try harder for a better story line next time
Your story is senseless.

If you are just looking for a name to call his actions, you can call it waywardness and irresponsibility, remember to protect yourself if you still like to be in his company.