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Well I deactivated from my Benedicta0 because I forgot my email password.

Not everyone deactivate because of any special reason, some may do it just for a change of name or even on impulse ,nothing much.

EfemenaXY:
Good on you sister! The trend is to get fit and healthy.

Illness, medication, etc shall not be our portion.

Amen,wish you the same, let me snap my tummy now and try stay healthy for one month, I will post the two pix here.

babyosis very funny,enjoy yourself.

Thanks to efe for those exercises in YouTube, make I go do some.

This thread very motivating, any time I open this thread I must do my exercise.

Hmm pregnancy things not easy. I believe God gives extra strength to go through those moments.

Juzzybabe:
Humm...this post touch me. I give birth a week ago to my first baby, and CS was never an option I ever dreamt of, but after I had labour for hours,I had to be scanned n it showed my water was insufficient to have a natural birth. The doctors told me CS was my way out. I had to accept to save my life and my baby. Still nursing the cut and pains my mother in law look me in the eyes and insulted me that I was too lazy to push my baby out. She has been telling people and even to my face that I wasted her son's money on CS all because I couldn't push. she
said I didn't labour. I am hurt by her words but I pray God have mercy on her.

Congratulation my dear! Don't mind your mother in law, just forgive and forget her words to be in good terms with her. It must be old age and village mentality that is her problem.
Just take care of yourself and baby.

How will they laugh at people that gave birth through CS ,every method is to deliver a child na
I'm even surprise when I hear women gist of how they rejected CS ,as if the most important thing is not to be alive with your baby.

At OP, I understand that you cannot give out insult .
But at least can't you shout at him to drive home your point?
You have to look to him squarely and warn him sternly not to dare insult you again,with a raised voice.
Ask him if that is how he insult's people outside,that if he try it again you would retaliate with full force.

And if he honestly tries that again invite people he respect to talk to him ,I'm sure that will make him to be ashame of his insultive ways.

Everything on the internet these days

Not hygienic I would say.

She is not serious, just quit okay; with time you will feel better.

Very emotional man with a good heart

Chillisauce:
Stay in touch here. Eat varieties of healthy meals and snacks when hungry.
As baby starts taking solid it relieves you a lot.

Don't go for crash diet abeg. Slowly and a bit of exercise like walking will go a long way.

Take your baby for a walk every morning. It helps them too.

Thanks for d easy tips ,I like d force and effort you all are using here

I'm doing skipping o ,I can't allow this baby to slow me down

Don't be scared to move on with your life,if you are not happy with him,leave him now. Don't get married to him out of pressure from your mum or because of your baby.

It is obvious the man does not care or love you,why are you still bothering him? . Forget about him and move on with your life for your own sanity. You don't deserve less from any man,you are the only one to tell yourself.

zemaye:
HI there
Welcome it can be done, but don't do anything drastic, since your baby need nutrient in the milk. You can start by reducing your meal to a reasonable extent, abeg don't starve o, you go just shiver after baby such u dry
And add any choice of exercise you Love.
You will see improvement
Don't be in a hurry, just put your feet in front of each other and baby steps before giant strides.
Others will add a tip or two, best wishes

Thanks for taking your time to reply me.

Nice thread! Please can a breastfeeding mother go on diet?baby is 6months, have started taking solids. When I mean diet maybe like drinking Lipton and eating less carbohydrate or food. Please any tips?

Some strangers will just claim to know you,your age,your marital status if you are a frustrated single or not,if you are happily or sadly married, if you are fat or slim,if your husband is working three times a day or not,if you are married to an old man or not. ... The list is endless.

I fear who no fear them.

babyosisi:
And you wonder why they remain at the bottom of the barrel?

And they are the most religious, imagine if they can behave like this in a faceless forum,I wonder what they can do in reality.

Na wah,Africans ;so full of hate,jealousy, backbiting,betrayal and all the worst things one can think of

At the first question : No, I will not enter her kitchen.

At the second question: I will be surprise at her kind of person,everyone has different upbringing. But i will not be angry,it even means she is hungry and wants to help herself out.

She can feel free,to cook what she likes, she can even cook for everyone if she likes, that means lesser things to do

You can't watch your weight when are breastfeeding but you can watch what you eat. Staying away from food and water for a long time will make you feel dizzy and weak. Even your baby,will not allow you, because your body will not have enough nutrients to produce milk.

Always tell your husband about how you feel,not saying it out when you are hurt can even cause depression if you are the fragile type.

I would say your husband is the one that is the glutton, verbally abusing you because you refused to give him bread.

Involve family and friends, and separate yourself from him .

That means you don't have a say on your own . You are the causative agent of your own failure not your wife. I must commend your wife for been hardworking, if she was the squandering type, there will be no money or other business to talk about .

If you want your dignity back as a man,stand up on your feet and start hustling, don't wait for your wife before you make your own ideas,it is not too late.

You and your wife are suppose to be a team, there should be no room for jealousy or selfishness. I wish you luck in whatever business you choose.

Try and relax a little, treat yourself first,then when you have move in with your husband,both of you can confidently go to the hospital for check up.

If you can expatiate more on the story it would have been better. Is your wife not having a phone? Are your in laws not within your reach so that you can ask them

He should endure as much as he can,if the heat is getting too much he can separate himself from her.

A captivating story i must say, hope the person is not trying to write a book.

You can ask your father,he is in a better position to answer you.

Maybe,the wife don't want you to be entering her kitchen.

It is better you obey your friend,because you are a guest and you can also do yourself good by limiting your visit.

Ewuro4:
Lacking... Not exactly the appropriate word to use... What's there to lack? Children are gift from God, regardless of either gender, some people will die to have ANY.

Crave/Admire .. Sometimes Yes... But it is what it is. Embrace and Nuture whatever you've got to the best quality breed among the Rest. Shikena.

Okay,maybe "crave "will be a better word. Thanks

Thanks , everyone for commenting on this thread.

How do you feel about giving birth to just Male children or Female children? Do you feel as if you are lacking by not having the opposite sex?







Please attack the Topic not the OP.