Mayflowa:

No Baby, he isnt the better man! He knows himself. He knows he is not been sincere. He is not real! He just mention the unachievables and you led astrayed without our mutual understanding whereas you stand to watch mine happen in real time and I mean it. I dont brag! Except ypu are telling me you love lies. Baby think! Dont let anyone play with your beautiful head! I am here for you. Dont I deserve any respect from you? In real life situation, there would have been divorce before you could do this!

This is not you La Parissiene! This is not the woman I know! You are far more dignified than this! Your heart cannot be so fickled! Come back to me. Come back!
In my heart lies your home


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDKO6XYXioc&ob=av2e

Bro take heart nah. E don do. Cuddler already offered you the delectable Dyt. Take her and run along you hear? No vex. He who fights and runs away lives to fight another day. E go better

~Killz~:

Mayflowa and MarcAnthon, una don mad finish i swear. . .

This is getting dikwaciously risky in a serious rambunctious way!

Make una fire down, may the best man win! 

La pear for your mind o!

Sexkillz abeg stop that rough play jere. This epic battle has been won and lost already 

Konnektions146:

^^^
@ mayflowa, my broda take heart, na so e be

but come to think of it, MacAnthon don arrange LaPare brain, my guy, yu try, weldone, babe, enjoy de e-brain flexin

Thank you! Thank you! You are far too kind. . .

Cuddler:

Reality101 - Bhusayor   VIP Lounge Spot 1

MarcAnthony- La Parisienn  VIP Lounge Spot 2

Keep it coming people! 8 VIP Spots left

Thanks Cuddler. We already have our own arrangement though. If you please we'll pass it to whichever couple my sweetness picks.

La Parisienne:

Papi, your plan is impeccable. Private yatch, $2500 shopping spree, 4 course candle-lit dinner by the River Thames with my Prince Charming, 13 red roses and 1 white rose with a classy card? Oh my goodness, I'm the luckiest girl in the whole wide world!!!

I'm having a hard time choosing a Menu, they are all yummy. But I'll go with Menu 2.

I'm so happy to have you Sucre  

Btw I love your writing skills. It's so romantically enticing and sexy.

Menu 2 it is! Anything for you sweetness. Thanks for the compliment babes. Believe me when I say I am the lucky one here. . . It's indescribable the euphoria I feel, and it's all because of you. You make me feel like I'm superhuman:

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Mayflowa:

Wetin dey happen na?
see e-snatching God! omg!

How could life be so crude!
This is what make men rude!

Heartbreak is unavoidable! To think I was on my own when La Parissienne sought me out! I never wanted rejection. I hate heartbreak because I just came out of one. I was swept away by her charm. She was more more beautiful than the goddess of the sea. She was more halo than the celestial angels. She instantly became my Idol! I loved and trusted her

This world!
How could life be so mean!
La Parissiene was mine.

I told you I understand the way you feel. I told you you were free to tell me anything! How could you leave my house without even letting me back? why baby?
What have I done wrong? We had a sweet nite together. I left for work thinking about you all day. I even went shopping for you! Why baby? Why La Parissienne?

Sorry man. You win some and lose some. I am not a sinister guy but she was always mine and I was left with two choices: either up my game and fight for her or retire to my room and sulk. I chose the former. Don't worry, keep moving, you'll find your own sweetness too. I wish you good luck and godspeed.

^^^ neither. Thanks for the offer though 

^^^ Ok sir, even though 'full stop' is actually not useless. I do hope a few peeps have learned something though

@Chima, pele. Whatever the problem, is the Lord is able. Amen.

@Chima, please answer the following question: are you looking for a fresh blooded younger man? I am asking nicely, pls

^^ Mr Mind, this your trademark full stop, is it a sign of agreement or sulking?

La Parisienne:

Oh Papi, you've made me  lost for words. You are indeed my Prince Charming. Lol
Still expecting your plans though. Talk to you later sweetness

La Parisienne:

He's most definitely valling me back. So sad that I lost the VIP Lounge Spot 1, but my sweetness is more than worthy. I'm happy to make that sacrifice for him

Thanks Bellissima. Forget her VIP Lounge Spot. We'll be on our own luxury yacht anyway, just the two of us along with 6 waiters and a live band.
Btw, this should teach everyone else to stay off my woman . . . File!

As per plans for that day? Hmmn let's see. . .

As I said way earlier you'll wake up to the smell of 13 red roses and one white rose, with a card that reads "In your lovely brown eyes I find the reason for my being"

Then you'll be taken in a chauffeured car on a shopping spree worth $2500. Unfortunately, I'll have to be at work until later so you'll have to do breakfast and lunch by yourself (or with your girlfriends if you want) while shopping in the intervening hours. But don't worry I will make reservations for these in any spot of your choice.

When night falls. . . (I am seriously tempted to go on another poetry run, but I'll resist)

I'll come pick you up for dinner in our rented luxury yacht slowly cruising along the River Thames. If the heavens heed my call for a warm night we'll have it out on the deck. If not, no P, we'll go in and have a candle-lit dinner, just the two of us. Here are my suggestions for a 4-course dinner. You can tinker with them though, you have the honor of decided what we end up having


Menu 1

Starter :  Cinzano bianco with lemon

Appetizer: Lettuce with shrimps and herb baguette

Main Course: Grilled duck breast with cranberry sauce, rice

Dessert:  Valentine's strawberry heart


Menu 2

Starter: Wianno Oysters with Fuji apple mignonette

Appetizer: Pork Meatballs and Spinach Dumplings with thai red curry sauce

Main Course: Lamb chops: Sonoma Lamb, Saffron Couscous, Dried Apricots, root vegetables, Lamb Jus

Dessert: Chocolate Crème Truffle Heart - Chambord crème fraîche

Menu 3

Starter: Shrimp, Tapioca Soup

Appetizer: Baby Carrot and Avocado Salad: harissa creme fraiche

Main Course: Lemon Garlic Chicken Breast, Butternut Squash, Swiss Chard, Citrus Salad

Dessert: Dark Chocolate Tart, Pear, Candied Orange, Hazelnut Nougat and Toffee Cream

Of course there will be a live band playing all the while, and after dinner we'll dance into the night to the best ballads and then go with the flow hence    

Tell me sweetness, what do you think?  

La Parisienne:

@OP
Have we met before? Lolz 

This thread and your comments tell a lot about your personality, in a positive way. Keep doing what you are doing

Btw, I agree with the post.

Thanks Bellissima!
Lol, we met in Cuddler's thread. . . .

ifihearam:

@op,you can only apply these when you are in love becos over 65% of relationships are not based on love for one reason or the other.

I don't know the basis for your statistic up there, but I tend to agree that there are relationships that aren't based on love. Some have even argued that love (as we know it from books and movies) doesn't really exist, that people just go with those they can tolerate. And if you look around you you might agree with that school of thought. But that's a topic for another day.

@richy:

@op i fink you made a mistake 4 not including EGO

Lol. It's not my write-up o, as I stated clearly. I guess the reason they didn't include ego was cos we all have that, just in varying degrees. It just becomes unhealthy when it's exhibited in very high doses.

La Parisienne:

@MarcAnthon,
Sweetness, I really hope you'll see this when you get back. I'm sorry I goofed earlier, couldn't listen to the songs then and I thought they were videos. I just took out time to listen to them now and I love them, especially ''Thinking About You''. I love the part that says[b] ''a boy will tell you that he loves, you but a man will show it''.[/b]

You are the man Papi. I've choosen to be with you cos I know you'll make me happy. I miss you, and I'm waiting for you to get back and shower me with love

This is specially for you, my king.

If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
To the sound of your breath on my neck,
The warmth of your lips on my cheek,
The touch of your fingers on my skin,
And the feel of your heart beating with mine. . .
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
With anyone other than you

You've left me speechless, sweetness
Those beautiful words could only
Have come from a beautiful heart
I do feel like a king now
And while some men will
Take their foot off the gas
Once the lady has said yes
I will hold you dear even more
From this point on

Our love will be eternal
Resonating through the ages
A reference point
For generations yet unborn

Lol, something about you
Turns me into the crafty bard
And the words come in torrents, unleashed
Because they come from a heart so true

Come closer sweetness
Let me hold you to me
Your heart on mine
Beating in tandem
As I run my fingers through your hair
And kiss you ever so sweetly
And touch you ever so gently
With trembling hands
Overwhelmed by the depth of my desire

And locked in an embrace
We'll be together for all time
You and I
Me and you
As the stars shine down on us
And the moon engage a matriarchal dance
In celebration
Of a love so true


Ciao Bellissima, will be back later.

Papi, this video is BREATHTAKING!!! Excellent performance by Michael Bolton, Seal and David Foster, all for your woman. I woke up to this very thoughtful gift from you, thanks for making my day   . I miss you Sucre. . .

I miss you too sweetheart

I was just going to drop a comment and it became a poem - that's how deeply you affect me bellissima. Unfortunately, I may be gone for the rest of the day - It's only 7:40 am here. But keep your heart strong sweetness, and don't let him sway your commitment to us.

So here's for you La Parissienne, my lady:

How will you like dinner on the deck of a luxury yatch?
While we slowly sail along the Thames -
Yes I'll come over to Europe just for you!

I'll meake a pact with the heavens
To keep the day bright and the night warm
The warm gentle breeze to caress your skin
And conjure magic weaves with your silken hair
The night time glow your face to engrave in my memory for all time
The well lit London skyline will our neighbours be
While we gaze into the star-filled night

The beauty, the awe, the everlasting feeling of euphoria
Will forever be with us thence
And after we've eaten and are full
We'll dance into the the night
Holding each other o so close
As our hearts weave together
Never to be seperated for all our lives through.

Here's another couple of songs for you my lady while I'm gone:

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And babes, confirm we'll be out together that day so I'll start making arrangements   - Your Papi

La Parisienne:

Sucre, you are a strong man. You know how to protect your own and you are sweet. I have a tough decision to make and you understand it. But you can make it easier for me by showing me what plans you really have for us on Valentine's day and beyond. Just do your thing, forget about someone else. Prove to me that you are worthy of my attention.

La Parisienne:

MarcAnthon where are you? Don't tell me you've retreated, you are better than that!

Retreat ke?

Bellissima, here's for you when you wake up. Be sure to listen to it all. Hope you love it. We'll continue this tomorrow.

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Hope you heard the part where I sang 'the world would mean nothing to me without La Parissiene' [size=4pt]yeah that was me singing [/size]That's straight from the heart babes 

http:

Relationship bla bla bla is overated, can't we live alone? Haba!

singing "na my life o! na my life o!"

You want to live alone? There's a free ride to mars tonight. Interested?

La Parisienne:

This is so fun, I'm laughing out loud. Hahahahahaha. It's nice to have 2 gentlemen chasing after me. It's sweet, that's all I can say.

Mayflowa and MarcAnthon, I love you both but the best man will win my attention. Let me see how badly you want me

First clue as to who the right man is?
He's the one who makes a stake for what he believes is rightly his even when feeble-hearted men would have sat quietly back because she appears taken. He's def not the one who is chosen out of pity.

First off, you will wake up on that day to the smell of 13 red roses and a white rose and a note that reads "In your lovely brown eyes I find the reason for my being"

Should I go on or are you going to come inside so we can privately discuss this 'situation'?

La Parisienne:

Abi o o. That's how it's supposed to be my dear. The more potential dates, the merrier.

I tot we already went past that stage.

Mayflowa:

La Parisienne, You are really a nice person and very considerate. This is beyond online stuff! Now am serious. Only a good person could say what you have just said because you dont wanna hurt anyone especially when MarcAnthon has been a friend. I really appreciate people like you!

That said, I believe he would learn to get used to us at time goes on and prolly wish us well. In truth, people are fond of dragging what other has whereas they may not value same when it stare on their faces.

For this you have done, I am going command the moon to light up up feet and the stars to crown your head. In my heart you are a queen and indeed, u truely are in NL.

Mayflowa which part of BACK OFF don't you understand?

La Parisienne:

Sucre you didn't make your intentions known on time, I wouldn't have gone for someone else. I'm sorry if I hurt you, didn't do it on purpose. What should we do now?

Sweetness, send the man on his way and bid him godspeed. Then come back in we need to talk. Whatever it is he listed there we can have right away, waiting till the 14th is being cheap.

Cuddler:

Please take it easy. Even your profile makes you look so strict. You must really not like cheating, mr mighty commandant!
Hahaa she chose Mayeasy the Sheazy, deal with it. He is more romantic and sweet .
Anyways, you can choose her, read the rules. She vals May, Marc vals She. Equation balanced.

Stop putting ideas in her head is all.

Me not sweet? don't let me start on the sweet talks o. This thread will get to 30 pages in about an hour. I have my way with words, be warned.

Cuddler:

Mayeasy! U got it goin on mehn. Hahaa sounds like paradise to me baby, u sure know d game!

Cuddler stop encouraging adultery! That woman is already taken!

La Parissiene, I'm still waiting in the room.

Mayflowa:


Hmmmmm! I like shy girls. They are easily impressable and so sweet to be around with!
My plans? So much. But let's take a look at the meal we going to share between us on Val day. It going to be 3 course meal

Starter
Roast Parnip and caramelised  onion soup

Main Meal
Sea Bass with Roasted tomoto  and dill ( you will really enjoy this)

Dessert
Chocolate Nemesis

If you dont like any of those, I can always provide woreva you want. It's your day baby. I just want u to be free. I like to my baby happy and free.

Wot do u think angel? before i move on to other preparation and order

aru emeee! young man, you will not be warned a third time!!!!!!!!!!

La Parisienne:

Oh nice! It's becoming more interesting than I anticipated. Thanks for the VIP Spot, you the best

La Parisienne:

Is there a party going on here? Seems like I've missed a lot, but it's btter late than never!
Don't worry I'll pick you. I don't know much about you, but I'll take the risk. Hope I wont have regrets

^^ See my woman already flirting with another man cos of imaginary VIP spot. La Parissiene oya report back home immediately, we have to talk!

And you young man below, better remove hand from my woman before I send intercontinental missiles to bamboozle you. A word is enough for the wise!

Mayflowa:


La Parisienne   So sweet of u! Common, I will make it worth your while. Besides the surprises that I will bring in on that day, what are ur fantacies? because I am on my way to making ur fantacies real babe. La Parisienne! What a name!    

Wislet:

If u'd said something intelligent, it would mean an eclipse will happen today. Thanks for being predictable hun. SMH

Damn! That was a sucker punch! Chimezie are you still breathing? Take heart son.

Seriously though, that was some good advice up there.

chelseabmw:

Chelsea kilode?

queensmith:

Not really. It just means im paying attention.

That's the whole point. Still let's be sure we ain't looking for faults where there is none so we don't appear paranoid.

Phate07:

There is always communication problems in relationships whether bad or good.

I would expect your statement to be true for a newly formed relationships where the partners are still getting to know each other. When it has been on for years the expectation is that they'd have passed that stage and become such good friends that they could read each others mind even from non-verbal cues.

bekay911:

Nice one marc.

Thanks Bekay!

violent:

Maybe not always. Sometimes you lie to people to protect them from the truth!

It may come back to haunt you and destroy trust that you have spent years building. Whatever happened to being open and honest, and trusting that your partner will understand, whatever the ugly situation is?

^^ on point.

@OP, the chief thing is a ruse, IMO. He is not the chief, if I understand correctly, his uncle is, so how does that affect anything? Besides, it is a chieftaincy and not a kingship, right? Then that is not transferable. Even if it was, is his uncle without sons? The bottom line though is that chieftaincy is not transferable. Everyone earns his right to be called a chief. Hence it is not like he's being forced to have a Nigerian wife because he's next in line to a throne.

My point is I don't think he's being entirely honest with you. Good thing you did what you did for him without expecting any rewards. But since you both have already 'crossed the line', you may want to ask him to help you understand better and let you know for sure whether he wants to go ahead with this 'arranged' marriage so you can start putting yourself back together forthwith.

Goodluck.

Mrs, Chima:

LMAO@won't touch all black women because of one bleeped up black woman.

Chima, where did you read that from? You do have selective hearing huh? I was talking about the 'strong black woman' thing, which some ladies seem to see as an excuse for a bad attitude. I never want to go through that route anymore, hence the cautiousness.

claremont:

www.relationship-rescue-and-love-poems.com/signs-of-a-bad-relationship

Saw it on my fb homepage actually. Didn't bother with the research so long as I wasn't claiming ownership.

lola.luv:

Nice one, MarcAnthon.

Thanks!

Lol. Nice that u agree. Sexkillz does not attack every poster afterall.

I was in one where we were constantly arguing. . . the so-called STRONG BLACK WOMAN. No little thing passes without drama until she wore me thin. Now if a see a SBW I won't touch her even with a long pole. I've had enough drama for one lifetime.

Saw this somewhere and said to share . . . as my val present to you all:

Knowing the signs of a bad relationship is just the beginning. Knowing how to end a bad relationship is just as important and can be a lot more difficult.

We noticed that every bad relationship gives off red flags, but most of us are either too in love to see it, too naive to notice, or to scare to do something about it.

Communication Problems In Relationships:

If you are not able to communicate with your partner you should look at who is and who is not talking. Communication is the foundation on which any relationship should be built. However, the wrong type of communication can be destructive, which leads to number two.

Constantly Arguing Couples:

If every other conversation ends up in an argument something is wrong. No it’s not because you left the toilet seat up or you cooked chicken instead of steak. Those are just surface issues. You have to sit with you partner and find out the root of the problem.

Distance:

If you are not as close as you once were it’s a definite warning sign. “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”, but to much time apart can cause one to forget. Remember you can be in the same room with someone and still have a world of distance between you.

Use all sorts of resources. If you love your partner, try, but pay attention for your well being if it is worth it or not. Only you know if you may be in for a breakup battle! Trust your heart and your spirit.

Going Places Without You:

Everyone needs a little alone time, but if your partner always wants to go places without you Pay Close Attention to why.

Lying:

This is self-explanatory. In my opinion this is #1 of all the signs of a bad relationship. You know better than anyone when your partner is lying. Honesty in a relationship is the lifeblood in your lifeline!

Cheating in Relationships:

Personally, I believe that true love won’t allow you to cheat, but people make mistakes and God says to forgive…so I shall leave the rest of that thought to you. There are a lot of cheat codes and rules to what different people consider cheating. Discuss this with your partner and live by them.

Abusive Relationships:

Like cheating everyone can make a mistake, but if a person has to hit you to show how much they love you that’s the kind of love you don’t need, and one of the signs of a bad relationship that can not be ignored.

Trust In Relationships:

This is a touchy one. Most often people who can not trust are not trust worthy people. Again no one knows your partner better than you.

Agreement, polite disagreement and/or additional thoughts are welcome

millco88:

Vybz Kartel is Jamaican, not Nigerian you dunce.

No be today e start  Mr Cork has risen so up the ranks in his duncility that even certified dunces (no allusion to you millco) now see him as a dunce. smh

Beync:

U r welcome cutie
Oya solly U r finnie
Hugly amplified

Na you them thank? Oya pay me money make I connect you with the guy sharp sharp. I fit buy you ring with part of the money sef so you can propose. Abi how u see am? Hurry up while stock lasts! Girls no dey smile these days so no dull yaself!

Thank you so much for the explanation