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Clickguy44:
Good advice, in fact one of the best advice on this forum. To make it better, if she is a single mother, go for it, they love the best. It's gets better, look for those that have an sexual relationships with yahoo boys preferably those that have been used by them, those that their womb is damaged and the working dead among them. Just forget the past, since the past is in the past. After all she won't judge you by your future.

Sarcasm! There you have it

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Foolish set of human beings. They can't even pity the unborn child. If their parent had done this kind of thing will they forgive them. Iranu oshiii

Continue your friendship, but make it very strong, infact very strong that even akagum can't beat the bonding. Because relationship is very sweet when you graduate from friendship to relationship.

Again, please don't lash her, she will respect you more.

Serious u aren't

And you don't have pic evidence?

Kobojunkie:
precisely, she will change when she finds that she needs to.

When they allow her stew in her filth for a year or more, she will..... unless she is mentally challenged.

Can you do this to your mom. Haba

Nothing last forever op, please try as much as you can to do it for her, this is your bonding time and believe you me, you're going to treasure the moment you shared with her when it becomes history. She is your mom, there is nothing bad if you treat her like a queen, some don't get this opportunity, while some will pay any amount to have a moment like this in their life even though it is for a day.
Overlook the stress and manage it in any way you can, take rest when you need to. Please don't ever get angry if she put you to do anything, the reward and blessings you'll receive will be immeasurable.

Simran94:
Wait, so if it was the OPs Parents that came visiting, is she supposed to serve him first before serving his parents food?

Ofcourse yes, infact op's parent should tell the wife to serve her husband first before serving them. That is the right thing to do. It is their own way of promoting love and respect between the couple.

Fiscus105:
In fact a wife that was trained very well which she also abide by training will serve her husband before her parent , husband parent and pastor, its husband that's her crown and not any other person.

True talk my brother. Op shey you read ba?

Op, forget all those saying, there is nothing wrong in it. Infact everything is wrong with it. I am very sure majority of them aren't married so they don't see it they way you are seeing it. If it was her parents i would understand. Her brother stay your house shouldn't exeed 3days, he should go stay in a hotel. Culture and tradition permit a wife to serve her husband first before others. It is respect. The brother should even be the one to correct that.
Please talk to her, just do it in a calm way, so she can understand and correct herself.

Datboredberry:
You're being stupid... I'm not putting the blame on men alone but on both...

I don't get your point.. you're upset that young women have sex? I asked you, are you celibate?

Assuming, you have sex with a girl and she gets pregnant... Remember, contraceptives aren't 100% effective... What would you do? You're gonna pack your bags and run away? Is so, how is she a bad person for shouldering the problem that is yours too... Do you believe in abortion?

If every single mother had opted for an abortion... Would you marry them? I thought Nigerian men hate women who've terminated multiple pregnancies...

The only reasonable options to prevent single motherhood...

Abstinence: You teach both your daughters and SONS to stop having premarital sex... That reduces the likelihood of the girl conceiving...

If your son does get his girlfriend pregnant: teach him to stick by his child and not be a coward... The child is his responsibility... Only the son of a bastard would delibrately abandon his own child...

You say you don't blame men who make available use of vaginas... That's the dumbest statement of this year...

You don't care that those lust driven retārds are spawning their bastards, and spreading many diseases? Ofcourse not! How can you judge the group you fall into?!

It takes two to tango genius! Young boys browse porn earlier than girls and lose their virginity and have more sexual partners...not to mention that they cheat almost as much as they breathe.. what does that tell you? Men are the ones in hot demand for sex! Your brain can comprehend this? If y'all had more to offer to the world like your white counterparts... You wouldn't persistently chase anything with legs, including your own sisters, daughters and goats...

Men beg for sex like pathetic degenerates, even spend their entire salaries on hoes in brothels knowing that another man just recently fuçked her, yet not caring... Because zero class, brain in their balls...

If you choose to crucify the women who didn't abort the bastards of these men... Then I expect you would do worse to the men who do not take good measures to avoiding impregnating their girlfriends (cheap condoms, used condoms)...

These men, after doing so... Why don't they marry the girls? Or you also support them using women? I sincerely hope your sisters and daughters and nieces would one day tell you how it feels to be accidentally knocked up then abandoned...

Now, mister morally upright... Tell me what you think should be don't to prevent single motherhood...

Don't tell me that women shouldn't have sex, if you are not a virgin... That's hypocrisy...

Don't tell me that you don't support abortion... Since that's the only way to rectify the problem...

Don't tell me you're gonna raise bastards who would fuçk like their father with reckless abandon... Because you would turn around to condemn the victims...

Don't mention contraceptives... Very often, they don't help... The most commonly used, condoms... They burst...

So tell me what else? Any brilliant suggestion?

And what's your opinion on single fathers? Don't tell me you blame the runaway mothers... Please, because that would prove your negative (-1) intelligence...

Now i see, a babymama/single mother sported, the abandoned one at that. All these your spew reeks of frustration and more of sentimental.
It is very clear, call a spade a spade period.

The prevention of single motherhood is quite simple, Abstinence! Yes every one can do it unless you choose not to. Because if every lady choose to close their legs till marriage, believe you me, men would zip up. If they can't zip up ofcourse brothels are available for them. Once this is tackled, then they won't be need for abortion, runaways, contraceptives failures e.t.c

Favfables1:
Actions have consequences...

And so,if you choose to have sex, then you must entertain the thought that there's a possibility you could contact an STD or get pregnant...

So if a girl chooses to have concentual sex and gets pregnant, she has only herself to blame and nobody else, because she could have avoided pregnancy by either using a condom, taking pills or abstaining from sex, but she didn't and now that the consequences as landed, she wants to shift the blame to anyone other than her...

That in my opinion is just childishly irresponsible...

In summary...
As long as the sex that got her pregnant is concentual, then she should face whatever stigma that comes with being a single mother with her full chest and not shift the blame on anyone...

Gbam!
You couldn't have said it any better.

Datboredberry:
To the extent of getting pregnant? So you're also celibate? Because you're here condemning premarital sex... I sincerely hope you're not a shallow hypocrite who isn't a virgin...

When these women got pregnant... Why didn't the fathers of their children marry them? Cause that's the only reasonable step to take... To atleast give the children a home... Or they should have terminated the pregnancies? Would you help build abortion clinics?

Next time, remember it take two to fuçk... Before you condemn these women, remember the desperate community diçks who then run away to avoid their responsibilities... Those poverty stricken liabilities that are a burden to the world, spawning their many bastards and leaving them to the charge of their mothers alone so they can continue fuçking as though their worthless lives depends on it...

Train your sons properly... Teach them to grow balls and stop being sissies when they accidentally impregnate their girlfriends...

If you can't, then you're worse...

Train your sons properly you say? and the ladies who open their legs for the men they aren't married to how were they trained hun? I don't in any way blame those guys who make use of the available v.j given to them free of charge or cheaply. Ok how about those ladies who chose to keep their legs closed untill marriage, did the guys go and force the leg open? Abeg condemn what is wrong and stop try to make it look like they didn't bring the babymama/single mother thing upon themselves.

Elders please come in

Let me tell you, you aren't his girlfriend, his main girlfriend is somewhere and he is simping for her. While he thinks he has seen you finish because i am sure you show him love more than he does and ofcourse he want to use you and dump you. Better run for your life and sanity the kind run that your heel will be touching the back of your head.

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True talk, but ofcourse he will receive backlash from them. Thinking they're doing him not knowing they're doing themselves by not accepting that they have made mistake and accept the blame and move on. How can you continue to have s3x with someone you aren't married to, to the extent of getting pregnant out of marriage and still have the mouth to attack when you know fully well you did the wrong thing.

Bros be calming down, pls, continue to avoid her till you pack out biko, jo, DanAllah

There are very young and prety soldiers women out there. The copper looks matured though

The ampiclox will work, hope you were give diclofenac too. Don't worry the hot water wouaffect thw function of the drugs.l

Imagine, she is just your girlfriend not wife. So since you can't control her or give her advice and she will listen, then she also don't worth any of your spendings.

This one you're mentioning exotic things, making you sound like a big boy. Sha don't go an fall into one ingbeke that will milk you dry.

U try MM4G

Datboredberry:
You hate Nigerian girls...

Never chatted with this girl from the Philippines.. but you're now inlove?

I'll be honest, if you were white, you would have had a chance...

Asian girls, especially those from the Philippines prefer white men... Even to men of their own race... A way of climbing up the ladder... White men are the complete package...

Unless you have something to offer her.

American and European women... You might get one... Especially if one is racist enough to believe the 'black men have huge pẹnises' b.s

But some are really cool...

But you're interested in this Filipino girl...

Take the shot... Use Google translate... But update us though.

Funny comment i swear

Empty barrel makes the most noise

Another example is Bill and Melinda Gates

This is a huge catch

So that nairalanders is not reading this right?

You do as he says now.