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Rosement:
You can decide not to marry a guy you don't love but if you marry a guy that doesn't love you, it is worst, infact you will be making the biggest mistake of your life. For that guy to deny you and the baby at first he might not love you. What are you trying to do to yourself? His family doesn't like you and you want to marry him. Are you not suppose to even be a close friend to your mother-in-law to be?

You better take this advice whoever is seeking for advice.

Let me add, advicee you must be an ingrate fellow, yes you're a big ingrate. So because of yanki, yoy want to leave the person who truly loves you even with your unwanted pregnancy and follow the person that abandoned you with his pregnancy. Something is definitely wrong with your head i swear. Your eyes go clear soon.

Healing, improving.

Lets read more lies.

Op i don't understand your moniker.

You can't claim to love me and hit me at the same time. God knows i can't be with a man who will hit me. I can take verbal abuse and insult but the day you raise that hand of yours on me, that day the relationship has come to an end.

In this case, Why won't she keep quiet? When she is the one who paid the groom price.

Wehdon Aunty

I am just trying to imagine how she uses belt to beat you, like seriously? She beats you like a kid damn! You're really a swegbe.
My advice, since you don't divorce, then hit the gym and take it religiously. Build up, put yourself together and be a MAN. You even have kids. I wonder how the kids will be looking at you been beating by your wife.

It means you look or have the body of a mama/mother. Like age 40+

Out of sight is out of mind. Just wait for it

Your writing is good. Just be patience with her. Everything about life now is patience and tolerance. Don't worry you will soon have your breakthrough.

MadeINchenzen2:
you want a jobless youth who still steals his father's money to play Naijabet and still eats his mother's food to have money for DNA?

How did you know he is jobless biko? He didn't mention anything like that in his post

Try and be giving excuses now. Even though you're free tell her you're busy abi is she a monitoring spirit that will be watching your every move? Space is very important in relationships. It give you time to reason well and even miss the person. That is why i prefer long distance relationship.

How are we going to know now if you're the Father or not. We weren't there when you where shooting inside her. Lets wait for her to deliver first then we can run a DNA test abi ?

Give more details, age, character, discipline etc

Hmmmm what we read on Internet every minute. This is someones daughter o...Anyway an Apple does not fall far from the tree.
I pray and will always do may i not give birth to wayward children. My youthful life was very decent and discipline so it will be for my generations to generations. Amin

Are the the giver or givee

Well done, you tried, i applaud your calmness and patience. In addition, try and be calling her from time to time a so you can be reminding her to keep her on track. Hmmm because teenagers especially girls can easily be deceived and mislead.

Who said money can't buy love?

Kind of rare though

So heart breaking

Yes every dawn

Me to the sisters, i am sorry i can't recall your face or meeting you anywhere. Infact i have never met any of you before.

People are going through alot, silently

Wahala! E just no go finish i swear. So after struggling to get the overload to yourself now you can't carry the load around.

Call for a meeting now, that is aftet all efforts to get the reason from the spouse prove abortive. Call all the people that joined you guys together and inform them and they should help you ask the particular spouse for reason. Aftet extracting the reason from him or her, then weigh it and see if it is genuine or just flimsy. Take up your decision from there.

Get a cat period

If you no follow pastor argue you no go tey for church. Just give the 'you're right' mantle when argument is about to occur and move.

This is strange, i swear. It will be more strange if you're the only one perceiving the odour. Trying calling another person to come and perceive and see

Just keep trying and making her see that you're now a changed person, i am sure she reason with you, but you have to be patience and also persevere. For her to have tolerated you all this while, it means she truly loves you and she will soon reconsider but it might take a while sha. Just be patience. Send her message everyday. Go back to her shop again and don't let her treat stop you from seeing her.

Divorce her dirty ass and collect your daughter even though she is still little. Take your daughter to your mum.

More important than ever