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Davewealth2021:
Remember I have warned my wife twice. Do I need to confront someone else. She understands our values and should be wise enough to do the needful.

I am just tempted to allow everything play out so she can see the outcome, when I walk away.

Meanwhile, I don't think my silent action is the best, because I might be tempted to even get a side chick and suddenly everything might go down the drain.

Nb: We have a kid.

You want to get a side chic so you can be even right? Two wrongs don't make a right. Its is obvious she is lacking something from you and your single married neighbour is willing to give her. And i presume she's is idle and always at home and also irresponsible wife. (Not sorry to say this) So devil want to mount his workshop on her head. If not, what will make a responsible wife have a male neighbour's phone number in her phone? And even be entering a male neighbour's apartment? Well, What i will do if i were in your shoes, is to pretend that you don't care and monitor her closely. And also set trap so you can catch them in any act they're planning to do. From there you don't need anyone to tell you what next to do.

Congrats, but hope you have something doing that brings additional income to the family? So you can assist and bring up those children appropriately

U went and started devouring the faul live abi what?

This your story funny i swear , so what happened afterwards, abi na lie u de

It could be that the man is not doing all he is supposed to do as a husband

They're not seeing this

MikeMicheal:
Thanks for bringing this to our notice.
No area should have 24hrs power supply in NIGERIA, because the total electricity(MEGAWATTS) produced by Nigeria is insufficient, and has to be rationed for proper functioning of the national grid.
Once again thanks, we will look into it, and make sure it is rationed adequately.

Over here we have 24hrs power supply, what can you do about it? Mr Electric official

Waliki wabia

How many ladies have you asked before arriving at this conclusion?

Op don't care, whenever she starts press ignore button or help her complete the usual sermon, isn't she aware of your past before she agreed to get married to you? Ignore her o, focus on doing what is right as a married man and don't let wife matter distrupt your happiness

INDUSTRIALFAN:
my colleague was robbed in a molue…. Proper commercial vehicle

One is not safe anywhere, prayer is the master key then

Theta1:
I saw people blaming the guy for entering the private car. Mine was public bus (I mean Faragon bus) and about 6 people in that bus are robbers including a female dressed like Alhaja.
It is not about public or private bus, they are everywhere in Lagos. Each police station in Lagos have 1-2 cases of one chance bus.

This is serious, it is only prayer then.

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This is very sad and pathetic, op sorry for loss. But why you go enter private car when the commercial vehicle are available

Auxtin85:
In 2003, my dad couldn’t pay our rent for a 3 bedrooms apartment, he was given quit notice, he had no money to rent another apartment, the caretaker came and threw our stuffs out, I and my younger sister went to stay with my grandma, my dad went to stay with his friend where he was sleeping in his friend’s living room…. His friend’s wife will send him on an errand, his friend won’t say a word. Thank God my dad own 5 houses today and a hotel, building my third house.

Me and my tenant talk like friends

This moved me i swear, indeed only God has the final say in one's life. How about that his friend and his wife

Haven't you heard women love hard and care free guys? Asin guys that don't send them. Since she has declined your proposal, don't push further, let her be. Just be platonic in how you relate with her and don't give her any attention and always be cool in your appearance and scent. If you follow this, watch how the crusher becomes the crushee

[/quote][quote author=bepositive11 post=106039655]I don't think her husband even loves her anymore. I think he loves the side chick. The fact that's he's even willing to accept the side chick's child, it shows how serious he is about her. How much he cares

I think their marriage is dead and gone

Yeah dead and gone but she has to remain there and teach him some lessons

Ayanwukoma:
I can't walk away, it's my child
Even though am young, I still do menial jobs.

My parents are happy they are ready to assist me in raising the child.

We both are not ready for marriage yet, so that is ruled out.
I just want my child, then she can go her way.

Thanks for your input.

Come and update us biko...

Ayanwukoma:
Yes I love her, and she loves me back for her to call me last night with a teary voice, hoping I do something about it.
I was the one who even pester her to tell her parents, she wanted to keep it hidden, till they find out by themselves.

Honestly speaking, reading comments from nairalanders castigating me because of what I do to sustain my self (tearing ticket working for my local government council) saying am a tout obviously brought me alot of motivations to do better.

Sha update us on how everything turned out abeg

Kobojunkie:
Many of them live with a broken-heart for the rest or their existence too.

That's life now, at least no be death separate them.

Mindlog:
Do she even still have a marriage? A married man who confidently have sex with another man's wife is not worth wasting time on.......he has little time left.

I swear

bukatyne:
The side chic or side hen did not want her to leave her marriage; she wanted to chop her husband on the side.

Remember the side hen was/is married and not planning to leave her husband till madam reported her.

That's why one needs common sense.

Since she had decided not to leave the marriage, common sense would have told her to look for a solution that would let everyone maintain their lane.

What was she expecting when she reported the side hen to the husband?

Even if her husband is not interested in marrying the side hen, he would make the marriage more uncomfortable than it already is (If his side hen loses her marriage).

Her village people were at work here.

Side hen indeed she is
The whole situation is messed up, the wife acted without seeking for advice. Well, as far as am concerned it is not yet bad for the wife. Unless the wife is full time house wife with so much time to while away. As for me the game just began, i will just sit back, relax and watch all of them

There will definitely be consequences on your future children if you as AS marry her as AS, period. There is no need to mince words.

I have seen lovers separate because of this, some still maintain friendship though. You guys ain't the first to be separated by this

So the husband is even proud cheating with a married woman, he is doing to his fellow man what he can't tolerate. Well, the wife shouldn't worry herself at all. She should just ignore the man, there is no point in leaving the marriage because that is what the side chick wants. She should just transform herself to be more sexy, dress sexy. Pay attention to her appearance. If she is fat, she should try and loose weight. Attend occasions and function where she can meet and hook up with friends especially male friends.

I don't even know what to write, but if am in her shoes i will know what to do without raising a voice.

Ok congrats
2127174012 fcmb

Lets prove you're not bluffing

15minutes max is ok, above is punishment and trying to prove what you're not

chatinent:
Killed.

Hmmmm

larrixauto2017:
Just boot up this system today.. then I saw it is not coming up once it load the HP Logo Stuff .. It Is Not showing welcome.. .. it will just be blank...

Pls does anybody have any idea.?? Of what is wrong.

Is this the right section to post this? Why not computer and Technology section