Emerald557:
My marriage is 3years as we speak with 2 kids(a boy and a girl). I took in for my daughter when my son was 1 year 3 months old. Now when I told my hubby I was pregnant, there is nothing he did not say or do to me, he said that he has people looking up to him and I am bringing extra burden on him. ((This is a man that agreed with me that we will have 3 kids God willing)) throughout my pregnancy he tormented me to the point that he wanted me dead with the pregnancy or that I miscarried the pregnancy or that I die with the pregnancy.He told people that I always disturbed him for s*x and that I planned the pregnancy. I fought to stay alive for my son. He beat me twice with the pregnancy on one occasion he blinded me in an eye from a punch from him for one week I didn't go to work, my job was astake. I kept praying and hoping I sailed through this pregnancy. On another occasion I needed to go out to my school's graduation with my son considering that i was heavy and am going with my son who is less than 2 years old, so i needed to go with the car (we both contributed money to buy(the family's car)) and we had both talked about my going with the car for my graduation the previous day, only for him to take the car keys and zoomed off to the car when I was ready with my son to go out. I tried to remind him about what we agreed on, he said and I quote "if you don't get out of there, I will jam you with the car", I was perplexed, still looking at him, he entered the car drove it and hit me with the car. Came out, slapped me and went back into the car and he said that he will kill me and marry another woman. It then dawned on me that he wants me dead. I had to start threading with caution knowing that am alone in this world, with my son and with pregnancy. I became more prayerful and I paid alot of sacrifices to stay alive. Sacrifices in the sense that I never demand for money from him as that will infuriate him to pounce on me. From the start of the pregnancy to baby items, hospital list, hospital bills after delivery till date I never asked him for money and he never used his mind to help out with money. I promised myself never to ask him for money again, I spend my money when am in need and I don't have money, I borrow. In the midst of this saga, he was always having s*x with me whenever he wants to, which mouth will I use to say no. And most of the time, he gets rough really rough during s*x so as to make me miscarry. Prior to this pregnancy I never refuse him s*x, even when I am too tired. When I am sick, he wants s*x, I tell him I can't because I am not well, he will force me. We can quarrel throughout the day and not talk to each other, but at night he must have "his" s*x. I tell him am not safe, he will tell me he will withdraw until I got pregnant for my daughter. Now I have put to bed. My son is 2yrs 4months and my daughter is 5months. I pay my bills and my kids bills and now he wants more sex. I can't do family planning for personal reasons. I plead with him to use condom, he says he won't that he does not like it. He uses withdrawal method which we both know doesn't work, and then I refuse him sometimes but still he over powers me and gets his s*x. I fear I will get pregnant again. Now he is threatening, raining fire and brimstone over s*x. That he will bring in a woman who will drive me out of the house. Please I need your candid advice on what to do. I am going crazy

What is wrong with Nigerian women? Why do we subject ourselves to endless abuse from men who call themselves our husbands all in the name of marriage? Madam, your husband assaulted you and almost blinded you and you are still in his house?

chris31:

You cant claim to love me when you cant get along with my mom mind you i can have another wife that will even love me more than you do but i cant have another mom she is all that i have got

kuku marry your mother.

The lecturer sounds reasonable but the lady seems crazy to me.

Akthedream112:

IT IS NOT JUST FOR THE CONTESTANTS...
IT IS FOR ME, YOU AND EVERYBODY...
WE ALL NEED IT COS I HAVE REALIZED THAT SOME GUYS ARE POTENTIAL RAPIST....

I agree.

janellemonae:
So big brother feels d need to teach the bbnaija contestants sex education 101.

Smh.

The topic is "consent is sexy".

The lecture is not for the HMs only but also for the viewers.

wapadunk:
They won't see her OLOSHO part. She is more OLOSHO in that house, but pretending because of Viewers. Bisola don't send and that's her real self. That doesn't make some bleeps commenting like saints here more Moral than her.

Even Oloshos have basic human rights and whomever violates it will br punished.

wapadunk:



I remembered when I was in school with my Bro. He met one lady that came for Post Jamb and she needs accommodation. They talked, he took her out after the post jamb and she came to crash in our place.

Well I slept on the floor, while she shared the bed with my Bro. In the middle the Night, my Bro waked her up and said she should spread out for the thing. She said she was doing fasting and three days prayer.

He lambasted her. She left first the in the morning.

Now, from the beginning she knew what he wanted and led him on. What if the konji had hooked him that night? And she even went to share the bed with him.


Is this not similar to TBOSS and KEMEN

The way people like you think is shocking and frightening. So because your brother provided accommodation for a lady she must sleep with him and if she refuses its justified if he forces himself on her.
Humans behaving worse than animals.

Threebear:
Am grateful everyday I have a dick.
Is this what women see?
You are molested, men are against you even your fellow women who are supposed to sympathise with you and understand that this could be them are also against you.
2017 and women are still under men, women wake up and shame for yourselves. For how long will you be tools only useful for pleasure.
Tufiakwa.

It's a sad world for women.
I feel sorry for any woman who support kemen.
The issue is not whether she was awake but that he touched her without her consent.
Why are Nigerians like this?

Papykush:
it is not about the money, it is about your reputation. Tboss just buried Kemen for life

Kemen buried himself. Na wa for una.
Always blaming the victim

This Kemen assault on Tboss shows how perverted and disgusting most Nigerians are. All they want is live action whether it is consensual or not. Sick people.

missbronze:
This is really bad on Kemen's reputation. Which company will want to endorse him as their ambassador?

This BBN wants to destroy this guy.

This is a disappointing comment especially coming from a female. Exactly why sexual offenders get off the hook in Nigeria because of your stupid mentality.

Vanessa88:
For those calling out Bassey gay. It's not fair
Being the booze and babes kinda man doesn't make one a real man!
The guy is just a smart, intelligent and talented young man with moral decorum who is trying not to stir up any controversy

God bless you.

ndidibabe:
Since you are not an hypocrite, can we assume that you can give a married man a Mouth Action and then air the video on TV for the whole world to see (his family inclusive)?

1. She is an adult.
2. She doesn't know he's married.
Funny how people are condemning Bisola( a SINGLE woman) but nobody is saying anything about TTT (a MARRIED man)

LuvU2:
Bur this poll wont determine who gets evicted!

If the voting result is from the big brother verified website, it would be foolish for them to evict a HM that was saved by the audience

ImadeUReadThis:


Give the guy a break.

He is trying to put food on the table for his kids.

Besides I think he isn't eyeing the money but the publicity which he has since achieved

If it was a married woman you wouldn't be telling us to give her a break.
Most Nigerians are like Gifty, fake and stupid

Boj2:

Baba ,she can't be categorized as an upcoming actress sef
She's a low end video vixen that appears in low budget underground artistes music vids

savage

mightyfada:
Soma pictured with 2Baba

Soma is like a lucky fan who manages to snap pictures with his idols. Whether it is clear or not, fine or not, he will share it

coolestchris:
Like attracts like...only a foolish girl will get herself drunk in the presence of a guy

Please can you shut up. The girl who gets herself drunk is a fool but the guy that rapes her afterwards is lucky abi?

teelaw4life:


BBN aside, wtf! Just reading the thing sef is giving me goosebumps. I have sisters and if a guy tries it with them i can't guarantee the things i might or might not do to that kind of guy.

Nawao.

Thank you for speaking against it.
If Kemen can boldly talk about it live he must have done it to innocent women.

coolestchris:
That's barbaric though...kemen has learnt his lesson..


Nobody is above mistake

So like a man to brush it off!
Stop making excuses for him

akthedream:

THANK YOU SIS.. CAN YOU IMAGINE THAT KEMEN TOLD EFE AND TONY THAT THE BEST WAY TO GET SOMEONE LIKE GIFTY, IS TO GET HER DRUNK AND GET HIMSELF DRINK TOO.
THEN AFTER HAVING SEX WITH HER, YOU NOW APOLOGIZE AND CLAIM IT WAS A MISTAKE..
I WATCHED HIM THAT NIGHT AND WAS WONDERING WHAT KIND OF GOAT KEMEN IS..
I NEVER KNEW UNTIL LAST NIGHT THAT BIG BROTHER CALLED HIM AND PLAYED HIM THE VIDEO FIR HIM TO WATCH.
ACCORDING TO HIM, HE LATER CALLED GIFTY AND APOLOGIZED..
WHAT A CAMEL KEMEN..

I never liked Kemen, anybody who supports him after reading this is worse than he is
I hate men that consciously take advantage of others vulnerability

I don't particularly like any of the housemate nominated for eviction. Won't vote this week

Coyotejack:



Guy in African restaurants in France attike is being sold best believe that.

Doesn't still make it a french dish

If miyonse does not get evicted, those that voted for him will regret it.
The guy has NOTHING to offer!
His perverted fans should keep up hoping that he will have sex with tboss and fulfil their sexual fantasy.

moufan:
what is paining most people is they can't phantom the possibility of a very beautiful and classy lady falling/loving a young boy,younger than her age.
most people are only jealous of miyonse period.

pls keep voting miyonse #teammiyonse

Somebody is delusional
Yet she voted for him to be evicted
Im sure she throws up any time he touches her
VOTE EFE

LordIsaac:
I adore her voice...but she will not be heard in my home for she is nothing short of a slut!

I despise hypocrites
Nigerians are expert at hypocrisy

Most of the people who want to save Miyonce or Soma are interested in live p.orn.
BBN is not pornhub. VOTE EFE!

Opakan2:


won ma do ndokudo

They want to turn Naija to sin country.. we're watching in 3D

Is it not already a sin country?
Is it ghosts that are raping your children or spirits that are killing your econmy?
Holier than thou nonsense

Seun:
Every decent person shares the humble Bishop's feelings about Boko Haram, but asking people to spill the blood of "anyone that looks like them" (i.e. a northerner or muslim in the wrong place at the wrong time) is very wrong. Didn't Jesus say, "love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you"? How can you call yourself a Christian if you blatantly and proudly disobey the teachings of the very Christ you worship?

why is it that people have a problem when Christians want to fight back? Have we not remained complacent enough?

dumodust:
maje discovered anita was the real deal the hard way... toke or token or whatever was busy attending parties... trying to belong and neglecting the man. her book is a one sided account

if he was unsatisfied with her lifestyle why did he not end the relationship boldly and maturely, why did he lie and cheat. maje is a coward
people like you will end up with the anitas of this world

Tolexander:
I love the man's ebony colour!
So lovely!

I advise he keeps up with using the black kiwi polish as cream!

racist to your own kind and you expect others to love you

Tolexander:
I love the man's ebony colour!
So lovely!

I advise he keeps up with using the black kiwi polish as cream!

racist to your own kind and you expect others to love you

StupidYorubaFool:
yes hard work doesn't pay. but only in Nigeria the zoo country shiits like this happens.
the kind hard working efforts were I double up this year have all gone in vain chai.
may God help me this next round cos it's not him that willeth nor by power

you're clearly Ibo judging by your bitter comment.
if we are living in a zoo doesn't it make you st.upid for willingly schooling in a zoo?