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You really make sense. However, average women are greedy too, they want the glory alone. I can't go in detail but we all know. Children too have their own selfish and greedy part of the blame. In all. Your article make sense.

xynerise:
Yes, I said so.

If you are of the school of thought that providing for the family along automatically makes you a caring father, then you are among those that
risk being irrelevant to your children.

If you look at most families today, the children hardly mention their fathers when making a reference to something inspiring. I mean quoting what your father once taught you or something positive you learnt while growing up. I am referring to fathers of our time.

Today, everything is about making money and paying the bills. That is not enough.
How close are you to your children? It is always the mother that attends to issues that trouble the children today. Even though fathers source for solutions at the end but the children will always remember the person that discovered the problems, or at least care to know what the problem is.

How often do we call our kids, sit them down and ask them about the kind of challenges they face in life?

Some fathers hardly call their children (far from home) on phone except the mother does and maybe pass the phone to him. This has made some people to call mostly their mothers on phone and explain situations to her rather than the father who provides the money to solve the situations.

You can see that despite most fathers provide the money, yet the mothers get most of the appreciation.

My point is, we shouldn't be too focus on just making the money. Let us remember we are also making a family too.

Over 90% of evil act that happen daily are committed by poor people. No wonder rich people stay far from them mostly when it comes to marital life. They don't want to mingle with them at all. Evil and Poor people na 5&6

dre11:
https://punchng.com/ondo-woman-conspires-with-lover-to-kill-ex-boyfriend/

Lazy citizen. Nothing ever good in their eyes. Lol

SadiqBabaSani:
clueless people

You see this your mentality heen, its only God that can change it. It has gone too deep. So, Okada riding is what you call business that Government stoped? So, why can't he practice of eaterblish same business in his country? Well RIP to yye dead. But Mr, kindly change your mindset.

comshots:
Na so Lagos state government take ruined this man's capital intensive business.
Why will foreigners come here to invest when government politicians are enemies of progress.

Men should be dealing the false audition of rape. Women are delicate don't take this for granted, sue them Those that lied... [quote author=iamyemiakins post=91328813]Alleged sexual allegation: Popular Twitter influencer - Dr. Olufunmilayo sues his accuser, Bolanle Aseyan, demands £10,000 for damages.

https://twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278937899870892033?s=20[/quote]

This one sweet me... I can't wait to read about them.. Lafff

Freestainworld:
how about Nigerian-Pakistani girls?

Ayeloriyen. Oversabi people. Lol 99% of people here understood what you meant when you say JEEP. He wants to prove to you that he studied Jeepology from Cambridge University.

shenny4uall:
SpaceAngel: Thank you so much for replying that comment. I don't know why some people do everything they can to find ways to bring negativity into something so simple. If the topic doesn't appeal to someone (e.g., grimadult) then ignore it instead of writing something negative.

RUBISH! Weak men every where this days. A woman you are suppose to less one of her breast for doin this to you. May we never give birth to weak children. Most Poor men are so weak. That's why I dont keep them as friends... Can a woman tries this with my brother? when she no drink superglue. Robish... Spit

made4naijamusic:
A video making the rounds on social media has captured the moment a woman bumped into her husband having lunch with his side chick at a restaurant.

The angry wife who couldn’t stand her husband with another woman landed serious slaps on his face. She asked him how he would have the guts to take a lady out while she is still alive.

She also bathed her husband with the plate of soup which he bought from the restaurant and asked him to meet her at home as she dashed out of the restaurant.

Onlookers at the restaurant inquired from the man how he married such a woman as a wife, while laying insults on her for her attitude.

watch video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVmc5Uv_yH0

Liers. That's how they say they went to the moon. Thats how they say Alien exist. Awon Oniro AYE.. You can't leave little kids with them, they will reformat their brain with lies... Yinmu.

Macsjebs:
Source: https://www.mirror.co.uk/science/dinosaurs-turned-cannibalism-food-scarce-22096265

Too dool? Laff, bro don't be relased. That guy might,be the richest in your family soon. I am talking fromn experince. Every if my mate that we call fool then by now,cam even buy private jet. How it happened no body knows. 14yrs old boy is still very young. write today's date down and tell me his position in the next 20 to 25yrs. Bro, wake up. That guy will cope and explode in success soon. Thank you for your care but trust me he is not doll. smile.

Humanoid01:
I have no idea what this is, but the part where you said he doesn't know the difference between 17 and 71 got me thinking about dyslexia or dyscalculia. From your narrative, the greater part of his problem points towards arithmetics, so it's more likely to be dyscalculia. It's also possible to have more than one learning disability, so chances are he's suffering from both.

People with learning disabilities are not necessarily dull (or unintelligent), it's just that the parts of their brains that are responsible for the performance of generally easy tasks which are difficult to them, are in a state of disorder. I'm a slow learner, but I don't consider myself dull, and that's because I believe every individual needs specific conditions to enable them learn effectively.

That boy may be even more intelligent than all of you. He needs to visit a psychologist or learning specialist who understands what it means to have an LD. Stop wasting money on lesson teachers.

I got the following from a website and it fits with some of the descriptions you made:
Dyscalculia

A specific learning disability that affects a person’s ability to
understand numbers and learn math facts. Individuals with
this type of LD may also have poor comprehension of math
symbols, may struggle with memorizing and organizing
numbers, have difficulty telling time, or have trouble with
counting. https://ldaamerica.org/types-of-learning-disabilities/

I talk am. Na them, a land with no single respect for old and young.

Spit...

Made4naijalove:
A video shared online shows the moment a boy got into a physical fight with his father in Abia state.

In the video, the boy, named Abuchi, is seen fighting his father in front of their home, in the full glare of the public.

Voices can be heard cautioning the boy but the fight between father and son continued.

A spectator got involved and tried to separate the fight then pushed the father and son inside.

According to reports, the son was angry that his father has not given them money for food ever since the lockdown started.

Watch the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNIEunKPHzY

When you see a frustrated local human been this is exactly one (OP).

Very empty headed. Lafff..

Dyt:
Never ever
I mean never settle for an entitled man

1) You were on point until that land matter you planned to buy and not include him in it, that's a sign of (selfishness from your side) sorry if I was too blunt. Marriage is selflessness nothing in it.

2) He is use to that kind of life more so your in-laws are greedy and inconsiderate.

3) Your husband has little mistake here and that's the fact that he doesn't say no in all demands. You can't wast all your money on family matter alone.

4) Saying you are tired is just a way of women. When it comes to money matter women get tired easily mostly when their money is involved in family upkeep. Such mentality is a SCAM and must stop.

5) Lastly, we can't judge your husband here because an elder that hear from one mouth and condemn other parties is called "Agba-osika" (wicked elder) so, by Friday, tell your husband that committee of NL elders wants to see him. Lets here from him too.

God bless your home.

Till we see.

Anni3e:
Hi, I have been married for 9 years now, the problem I have with my husband is that his family members keep sucking him dry and the way he neglects us his immediate family.

He is the first child of 7 children, his siblings even the married ladies keep asking him for money. He keeps spending money on them and their husbands. His brothers keep crying they are broke, they keep leeching off him.

His two junior brothers that always ask him for money, one of them built a house in Port Harcourt and the other one built a big house in the village. Still they won't let him rest.

His married sisters are the worst. If they cough they would call him to send money, every minor thing they would expect money. Just this evening his sister called him to ask for money. We don't have a house of our own, I keep telling my husband to stop giving in to all their demands and invest the money on something, he would say I am turning him against his family.

We have 2 kids and I have told him we need to start saving for their future, I pay the electricity bill, foodstuffs, and most times the children school fees, he pays the house rent and rarely keeps money for home upkeep, he sometimes drops two thousand and that's it for the whole week. He always complains he has no more, but once his family calls him he sends money immediately.

I have saved enough to buy a land and I am not planning to include his name in the property. I don't know what to deal with, his family entitlement mentality or the way he neglects the kids and I and treat us like outsiders.

I am really pissed off and tired.

Sorry for the long post.

Congrats bro. Guys be wise. Don't spend your money on all these golddigger girls. Most of them spend over 25years in one room with their symblings and parent but want a man to build mansion in 2years of dating them. Run from poor bad women they will ruins your life.

Don't say I did not tell you people.

Its a SCAM that pressure must be mount on men to provide luxury lifestyle to a woman a life she can never provide for her self. Its a scam.

Men wake up...

Brother I congratulate you. Please never never accept her back in case she comes back.

Peace.

Bluntintrovert1:
Ladies like that are the reasons why men sees ladies as skank. Anyways God will continue to uplifts you and make sure you get yourself a more deserving lady. I pray you find genuine love someday.