Mention just 2 things Men gain from marriage.. Just 2... I am waiting. Lafff...
Warripikine: Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there? You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore.. Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?
Bald head is for Big Men, stop killing our cultire. Instead of you to be happy you are complaning.. You better be happy. You will be very rich. Wink...
fablouzLeged: Pls I am 22 years of age a student but my damage hair is making me reluctant to even meet my Friends I am alway in face cap
It started in July 2020 when I decided to start bathing cold showers in the morning everyday and each time I enter the shower I always put my hair directly I will use brush and scrub my head hair because of dandruff I don't know that I was harming my hair I was doing that until one day my sister tell me am loosing my hair as I checked the mirror I was shocked and we are about to resume to school for that reason I started buying different oil ,and plenty hair products but no result
In early 2020 I have my thicker hair until July 2020 this thing Happen
I shave my hair but the back hair always grow fast and thicker
Pls help me I finished all my savings in buying hair products just to see quicker result but no its even started affecting my concentration in school I Always hide from my Friend s
My fellow nairalders please if you have any recommendation on how to revert my hair please help
You eye will open soon. But it's not stressful when she was doing documentation in registry? Or you thing registration for marriage comes easy? Now she got what she wants and forming its hard to change name. Lol
I blame the weak men Of nowadays. Change your name as my wife or I give you sack letter (If I be the men). Who get time for rubish...
BluntCrazeMan: The Argument In This Write-up Is Very Valid. So Please, Stop Blaming The Ladies. They Are Willing, But The Process Is Stressful. .. Blame The Crippled System.!!
You need t reformat your brain. You are not even known among the race just keep quite when men are talking... Ooni & Igoho is talking just keep quiete.
ORIENTATION101: Sunday igboho has offended all 201 dieties of Yorubaland , Cos that's what ooni represent.since he cant learn how to speak to elders, he will be taught a bitter lesson. Any masquerade that sees himself like a God will be stripped Naked in the market place
When do people start calling this people RITUALIST but not Yahoo boys? Then call the Yahoo boys cyber thiefs. Why giving evil behaviour branding face?
Islie: The suspect, said to be a resident of Urhuoka, Abraka in the Ethiope East Local Government Area of the state, is cooling his heels in police detention.
Which of the youths are ready? The omoyele that is filly involved in the struggle you people never supported him for once. But you want one myopic some one to just jump and sit in AsoRock. You guys haven't ready. When you are ready you start doing real life challenging politically not those useless #smallpikinChallenges you guys create everyday online.
Position of power you fight to get it. Not by crying no body your cry move. So the needful then take power from the cabal as you said. Alaafia.
You are wrong about that. Polygamous home is more better than most of these single nagging monogamy marriages. Since you have been reading marital killing, breakups, divorce, etc, the single family do this most. Within a year we do see more than 10 cases of wives or husband that killed their partner or deformed them, mostly all are from single home family not as a result of polygamy. So, don't conclude such. No polygamist go to early grave it's a matter of choice. African's are Hypocreates. You see polygamy as bad omen but gradually embrassing Homosexualism marriage gradually because your slave masters (oyinbo) Said so.
Any man that have interest in polygamy should do so. Every body with their opinion.
Their is full is shits lies and SCAM in that sex industry called marriage. Only few enjoys it.
Useless people both the interviewee and interviewer. The girl lied big time.. That girl is not Youruba, pure lier. This are stuoid people they just wanted you to waste your data to watch that video. God punish them.
ashacot: Wonder they say will never end. A lady has taken to courage to tell a marriage counselor about how confused she is about about the father of her unborn child. According to her, she has been sleeping with her husband father hence she can't truly tell if her child belongs to her husband or his father.
Pele, what I see here is: Nice baby guy dating a smart baby girl. Women cry for carering and men that gave them all their time but in reality my dear they doesn't like men that over pamper them. They might be with you but their heart is with the hard real men. That's how their brain works.
No woman will fall in love with you and leave you for 2weeks claiming getting back one mental stuffs. You would have dispute and settled it. Don't fall for this trap.
Most of us have once be in similar relationship where the man loves the girl but the girl loves another man vice versa.
Lastly, marriage is so boring and full of misunderstanding if only one person among the curple was in love. So, if you are not both having clear mind for each other you better leave her. That's thing you call feelings is just a psychology Infantuation.
You still can't blame the girl, one-way or the other you had also done such too to some one (perharps) by not giving your attention to lady that gave you attention for some reasons.
Marry your friend.
Serene123: Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.
I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married. She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife
In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick. While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic. She has insisted nothing serious is going on. I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue. She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.
She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..
I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.
I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her
I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.
I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on. I need your advise.
Promote your candidate and stop fooling around by speaking for 250m Nigerians. That's why most of you don't know this game. You quantify online war, talk, wailling etc to real life game... Popular web politicians would have 1m vote online but in real life has only 3 votes... Lafff. My man, Level up. If you are not a politician you can't explain how this ecosystem works..
Omofloflo: Can Tinubu become president of this country? Igbos don't like him... most Hausas dont like him, even his own people(yoruba) dislike him except those on his payroll.
No one will help you here. You are distorting him gradually.. You know what to do. Stop pretending... Fixed your family. This is not rocket science to solve.
Chisaedhor: Really don't know the section to post this.
My 3 year old son loves cartoon especially PJ Mask so much to the extend he could watch it from 7pm to 3a.m in the morning
If you take him to the bed room he won't sleep, he cries and if not this cartoon no body watches any other program anymore.
He use to be very very intelligent before now, its seem this PJ Mask has entered his head.
Please help me, how can I stop him or distract him from this??
You have wisdom, continue like this, you will go far... Lol. I like your comment... Nexxtt
SilverNorGold: Lol... I don't blame the narcissistic women, I blame the stupid men for degrading themselves just to impress women. If not why would women weaponize sex? Something they themselves enjoy? Chai, some men are SO STUPID that they pay women financially to satisfy them (both) sexually, God forbid!
Any man who pays or bribes a woman to have sex is NOT A MAN! Any man who degrades himself to satisfy a woman IS NOT A MAN!
Are you one of those guys that invented technologies that's solving humanity problems? If yes, I want to be like you. Perhaps, if no then wakeup from your slumber. Stop deceiving your self. Lol..
Fabulousl0l: Pray, let God bring you to my level You will forever be grateful
Thank God say I never buy it.. This video would have caused depression. Lafff.. People will be like go and ait down, your Benz, is what some people used to sell kayamata & herbs laff
It surprises many people to see the luxurious Mercedes- Benz C300 in Kaduna being used to hawk herbal products, with a speaker placed over the roof of the car and the drugs they sell placed on the bonnet of the car. The man selling the herbal product was seated in the car advertising the herbal product in Hausa Language.
It was a show offense surprise to many people to see such an expensive car being used to sell such product. Presently the Mercedes- Benz C300 is not being sold with less than 3. 5 million Naira, depending on the year of manufacture.
Such an expensive and luxurious car which is what many people in Nigeria will do anything to get is what has been reduced to herbal product delivery and service car. Many people would in the past have done different things to get this type of car, from those that will embezzle government fund, to cheating, ' yahoo yahoo' and all sought of things, Reports.
This is a great lesson to everybody reading this article, that life is simple and all material world is nothing but vanity. It is not that you should not try to make ends meet, like acquiring a house of your own, buying a car of your own and putting on designer' s cloths, but acquiring such wealth in a legit way is what this article is advocating.
No matter how rich you are today, there were those who were richer than you before, they had all these material wealth around them, which have been outdated today. The best house built in 2010 is not what is trending today, so also the best type of car used in 2010 are not the latest in town today.
Therefore, live a life that is simple and help the needy and the less privileged in your society. Dash out to them what they lack and value, give them something like water, electricity, scholarship, hospital equipment and so on.
How i wish I know your mama and dad. This road you want to enter will really though. You better run... Go and settle for your type. Your mate are looking for virgin's to marry na after 2 woman you won marry? How would you feel each time she would wants to go to her ex husband for talk about their children? Young man don't put your self in a delima...
BabaIbo: I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.
As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.
Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.
Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.
Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).
My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation? *Go on and start a relationship with her. *Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.
Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.
Note: She has never been married. She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.
God punish poverty Lafff... I will advice that guy if he was my friend not to such girl...
Trayceey: I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship
My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.
When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.
Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.
Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?
To the best of my knowledge both if them are wrong. The lady was not portraying responsible manners while the man anger was extream. With this her report, the lady is not responsible. The man also.
MyopicMods: A 27-year-old businessman, Emmanuel Chukwuma Igwe, has been accused of brutalizing his baby mama, Porcia Achonu, and cutting her with a cutlass, in Owerri, Imo State.
According to the mother of two, the incident occurred on Saturday, January 2, at about 1am, shortly after they had returned from a trip to the village.
“My baby daddy’s younger sister served him food and I asked her about mine. She eyed me and hissed. So I stood up from where I was and went to her room to collect a piece of chicken, she grabbed the chicken from me and asked me if I was mad.
So we started fighting and my baby daddy came in and descended on me. He beat me up so badly that his father came out and was holding me. They locked me inside the house and said I wouldn’t go anywhere. Even when my brother came, they refused to let him in.
Later, my baby daddy asked his father to open the gate so he can leave, but instead, he went to his car and brought out a cutlass which he used to chopped me repeatedly in the presence of his father. At a point, I pretended as if I was dead so he could leave me alone. He fell for it and that was when he drove off with his car.
He’s currently on the run, but his father has been arrested,” she said
At your age, that's why you never get money till date. You are too stubborn to learn from new idea and adamant to discuss or share on success stories. I know you. OP, Continue.
Villagemeat: You want to advertise networking business,na so them dey start
Poor people full with hattred. They can never change let the rich kids take them back. Nothing you will preach that will change the mind of poor people.. They are the real devil people pray against. Full of jealousy, consciousness, etc.. Spit on them.
Freemasonry: I've come to understand that it's almost normal for the hoi polloi to hate privileged people. I don't really understand the psychology behind that but I know it's unhealthy and silly. Instead of misdirecting such misguided hate on people whose fathers made money why not hate your father who couldn't make it.
Take for instance, a few years ago Paddy Adenuga had published an inspiring article where he shared his struggles in business and how he succeeded, but in a bizarre twist of narrative the haters attacked him and alluded to the fact that his father's money did this and did that.
Shortly after, Dj Cuppy was also bullied online by people who believes she has no business being a dj, let alone a popular one at that. To them it's her affluent background that's doing the trick not her talent.
The same with Davido. No matter what he does, how many awards he wins, or cool tunes he drops, he'll never be good enough for these people who believe he didn't earn his place at the table.
Instead, they revere and respect those they think are from the streets even when these people are nothing short of mediocre. A case in point is the current frosty relationship between Davido and Burna boy, how did it all start? Both of them were chummy until Burna boy made a disparaging remark about Davido's father buying fame for him. This was not only in bad taste but smacks of obvious jealousy. That you struggled to climb up the ladder due to lack does not make you better, or mean that those who have the resources to advance their dreams or careers must suffer like you before their talents can be validated.
And if the eyewitness account in the media is anything to go by, then it’s obvious that this unfortunate incident was all Burna boys doing. He showed up at the club with 6 hired goons and went straight to the VIP section where Davido was sitting to confront him. Although this is yet to be verified but judging from Burna boy’s propensity for violence it is highly probable that is what happened.
It’s time people do away with this wrong notion that privileged kids don’t deserve what they have. No matter how hard they work there’s always someone who thinks that without their money they’d probably not make it that far, but nothing could be farther from the truth. These kids work just as hard as the poor kids, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with using what you have to advance yourself. I mean you can’t hate on these kids just for being rich as if they’re the ones that stopped your father from making money. It’s wrong and it’s in bad taste.
Instead of hating divert that energy into making money so your kids won’t be just like you. Shout out to David. Keep keeping it a 100.
Sis you say Ikorodu is the next Lekki penisular? Haa!!! Don't worry all of us, our reward is in heaven...
boyelarry: Hi tox22. The coolest place for you to buy land now that is still far less than your budget in lagos now is ikorodu. With 1.5 million and 2 million you will get a land at a nice location. You can even buy the ones that are less than a million depending on wether you want to start construction immediately or you are just speculating. Many people are coming to ikorodu now because that is the next lekki penninsula and more so the construction of the 4th mainland bridge which is at the planning stage is another attraction. You can even get land at the water front if you are the type that likes to be close to water. As for abuja i am not familiar with it. If you are interested in ikorodu, you can mail me on seggs.partners@yahoo.com to get some of our property menu
To be honest your are far from digital age with this your reply...
JesusJesus: The SIM card you have must have been used by someone previously Maybe the person is dead. The SIM card was recycled and you purchased it. Simple
Help your self.. You did not just start such attitude so, don't come here asking for help. I woun't advice you because you already know what you are doing is bad.... Check your growing up, such attitude could be traced to you. I don't celebrate mediocrity. Stop it or don't when times comes your eyes will clear. I rest my case.. Nexxxxt...
craigkoel1989: Anytime my wife makes me angry I destroy things, the first day she made me angry I destroyed the television remote, another day was the dining table and yesterday I smashed her Android Samsung phone even though I later became remorse and bought her a new one.
I am afraid I might beat her one day.
What is wrong with me and what can i do to stop it?
Always MEN! In this difficult task you will never see those smelling feminist talk or drag equality. But if its where they can harvest what they did not sow that's when you see them flying up amd down like flies... Finding cheap publicity. Only one lady here. I salute her for her bravity eventhoug the guys will still have to form wall around her during battle, at least she tried.
If I hear any lazy feminist talk here I will less one of you yatch... If you want equality then perform equally. No body is stoping anybody but the matter is you can't cheat nature. As far as I am concern, my man is my KING!! any day anytime. Men they try... They have their weakness too but MEN NA MEN... I rest my case.
Read My humble opinion: With what's happening to traditional kings this days makes me to paralised hope in many spiritual believe we learnt on how these Oba's are spiritually equipped.
If this was to be in movie, the king would have used bear hand to redirect the bullet back to shooter but in real life nothing.
Akinolu's staff of office was taken away no single accient security to guide it as we all believed how powerful these kings are. If it was to be in film all of them that tried to cataway the staff would have by now turned to IJAPA (I woun't tell you the meaning of that) lafff..
The entire traditional practisionals in the area can not consult oracle to see who did that
But inside film they will show us how powerful they are by seeing future via a wall morrow seeing live videos of how things happens.
Too much lies to us in this humanity race.
Lastly, many years of hidden century lies are been opening. Rest in peace Kabiesi (King)
My guy nothing in weeding. You better open your eyes. Of you have this low relationship feelings subject to your salary you better leave girl for now and focus on your life.. I don't know why most of you fall for women trick easily... Wake up.
Afikoo: Good morning Nairalanders. I sure know you all fine.
I am writing this with heavy heart. I know we have super rich people here who rose from poverty to riches.
This life isn't balance. Done with school. Been working as security administrator in my church and I earn 80k. I have been planning on getting married. Have met my fiance Parents, they were happy. I have engaged her she is happy. All of a sudden the elder brother who isn't around is angry that I haven't spoken to him about my intention. I have earlier tried his line severallly and it isn't going through. Had to chat him and he told me I am not serious that I should grow up. A bullet in my heart.
Her mum has suddenly changed and is accusing me for not calling her always. This whole drama has gotten into my babe now she is talking about us suspending our marriage plan and try improving our income. (She is learning a skill)
I am fed up. Have suspended everything now. I have tried everything since I left school last year to improve my income. Apply for jobs here and there. Is just not cutting in.
Please, share your experience on how you were able to get out of this average life as a Nigerian.
Advise me and others still struggling to rise up. You can recommend jobs for me. I studied history and Diplomatic Studies. Have some certification in Leadership and human resource. Trust me, I can deliver on anything legal. I have the capacity, but haven't gotten the opportunity.
It's so absord for poor people to think that everybody in Nigeria lives in same level sha.. So, Mr. Man or woman, you never believe that people that will drive electric cars are not people that complain about light? If you are too confused, wait, let me bust one of your balls.. Oh sorry, I meant bubles... This car has charging terminals. So, don't give your self High BP. Ok? Calm Down.
Sundrus: country wey no get light wan use electric cars. Yeye people with misplaced priorities.
Family › Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by MarthaGlobal: 8:18am On Feb 23, 2021
Wonder they say will never end. A lady has taken to courage to tell a marriage counselor about how confused she is about about the father of her unborn child. According to her, she has been sleeping with her husband father hence she can't truly tell if her child belongs to her husband or his father.