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BigBashiru:
This is 1560 - have any more recent examples?

Topmaike007:
hmmmmn, that's the real truth,but funny enough it's bitter

wetdick:
no time to argue with a jobless and broke jamesbond wannabe.

wetdick:
It is so interesting how all the NL alphas wannabe have quoted paragraphs from pickup artists. Reading their confusion and contradictions was amazing. The other day one called martinez39 open a thread abt how people should stop living a fake life. All you wannabes alphas are just bunch of emotional actors

Uglymugg:
Lol, who said anything about being rich? I'm talking about not being broke, that does NOT equal being rich. It doesn't always have to be the two extreme. If someone calls you broke, doesn't mean they expected you to be rich like Linda or Dangote. It's just...be able to live comfortably with what you earn.

One thing I've never seen is a broke alpha male.

tizan:
Mine is a bit different. It's about how my marriage is going to end. As negative as it may sound, I currently feel I will have to bring and end to this marriage in order to be happy.

The problems:
Keeping secrets and telling lies about everything from past relationships to whether she had dinner. Once visited a male friend without my knowledge. Still passing off an ex as a family friend, and keeping that relationship (platonic or not) going till today. Just to name a few.

And it's not just about ex's. The lies and deceit from her are at a level I never imagined I would have a personal experience of, and with marriage I have realized; unfortunately for me, that it runs in their family. For example, I found out after marriage that the house she took me to meet her parents is not their house. And everyone in their family played along.

My curiosity was aroused when I noticed her deleting chats from her phone about two days after the wedding but it faded in the excitement of that period. I was intrigued further when I observed another red flag phone conversation after two weeks while still adjusting to the new status, and then I knew something was not right. So I decided to investigate some of my concerns and the stuff I have found make my heart sink. I realize I am being betrayed repeatedly and now have virtually lost trust in her words, actions and intentions.

Let me add that I never expected an angel, we're human and are all liable to lie and stuff like that, but with her its like a deep rooted problem and I find that I can't deal with it. I'm too open and straight-forward to be matched up with a pathological liar.

I have confronted her on some of the lesser lies (e.g she lied about her salary on a job she got through my network, lied that she didn't do MMM whereas she did twice, lies to maintain her previous lies, and just lying even when it's unnecessary). I have had to be playing the fool just to get enough information to confront her with when the time comes. Because I don't want to bring up a situation that will leave room for any family members and their expected begging, or reconciliation.

I am glad now that I did not question her immediately. Now that I know her much more from living together, I realize she would have just told more lies to cover up and blocked my means of finding out once she found out my method of getting info, and I wouldn't have gotten all the additional information I have now. I know a lying is an essential ingredient of cheating, and I am only anticipating catching her red-handed on a matter of faithfulness, and that's it.

For those who say some some comments here are from people making out to be victims and not confessing their own shortcomings, I say with a sense of seriousness, DON'T JUDGE. And I sincerely pray you don't find yourself in these types of circumstances. As for me though, I have become more irritable and tend to over-react at times. For example, I have reacted physically, though regrettably, on two separate occasions in the early days of my discoveries, but now I'm not as shocked anymore and find it easier to keep my cool. Additionally, I don't show as much care as I can, and probably don't regard her with the kind of respect she deserves as my Mrs. The love has diminished. But that's what happens when trust flies out of the window.

What I've written above does not do the situation justice as it's not possible to capture everything in a few paragraphs, but overall I have not been genuinely happy for months and want out for sure.

Please note that I am not looking for sympathy or consolation as I know what I've gotten myself into. I'm just sharing so that someone can learn from my experience, and also hoping to read others' experiences as well.

realtalk19:
very true based on those I have come across

error4040:
if you agree with me the only solution is to remake those games for current console with better graphics

error4040:
they should have Allowed Ps4 to support ps2 games Atleast. just for old time sake.

error4040:
lwkm those witches, I was able to pass them with the help of a friend.

Ps2 would forever be the best console ever invented.

realtalk19:
I didn't generalize but based on observations with most short people I have come across are aggressive and stubborn

realtalk19:
lol, it's obvious u ar a nassicist and a loner that's why u can't accept success or defeat. funny enough u ar not God . I wil get married and even send u an invite. just stay alive for it.

Deicide:
I don't get it how people are jealous of other's success i mean we all gonna die one day so what's the point. Humans have to much ego yuck

stanliwise:
situation made it beyond us. The time and resources to dedicate to it is not worth it when there are more pressing needs. I am a big fan of all type of board game, I haven't meet a contender in draught till today except online which I couldn't trust their authenticity
in my opinion I actually don't think any game is harder than chess except the game creator don't want they game to be played.

Rgade:
Hmm.. Killer bean.

stanliwise:
Stockfish help me know how chess is played and that every moves had it strength. Bad moves make you loose faster and just good moves keep the game longer. It beem like 2 month since I played chess last. It battles me that I cannot become a master/grandmaster anymore but I have it as a plan to train my future Kid to be one if he/she shows interest.

stanliwise:
That part cracked me.. But hope you use it for analysis... meaning you know how to analyze game?

cococandy:
Let the Bible try and stop her when she finds someone else

error4040:
I can relate
you remember those two gay black guys MR Gold and MR Silver

stanliwise:
hahahahhahaha Stockfish made me to have phobia for chess. Now I only use it for analysis.

BananaTree:
Chess

Winter4:
Look at it from this angle: The guilty parties are not talking. The hurt ones are those pouring their minds out. If I was guilty, I wouldn't say a word here also....abi how would I justify cheating on my husband? Or beating my wife to a pulp...

ImaIma1:
Wrong! Read again. Funmi was responding to Poco's response to me.

She mentioned red pill. Does red pill apply to only MGTOW?

zeb04:
I don’t understand why you think they are making themselves the victims.

why did you create the thread in the first place if you will not believe them.

kollinzgee:
loolzzz the life of a betamale is bitter unless he luckily gets rich even at that he is still a beta .i have been there and done that.he cannot face the crowd and be assertive,he crumbles under pressure,women easily loose interest in him,they always come to nairaland to cry when their hearts get broken,shuush a betamale depends on luck and chance to get anything in life mostly settles for less.

ImaIma1:
Did I mention MGTOW? Read to understand and not to attack.

Athena4:
Hmm.You are certainly an impressionable youngster. You should browse more productive websites..Like Quora..read from real live successful men what it's like to be "A DECENT MAN". U certainly won't find sexist childish rants that deceive you.