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Romance › Re: ——————. by Martinez39(op): 9:40pm On Feb 13, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
You talk too much!
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Romance › Re: ——————. by Martinez39(op): 9:36pm On Feb 13, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
You talk too much.
I just opened a thread and you are saying I talk too much. I don't get it huh
Romance › Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 9:35pm On Feb 13, 2019
Hed0nist:
Op is missing the most important fact: These Hoes ain't loyal.
Here is the thread for that. wink
Romance › ——————. by Martinez39(op):
Local man progressed in knowledge and wrote off this topic. Thanks for coming.
Family › Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Martinez39(m): 7:49pm On Feb 13, 2019
Madam, take it easy and don't rush. Just flow at your own pace without succumbing to pressure and you will get there. Don't be too hard on yourself.
Romance › Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 7:43pm On Feb 13, 2019
highqueen:
There's no point trying to convince whoever that there's God.
Choose what you want to believe in.
Nobody gives a rat ass about You, Okay?
Ah ahn, we dey fight? grin I just stated my hard facts about life. I didn't say I wanted to convince others. O ga o. grin
Crime › Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Threatening To Go Join Her Twin In Heaven by Martinez39(m): 6:27pm On Feb 13, 2019
Telling people heaven is + strong attachment to a dead loved one = suicide to join them in heaven.

RIP!
Romance › Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 6:22pm On Feb 13, 2019
ubunja:
to which I told him there is none.
What part of that statement did you not understand?
You made it clear to me that you had no evidence to back the existence of god.
Crime › Re: 14-Year-Old Girl Slashes The Joystick Of Man Who Almost Raped Her In Katsina by Martinez39(m): 5:16pm On Feb 13, 2019
ismailaja:
sorry, I did not finish my comment. yea, that doesn't mean rape is the next step. am a Muslim, if a man feel a sex urge, he should go on fasting. am 23yearz old and am a virgin. I just want to express that a man sensual tension it like a punishment and nt easy to control for men with ojukokoro
Okay. At least we can agree that all men have self control no matter what.
Romance › Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 4:36pm On Feb 13, 2019
ubunja:
If God can be proved then faith would be useless.
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Crime › Re: 14-Year-Old Girl Slashes The Joystick Of Man Who Almost Raped Her In Katsina by Martinez39(m): 4:33pm On Feb 13, 2019
ismailaja:
men sexual urges start from the brain to chest and the feeling of releasing d tension. it's not easy to be man
Abegi, there is no excuse. All men have self control. Imagine if a man raped your daughter and he gave you such an excuse, will you pardon him? Stop being a rape apologist. Do you know what it means to violate someone's rights and leave them with trauma? Oga you no try o, you fall my hand.

Crime › Re: 14-Year-Old Girl Slashes The Joystick Of Man Who Almost Raped Her In Katsina by Martinez39(m): 4:30pm On Feb 13, 2019
Correct girl cheesy. All these scum bags that can't control their joysticks deserve such treatment. cheesy
Crime › Re: FUTO Undergraduate, Chitere Okoronkwo Kills Her Boyfriend. Photo by Martinez39(m): 4:28pm On Feb 13, 2019
adedayourt:
undecided
Sir, I think I don't have sense. grin
Family › Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(op): 3:33pm On Feb 13, 2019
cococandy:
I have a child. I’ll be the one to let you know how hard or not it can be.

You’re the unintelligent one here if at this point you haven’t grasped onto the hypothetical nature of this conversation.
Lol. I haven't lost grasp of the argument. Anyways, there is no point in arguing with you. You are going to believe what you want at the end of the day. Bye bye.

Family › Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(op): 3:31pm On Feb 13, 2019
cococandy:
I’m assuming you have a little bit of enlightenment at this point in your life (I might be wrong)
But if you do, you should know by now that it’s only loser guys who (once they feel their logic failing) start to make the sexist joke about how a woman should go make them a meal instead of trashing their behind in a discourse.

Even children don’t use that line anymore. But if indeed I ran a sandwich bar, you couldn’t afford to eat there.
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Lol. I am not a loser guy, okay. It's not my fault that you can't get a joke. Sorry about that.
Family › Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(op): 2:52pm On Feb 13, 2019
cococandy:
Dumb joke
Lol. Don't let my sandwich burn. grin
Family › Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(op): 2:52pm On Feb 13, 2019
cococandy:
If you had led with saying that they should both be doubling their hustle to provide for their kids, then you would have made sense right off the bat instead of saying if 6k is all he has, she should do the rest.

That’s basically asking her to totally take care of the kids all by herself. Because 6k won’t even buy snacks in this day and age.

You’re talking about equality but trying to push all the responsibilities on the woman. What’s equal about that? True equality factors all the work and effort needed from all angles and not just the financial aspect. Just taking care of the kids alone surpasses providing for them in case you didn’t know. Add the financial responsibility and you’ll see she’s basically doing it all by herself. Equality indeed.
Lol. I never tried to push the responsibility to the woman. Taking care of the kids isn't as hard as you try to put it but it's hard. As they begin to grow, you teach them to be responsible and learn how to get things done. How do you know she is doing everything by herself? Have you met his wife before? Stop the unintelligent haste to assume things. #Equality
Family › Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(op): 1:26pm On Feb 13, 2019
highcollide:
you have time to reply that lady. She's a feminist who thinks a man has to lie down when a woman wants to walk.


Ignore her.
Lol. Don't mind cococandy. She has too much free time on her hands that's why she is talking like this. Oya cococandy, go into the kitchen and make me a sandwich, I am hungry. Hurry up. When you are through, let's get down to business proper this night 'cos work has really been stressful.

Family › Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(op): 12:38pm On Feb 13, 2019
cococandy:
You are assuming they don’t have lives of their own.

It’s quite ridiculous though that you’d think it’s okay for someone who’s taking care of two kids to not get the financial accountability she expects from her co-parent.

After all she’s with her parents right? undecided.

In that case, if she has to go work extra hours than she normal would in order to make up for what the other parent’s should be bringing (thereby leaving her parents to take care of the kids), it means she and her parents now own full responsibility of the kids. The father doesn’t matter anymore then. And doesn’t get a say.
Lol. You sound as if kids need their parents' presence 24/7. While the kids are in school, both parents can go to work. Even if she does night shifts, she and her husband should provide money, food and the children must learn to stay at home behave until mum comes back from work. Didn't you sometimes stay and managed yourself at home while your mum and dad were away for a while? Hian!

I am not saying that the money he is giving is enough for both kid but if that's all he has, he and his wife should double their hustle. We are now in the age of equality not tradition, both must now work to support their families. I didn't say he shouldn't give her money o. grin
Romance › Re: Some Ladies Need To Be Used For Ritual Seriously, Just Imagine by Martinez39(m): 10:12am On Feb 13, 2019
BiafraBushBoy:
Let's call it that.

I think the girl was right trying to differentiate a broke fvck boy from a rich one.

Unfortunately, op belongs to the former... Kudos to the girl.
SMH.
Crime › Re: FUTO Undergraduate, Chitere Okoronkwo Kills Her Boyfriend. Photo by Martinez39(m): 9:54am On Feb 13, 2019
Dreyl:
You guys fail to read that's why you fail your exams, where did you see Yoruba in the write uphuh
It's you that failed to read. OneCorner typed "Probably." Repeat after me, "Probably."
Romance › Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Martinez39(m): 9:40am On Feb 13, 2019
Lol. You are a f00l. A weak and soft piece of flesh. Don't you know that in life, you need to protect and boss your territory and rights. If you can't, others will control it for you. Learn the habit of standing up for yourself and recognising your authority and what's yours. You are not still a child. A human being that cannot stand up for himself and boss his territory is damn weak, a weak foot mat. Tufiakwa.

Romance › Re: Some Ladies Need To Be Used For Ritual Seriously, Just Imagine by Martinez39(m): 9:25am On Feb 13, 2019
highqueen:
You were bold to talk about intimacy, but not bold to accept what comes out of it.
Although I know you don't have the money cos guys with money will settle their issues amicably without any cause for alarm, you should restrict yourself from washing your dirty boxers online, you have strength to have erection, but no strength to work for the money.


I would have said your boxers need to be used for rituals, but it's too dirty to be used.
Lol. All these irrational and unfounded standards used to judge people are only put up by unintelligent folks. How did you come about such standard? Or you want to shame him and make him feel sorry for talking about ladies like you? Rather than call out the girl for her wrong perspective on relationships, you chose to attack the op. Maybe he struck a nerve. Are you trying to say that discussing such topic means he is poor? Already you believed he approached the girl without evidence, on what basis would you believe that he is poor? Women sef. grin

Have you met the op before to know that he has strength for erection but can't work? It's seems the only offence the op committed was talk about his encounter with your kind and you are trying to shame him for doing so. Sorry, shaming won't stop any boy from talking about your kind and won't make them act the way your kind want so that they can be called "real men", "rich men", "matured men" etc.

@op
No mind the girl jare. I don't believe she should be used for rituals. Some of them are just greedy and materialistic. Some of them are so insecure when they don't have material things. Some of them grew up in poverty and have vowed to get away from it or never return as the case may be. It still doesn't mean it's right to pursue any of them for a relationship. You need a woman that will manage your money with you and plan ahead not a woman that is always concerned about herself and her materialistic needs. Carry go!
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 7:43am On Feb 13, 2019
ubunja:
bro can you stop tagging me on this post.
I have had enough of this sewage.
I was planning on bringing more cases but on seeing that the op is an epitome of irrationality, I have distanced myself from this thread. I can understand your annoyance.
Family › Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(op): 7:42am On Feb 13, 2019
cococandy:
So while she’s working to provide for them since the only thing he can afford is 6k (hypothetically) then who will take care of the children?
the wife stays with her family.
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 11:42pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Yes it's a generalization based on empirical crime data. You can generalize a population based on appreciable sample size.
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Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 11:34pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
It's not a battle please calm down. Men have their strengths and weaknesses so do women. It is possible however for men to live violence free.... don't start trying to bring up female atrocities in self defence we know they are there. When I sat why dontherdswomen murder don't get defensive. It's a scientific question. Maybemen are missing something they need to learn from the ladies? I'm not insulting men.

Why are men so violent ? That's an academic question. Don't now ask why are women so this or that in retaliation. That's toxic and doesn't address the questiin.
Why are some men violent? Stop the irrational generalisation.
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 11:30pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
It's not a battle please calm down. Men have their strengths and weaknesses so do women. It is possible however for men to live violence free.... don't start trying to bring up female atrocities in self defence we know they are there. When I sat why dontherdswomen murder don't get defensive. It's a scientific question. Maybemen are missing something they need to learn from the ladies? I'm not insulting men.
Lol. Maybe women are not violent because they don't have the strength. Maybe that explains why majority of our soldiers are men. The same soldiers that gave their lives building and defending western values. The same soldiers that gave away their lives so you can have peace. Mtewwwww.

Even if some men are violent, would you generalize that to all men and hate on all men? undecided
Family › Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(op): 11:22pm On Feb 12, 2019
cococandy:
Okay that’s messed. Very unconscionable behavior from her and her parents.

You’re better off divorced from her.

All the same 6k for your two kids is poor. Even if that’s what the court ordered, you should used your church mind. Don’t punish the kids for their mom’s behavior
What if that's what he can afford? The mother too can also go and work? huh
Romance › Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 11:18pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Like o have said before, men commit shooting and killing every day this is in addition to the male serial killers. You have just presented one female serial killer. Like I said earlier women aren't angels there are outlier cases of serial killers from both genders. Way you need to address is herdsmen, kidnapper, rituals, shooting, mass shooting, brutality that occur DAILY aside the serial killer example you have mentioned. Though there are serial killer from both genders, 98% of US mass shootings have been committed by men - this included secondary school shootings.

I can understand not wanting to accept the truth.
SMH. Women who purposely and falsely accuse men of rape and have sent men to jail for many years? Women who are gold diggers and commit paternal fraud? Women who use marriage opportunities so that they can divorce and collect money from their spouse? Women who are serial killers? Women who are involved in kidnapping and prostitution rings? As I have said, I will give you more cases. undecided

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