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MrHistorian:
Do we have guyz (age 18- 24) who aren't aware of these facts Martinez39 has laid out? Mehn, I thank my stars I am lucky.

One thing I know for a fact is that soon Marriage will become unexciting to people. The institution is soo faulty and it puts men at a glaring disadvantage.

Buying into the idea of romantic love, marriage, and the security and sanctity of marriage is not to men's advantage. There are far better options.

Wow. Children are starving, cancer, ALS, and multiple sclerosis arr afflicting many people yet god granted your prayer to make mercy win? AMAZING!!

You have finally moved on and have gotten some sense. Face your studies.

drmikeadams:
i dont usually blame girls,i blame guys who decided to turn themselves to ATM


Boy pay girl school fee
Boy buy iphone 15 for birthday
Boy place girl on monthly allowance

I blame the boys too. I always tell people that those who are ever ready to take advantage of others will always exist but its up to one to have sense, set their boundaries, and drop some spine.

iLegendd:
All they know is porn, masturbation, bet Naija, football, paying for sex, jumping from one social media to another, reading their books to pass an exam that the certificate won't even get them a job if they don't have connections, and watching BBN. Yes, they can do all the above, but they should also improve their dating game and be wise.

1StopRudeness:
Get the context of the thread...don’t jump in like u wanna grab a medal....the thread is actually about attaching too much value to a pvssy making guys pay thru the teeth just to get it...and my comment was specifically for a guy trying to do just that....but if u are gonna pick it on a general view....that’s ur cup of tea...at the end of the day u are entitled to ur opinion weda it flows with mine or not

You don't need to pay her any attention. Ignore her.

After spitting on their dicks, make way for me so that I can put my scissors and pick axe to good use. These men don't deserve the dick and balls.

irumole1975:
Martinez39, you don't believe in God?. Why, if I may know

The idea of a god has no basis in reality. Not only do I not believe in God, I don't believe in the supernatural/spiritual.

funmisticqueen:
Because marriage is tissue paper you can dispose abi. You have lost touch with reality

Marriage is disposable when the woman is no longer worth the effort. Humans make marriages, humans break marriages. Stop trying to make marriage to be something special/sacred a man must try hard to maintain regardless of the shit thrown in his face by his woman. As a woman, I know you naturally like such narrative so that you can keep a man caged. Marriage, romance, and sex, are overrated. No man dies or forfeits greatness for not having any of these.

GreatResearcher(GreatResearcher1), I hope your conversations with ladies on this thread and your experience are beginning to open your eyes a little. You need some red pills. Look for someone else for the contract. I could give advice on how to go about that and what steps should be taken. Anyway, I am out of this thread. Good luck.

pansophist:
Martinez39


You sef de benevolent. This strategy can only make sense if she also have something equally worthy at stake, but so far, you want the guy to play her game with his plaza, car and money at stake? The dude has more to loose here as the relationship is fundamentally unequal.

The best is to jilt her, permanently, as soon as possible.

That's not my post. Though I agree that he should dump her and look for someone else for the contract. I could advice him on how to look for someone else but it seems he is condemned to learn the hard way.

GreatResearcher1:
The way u women reason makes me to do a research on "Do women have brains " So because it's contract she should sell up things?
Am just tired of you women

Stop listening to women's advice. That's a mistake. They are all like that and their advices will always come from a place of defence for their callousness. They will always defend each other when the opportunity arises. I have told you to give me your number so I can reach you on WhatsApp and we can discuss at length. I am free today. If we can't reach today, forget it.

Don't give that pastor the money. Beware!

I simply put tissue paper in the toilet before I pooped.

Korllami007:
Na jazz de work.
His life wants to be ruined by his wife by turning him to a pauper but he's still saying she's nice to be with.
I no really believe in jazz ooo but I'll start believing. E be like say na inside the middle of ocean dem throw the padlock. The jazz strong die.

The stupidity of many men when it comes to women can make some believe in jazz.

Psalm2423:
Please shut the Bleep up and go for third service. You really need it. Can’t believe you spent your time reading on all types of males. Is that what “forced loneliness” has driven you to? You should enjoy the fact that you’re not in a relationship. Stop being bitter cause nobody wants to stick their joystick in you. Even a female with strap on won’t stick it in you. Just grow up, and dump bitterness. Nobody is the cause of your relationship problems. You’re always ranting on Nairaland that men are this and that. If you feel so bleeped up, there are many ways to escape a haunted house. Life’s not a movie.

I would’ve loved to keep talking to you, but it’d be pointless. I can only use you, but right now, you’re not worth being manipulated both physically and psychologically.

Even if I’m an omega (lol, I just remembered that God is both Alpha and Omega), I still wouldn’t take a free ticket to your London. The two ranks below me still won’t take a free ticket to your London, with all expenses paid. The one below them won’t take a ticket, with all expenses paid, and free payment to cover Opportunity cost.

You can’t be saved unless you go to third service now o. You can also choose to read Psalm 23.

Just ignore her.

Raydans:
All women are not the same bro. I've met a few.
I personally have an innate sixth sense. If you are trying to manipulate me. I detect and avoid you. And if you require to be taught a lesson. Its game on for me. Two can always play the game.

We can agree to disagree. Have a nice day.

funmisticqueen:
Because she most likely is. Do you believe in God?

Na so. I don't believe in God.

Psalm2423:
Leave OP jare. He entered into a contract and added emotions. Only a fool uses emotions in business. You fell for her, or you just want what you can’t get? It’s cause she’s playing your own mumu button, that’s why you’re here complaining and still defending her. You have no trait of an Alpha male. I’m pretty sure your wife would be suffering die hard if it was me. Destroy your stupid emotions. Both love and hate. If you’re not a natural at lack of empathy, there are drugs you can take to cut off emotions from you life (I won’t advise you to take them though.)

Bottom line is that you should play this game as good as she’s playing. If you have sisters,...

There’s nothing alpha about you. There’s nothing alpha about me. You were played, I can’t be played, especially in business.

Despite all the signs he has seen and reported, he still wrote that his wife is cool and nice to be with.

Raydans:
All women are not the same tho. But the bad ones covers the majority. As a man you must put on your armour of sensitivity to detect them bad from the good. As such you won't have to hurt the good ones in the process while avoiding the bad ones

This is the problem with men. They arrogantly think they can spot good women and perfectly detect the NAWALTs in the society. They forgot that our species has produced, from both men and women, top spies and Oscar winning actors.

GreatResearcher:
y are u ladies like dis? all d same. if i didnt gv her all i prmsd same u ladies il talk. yes, i prmsd i wil gv a lady tins if we marry. but sellin it wasnt d plan

They are all like that regardless of religion, whether or not they believe in god, country, race, political affiliation, etc. Immediately she still demanded a new car after a car gift, you should have known that your wife is a gold digger and she is using you as an insecurity tampon. You shouldn't have wired that money even though you promised her a car. The money you have foolishly given to her will be pocketed by her and you will still be the one to provide and pay for everything. You really need the red pill. I wish men would stop following girls to shame ubunja, lukui, myself, iLegend, etc. and listen to what we have to say.

GreatResearcher:
I actually created the thread to advise men who think they have the "mumu button" and can press it on any lady. I came to tell them that life on the other side (marriage) is different.


But the thread turned out to be something else.

Alpha males don't have the mumu buttons of any lady. We red pill men just understand women and we never make ourselves available to manipulation. We don't love.

GreatResearcher:
She is a cool person and nice to be with. Just that we disagree most times concerning things. For example, she wants us to relocate to Lagos

After the clear signs, you still think this about her. Women don't marry for love, they marry their best options and they marry for financial security. You are currently being ruthlessly gold digged and your wife is cashing in on you to be her insecurity tampon. She is doing this ruthlessly and love is not in her equation. You have to throw love in the gutters and start thinking with your head. Make heart a material of cold steel and start thinking.

Las las, if she maintains her stubbornness, kick her out of the marriage. No woman is special, indispensable, and irreplaceable. They are just another human being. She gains way more from you than you gain from her, you are the price. One quality of alpha males is that they can easily see and acknowledge these red flags and are a ever ready to severe a toxic and unproductive relationship. I could have adviced you in details but no time.

If you want to talk in details and get some advice, drop your number and I would contact you through WhatsApp. I am free today. It pays to have common sense and swallow the red pill.

GreatResearcher:
selling the properties is a red flag to me. Victorian is super religious. I can't deal with that.

I got this feeling the girl is not running away.
Maybe she needs some time alone. Because we have really stressed ourselves in qurrales.

Haba, you don't know the game your wife is playing on you. You are her insecurity tampon. People that will take advantage of you will always be in existence but it left for you to have wisdom and understanding.

GreatResearcher, I am yet to see what the term alpha male has to do with your condition. To be sincere, you are a weak man and swallowing red pills would have done you a lot of good. If you don't know who an alpha male is, stop using the term. You need to come back to your senses, get some spine, and start setting standards in your marriage. You saw a lot of red flags and made some mistakes yet you think there is some problem with alpha males?

You are creepy. There is something seriously wrong with you.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Hahahahaha. I don die for laff here. You wan kee person abi?.Thats the problem with most of them. They feel they know the game but they usually comes out heart broken.

Don't mind them. Instead of then to look forward to having a stable and good relationship, they turn their relationships to a game — game of power dynamics, manipulation, and drama. In this game, they want to come out on top and pride themselves in coming out on top.

Hell is nonexistent.

Michellekabod2:
F . L


Whoever you sold your head to,go and get it back! You conclude feminist are bitter people who are man haters and now they call redpill out you are pained!

You have never been loved by a woman,your threads speaks a volume of how you have been treated by ladies.... And you run to redpill to find solace and use it to punish gals for dumping you....

I have no problem with redpill,I recommend it to guys, but you specifically use it to heal your wounds and for revenge....get a life!

Michelle, I would appreciate it if you stopped flooding my mention. If what I post on nairaland means I am a bitter and frustrated man who has been damaged by women, so be it. Calling me bitter and frustrated or even broke is not a new thing, you are not the first and you won't be the last. I would appreciate it if you stopped flooding my mention.

You are at liberty to continue if you want even though I would ignore you.

Blackivy29:
this section mods are useless you must take their place. I dread the day that would happen. redpill law would be implemented. A must or be ban. I would rebel tho. Lead the resistance, a band of young misfits like ivy

I hope Seun makes me a mod. Redpill messages, especially that of ubunja will grace the front page.

Blackivy29:
please. He won this time. But im still first. In terms of manipulation, i take a crown. Robert green is an idol. 48 laws of power, art of seduction, i can read them in my sleep. But i dont do so with romance, afterall its suppose to be about love not using someones mind and thats my fault. Ive learnt though.

(massaging blackivy's ego) Of course, you are the queen of manipulation. There is no man you can't bring to his knees. You call the shots in yours relationship and keep your men on the chase. You also have their remote control and make them do your bidding. Hail queen of manipulation.

Blackivy29:
I still believe in love but good guys are rare. I can manipulate if i want, thats not an issue and even with guys i know letting them know you love them can be a mistake but this guy was different. I felt i didnt need to take control because he was sweet and i didnt want to hurt him. God! Ive been played at my own game. He used the baby card on me.

Eyah. Don't worry, martinez39 and psalm2423 are good guys, we treat ladies right. You know I am a good man, don't you?