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franchasng:
Tacha is the architect of her own predicament, she single handedly used her mouth and uncouth character to bring herself down, so no comparison, but thanks for your concern, its not as if its hurting me like that, that era has passed long time ago, but whenever I read about lecturers or stuff like that, it brings back the sad memories, that's all...its all good sha

Okay. I understand. As long as it doesn't weigh you down, no problem.

franchasng:
Yeah, in life, your academic qualifications and degrees are no guarantee of success, your success in life depends solely on your ability to apply your God given talent, skills and wisdom to create wealth + the God or destiny factor too.

True.

You are right with your first paragraph I know, but maybe its me, I am stubborn in situations like that, I hate bowing down in such situations unless it involves life and death only.

Oh well, let it be a lesson. Chess is like life, sometimes you have to sacrifice the powerful queen to deliver a brutal checkmate. Sometimes, you have to bow to fight another day. It's all about strategy. It would have been better if you bowed, graduated with a first class, and then decided to go after corrupt lecturers since you are an outsider and they can't punish you. Anyway, forget it. Upper 2.1 is not bad.

Any my anger stems from being denied what I worked for and merited, not that my result is bad cos it didn't affect my chances in life though, just an anger of denial, that's all.

I understand. You just have to move on and make better and well calculated decisions next time. Let the anger go.

Just that it would have been a good one having it stated on the paper so u can tell your kids listen, I graduated with 1st class in one of the most difficult courses in the world, so you have no reason to be dull, and u say it with proof and pride you know, but I can't say that cos its a near miss

Lol. The regret at what would have been should be done away with. The past is the past. Regrets, anger, and worry about the past can't do or solve a damn thing, it's pointless. So if you are in Tacha's shoes, the weight of regret would have pushed you to commit suicide? Chill bro.

Many people would die to be in your shoes. Though I understand you but your issue, compared to life issues, is no big deal really and I dare say they are vain.

franchasng:
all my school mates knew I was a first class student, they expected a first class, I missed out with 0.02 and landed at second class upper, all because I refused to bow down to a useless Nigerian lecturer, so even though it is a second class upper, it hurts knowing it was supposed to be 1st class cos most schools would have augmented it to assist the student and to boost their own school's profile, of what benefit is withholding the 0.02 to them And I am not regretting anything because I did more than what I was supposed to do, I didn't even lived campus life all because of dedication to studies...it is more of anger than regret....anger that one stupid lecturer made me miss it, and waiting for an opportunity to deal with that lecturer or any of his likes in future, call it vengeance, I agree

Most of my course mates blamed me though that I should have just acted like a Roman since I was in Rome, but I am stubborn in such things, I rather lose out than bow to Pharaoh and reason I don't like Buhari too no matter what people say, if Buhari give me an appointment, I will publicly reject it and reject him!!


You won't understand how much it pains until u are in same shoe someday.


What class of degree it is; in student's terms some call it upper 2.1

Knowledge is knowing what to do and wisdom is knowing when and how to go about it. You should have bowed to the lecturer. You cannot kill a tiger when you are locked up with it in a cage. However, if you are outside, you can purchase a gun and gone it down from outside. The university is their kingdom and territory. No one can touch them.

I understand the ego and pride at being the best and getting the excellence you deserve but forget it. No one can change the past.

Anyway, a second class upper is not bad at all. What matters in the real world is if you can get the job done so focus on developing your content and develop expertise. Beside, in many years time, no one cares. Don't let it pain you.

Hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahaha . It means he got a second class upper and his CGPA is almost 4.50 (minimum for a first class). Their ego and deep regret at not getting a first class are what make them say such.

It's not by feminism and ego. It's not by gra gra. Be a woman and the door to his heart and resources will be opened to you. Simple as ABC.

Stupid theists would chicken out with spinning their doctrines instead of accepting the challenge and converting an atheist once and for all.

Michellekabod2:
me a liar? please show me where I have lied....thanks

Hahahahahhahahahahaha. Keep pretending like you don't know what I am talking about. I will show you when you show me evidence for your accusations against ubunja. Good night.

Michellekabod2:
There is a difference between "fact" and "reality"...reality is "how it happens" or a norm.ubunja and sandra8 weren't all speaking fact but "reality",and it is we humans that shape reality by our choices....
When I presented you "fact" backed up by science on what widens a vagina,you called it lies,denials, excuses...but when ubunja posts based on trending "realities"you called it truth .

Like all women that have a problem with my view, you are a liar. I never responded to your post that showed links about what widens a vagina. I didn't even click the link. I was planning on responding but I forgot.

By the way, you still have not showed me evidence for your accusations against ubunja.

AstroG:
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Funmmyastic:
Next!

Okay.

Funmmyastic:
Just confirmed this,I will miss her sha.

Sandra saw this post and sent me a letter to give you. It reads :

Dear Funmmyastic,
I will miss you too dear, my dearie.

-Sandra

AstroG:
The never had any ideas,the division in their camps was scintillating,so manu quarrels,insults and arguments plus the fights. It was fun to watch.


Ah never for once read or commented on that Sandra8 thread,cus it was delusional and for the shallow minded

The people that mattered stopped paying attention at the early stages of the female miseducations. It justed faded into oblivion.

The female miseducations lacked ideas and just kept rambling about what everyone already knew. Unlike ubunja, no female miseducationists brought something liberating, eye opening and revolutionary to the thoughts of many. They are just miserable copy cats.

baiaon:
The female miseducation was always going to peter out.I dont want to sound sexist but the biological laziness of the human female was always going to get in the way

They had no passion or dedication towards the female miseducations. They were just drawn to the drama and heat generated by ubunja. Ubunja's miseducations was for men and they just wanted something for women too since feminists love to compete and rub shoulders with men. Once the drama and heat dead down, the female miseducations boiled down to how long they were going to put up with a boring activity. Seems they also ran out of ideas.

How nurturing.

liquidfaya:
but Where are Funmi and all the others who were cheering her on??

All these girls are confused human beings. Believe me, the sole aim of the female miseducations was to compete with ubunja. They were drawn to the drama and extensive impact of Ubunja's miseducations and wanted the same for themselves. When Sandra launched her miseducations, it gained attention at the beginning from boys but we later ignored it. The drama and revolution (I dare say) that marked Ubunja's miseducations were absent and, for the female miseducations, it boiled down to how long they were going to go on and on in a boring activity that was heading nowhere.

Ubunja is original and seeks to liberate with truth and logic while the female miseducations is based on competition and imitation. Ubunja had substance but his imitators didn't. Ubunja's write ups opened eyes and started the awakening of males by bringing to light something new the boys never knew and Ubunja traced the dots for many. The same can't be said of Sandra8 who mimicked Ubunja's style of writing to tell us what we already knew while trying to sound like a sage. I can't contain the laughter. The female miseducations were bound to fail.

Not trying to doubt the story but don't forget that accused are innocent until PROVEN guilty.

Boys of this generation. They are thinking with their their dicks and the mindset of romantic love. They can't use common sense to get their shit together.

ABCthings:
Oh lawd! I've spent more than two hour today on nairaland. Am logging out!

Lol. Dey go.

ABCthings:
I see full grown men urinate in public all the time. even two today I'm like God why?

I have seen such too but is that your first time of seeing an adult penis, ehn, nwa Johnny Sins?

"First time im seeing a grown mans penis."

Blackivy27:
Someone just used the line, like several minutes ago. Its lame and old. Must y'all use it? Get something original. Not the copy and paste technique.

What if you really look familiar? Can't someone say you look familiar in peace?

plus another guy is urinating in front of me. He's showing me his d!ck on purpose. Shisssh! Its small though. First time im seeing a grown mans penis. I feel guilty

Laide Olaitan

Crespostakes:
I cheated on my fiancee and I've been sad and depressed since then. I can't forgive myself. To make matters worse the lady I cheated with is now on my neck disturbing claiming to be in love. Please help me out of this.

*removes your shirt and ties you to a pole. Gives you 47 lashes using my belt. Gives you a customised man utd number 7 jersey with SIMPanzee printed as the name*

Tell the girl you slept with that there can't be anything between both of you and be frank about it. Continue with your present relationship and keep your mouth shut. Go and sin no more.

mikezuruki:
Lies. Nonsense story. How was she able to call you? How did you know she read through your messages, because all what she said was "have you seen your phone...". which is also a blatant lie. all lies. you lie!

You just spoke my mind. I wonder what will motivate someone to lie for no good reason.

NB: I didn't read the op. Just decided to drop this.

Forgiveness, as seen in holy books, is a scam used by the wicked, indisciplined, and greedy to continue their acts in the guise of "I am a changed person. Give me a second". They play this on the stupid, naive, and nice ones who are tolerate to grant every Tom, Dick, and Harry a second chance because their god commands it.

No environment is more effective in shaping character and giving people the incentive to make better choices than an environment that gives both genders no choice than to take responsibility for their actions and makes it clear that all shall be treated as they deserve.