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RomanceRe: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Martinez39(m): 10:46pm On Oct 22, 2019
Smart12:
Divide my school fees into two to pay for my girlfriend school fees in another institution
Read my topic and help yourself

https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must
RomanceRe: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Martinez39(m): 10:32pm On Oct 22, 2019
SirDelight:
We had a quarrel & I became so worried in the night that I couldn't sleep, so I ran down to her hostel to beg her. She was indoor & it was already late in the night. Meanwhile, there was a curfew that same day. I couldn't go back to my villa due to the fear of getting caught by the traditionalists. I knocked her door countless times & her response was, "if you get caught by the ritualists, na your own problem o". I became more fearful.
Las las, na inside one bush in front of her hostel I had to hide & stay there overnight. It was indeed a terrible experience.

She later confessed that she also had a wakeful night,,,,that she kept whispering my name & there was no response
Chai.
RomanceRe: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Martinez39(m): 10:30pm On Oct 22, 2019
Hotzone:
I have been crazily in love that I built house for my girl while I am yet to build a bungalow
The heavens and the earth and all that breaths are highly disappointed in you. grin

RomanceRe: Demons! by Martinez39(m): 11:10am On Oct 22, 2019
ericsmith:
so you knw God these much n u couldnt ask for that one thing missing in that pretty head grin now u can blush
Hehe. Paradoxically, one must have a brain to know that one needs a brain. If she has a brain then there is no need to ask but if she doesn't, she can't know that she needs a brain. grin
RomanceRe: What Made You Mgtow? by Martinez39(m): 7:44am On Oct 22, 2019
Michellekabod2:
Martinez39 you are very stupid. I see no difference between you and the typical egoistic man with toxic masculinity,whilst theirs is based on stereotype inherited,yours is due to bigotry,and ignorance... Ffuck off,wicked man.
Your slut shaming ladies and the rest is evident to it...when ladies express themselves you call it wanting undue privileges but when you express yourself you claim that there is freedom of expression. When a gal claimed a man should not slap back a woman who slaps first, did you respect it as her opinion and expression she is entitled to? You only cried foul! but when your folks bully ladies you will say is freedom of expression.

I have not in anyway mistaken patriarchy for misogynism.you keep accusing me of it but if you think so,that's your business....

I don't pretend to be anything,I am me. If you males mess up I call you out and if females mess up I call them out . your opinion of me doesn't count,I don't live in pretence...

You and Buda are both gender bigots at the opposite ends of the table,each throwing darts at each other,buda is worse off because in other sections like politics or religion he exhibits sense but it feels whenever he wants to comment on a romance section thread he borrows his brains out....

Martinez39 I repeat it, you are a born fool ...you should be selling spare parts other than being in the academia....


PS: I agreed with most of what you said but your rudeness without justification when I started this conversation with politeness and tagging me names like bad feminist etc or pretender is the reason for this clapback
Seems you are a compulsive or deliberate liar. I have never slut shamed any lady. I told you this on XxSabrin.axX's thread but here you are feigning ignorance and accusing me of slut shaming (Budaatum and Sabrina are my witnesses). Not only that, you have repeatedly made accusations against Ubunja and each time I ask you to back them up, you abandon the conversation abruptly. Good day Michelle. grin

Edit : suffice it to say that most of your points are irrational, false and you are guilty of strawmanning. I promise not to quote/reply you again and I mean it.
RomanceRe: What Made You Mgtow? by Martinez39(m): 2:23am On Oct 22, 2019
Michellekabod2:
Don't be daft! Where did I claim you said both genders don't need themselves? The statement using "we" was an admonishment and not rebuttal...it didn't refer to you and me Martinez39 but everyone reading.
It will be unbiased of you to feel it's only women that are toxic, egoistic,entitled etc. .the way some males behave on this forum is testament to the fact there is toxic masculinity in a typical Nigerian man. You always focus on what ladies do wrong and ignore what men do wrong. I have never seen you call out ilekoko.nit,astro.G etc of their misogynistic post but you don't hesitate to cry foul when a misandrist post is made.
Keep deceiving yourself. After insinuating that we (feminists and mgtow) are acting like we don't need each other, you turn around and change words. Most men on nairaland are not toxic or misogynistic. I can't take you seriously if you go about throwing the labels misogynist and toxic masculinity on any man that says what you don't like. That's childish and don't be silly. Are most men on nairaland looking forward to do away with women's rights? NO! Are most men on nairaland advocating rape and violence against women? NO!

women are liberated? I guess you are seeing it from a socio-economic perspective like them being able to take part in politics,going to school,pursue a career etc
These are parts of your many rights. I also had it in mind that you women have your freedom of speech and expression and you people are free to lead any life you want as long as you are not breaking the law. That's liberation.

But how about the helpless girls undergoing female genital mutilation,oppressed widows, divorcees that are bullied and shamed? Ladies endure depravities in the name of marriage and you say they are liberated?
Are these sanctioned by the law? Are the police forces complacent on reported issues of female genital mutilation? Why didn't acknowledge where I said that certain parts, a very small minority, of Nigeria are still oppressing women in some way? If you feminists care about these things, what are you people doing about it? All you guys do is to cry victim and quarrel with innocent men like Ubunja, astroG, myself and others as if this will solve issues facing disparaged and subjugated women.

Besides, any widow can exercise her right to not be subjected to the cruel rituals many customs demand of widows. Just as men endure depravity in marriage, women do too. However, just like men, they are have the right to leave the marriage. So they are indeed liberated. As for divorcees, you are exaggerating when you say they are bullied and shamed. Divorcees still have their rights and that suffices. How people view divorcees is up to them and you can't control that. It doesn't change the fact that divorcees have their rights.

You problem is that, in addition to having your rights, you feel that liberation is not complete if people don't view you the way you want. Man up and don't be childish. It doesn't matter what others think or say of you. Once you have your rights then you are liberated. It's left for you to exercise them.

this is foolish of you! Where did I say patriarchy is misogyny?
You said that if patriarchy didn't take place, feminism wouldn't have risen. You also admitted that feminism arose initially as a movement of equal rights and equal opportunities for women. If patriarchy wasn't misogynistic, why the need for a movement of equal rights and opportunities? You used the word "patriarchy" and I was trying to point out that misogyny, not patriarchy, was the problem. You, just like your fellow feminists, see patriarchy as misogynistic.

Gynocentrism came when they were always playing victims and gaining pity,that is the path MGTOW are also taking(playing victim) and the world may turn out to pro-man too.
You see why I said you should not be silly. A fool speaks, with great confidence, on issues they know nothing about. If you couldn't do a simple research and you think MGTOW men are playing victim then I rest my case.

first and foremost, patriarchy isn't completely eliminated! So this isn't fighting the present for sins of past but fighting the present for both past and present.
Secondly,am not justifying gynocentrism,am only telling you why it came about.
Ah! Here you are conflating patriarchy with misogyny despite denying that you didn't do so. Not only that, you think it is a sin — a sin of the past and present. Somehow, men of today are guilty because it's a sin of the present, right? You women are spoilt and do not know what it's like to live in a misogynistic society. The overwhelming majority of men of today are fully welcoming of gender equality in rights and opportunities.

Martinez39, you are a foooool...a born fool!
There is no such thing as good or bad feminist,there are just feminist with different ideas of feminism.. chameleons? Your accusations are baseless and thus will be ignored.
Don't be silly. There are good and bad feminists just as there are good and bad Christians. Just as there are good and bad Muslims, there are good and bad feminists. Just as there are Catholics and Pentecostals, there are classical and contemporary feminists. There is a reason why feminism is considered in waves (eg. First, second, third wave feminism etc.). This is because the aim and image of the feminist movement changes with generation. As at now, toxic women are the face and champions of the feminist movement and as long as this remains feminism, today, will be viewed in it's contemporary sense.

From your arguments, it's clear to me that you are no different from your contemporary counterparts even though you try to hide it.

we don't need your love, shove it up your ass...I guess I will have to learn more of mgtow because my ideas of them are based on the exhibitions of some mgtow dudes. Who are feminists oppressing too? Feminist will not be women but be whoever they want to be(as long they are hurting no one) and they will define morality not from a stereotype lens.
If you mgtow can't cope with that,kiss my ass...
Go and sit down jare. No one is telling you how to live your life and we men couldn't care less. However, the feminist views, just like all ideas, and aims are open to discussion and criticism. Criticism of feminism doesn't mean we are telling you how to live your life. I never said feministst are oppressing men but they do support unfair treatment of men when it suits them. The actual enforcers, oppressors, and enablers of their somewhat misandric tendencies in legal and social life are the simps.


I am done with this discussion.
RomanceRe: Demons! by Martinez39(m): 12:27am On Oct 22, 2019
Nice poetry.
RomanceRe: What Made You Mgtow? by Martinez39(m): 12:23am On Oct 22, 2019
Michellekabod2:
Sooner or later,we will both realize how much we need each other and our differences in gender was meant to compliment us, and not make us slaves or oppressors of each other.
Don't be silly. I never said both genders don't need each other. Men are going their own way because the typical modern woman has grown toxic, egoistic, hypocritical, parasitic, and entitled. Women in western countries and in Nigeria (with exception of certain places in the North) are liberated, empowered, and they have their rights intact. The men in western countries are really oppressed in certain ways that many don't want to acknowledge. What you wrote is never acknowledged by contemporary feminists instead they want their free passes and women supremacy.

If patriarchy didn't take place,then feminism will not have popped up leading to a gynocentric society.
This is very stupid of you. Patriarchy is not necessarily misogynistic but it can be made misogynistic. Feminism first arose with aim to make women and men have equal rights and opportunities. How then did it lead us to a gynocentric society if not that feminists wanted convenience, free passes, and undue privileges at any cost? Is it not a movement of equal rights and opportunities? Where then does this gynocentrism comes from? With what justification can a movement of equal rights and opportunity establish gynocentrism? Food for thought.

You males were the first to marginalize ladies and objectify ladies before feminism popped up.
What is this supposed to mean? That women are then justified to do the same in reverse today? Men today are not their ancestors, women today were not the oppressed women of the past, and it's unjust to punish men for the sins of their fathers. Is it okay to oppression and maltreat men for the sins of their misogynistic fathers?

Imagine if black people started enslaving white people. What would you think of me if I said "white people started it first"? You have satiated me with stupidity. I have always known that the so called good feminists are just like the contemporary feminists and would act the same when it really benefits them. They are just professional chameleons including you Michelle.

Sadly, feminism went beyond "promoting equality" to making the society gynocentric, and MGTOW is rising up against the gynocentric society.
This is true but it does not change the fact that you are just like the contemporary feminists even though you have the veneer of a good feminist.

The circle will keep going on unless we (mgtow and feminists) learn to behave and conduct ourselves in such a way no is being maltreated. If men don't use their gender to oppress ladies and ladies don't use their gender to oppress men then we will know peace
We know gynocentrism is a bad thing and you just admitted that the mgtow is rising up against gynocentrism (which is not actually true). Why then do say that, just like feminists, mgtow men must learn to behave and conduct themselves in a way that no one is being oppressed? What concentrated nonsense! Behave? Behave how? How are the mgtow men behaving? Who are they oppressing? There is no circle here. When feminists learn to be women and morally upright, men would stop going their own way. Believe me, men don't mind loving but the person they love must be worth it.

I have had enough. Good night.


Omar09
RomanceRe: What Made You Mgtow? by Martinez39(m): 10:53pm On Oct 21, 2019
Not to lie, your conclusions are valid but a of your write up are contradictory. Besides, the MGTOW movement is not a men's right movement. It's a movement that consists of red-pill men that don't want to get married, have children (optional), form long-term romantic relationships, and forbids cohabitation with a woman (thanks to how rape accusations and physical abuse accusations are handled). It's just a natural response, by any smart/red pill man, to a fatal gynocentric society that shields and empowers women to destroy men.


The idea that we need to treat women and men equally in rights, responsibility, and accountability and we shouldn't be simps that worship women and give them free passes are red pill but not necessarily MGTOW. I agree with much of what you said.
RomanceRe: She Dumped Me While On A Date, Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?! by Martinez39(m): 7:22pm On Oct 21, 2019
When will boys man up and learn to assess and handle simple relationship issues by themselves instead of coming to nairaland to ask for help? If this is how most boys are, then they can't be leaders and heads of their home.

Read my topic about setting standards in a relationship. As a man, you must not hesitate to call your girlfriend to order and give her stern warning about her foul attitude. If she refuses to listen and sit up, you can always show her the exit door. Remember that no girl is special, irreplaceable, indispensable, or the best thing to happen since slice bread. As far as relationship is concerned, all girls can be replaced and dumped.

It is sad that you are willing to swallow and put up with her bullshit. When she is behaving, you don't placate her instead you call her to order. Man up jare.



Omar09
BusinessRe: Glory Osei Reacts To Accusations Of Fraud By Former Employees by Martinez39(m):
Criticaltemp:
In Nigeria any woman that succeed we men want to bring the down.. Its not just fair at all. Either we claim the have big gods or they defrauded white people and all! Let's be frank, in all statues being equal, women r smarter, more intelligent and can even withstands more stress environments than us men. Lets be guided please. And to all hardworking women in the house, i say God will see y'all through your genuine struggles
You are acting like the allegations against Gloria Osei are misogynistic and were contrived to tarnish some innocent image of hers. I am sure (I stand to be corrected) you had no problem with Busola Dakolo coming out with her allegations against Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo, why have a problem with those coming out with their allegations against Glory Osei? Would it be wise to say all women are looking forward to bringing the downfall of pastors? You never looked at the fact that even her (Glory Osei) fellow women have accusations against her.

I am of the opinion that people who see oppression of females and sexism everywhere even when it doesn't exist are likely to be sexists. And I must say that such mentality is childish and pernicious. Women in western countries and urban areas in Nigeria are not oppressed by men (we don't even give a damn) and they have their rights. Quit the pathetic game of victimhood. By the way, I refuse to believe that women are smarter than men.
EducationRe: Many Steps Seems To Be Correct, This Question Has A Single Answer ?, Help by Martinez39(m): 9:32pm On Oct 20, 2019
2/5
RomanceRe: Don't Waste "Valuable" Time Chasing Or Convincing A Woman To Date You........ by Martinez39(m): 9:27pm On Oct 20, 2019
funmisticqueen:
see this incel
Most amusing people like you seem to be bound the same way.
FamilyRe: Lady Burns Her Wedding Dress As She Leaves Her Marriage In Style (photos) by Martinez39(m): 3:41pm On Oct 20, 2019
Na so. It could be that she finally destroyed her husband in the divorce court and she has gotten the financial security she wanted. Time for her to enjoy the feminist dream of being the strong independent woman that needs no man. grin

Just speculating.
Christianity EtcRe: Why I can't ever Believe In Magic And Supernatural Occurrence by Martinez39(m): 12:33pm On Oct 20, 2019
@oyewolestephen

No doubt, those that are smart, observant, and exposed are better informed.
Christianity EtcRe: Why I can't ever Believe In Magic And Supernatural Occurrence by Martinez39(m): 12:26pm On Oct 20, 2019
judedwriter:
The supernatural is real. In fact, it is more real than the physical. How do I know this? There is a Supreme supernatural being who created all things by words of mouth and lives in the supernatural realm. We call Him God and all things exists from Him.

Now the problem is Many people don't have faith in God. God originally created us as supernatural beings to control the natural just like He does. The first man Adam, was created to dominate but fell into sin and out of fellowship with God.

Man out of fellowship with God began to seek alternatives to control the supernatural. This is how man dabbled into magic and witchcraft. These spiritual forces are real, but they are a lesser spiritual power to God almighty, which is why they often fail and disappoint many.

God is the true source of the supernatural.
An emotional and moronic outburst that cannot be construed as evidence or a logical case for the supernatural.
Christianity EtcRe: *Objects Of Fiction, Imaginary Things Atheists Believe In* Since They Reject God by Martinez39(m): 10:54am On Oct 20, 2019
Princess Ebuka is back. grin
PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 9:25am On Oct 20, 2019
MJBOLT:
how did you resolve it?
I was advised to off my data connection, turn on the airplane mode for about 30 seconds, turn off the airplane mode after 30 seconds, and turn on my data connection. It worked like magic.
RomanceRe: Nairaland Forgive Me. Invitation To My Church Next Week. by Martinez39(m): 7:46am On Oct 20, 2019
MissGhosted:
My brothers and sisters in Christ forgive and my shout here on Nairaland. I was wicked to all of you. The truthe is I don't know what happened to me. Maybe it was the Satan. Bad Belle made me to act like that. Biko!
I was in mountain of fire church yesterday. The pastor told me that my sin here is prevent good things in.my life. No husband no children and I'm going to 37. Im doing fasting and praying. Please find it deep in your souls to forget.


My Chuch is having prayers need week. Come please too
grin

PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 7:29am On Oct 20, 2019
Ejadike:
have you complained to there customer service?
I have resolved the issue. I did it in a rather surprising way.


Thanks @biglittlelois and MJBOLT
RomanceRe: Why Do Broke & Jobless Lady Degrade And Insults Broke & Jobless Guys? by Martinez39(m): 7:40pm On Oct 19, 2019
MJBOLT:
so we have different types of feminism,see confusion grin
Don't mind Michellekabod2. She is confused. grin
RomanceRe: Why Do Broke & Jobless Lady Degrade And Insults Broke & Jobless Guys? by Martinez39(m): 7:35pm On Oct 19, 2019
funmisticqueen:
Because broke guys bring nothing to the table but their brokeness and their still have the temerity to be ugly and ENTITLED,despite being broke.

Their sense of entilement ks their most irritating quality, you think a girl must say yes to your paltry offer of sex, thinking that a few pickup lines from also broke pickup artistes calling themselves redpillers and alpha males like Ubunja and co will have her at their feet. They also think that their pen1ses are worth something and then they also forget that sex benefits them and not the girl. They also feel that every girl should be raped and their fragile ego doesn't understand the word NO.

They show no signs of wanting to improve their behavior or their wretched situation, they want someone else's daughter to suffer with them because misery loves company. They are not ready to give commitment, or to start a family. The only thing they end up doing is getting some unfortunate woman pregnant, then transmitting poverty to their children.


I have more to say but, ladies do not deserve to be with broke men especially those with no values, life missíon and home training. If ladies continue to look down on them with condenscencion and scorn, then maybe they would get their heads out of their assholes and get their shit together.
Stawmanning at it's finest. I wouldn't bother pointing out the absurdities in your write up. It's also clear that your emotion, not brain, is doing the thinking. Have a lovely Sunday tomorrow.
Christianity EtcRe: Religion; Now A Scam. by Martinez39(m): 2:46pm On Oct 19, 2019
Religion and other mumbo-jumbos are ridiculous garbages and falsehoods with no basis in reality. In most cases, religion has always been a tool of control and an avenue to fleece it's flock. In the past, and sometimes now, it was used as a justification for people's greed, ego, and wickedness. grin
PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 11:51am On Oct 19, 2019
Biglittlelois:
180, I wonder what pill you'd give me....
The pills are meant for men.
PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 11:51am On Oct 19, 2019
sallywest:
and do u actually check ur balance,and u see that ur remaining balance is 500mbhuh
Yes.
CareerRe: My Department/course Is Still Unaccredited. Help! by Martinez39(m):
Floda:
I actually wish I could.
The love I have for my department won't let me do that perhaps next semester I would be in my third year, if I'm to do a change of department now, I would have to redo 200level in the new department while my mates would be in 300level.
Don't look at your mates. If you graduate without any accreditation given to your department, it won't be funny. Believe me.
PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 10:53am On Oct 19, 2019
MJBOLT:
180
Thanks.

Here, have more. grin

PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 10:51am On Oct 19, 2019
Biglittlelois:
500mb is a weekly mb correct? Have you tried switching off mobile network? Change your network mode then restart your phone.
I have done that but I still can't use the data.

@MJBOLT
Please, can you provide the customer care number?
PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 10:20am On Oct 19, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Resolved?
Nope. Maybe I would have to forget about it but my concern is that such could repeat itself and this has never happened before. I just bought a new data bundle and it's working as expected but I can't seem to make use of that 500MB.
PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 10:14am On Oct 19, 2019
Biglittlelois:
angry
Anything?
PhonesRe: MTN Users, Help A Brother Out. by Martinez39(op): 10:10am On Oct 19, 2019
MJBOLT:
contact MTN on Twitter or call customer care
Okay, thanks.

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