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Blackivy29:
Im moving on. Happy?
why is it interesting?

Never mind.

Psalm2423:
Martinez39 is a man of steel though, and you’re weak for showing emotions. You’ll understand why I said that after sleeping over it. Just delete your male fb and move on. You’ve been gamed or possibly manipulated. Now you know that men are always at the top of emotional games. I can help you get over your feelings relatively quick if you want, but you’ll need to recite Psalm 23 first before I’ll start .

@Emboldened

Blackivy29:
@Psalm2423 trust me i have learnt my lesson. My problem is im 16yrs old, i have an issue with my first bf and instead of martinez39 to advice me like an adult, he's being rude and excusing the guy. You just pointed out my fault and i accepted it. He didnt do that, he was blaming me for feeling hurt, like he himself is some man of steel with an iron heart and im stupid for being emotional and trusting some guy. He even brought the whole miseducation matter here as if im sandra. And he calls me immature. I respect that dude but right now he's behaviour is a puzzle. To think he was the one who created a thread joking that he was inlove.

I am not excusing the guy. I never excused the guy. Stop lying. The guy is irrelevant to me. Whether he is wrong or not, the main issue is that he is on longer interested in you so you have to move on. All that matters is that you become mature enough to know when to call it quit, move on and stop looking for explanations. Hehe. I never blamed you for feeling hurt, I only blamed you for not having the maturity and humility to move on and call it quit.

So you are sixteen? Interesting.

Psalm2423:
Martinez39 is actually right. Asking a person to breakup with you is a demand which people won’t say no to. Only a fool will say no to something like that. Don’t get me wrong there.

When you ask someone if they wish to breakup with you, or something similar, it signifies that you’re already tired of the relationship, but wish for the breakup to be a matter of mutual desires. Now you went back to beg. It’s not bad, the human mind is the brain’s worst enemy. Just delete your mail profile, or give one yahoo boy make e convert am.

You’re probably a teenager (not meant in an insulting manner, doesn’t matter though), that’s why you wish to be showed love. Mend your heart and move on, or isolate yourself socially. The second option can destroy a chance for future relationships, but eliminates the possibility of heartbreaks.

Just let her be. You know the way women argue, they are never at fault.

Blackivy29:
That should have been your initial post. Not calling me confused like i had no right to be. According to him he still wants us to date. His best friend called me yesterday asking me to talk to my ex. Thats what made me do what i did to confirm. He claims he still loves me but i was wicked that i misinterpreted him.

You are confused. You story is twisting like a serpent and I am getting more confused. I wonder if you are not adding and subtracting to erase your faults I pointed out. As I have said, grow up and move on. You still need some maturity as you clearly don't when to call it quit. Anyway, there is no need continuing this discussion. You will stubbornly maintain, no matter what, that no fault is yours and that you are not childish. Have a nice day.

Chi59:
Nope. I have read a couple of your comments where you indicated that you're gay. If you are gay, then getting married to a woman will frustrate her. Period.

Lies. Show me these comments. You are just covering up and withdrawing the smear. You wanted to paint me as a bad man that would frustrate any woman I marry simply because I wrote a truthful post you didn't like. You were also heading into the direction of insinuating that I am gay. Calling men that say things you don't like gay is an old tactic.

Blackivy27:
Martinez39 You are twisting things with the aim of sounding smart, which you arent..
You send your gf a stay well message for her well being out of love. 5hours later she sends you a message that you are stupid and she's been cheating on you. Then she denys it and gets angry when you ask why she did it. You decide to let go to let things be. But you are human. You want to know why your first gf, the only one you have love treated you that way. You act like i did. And rather she states that you are the one to blame. That you misunderstood her. What was misunderstood if i should ask? I begged him. Told him i was crying but he got annoyed and i asked the only question i could, do you want to break up with me? Was that wrong.

This is my problem with you. Stop being childish by looking for explanations. If someone is no longer interested in you and not serious, close that chapter of your life and move on. Move on. Not matter what he did, bottom line is that he is no longer with you. Grow up and move on. Man up and move on. Gosh. Even your story isn't firm. I am done.

Chi59:
Please don't get married and frustrate someone's daughter. You prefer men right?

Trying to paint me as a bad man? Where are the indications in that post of mine that I would frustrate someone's daughter? Why try to use the gay accusation? Can't find new shaming language?

Good night.

Chi59:
You asked for a breakup, he gave you a breakup, what else do you want?

I didn't even read that post of hers, it skipped me somehow. Blackivy27 is a confused human being. She is still on her high horse. She taught the boy will chase her to the ends of the universe. Good to note that the boy has gone his way and won't give her any explanations. I am also happy that the boy has found another girl. No boy must tolerate such unseriousness and childishness from a lady.

Blackivy27, forget about him and move on. He owes you no explanation and he is no longer yours. You are the confused person.

After successfully making him wait with "no sex until marriage", she has started effecting her plan to weaponise sex. If, on the honey moon, she can make him back down and wait for another day she's ready, she can make him back down at anytime with ease and it cements her control over their sexual life.

Though I am never going to get married but if I hear that excuse on my honeymoon, I am calling it off no matter how much I have spent on the wedding.

SimDan95:
so what do u want us to say now?? cos amu confused.

This is thread is similar to the situation where your neighbour knocks at your door at midnight and says it's urgent. You reluctantly wake up from your sweet sleep and open the door only for him to say "remember that the name of our country is Nigeria and we have 36 states. Good night".

Confusion it is.

Michellekabod2:
Martinez39,astroG and CAPSLOCKED will frown out this thread

I won't frown on this thread. Not everyone has a personal relationship with reality so I can't force the issue.

Michellekabod2:
Martinez39,astroG and CAPSLOCKED will frown out this thread

Stop deceiving yourself. No man has such unrealistic expectations. We men know these changes can't be avoided even though we don't like them. Men don't task their wives to avoid these changes because it's nature. Show me the men that have such unrealistic expectations?

Blackivy27:
Thats not an option. Just airing my views that my boyfriend is a confused being.

Good night.

Nuclear99:
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If I had a dollar for each time Sandr.a8 replies with "dear", "dearie", and the kissing emoji, Otedola would bow to me.

Blackivy27:
your initial statement came out crude. I get you now though.

It came out crude because its a truth you don't want to hear. Hope you follow my advice.

Blackivy27:
Age has nothing to do with this. He owes me no explanation, fine but dont make it sound like its my fault. No matter my age i would fallen inlove and him behaving this queer is mean and you know it.

It's your fault that you don't know when to call it quit and move on.

I asked for your age because I refuse to believe that an adult will go running to their ex, who have moved on to another spouse, for explanations. This is some childish stuff.

Blackivy27:
please. So its cool for someone to toy with my emotion and i should just walk away content. If i were a guy your response would be different.

If you were a guy, my response would be the same. I am an apostle of equality.

Blackivy27:
please. So its cool for someone to toy with my emotion and i should just walk away content. If i were a guy your response would be different.

I am not saying you should walk away content or it's right to toy with one's emotions. Misrepresentations like this is why I don't argue with women or replied to the thread you opened about intelligence.

All I am saying is move on. Don't get stuck in the past. Close that chapter of your life and move on. The boy you are losing sleep over has moved to another girl. Stop looking for explanations and move on. If you can't understand and follow this advice, your case is beyond me.

Blackivy27:
not here dear.

Grow up. How old are you?

Blackivy29:
I've complained alot here on nairaland about my ex boyfriend who broke my heart for no good reason.
I need answers, so i created another fb account ( i know, thats immature, but i wouldnt get over him if i dont know the truth). I sent him a friend request and we started chatting ( i used a guys profile.) i complained that i had a gf who broke up with me with no cause and my ex came out too. According to him, i did the same thing too. Wtf! He sent me a message stating that he had a new gf and that i was stupid. But he didnt let that all out. Yes, i did ask him if he wanted us to split and he was like, "if thats what you want" i wanted him to say no. But he didnt. He told me (my other account), that he broke up with me because he didnt want to be a source of unhappiness in my life.
He is naturally sweet and he likes pleasing me. If i tease him that im angry, he would take it seriously and apologize. Then i would have to explain that im joking. Typing...

You need to grow up. People don't owe you any explanation and it's not every explanation that you must know. Forget about him and move on. Once someone doesn't want you or is unserious, move on. Gosh.

JONNYSPUTE:
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Okay dear, dearie.


if you understand

Korllami007:
I think Mrs.education is not working. Na only theory you sabi you no fit do practical.

Typical Nigerian student.

JONNYSPUTE:
Chai.After all the whole female miseducation.

alpha, secondary alpha, beta, how to play the game of a player, understanding the heart of men(part 1, 2, & 3)

With threads like this, the red pill revolution is just in it's early stages like dark clouds gathering before a heavy downpour and thunder storm. When ALL men finally swallow the red pill and become like ubunja, lukui and myself, women will feel equality in it's finest. No more beta cucks with cash to make life easy and no more free passes, special privileges, and favours. This, sadly, will happen probably after I am dead. If your eyes are wide open with the red pills, count yourself lucky for you are lucky indeed.

luminouz:
Your ignorance is earth shattering.

You know nothing,Jon Snow!

Last reply.

The person behind that moniker is a dindinrin.

Halo22:
See, girls are the best thing that happen to man, that's if you understand what being a man is. I won't write much, but I know that if I was a gold digger, I would have been very rich from ladies by now. One thing about ladies is that they prefer care and affection far more than cash, "except say na okpo".

You this woman, who are you deceiving?

iykeklef:
ok give me ur youtube and gmail na or even whatsap num

Why do you need these things? Drop your number and I will WhatsApp you tomorrow.

iykeklef:
martinez please ur facebook please... u are a real man, please drop ur fb user name

I don't have a Facebook account. Due to my studies, Nairaland, Google and YouTube are my only stuff.

EmptyCoconutHead, I have reached out to you on WhatsApp. I await your reply.

2SWT:
You have to pay registration fee na, Nigerian babes aren't cheap

If you don't pay it in form of house rent, you have to buy a phone or just something significant

Na so. After screaming strong independent woman.

another testimony. Let's dance to this.

EmptyCoconutHead:
just yesterday bro and the amount I gave out shows I've been manipulated and even with that there was no sort of appreciation from the beneficiary gosh can't share it here cos it's so sensitive and she or her friend may come across it since nairaland is now an open site.
I'll mail u later for u to gimme ur advise

Send me your number and I will WhatsApp you immediately. We need to discuss at length. You must take the redpill.

When you are ready.