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WittyLad:
Why do you have to explain so much to someone who could paint you bad out of negativity over your admonishment to ignore that troll, whose moniker actually read "Rienner" (a very long time troll, who is always good at derailing this wonderful thread)..
Besides, you don't even need to explain that much, like why care about what he thinks about you.. he/she guilt tripped you and you failed to pass the test..
Let's not give room for trolls to manipulate us Brouh, whenever you see them positing sh*ts contrary to the redpoll, just ignore
Be at alert

Well the issue has since passed. The thing is, after the pay-for-sex argument (in which I and others tackled him hard and refused to massage his ego) I decided to settle with him to ensure no hard feelings so we could move on amicably as matured masculine adult. He told me "we are good" so I thought he would honour his word like a man, but he was still emotional and bitter about the way we dragged him, the way we put him in his place, how we refused to act like his "crumbites" in the ashewo thread and how we humbled him.

I didn't know he was deliberately marring my personality because of the emotional hurt from the past argument, so I kept replying him thinking his accusations were sincere grievances. It took me some posts and exchange with him to realise he was still out for blood, he was engaging in a needless power play and he was viewing and reducing everything to power play. By then it was too late and it seemed to everyone that I was breaking the rules and entertaining a troll. Ironically, after this shameless, childish and feminine act from him, he thought I replied him that long because I saw him as a contender (contender for what?!); you can't make this up. Dude was up to no good, and still is.

CharisEleos:
Why will I lie?

Let me shock you further, in 2013, another big don threw an open check in front of me and told me to name any amount and it's all mine. Without even thinking twice, I went on my knees and started crying, begging him that I can't do it. I mean... He was a very old man and wouldn't stress me if I decide to date him and I know a small girl that has two kids for him and the girl is living large. He told me he bought her the CRV she was riding then. So I could have just collected my own share but I was not moved.

It's not because I'm super human but the fear and grace of God will not let me do it. It's not in me! I just can't.

If you like believe, if you like don't believe. It's a testimony for me today and I'm glad I overcame those temptations.

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CharisEleos:
Better opportunities they used their bodies to get as that has always been their ways of making it and getting whatever they want. So, it has become a normal lifestyle for them and continues even up to getting the best jobs while you sit there thinking they get it on a platter of gold.

If I gave in to a the so many rich men that came my way since 2001 ( to sleep with me) I started working, by now I'll prolly own Mansions and fleet of cars because these were super rich men and CEOs of companies, even chairmen and vice chairmen of Island clubs in Ikoyi those days who wanted to date and enrich me but I held on to my faith and I'm glad I did. No regrets. I know some day, God will reward me in a clean way.

The Bible already says in the world ye shall find tribulations but that we should be of good cheer, for he has overcome the world. Therefore I'll not be moved by how others are using their wayward life to make it big.

Imagine if the girl that killed super tv CEO didn't end up badly, tomorrow you'll come here to celebrate her. Tufia!

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Bola146:
That is why He is unquestionable God

You are very silly.

ubunja:
yes I remember, but by the time he reconciled, a lot of goodwill had been lost.
And why are people so intent on separating the Game from the Red Pill? Smh

Can we link up on whatsapp this evening and talk business?

No problem. I will available around 7:30 PM.

ubunja:
I hear you.
On a slightly different note, I really wonder if this thread will ever regain the game-focusedness of the first 5 to 10 pages. Seems like we've abandoned raw game for motivational speeches and dating advice.

I really liked the raw game you were spitting around that time until GLYCOLYSISS had an issue with it because he said he intended this group to be solely "redpilled", though he took a u-turn on this and tried to reconcile.

Kaymicheal852:
Thanks so much Martiñez39s

I'll try my best to try and let him reason with logic so he can send her away.

He is still full of emotions for now

Do let him calm down and ensure that the situation is handled appropriately.

Kaymicheal852:
He was eager and wants to get redpilled now.

Great! Send him here.

What God have join together,I can't come and put asounder lol

Which one is lol? Do you like your friend more or do you like his relationship more? What's wrong if he works for his benefit even if it means breaking up the relationship? THAT GIRL IS SIMPLY NOT WORTH IT. How do you know God ordained the union? Did God tell you Himself? Let's drop assumptions and sentiments and do the right thing. Where is it written that he must marry that girl? This is how onetitis starts.

If he can maintain frame ,maybe they can be together without her doing much damage to him ,maybe

The dude is already a beta in her eyes thanks to the past simping and onetitis. He can't be desirable or worthy of respect as a man in her eyes again. She will only sit up because their is no better option and she is financially dependent on him; by this, she is working in her best interest to secure the bag and keep the cash flowing. She is just enduring and I am sure she must have been smashed all round by sharp guys during your friend's simping years. Why are you hopeful your friend will end up with this ungrateful trash?

But I can't be watching if she tries to ruin him
My guy is very loyal ehhh

We started together when we barely eat and damn broke and have helped each other greatly out of poverty and misery

He is the epitome of friendship and loyalty

I can't let one bitch come and ruin his life

Although I don't want to interfere too much,but I have this feeling he will send her packing if he get miseducated too much

I ask again, do you like your friend more or do you like his relationship more? I ask again, why are you hopeful that he will end up with that ungrateful trash? I hope you are not pitying that girl because that would be simping. If your friend is really all you said and you value him, teach him to pick better because he deserves better. Let him end the relationship and settle down with a young virgin who has a better character and with whom he started on the right foot.

So they didn't pray before when the death toll around the globe was high.

Calibrator:
So I should not say my mind because of bleep?

Don't know about you but I am the kind of person who gets the opposite sex guard up whenever I start forming caring or trying to be patronising instead of speaking blunt truth.

I am more likely to get laid in my default emotionless character mode than to be forming what's not because of one bottomless pit.

Infact if I am to call any of my female acquaintances right now and start playing the lovey dovey miss you card, the reply I will get from virtually all of them is "I know that you can never love or miss anybody in your life, so don't whine me and tell me what exactly you want "

Don't trade your frame for momentary sexual pleasures. You can only derive pleasure for a maximum 2hrs out of 24hrs, trade your frame and the remaining 22hrs gonna be a hellish existence for you.

You might not call yourself a redpiller, buuuuttt the redpill principles are working in you, to good extents, without you knowing it.

Use this to calm down.

@kaymicheal852

Your work is not done yet. Keep giving that guy the red pill and tell him not to lose guard. The cry is fake and just mere acting. The girl was convinced that he would beg her hence her audacity, and the guy might be her best financial option at the moment hence the crying and fake apologies when it dawned on her that she was really going to lose her ATM (your friend). It's a manipulative and desperate act to secure her spot back. Guess what? Her mother knows what has been happening and supports her. Her mother is teaming up with her to secure her spot back and they are both using any tactic possible (eg. begging, crying, etc)

A lot of women will be benefiting hugely from their men without giving them anything worthwhile in return, but because their men are simps plagued with acute onetitis, they start acting like the prize (they are actually the prize in such relationship dynamics by virtue of the simps' onetitis), bluffing that they have more options when they don't, and leveraging on the onetitis to threaten to leave the relationship just to put their simps in line and manipulate them. Ironically, they benefit way more from the man and offer nothing worthwhile in return to these simps.

Left to me, I will advise you to tell your friend to end the relationship. Though the girl will sit up a bit if your friend man up and stop simping, but it's not worth it. She will probably just sit up because of the benefits even though he is a beta in her eyes. It's not worth it. Let him dump her and focus on his life. Even if he insists on committed relationships, let him start afresh with the red pill.

RikudoSennin:
Thanks man. I have lots of assets she doesn’t even know about.

Good. Hide those assets very well.

YQ of those days. "Me I like girls..."

Calibrator:
I was having a casual chat with a female friend yesterday evening after work and the discussion drifted to what makes an "Independent Woman".

She said "An independent woman is a woman who works and pay her bills without external help" and I replied her that she just described what a regular average responsible human should be, then went to elaborate why I don't see the common sense in giving accolades to a female who went through the same formal education as her male counterparts simply because she decided to put the knowledge derived to use by working and paying her bills.

Las las she sha call me a misogynist and been vexing for me since

You have done common sense and masculinity proud.

RikudoSennin:
I need peace and I am not getting it. Its better to be separated before I get HBP.

The divorce might cost you much, but it's better to separate and end things for the sake of your peace of mind instead of wasting the only life you will ever live not having your peace of mind and walking on egg shells every day in your own house; such a life is a miserable and wasted one. What is life without peace of mind, fulfillment and happiness?

The earlier the better because you will have a fresh start on time to build and recoup what the divorce cost you. I knew that a wife who could muster the audacity to smash mugs and plates over a simple disagreement would always give you continuous hell. Threatening/warning her of you moving to another state meant nothing and it couldn't do anything.

Before you file divorce and turn in reports of your assets, try seeing the ones you can hide. If you can sell your house and relocate elsewhere and start a new life easily, do it swiftly without telling anyone. If you find yourself in the divorce courts, be careful not to drag things out because you are likely responsible for both you legal fees and that of your wife's. Some lawyers will try to needlessly drag out cases just to accumulate hours and money. If you still go to court, don't defend yourself in court; go with a lawyer, but do not fully trust any lawyer, even your own.

There are many more things I could have talked about, but time and energy elude me.

You are now a man.

Lol. I don't believe this story. The man is free to change his mind just as a woman is free to change her mind.

IF THE MONEY IS THERE, ESCAPE TO EUROPE.

ubunja:
the good doctor has spoken....

Even myself there was a time when my own babymama was being difficult concerning our daughter for no apparent reason, and I looked her straight in the eye and said, "If this girl has a father elsewhere that is not me who you're listening to over me, tell me so I can gladly forget her!".

That fixed a host of issues.
After that I ghosted her and our daughter for 3 years for her audacity. And because 3 years is a long time for a woman and I know she did a lot of things during - when I reappeared I made it clear to her she was forever going to be second to whichever girl I'm dating. She's forever demoted although still fvcked.

ObinnaValentine:
I know the rules man..but can't u see she was being respectful with her reply to me.. Why?! I because I wasn't abusing her for trolling..there are levels to this thing my guy

It doesn't matter if a female is being respectful or not, the rules are the rules. Let's try to abide, bro.

Calibrator:
It is not enough to cut off people who disrespect and look down on you, it is more paramount to cut off the version of you that indulged them in the first place.

E be like say you have some red pills in you, bro. I am happy to have you here. Sha resist the urge to facilitate *cough*. We grow together here.

MJBOLT:

What the woman did to Christopher is a normal thing among women. I am talking about the parental alienation and the public slander of Christopher as a deadbeat even when he is not and he is putting tremendous efforts only to have the woman make it difficult and/or impossible for him.

Many women have shown us that women can be selfish even when the best interests of their kids are involved; they would rather see their children cry and be denied of the benefits, involvement and influence of a father over petty disputes with the father than muster the maturity to not involve their children in the dispute they have with the father. They don't prioritize their children's emotional needs and wellbeing above their petty disputes and games with the father. It is not beneath them to reduce their children to mere pawns and deny them the good truths about their fathers in their manipulation and petty games than give these children a complete childhood.

Many alienate their kids and poison their minds against the fathers just to prove a worthless point or to get back at the father, even in cases where they are wrong. Many don't care about the kids, but they withhold them because it makes the man suffer to be denied his kids; as long as he suffers, she is happy.

Men make better parents than women and you hardly see them doing this rubbish. Men are usually the ethical and more compassionate sex despite what the matrix wants you to believe. Look at how many Nigerian women treat housemaids and stepchildren. It would be better to grant custody to fathers and have them regulate the mother's visitation as it was done in old traditional times before the introduction of the feminist Tender Years Doctrine. Men know how to handle this authority with maturity and ethics for the benefit of everyone involved.

foreman:
Ok. If your wife catches you redhanded, will you still be entitled to her money (assuming she is richer) if she decides to divorce you?

YES!

foreman:
Martiñez39s, Some of those things you wrote as per divorce in Western societies, are they for real?

YES! They don't make sense, but it is what it is.

Let me ask you a question of last resort. If you catch your wife cheating with another man with solid evidence, will she still be entitled to part of your money if you decide to divorce such wife?

YES!

fattprince:
Well she is insinuating commitment but I'm not giving her or any girl for that matter, at least for now. Just enjoying and building up my life for now.

SHE IS TRYING TO PLAY YOU. DON'T GIVE THE PREDATOR A CHANCE.

ubunja:
lol you seen them hey!! What's the challenge called?

I don't know the name but I coincidentally came upon some videos while browsing yesterday. I will look into them.

@DaniWhizBang

Your friend is a fool like no other.

ubunja:
I'm not sure of the name surprisingly. But the hoes are posting slideshows and video clips of before and after they started staying with their guys. The aim being to show that BEFORE the chicks were sexy, slim and so appealing and AFTER staying with their guys they let themselves go and are overweight, gross and not even putting any effort, most not even no longer bothering to be sexy for their guys. It's so sad and some guys are even in the video on the AFTER hopelessly watching their GF flaunt their grossness. It's really gross how many of the ladies got overweight. Ans of course it's mostly white ladies from what I've seen. And they'll all be celebrating it.

Coachgregadams have quite a few of these vids on his Instagram. It's gross what these hoes are doing,

I saw some videos of this challenge.

ubunja:
Here we go... Another tik tok challenge from those accursed hoes. Have you gents caught wind of the latest tik tok thing??

Nope. Share with us if you can. You can also drop the name of the challenge.

Emotionss:
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When I hear such statements, I always shiver in wonderment.

Simps act and talk foolishly when simping. The foolish thing simps can't do doesn't exist.

SOZINN:
You be LEGEND.

Guy is applying red pill like kilode.

Ritzybeauty:
I really don't understand this marriage thing, it brings out the beast in men sometimes, all of a sudden the attraction just goes away.. Lord have mercy.

See this one deceiving herself.