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Romance › Re: Matured Minds Only. by Martinez79: 4:26pm On Oct 15, 2019

immortalcrown:
Let me tell you the truth, bad people (both men and women) have made it so dangerous for a person to be faithful to his or her partner. A guy will promise a girl marriage, date her for many years and dump her at last. A girl will accept a guy's marriage proposal, date him for years and dump him after he must have spent so much on her or sponsored her education. So, people have learnt to keep a spare partner, to quickly survive sudden and unexpected breakup.

Honestly, I am faithful to my girl. I do not even care if she cheats on me. As long as she makes herself available for me when I need her, I love her and will not hurt her. I will only meet another girl, if my girl condemns me and gives up on me. Even if I catch her with another man, I will not get mad at her. Although, I will be sad. But if after meeting with her parents for marriage arrangement and she later cheats on me, then I will run for my life. I know that not every man can do what I do in the aspect of relationship, I don't tell people to be like me. After all, not everybody understands this generation very much like I do.

So, even if you have informed her that you want to marry her, but you have not presented anything to her parents, as your commitment for the marriage, do not leave her because you have not given her enough assurance. But, if you have met her parents for the marriage and she still did it, leave her. But before you leave her, try to find out how it happened. A desperate guy can use 'juju' on her, especially if she is sexually attractive. Juju has power. A man can also sit her down in an open place, drug her or feed her with alcohol, and then take her to the hotel. And the funny thing is that she may regain consciousness while the man is still inside her, but she will be so confused and will not react immediately, she is a human being. Women are bad, but they are more endangered than men. But as you try to find out what happened, be smart because she can feed you with well-constructed lies and you will believe her.

No. There is no relationship with two people who are equally good to each other. One has to be better than the other. One has to offer more. "An eye for an eye" does not make a better society. Our society is in chaos because we always want to gain more and give less. Nobody wants to give more and manage less.

Op, if you know what is good for you, ignore this dangerous and ludicrous advice. Once you catch her cheating, dump her immediately.

— Omar09

Romance › Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Martinez79: 4:00pm On Oct 15, 2019

OladimejiRufai:
Boy, I LOVE YOU for this. Little wonder people have been calling your name. It seems you're worth the attention.

Hope you're not offended at me calling you boy by the way? I just like the sound.

I am not offended. I am cool with it.

Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 3:30pm On Oct 15, 2019*

emmaodet:
If they say that women lose more in a relationship then let us look it from this angle -
2 people agree to float a business (relationship), one came in with the money, time, ideas and also running around while the other came in with ideas, time and running around for the biz too.
Now, if the biz crashes (broken relationship), who do will think will feel it most and be lamenting, nagging? The one who invested the lost money because the moment the business crashes, the other partner is already submitting CV in other reputable companies looking to get another job.
That is why we see more guys lamenting on nairaland because the one that invest money most gets hurt most and we know most ladies don't invest in relationship with there money but body which they enjoy too

Gbam! That's exactly the angle I am looking at it from. They both enjoyed sex but only the woman enjoyed the money and the guy made financial losses. Most times, despite the financial and emotional investments (sometimes even career wise) and time sacrificed, the relationship doesn't even last as the girl dumps him cold to settle with her highest bidder. These boys even get cheated on, and are told "no sex until marriage". grin

— Omar09

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Romance › Re: Boys Get In Here. Your Mumu Must Do. by Martinez79: 3:14pm On Oct 15, 2019

djevino:
God bless u bro for dis... Some guys no go ever get sense

They won't. Some don't even want to be saved.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Genuine Proof Of God's Everlasting Love by Martinez79: 3:11pm On Oct 15, 2019

XxSabrinaxX:
I just came accross it today and truly, it split me up . What kind of world would honestly persuade an individual so unquestioningly that an extraordinary power will spare them when they contravene laws and intentionally endanger themselves? Or, do we conclude that it is the individual's lack of capacity for critical thought?

Anyways, I don't want to journey too far down the rabbit hole. I just want to know if this counts as evidence for absence

The guy was charged on his beliefs like a man charged on marijuana. He kept on moving despite the arrows shot at him probably because he believed god had his back in the mission of winning souls, he had committed things into the hands of god, and he had to demonstrate faith by continously approaching the hostile tribe. Once a christian is filled with faith, any draw back is seen as a test from the devil. The more you discourage them, the more they tenaciously hold on.

Indoctrination is a powerful force.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Genuine Proof Of God's Everlasting Love by Martinez79: 2:06pm On Oct 15, 2019

I remember this story. It demonstrates the danger of embracing and putting into practice false and misleading beliefs. I once opened a thread about it

https://www.nairaland.com/4865586/true-concerning-chau-sentinelese

Romance › Re: Boys Get In Here. Your Mumu Must Do. by Martinez79: 2:01pm On Oct 15, 2019

Chukapage:
please I beg you SAVE that brother SAVE him at all cost,I already have compassion for him

I have discussed with EmptyCoconutHead and we have the situation under control.

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Career › Re: Please I'm Depressed I Need Your Advice by Martinez79: 1:06pm On Oct 15, 2019

tensazangetsu20:
Cc FROGMAN101, martinez79 this man needs some red pills.

He needs some red pills indeed. I hope chenzen wouldn't see this and still think men are the ones that play chess with women in virtually all relationships. Anyway, where, in the op's girlfriend, are the nurturing and maternal instincts that feminists have been telling us exist in all women given that the pregnancy was aborted without a second thought? The very same trash they use to convince us that mothers care more for the children than their fathers. The very same trash women use to gain custody of kids in divorce courts overseas.

I will drop my advice for the op later. I am busy now.

Cc. Omar09

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Romance › Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Martinez79: 10:35am On Oct 15, 2019

DenreleDave:
Thanks so much sir martinez

Thank u very much

You are welcome. Now, here are the things I want you to do :

1) Forget about relationship and romance and focus on yourself. Don't waste time and money on any girl and sex until you have established yourself. Don't be the financial messiah of any girl.

2) Forget about that girl. Stop calling, caring, or texting her and move on. Let her deal with her life and you mind your business. Do not give unnecessary attention. Her emotional state and happiness are not your responsibilities. You don't owe it to her to be concerned about her.

3) Never in your life think that a particular girl (beautiful or not, educated or not) is special, indispensable, or irreplaceable. All girls are not special, they are not indispensable, and they can be replaced. Don't you ever think that you can't live without any girl for it's a huge lie and don't ever swallow bullshit from any girl.

Have a nice day.

Cc. Omar09

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Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 8:35am On Oct 15, 2019

Omar09:
Niggie. Tag me in all threads, comments. And shi.t

I will.

Cc. Omar09

Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 8:19am On Oct 15, 2019

Aboguede:
How old 're u

Below 24 (I am being sincere). It's left to you to guess the correct age. grin

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Romance › Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Martinez79: 8:14am On Oct 15, 2019

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Omo. This guy is running low on redpill drugs. Martinez79,more supplies for him. ASAP.

Don't mind him.

@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below

https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 7:44am On Oct 15, 2019

Aboguede:
You must be talking for. Experience

Funny enough, I have never had a girlfriend before. I observe my world around me, learn, and I try to be realistic.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 7:40am On Oct 15, 2019

@chenzen

Let's also not forget that the average dating experiences for both genders are as follows.

MALE : Loves ideally and builds relationship based on love as conditioned from childhood. He goes out to do the chasing to ask her out. If the female says "yes," they start dating. Typically, as conditioned by society, he become financially responsible for her and, sometimes, even her siblings and parents. All these are done in love and they are willingly to make sacrifices.

When they start dating, he envisions a future with that woman and works towards it. He may later get dumped cold after everything on realising that the girl has gone to her best option financially. Sometimes, they don't know until they come across wedding pictures on social media.

FEMALE : loves opportunistically and finally ends up marrying her best option, at the time, among the pool of boys she had been keeping in touch with and playing. Usually she is playing all the men she claims to be dating and she receiving money from them. She is also having sex around. At the end of the day, when she wants to marry, she settles down with her best option. Boys, more often than not, usually realise, on checking the phones or laptops of their girlfriends, that their girlfriends are seeing someone else. When caught, she apologises, cries with crocodile tears, and promise that she won't cheat again.

She doesn't fulfil the promise because there is no way she is letting her options and the favours from other men go because of one. It just won't happen instead she tries to be more careful next time. She only apologised because she was caught. As a result, boys discover that, despite forgiving her over and over again, she keeps on cheating despite pleading with so much crocodile tears; apparent solemnity; and seemingly sincere promise to not cheat again. She has multiple men she is dating and boys she keeps on stand by in her friendzone. At the end of the day, she goes with her best option financially.

So I find it odd that you, chenzen, think men are playing women and then ending up with their best option. It's women that are fond of this. Usually, once a man picks you, he already has plans to make you his queen no matter if a more beautiful and sexy damsel comes his way later. Once, a woman agrees to date you, loyalty cannot be guaranteed except you are her best option financially. Even if you are the best option, she still sees other men and keeps them on standby. When it seems that no one is going to take your place are the best option, she agrees to walk down the aisle with you.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 6:45am On Oct 15, 2019

frank317:
I am not sure am with u on this

Feel free to tell me your objection.

Romance › Re: Crazyemberr Is Blackivy. by Martinez79: 11:01pm On Oct 14, 2019

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Bros how far? Were you also banned?

I was banned. I had to open another account. The mods banned me for a red pill post and falsely accused me of bullying all because I made that post. grin

I will be back to my usual moniker Martinez39 very soon.

Romance › Re: Crazyemberr Is Blackivy. by Martinez79: 10:45pm On Oct 14, 2019

Crazyemberr:
well im a child.

Hehe. I don't mean it in a degrading, mocking or insulting way but someday, you will look back at your threads and see the handwriting of childishness all over it. grin

It's not everything that you must bother to discuss or argue.

Romance › Re: Crazyemberr Is Blackivy. by Martinez79: 10:26pm On Oct 14, 2019

The more I read your post, the more I see clearly that you are still a child. grin

Romance › Re: Crazyemberr Is Blackivy. by Martinez79: 10:25pm On Oct 14, 2019

Welcome back. sad

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Crime › Re: Yahoo Boy Corper Convicted For $150 Fraud by Martinez79: 9:54pm On Oct 14, 2019

Prince T'Challa of Wakanda! shocked

Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 7:07pm On Oct 14, 2019

Michellekabod2:
But You,u.bunja,and AstroG are guilty of what you accise Chen.zen of doing

Which is? Please answer.

Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 6:24pm On Oct 14, 2019*

Michellekabod2:
Facts?
The way you call things fact is alarming,you abuse the word fact.
Men get used financially,they give the attention,time,love,money etc....
True...

How about Bleep boys? Players?guys that date girls for a decade only for them not to show up for wedding?
A guy can date for a decade,call of the relationship off and after months is ready to marry someone else..can we say same for ladies based on stereotype?guys pregnant girls and flee and let her dropout of school while he continues his education. Not just does she bear the shame and risk damaging her womb or losing her life via abortion but also how many men will marry a single mom?but a single dad can be married!
Women suffer alot!
Community d1cks get married and see how non virgins are slut shamed... Ladies use toothpaste to tighten their vaginas and do unspeakable things to please you guys...

Am not down playing the hurt guys feel but I am making you see things from two lens here..

Playing the victim always can't bring changes...I hope you realize that soon

It would do you well to read my post properly before commenting. I am not playing victim. I made it clear that there are bad men. My problem is that chenzen is painting the overwhelming majority of men are users. He is painting relationships as a game that virtually all men play with women as the manipulated. You have not, in any way, with your ranting, disproved the point I passed across. My message is that women manipulate too and they do that way more than men. More men are on the receiving side than women. Read my post again.

I also put it to you, Michelle, that your misrepresentation and misunderstanding of my message is due to you seeing gender wars where it doesn't exist. My posts to chenzen is not an attempt to malign the female gender but to show chenzen that women too are guilty of cold hearted manipulation and usage of men as though men were utilities. I also believe that women, in this regard, are much more usually guilty than men.

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Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 4:51pm On Oct 14, 2019

chenzen:
the core reason I advocate for these ladies is because they most likely do not initiate the idea of an affair rather it has mostly been the guys who sweet talk these ladies into kick starting a romantic episode.

Sweet talk? Why are you acting like ladies don't know what they are doing? It's common for guys to ask ladies out, so why call it sweet talk as though the guys were brainwashing and manipulating the ladies into a relationship? Do guys asks ladies out for the sake of love or to play "chess" with them? Face the facts, boys are the ones that are usually used, sucked dry, cheated on, and dumped cold despite the sacrifices and investment in the relationship. What was their undoing? Falling in love. If you can get all these for loving someone, what does that say about the person you love? Do you still think boys are the heartless manipulators?

It happens many times and we see that by the threads with stories and pleas by unfortunate boyfriends seeking the advice of nairalanders. Despite all these, you act like boys are the manipulators and girls are the victim? Are you serious? Mind you, I am not saying that there are no bad men in relationship.

It's not news anymore, except you want to pretend, that romantic relationship is called a scam for a reason. Do you know the gender of the usual victims of this scam? That's your assignment.

- Martinez39

Cc. CAPSLOCKED, astroG, healthserve, ubunja, lukui, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet

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Romance › Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 2:58pm On Oct 14, 2019

chenzen:
women are sore losers in the end, the guys dont care... so these ladies needs the right kind of orientation not some morbid guidelines that has being reiterated via threads by some selfish OP overtime.

Way more often than not, women are not the losers in relationships. Do you ignore the fact that men are the ones that fall for love, spend heavily on their girlfriends and wives? What happens in most cases? These males are rewarded with being cheated on, being used and dumped, and entitlement from their girlfriends.

chenzen:
not all males are bad but the majority in this context has cast their shadows over the few near flawless ones... ladies has suffered in the hands of these guys.

I could say the same for women given that most of them cheat over and over even after apologising when caught. What about the fact that men are nothing but utilities to women? What about men that train their girls in school or at least shoulder the financial responsibilities of their girlfriends and, sometimes, even her family? Doesn't this happen frequently? Yet in your bitterness, you act like the overwhelming majority of men are playing women like chess when it's the other way round.

Majority of men are not playing chess with their girlfriends instead they fall in love, desire that their girlfriends be their partners in their love dream, make sacrifices and spend heavily in the name of love, and then get reward with :
1) being cheated on,
2) being used and dumped cold after everything,
3) no gratitude, etc.

The frequent stories about heart broken men on nairaland show you how callous and cold women can be yet, in your bid to ass lick your fellow women, you act like men are the savages. These stories show how men have sacrificed so much for their girlfriends only to be treated treacherously. Think again.

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Education › Re: Advanced Calculus by Martinez79: 6:22am On Oct 14, 2019

PrinxArthur1:
u mean this @ martnez79 and martinez39

Both monikers represent the same person. Your working is correct.

Education › Re: Advanced Calculus by Martinez79: 9:49pm On Oct 13, 2019

PrinxArthur1:
plsss I need full working abeg...... We get exam tomorrow

Separating the variables lead to
dy/(1 + y²) = dx/(1 + x²)

Integrating both sides leads to
arctan y = arctan x + C
y = tan(arctan x + C)

Christianity Etc › Re: The Worst Moment In Atheists Life. by Martinez79: 9:43pm On Oct 13, 2019

FOLYKAZE:
The worst moment is when I watched my son laid down helplessly on hospital bed for days gasping for breathe until he gave up ghost. The situation makes me hate God more

God is nonexistent. The universe is indifferent to the life of man.

https://www.nairaland.com/5009686/hard-facts-life

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Education › Re: Advanced Calculus by Martinez79: 9:04pm On Oct 13, 2019

PrinxArthur1:
Martinez39 thanks a lot......
Can anybody try this one

y = tan(arctan x + C)

Romance › Re: How Do I Get Over A Heart Break? by Martinez79: 8:56pm On Oct 13, 2019

harry2sexy:
All men cannot be saved, if not the likes of daniels, tonto will grow broke

All men cannot be saved and majority of men anywhere are simps. That's harsh truth.

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Romance › Re: How Do I Get Over A Heart Break? by Martinez79: 5:51pm On Oct 13, 2019

MJBOLT:
....

When we spread our red pill messages, women, typically, and simps like the op will come down on us real hard calling us bitter, sexist, broke, frustrated, and misogynistic. Little did they know that we seek to liberate them with the hard truth.

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Romance › Re: How Do I Get Over A Heart Break? by Martinez79: 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2019*

@pope22

Too bad. Situations like this is why I created a topic like this (click the link to see the topic).

https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

I promise to create a thread in response to your ordeal. You have been used and you have served your purpose as a utility. As man, always know that women see you as a utility. Once you have served your purpose or you can no longer serve your purpose, you are no longer welcome. You are then loathed by her on the inside and she wishes you would just go away. A woman cannot love a man except what he can provide and how he makes her feel. You really need some red pills.

-Martinez39

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