₦airaland Forum

jafol:
That's your business with northerners, why was yoruba soldiers included in your mass coup killings then? Why are igbos angry against YORUBAS? Did we start war with you igbos or hausas?
I think yorubas should leave Nigeria for you two crazy religious tribalistic bigot tribes and see what nigeria will become.

it was a millitary coup , u have to eliminate the leaders and again Yorubas were even involved in the coup

and afterwards when the northerners were committing coup one after the other and Yorubas generals were killed in the process what did u guys do?


I laugh in Chinese "Yorubas should leave Nigeria?". lol when awolowo had the chance what did he do?

we Igbos have no problems with Yorubas leaving infact that's what we want , and when u leave we'll leave too

Susu888:
Sorry to say but ur the only stupid person here!
Action begets reaction! Ur generals provoked the other two main tribes by killing our leaders nd u expect us to sit nd watch ur tribe rule us like slaves? Fvcking jews! If only hitler wiped u fvckers from the face of earth!

ur soooo stupid , are u actually supporting mass murder?

and besides it wasn't an Igbo coup , Google it there were Yorubas and Hausas involved , it was just a coup with an igbo leader


and after ward who then has been ruling is it not the northerners?

if u hate us so much why don't u let us leave ?

jafol:
Shut up who started the coup no be you igbos. Until igbos apologizes to hausas and yorubas for killing their generals in that coup. They will not have peace in Nigeria. ...I know igbos will not do that , they r pompous to humble themselves but they want other people to show humility to them. You igbos think an average yoruba is not reading all ur insults online, we will surprise you all

so where's our apology when the northerners killed 100000 Igbos in the north ?


ur very stupid

abbeyfel:
The question is do you know Duke? Cos I guess everyone on nairaland does!

lol nairaland at its supreme best has a little over 2million people and a significant number of those are underage and not all of them support Duke


listen when someone does not have structure and u just know they can't win why should u vote for them ?

if Donald Duke was in a powerful party , party u know had the ability to reach every corner of the country and gather votes, a party that can secure his victory then why won't people vote for him


listen a lot of people dont wanna feel like they wasting their votes , they just wanna get buhari out and they know atiku is the only one with the power and ability to do that and that's why they gonna vote for him

shekini1000:
It is always painful for me

u must be either doing anal or doing without lubricant or the guy's d!ck is too big and u ain't used to it yet

martins18:
I can be in love with a girl today but tomorrow that love would no longer be there. pls i need a little explanation. thanks

stop wanking

SweetBuns:
One of my friends go cheated on and she found out yesterday.what the hell is the male genders problem?my friend is 100% wife material and she has helped d stupid idiot a lot.Men are dogs who can't keep their stick in one place.
simple

it seems ur not being fvcked properly

Praizeupdates:
Wife of the president Mrs Aisha Buhari in her bid to support the entertainment industry appreciate and honours kannywood actors as she present them and award each.

See photos below


Gist From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/aisha-buhari-appreciate-and-honour-kannywood-actors-with-awards/

when abokīs don't even have tv

Praktikals:

What some people dont know is that crude oil is available in commercial quantity in the north too. They just want to deplete the ones in the Niger Delta before they start exploiting theirs. When it comes to foresight, the northerners are way ahead of the Igbos.

wow

Guy have u tried any of these things?

SyberKate:
Hello good people of Nairaland

So there's this guy that has been on my case for some months now, we friends and all but nothing serious has started.

Now I lost my Android phone and have been using a Nokia touch light phone for some weeks now and this guy has complained that he misses me on Whatsapp and wants to give me an old Android phone of his.

Now for someone I'm not currently dating is this right to collect such a phone, or should I decline. I'm suspecting if I take it he may start making demands for s3xx. and all that

So what do you think...

collect the phone , is it not a gift? as long as u did not beg him for it


because if u did and he then have u then it's like a "conditional" gift , meaning he agreed to ur request because u are his girlfriend so in turn u should agree to his request cause he is ur boyfriend

SyberKate:
Hello good people of Nairaland

So there's this guy that has been on my case for some months now, we friends and all but nothing serious has started.

Now I lost my Android phone and have been using a Nokia touch light phone for some weeks now and this guy has complained that he misses me on Whatsapp and wants to give me an old Android phone of his.

Now for someone I'm not currently dating is this right to collect such a phone, or should I decline. I'm suspecting if I take it he may start making demands for s3xx. and all that

So what do you think...

collect the phone , is it not a gift?

as long as u did not beg him for it

Ihatelove:
Are you surprised that some guys do that? What of the ones that the venue of their date is their house

lol why would u go to guy's house unless u wanna fvck?


if the guy wanna meet u causally then it should be in a public place , going to a guy's house automatically equals sex with only a few exceptions



ps why ur moniker tho?

gisthabit:
First dates are always beautiful and mostly filled with a lot of anxiousness especially when it took you so long to secure the date with the person involved.

Unfortunately, most people mess up the opportunity by allowing themselves to be carried away with things that are not necessary on the d-day.

6 Things you should never do on your first date


#1 Don’t Show Up With an Empty Wallet

Yes, but that is the idea thing. Don’t show up without any cash or debit card on you hoping that your date will foot your bills.

Sometimes some people are left stranded and disappointed when their date is unable to foot their bills which can lead to untold embarrassment.

#2 Dress Neatly and Smart

Do not dress shabbily. You don’t need to have expensive clothes to appear neat and smart, all you need do is to make sure that you dress in clean and ironed clothes.

Take your bath 30-mins to the date and brush or comb your hair to help you look and remain fresh throughout the period of the date.

#3 Never Talk About Your Ex

I am once a victim of this, I was so carried away with the story of my ex that my date had to call my attention to it.

You don’t need to talk about your ex except your partner requests to know. And in this case, you should try as much as possible to keep it short and straight so you don’t dwell so much on it.

#4 Be Considerate When Asked To Place Orders

Most ladies are culprits when it comes to this. Immediately they are giving the go-ahead to place orders for foods and drinks they go ahead to place unimaginable orders, some even go to the extent of requesting for take-away packs for their friends and family.

Be considerate, be fair, and be mature.

#5 Keep Your Mobile Phone Away

Do not allow your mobile phone to take the center stage of the day. These days, couples end up going to out for dates without having any quality conversion because they were glued to their mobile phone throughout the date.

Quiet put away your phone and focus your attention on the date.

#6 Don’t Ask For Sex

This might be very difficult for some people. Requesting for sex on the first date can send negative signals to your partner.

For the woman it makes you look cheap while for the man it makes you look deceptive desperate.

Take your time to know each other and other things will follow naturally.

Source:http://gisthabit.com/6-things-you-should-never-do-on-your-first-date/

lol "don't ask for sex"


who actually does that?

it's "wanna head back to my place"?

or "wanna see my dingdong"?

or. " let's go for a RIDE"

GlorifiedTunde:
Funny as it sounds, this young lady has revealed what the cause of many men's misfortune is.

For every man or woman you sleep with, you share in whatever they carry - either curses or blessings.

wow , is that what ur daddy GO told u

abbeyfel:
You just prove why nigeria will be backward for a long time coming. See the reason qouted? Battle between strong and swift? I laugh. I know for sure this mindset of voting party and regions will continue sinking Nigeria. So tell me when the time is if not NOW!!!

the answer to your question is go to the market woman on ur street and ask her who is Donald duck and then ask her who is atiku

and then you'll know that their time is not now

Daboomb:
It is mentally deficient, lazy Yoots like you that will not let this country grow!
Just imagine the rubbish you wrote, and over thirty brainless nitswits like yourself even gave you 'likes' for it!!

You acknowledge that Donald Duke is the right person and YOU KNOW that all he needs is your Votes to become the President YET, your mental decay and love for crumbs from Atku-looters poecket made you to say "His time is not Now"?

If clowns and braindeads like you wakeup from your money-induced slumber and used your brain cells for once (l know you dont have much in that area but at least...) to vote-in A CAPABLE MAN like Duke, in your Millions, what can Buhari or Atiku do?

You dont even comprehend that it is not Buhari or Atiku that determines if they win or lose ....it is NIGERIANS like you but unfortunately, this country is saddled with "lazy Yoots" like you who wail al day, swear and cry all night and still CANT DO THE RIGHT THING in-between.

Atiku is the worst thief and public property looter this country has ever produced.
In sane countries, he would have been hanged by his testicles for the fraud he perpetrated in the "Privatisation Scheme" hen he was Vice President.

I not sure you are old enough between 1999 and 2007 but go and read how the Privarisation was done by Atiku-looter.
If you need references, let me know and l will give you one or two....independent references.

Nigerians should please vote for the likes of Donald Duke, Moghalu, Ezekwesilli, Sowore, Durotoye and not a chief-looter like Atiku-looter or that Herdsmen sponsor Buhari. Both are Fulani herdsmen sponsors.

u don't seem to get his point , these people can't win , why would u vote for people that can't win?
and who should we vote for ? u listed 5 people
can all of them win? won't u just be splitting votes? the most important thing right now is getting buhari out and voting for people that'll split votes won't do that

BandAid:
There you got it wrong. Yes, democracy is being practised in Nigeria and by extension, Africa. But is it practised the way it should be? A situation where we pick and choose what law to obey just because it suits us, while we profess democracy, is very wrong. Using the powers of state to suppress the minority because they have no voice is not democracy, but rather, tyranny. Subjugating and incarcerating people and taking away their fundamental human rights in the name of democracy is inhuman.

I put it to you that any government that is so concerned with what consenting adults do in the privacy of their homes is not a serious govt. Very soon, govt would start telling us when to have sex, where to have sex and how to have sex. Because it has not affected you today does not mean it won't, if we continue to allow this injustice to fester. It is the hallmark of an unserious govt which is quite visible on the African continent.

By the way, it is only a closeted gay that feels so pained when gay issues are brought to the fore. Real straight people are usually indifferent about this kind of a thing. Are you sure you're not homophobic simply because you're denying your sexuality?

gayism is ILLEGAL in the democratic federal republic of Nigeria


so like every other CRIME it should not be tolerated or promoted but condemned and castigated

if gay was to be legal then it would have to follow the democratic process and be voted for

and again democracy is a government of the majority ! the majority has and will always rule!

so all those things u mentioned can't happen unless WE the people will to happen .

now I have no real particular issues with homosexuality but my issue is when people with the " the west are right " mindset come and tell us we are " backward" simply because we don't like what the west says , forgetting that there are so many other countries (China , Japan , Russia , Korea) that dont allow gay marriages

NwaAmaikpe:




Before I call Wike a mumu.
What is the importance of Prince Charles's visit? It's not as if his visit increased the income per capita of Abuja.
Rather revenue was depleted in hosting him.

Why does Wike keep making a fool of himself and crying foul at every opportunity he gets.

I think he is just sad he didn't get an opportunity to loot Rivers States treasury under the guise of hosting Prince Charles.

shut up guy ,



isn't he right?

when any important personnel visits Nigeria they go to Lagos and Abuja , why not take them to other states across the country , obviously u don't have to take them to the dirty areas of course but there are tourists centers , fine places across the country u can take them too to boost and promote tourism and such .

a problem in Nigeria is marginalisation of things to Lagos and Abuja , that's why other states can't develop , restructuring is the way !

BandAid:
You can't and won't understand because of these reasons:

1. Like an average Nigerian, you've been brainwashed by religion.

2. You're shallow minded, immature and lack proper exposure that conditions people's minds to freedom and compassion.

3. You reduce sexuality to sexual acts alone. Sexuality is inherent in every human and nothing below and above the cloud can change it. Sexual act is physical activity of having sex, whether you're gay, straight or bi. There are straight people who are celibate, the same goes for gays.

4. The lack of focus and dereliction of duties from our govt, especially in Africa, has made Africans intellectually deficient to the point that we prioritise unnecessary issues to the detriment of important ones. Otherwise, you can begin to ask yourself how related to economic development, job creation and national wealth what consenting adults do in their privacy.

5. Lack of empathy for fellow humans, even though we all claim to be religious and righteous, (although not godly) has really damaged our efforts at nation building and respect for humanity.


6. Hypocrisy is ingrained in every Nigerian. We hate what we hate without questions and love what we love the same way. It is easy to castigate others for their perceived flaws, while we do same or worse things in private. I bet you would boast of having premarital sex even though our 'cultures' and your so called religion forbids it. People only choose what law or rule to obey, depending on the part of divide they find themselves.

7. Lastly, if you discovered your beloved close relation (son or daughter, brother or sister,) is gay, would you keep quiet, cut off their head or report them to the Police? That's a poser for you!

another one of those "I'm smarter than thou " fool


there is no right or wrong in this case , democracy is government of the people , by the people and for the people , if people want something they should have it if not then they shouldn't be forced to accept it , democracy is also a system of the majority !

if most of Africa which utilizes democracy doesn't accept gay marriages so? it's what they want ,u should mind ur own business !

and when u say it's their human rights? first think who formed this "human rights" ?
ur whole thinking is based on the west and u say ur not a slave , we don't want what we don't want !

BandAid:
You can't and won't understand because of these reasons:

1. Like an average Nigerian, you've been brainwashed by religion.

2. You're shallow minded, immature and lack proper exposure that conditions people's minds to freedom and compassion.

3. You reduce sexuality to sexual acts alone. Sexuality is inherent in every human and nothing below and above the cloud can change it. Sexual act is physical activity of having sex, whether you're gay, straight or bi. There are straight people who are celibate, the same goes for gays.

4. The lack of focus and dereliction of duties from our govt, especially in Africa, has made Africans intellectually deficient to the point that we prioritise unnecessary issues to the detriment of important ones. Otherwise, you can begin to ask yourself how related to economic development, job creation and national wealth what consenting adults do in their privacy.

5. Lack of empathy for fellow humans, even though we all claim to be religious and righteous, (although not godly) has really damaged our efforts at nation building and respect for humanity.


6. Hypocrisy is ingrained in every Nigerian. We hate what we hate without questions and love what we love the same way. It is easy to castigate others for their perceived flaws, while we do same or worse things in private. I bet you would boast of having premarital sex even though our 'cultures' and your so called religion forbids it. People only choose what law or rule to obey, depending on the part of divide they find themselves.

7. Lastly, if you discovered your beloved close relation (son or daughter, brother or sister,) is gay, would you keep quiet, cut off their head or report them to the Police? That's a poser for you!

another one of those "I'm smarter than thou " fool


there is no right or wrong in this case , democracy is government of the people , by the people and for the people , if people want something they should have it if not then they shouldn't be forced to accept it , democracy is also a system of the majority !

if most of Africa which utilizes democracy doesn't accept gay marriages so? it's what they want ,u should mind ur own business !

and when u say it's their human rights? first think who formed this "human rights" ?
ur whole thinking is based on the west and u say ur not a slave , we don't want what we don't want u can suck a dick in America not here

Ladyhippolyta88:
So who then owns the man's body.

I think we should be advising men too not just women because it is both the men and women who make a home and marriage to work.

So even if she is tired she cannot say no because he paid bride price (kinda like as if the woman would have no opinion in their marriage)
She is making it seem like as if the only thing women have to offer is sex and food.

mtcheww this is not the the advice you give to a newlywed couple in my opinion.

I was thinking the advice would be tolerance,companionship,trust,faithfulness etc and such advice should go both ways.

chill... no need to get all Feminism about everything

she's just giving a harmless advice , and she's partially right tho

Toks2008:
Simply put,gender equality is not about putting both sexes on the same level biologically or on the basis of physical strength or religion doctrines but it is achieved when women and men enjoy the same rights and opportunities across all sectors of life and needs of women and men are equally valued and favored.

The first bill on gender equality in Nigeria was thrown out by the Senate due to some clauses in the contents which they saw as too demanding.

But a new modified bill sponsored by Senator ‘Biodun Olujinmi (Ekiti South),has scaled through the second reading and according to section 4 of the new bill,it prohibits all forms of discrimination against any person on account of gender, age and disability through spoken words, acts, rules, customs and practices by any person or institution in Nigeria.

So in my opinion,judging from the real essence of gender equality and the section 4 of the modified bill,I'm persuaded that it will be a great victory not for just the Nigerian women but for all men in Nigeria if this bill is passed into law and i implore all Nigerian men to rally round this bill for the following reasons...

1.In the aspect of romance:

As a lady,how scintillating will it be if you no longer have to wish and hope that the cute guy you saw at the mall walks up to you when you can simply make the move without any psychological or cultural restraint.

Since the bill will automatically remove any cultural,traditional beliefs and customs segregating the sexes, this simply means Nigerian women can confidently and boldly walk up to a man and woo him decisively without shame or any form of stigmatization.Ladies can now go on their knees and propose marriage to guys and in fact pay the groom price and organize the wedding party with little or no contribution from the man and ofcourse polyandry will be official. Yes few ladies are already doing this in discreet but the bill will make it official hence remove any form of restraint.

2.In the area of finance:

I guess men will find great succor in this area as we can gladly switch places with the ladies without any shame.

Will it not be nice if we guys start using the same criteria ladies use to be with us? I can now openly say "I would like to be with a beautiful,God fearing, financially stable lady who can take care of me and ofcourse switching places mean the man will be ready to do all a woman does in the affair like washing of her cloths,that of the children,be a sit at home dad and practically does all the domestic stuffs while the woman is saddled with the responsibility of Children school fees,House rents,Electricity bills,Medical bills.Generator fuel & repairs,Car fuel and repairs
Feeding of family,Clothes for children,Xmas and New year bills,Furniture &House maintenance,In-laws wahala/demand,Her own aged parents,
Your siblings also,Your financial demands,Vigilante bills,Erecting Building,Religious demands,Family social bills,Electronics bills,Recharge cards
Extended family bills,Community demands and so on...

Let's face it,whatever a man can do i guess a lady can do better so there is no big deal here and not every man will have good money no matter how smart or hard working the man can be....the world is just unfair to some people so this will be a good one for such men.

3.In the Labour sector:

I think it is quite awkward to hear that some jobs are meant for guys or ladies...in recent times there have been a wide shift of male folks indulging in careers that are previously tagged "female career" and these guys doing these jobs still feel a form of emotional and psychological restraints but with gender equality in place,guys can now boldly and officially get involved in jobs that are believed to be feminine in nature hence create a better work force which will improve the GDP of the country.

4.In the area of child inheritance:

Do you know that in Nigeria today,we still have some tribes who do not consider the girl child as an heir apparent to any property owned by the father? worse still if a man dies and leaves a wife with only daughters,none of these people will have a good share if any at all of the diseased property. .how insane.

I'm sure no man would like this to happen to his family if he dies so I believe if Nigerian men encourage this bill,it will eliminate this cruel tradition from the affected tribes and will give the girl child ample right to inherit her father's life material achievements.

5.Better opportunity for the girl child:

Just take a stroll to most markets and ask the beautiful smart female drop outs why they are not in school and you are sure to hear funny responses like "my papa sey I be girl so e no go waste money send me go school sey nah inside my husband kitchen I go still end" how sad and grossly unfair....

Many brilliant young girls destiny have been distorted by uncaring parents who still believe that a woman's place is in the kitchen and the other room but if we men can support this bill,it will give that village girl the right to education and it will become a crime for any parent to prevent any girl child her right to her desired educational level.

6.Prevention of juvenile marriage and sexual abuse:

Do you know that some tribes in Nigeria marry off a girl as young as 10 to 13 years of age? crazy innit!

Unfortunately this happens on a regular basis and many young girls have died due to Vesicovaginal fistula, or VVF which is often caused by violent penetration of the female core or by childbirth in which case it is known as an obstetric fistula. This is prevalent among young girls who go through prolong labor and as a result of the underdeveloped pelvic region,a prolonged labor presses the unborn child tightly against the fragile pelvis which cuts off blood flow to the vesicovaginal wall and the affected tissue may necrotize (die), leaving a hole.This usually degenerates and lead to death of the innocent girl and this tribe usually tagged such death as an act of GOD....how myopic and gross!

As a man who will likely grow up to have a daughter,just close your eyes for few moments and imagine your daughter going through this..."did I hear you say GOD FORBID"?

The good news is that we can prevent this if we all join hands together to support this bill into law.

I hope these make sense.

I see �� a. a world where men and women become the same , where male and female roles are interchangeable .... hmmmm won't that seem forced ? a lot of women are benefiting from the way society places them .

of course I believe in females should be given opportunity and such but is "equality" possible or even necessary ?

equality is okay in work place and institutions but in societal interactions it isn't really possible or 100% effective not to talk of wanted



but overall I believe in giving people the ability to choose , if they still choose to live the with the normal customary roles of their gender then so be it , but no one should force anyone to be what they don't feel like, if I believe in patriarchy fine it's my life , if u don't fine it's ur life but ur beliefs don't make u better or more advanced than me

akinwale701:
I have always been an enemy to any abortionist. So I can't do that and will never do that. I think leaving the lady is the best option for me.

yeah ur right

but if u ever change ur mind give me call a know a guy

akinwale701:
Apology for my lengthy story but let me make it as brief as I can.
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There is this girl (Abigael (not real name)) I've been dating since last year May to be precise. We so much love each other to the extent that she is always ready to lose anything for me only to hold to my love. This girl is well endowed both front and back (I love boobs a lot. Lol. ) and I so much love her attitude and everything pertaining to her. Let me not forget to add that she's very submissive to me as well and in fact, she's the best lady that has ever showed me love to this extent. Meanwhile, there's another girl (Bola (not real name)) I've been dating as well since 2015, before you crucify me of double dating, Bola has always been a type that neglects and won't show enough care and always denies me her attention despite the fact that we both stay in the same city. Even when I ask her why. All she will say is "I love you and I mean it" even though I can remember how I visited her when she was still schooling in another state but this girl never visited me throughout my stay in OAU. To cut the story short, being a fresh graduate of Great Ife (yes, Great Ife!!!) waiting for my NYSC mobilization this month, I went for my medical fitness test last month and I eventually came to realize that my genotype is AS (I never knew before because I had never gone to a hospital for such test). Meanwhile, Bola's genotype is AA while Abigael's is AS like myself. I have browsed a lot about genotype compatibility and I discover it's very medically risky for AS to marry AS. I really love Abigael so much and would love to see her carrying my baby because Bola is just a type that I have stopped loving but only acting up so it doesn't look I wanna break her heart even since these days. I've discussed this issue with Abigael and after much deliberation, we've agreed we'll still marry despite the danger ahead. Please, doctors in the house, what should I do? Is there anything we can do to prevent giving birth to SS child(ren)? Can I break up with Abigael and restore my feelings for Bola? What can I do please?

Please help a brother!!!

lol simple , carry out test on the babies when she's pregnant and abort everyone that has SS

Inaco:
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don't worry ,I call u today

and I'll send u message on Facebook

Inaco:
I'm not on whatsapp right now. My contact is 09050605325

okay I'll call u but just in case is there any other medium I can use to contact u , like Facebook messenger , email , Instagram , maybe something I could use to send pics if u need them

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Really?
What should bachelors do?

eat cassava raw

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