₦airaland Forum

Altruisticboy:
You lied. Who is / are The Afonjas

afonja is a Yoruba man, used to signify betrayal
yes its an insult but a weak one
and that term has being fading out here since
should I list the insults for Igbos prevalent here?

Africana1123:
FLASHBACK: [15th July 2000]: Governor of Lagos State, Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu @officialABAT established the Lagos State Traffic Management Authority (LASTMA) to ensure free flow of traffic in the state, enforce traffic rules and a massive employment generation.

#BAT2023

if u lived and drove in Lagos u won't celebrate lastma like this

GeneralPula:
Igbos insults everything & everyone. Visit this thread below. Igbos started this tribal thing on nairaland.

https://www.nairaland.com/745731/yoruba-marginalization-elders-met-jonathan

You people haven’t seen anything yet. Even me, I’ve gathered several things ontop Igbo matter. When it’s time to unleash, I’ll start to unleash..

oga nobody started anything
tribalism have been going on long b4 that, I'm looking for how to end it

Everyday tinubu developed Lagos, this and that
tell me b4 1999 which state in Nigeria was better than Lagos? was the commercial capital of Nigeria with higher IGR??
which state was center of FG investments and multinational companies??

look at abuja today , now one of the top in IGR and foreign revenue, that's a federal capital for u
not to talk of one that has been since 1914-1991

now Lagos is also a port city where 80% of imported and exported goods go through in the largest economy in Africa, I don't need to go into details on what that means for business and attractiveness for foreign and local investment



ask people to least tinubu's achievements from 1999-2007 and you'd see its something even the worse of abia state governors can match


evil people want to trick us to vote a old, lying, sick
kleptomaniac to continue the status quo of Nigerian politics

Beremx:
I thought Tinubu developed Lagos? Why is Buhari commissioning projects in Lagos?
See Buhari looking healthier than Tinubu

those fools saying that Dont know that that's how governments have been investing in Lagos as the federal capital, Lagos a port city

they want us to believe Lagos started in 1999
so they can give us a kleptomaniac, half dead man

our able president

Kagd10:
You don't have monopoly to tribalism..

Tinubu didn't rule you or your papa yet you insult him daily. Aren't you the ones who are tribalists? So you think you people are the ones who have monopoly to hate and tribalism?

insulting a person isn't tribalism

igbos insult individuals u guys insult tribes

searchng4love:
What has your alaigbo independence brought to you? Why are you an IDP in Lagos?

this is how u Dont have sense
the person ur tagging is as anti-igbo as u can get
yet u think she Igbo
ur hatred of Igbo causes madness in u

Lagos


president :LP

governor: none

LG and Senate: LP( if any)

198 billion?
what are they counting

BirtherOfKings:
Tinubu has contributed by putting Good men in that position of governor


I give honour to you sir..u deserve a standing ovation and a statue at okota round about

buhari nko that tinubu "put"

is tony elumelu a billionaire in dollars?

Tinubuwins2023e:
Go to Borno and say this rubbish

so Borno is ur baseline for reasonable comparison??
we should be grateful the southwest isn't bandit and terrorist inflicted?? Borno that even "indigenes" can't stay there ,millions internally displaced??

na me dey waste my time anybody supporting APC can't have sense

Tinubuwins2023e:
This is the mind of all yoruba people. This is just the plain truth.
Igbos residing in Lagos are ungrateful despite the love shown to them by we the yorubas. It's high time we tell them the truth. 90% of igbos would be in poverty if not for Lagos and the entire southwest that created the enabling environment

why didn't u let them go during the civil war?

now we are all together in one country with freedom to move nd do business everywhere by the constitution
igbos Dont own anyone anything , freedom of movement isn't a privilege its a right

Naijatask:
You wanted to watch anime without subtitles? .

Even though I've seen more than 2,000 anime series with more than 40,000 hours of watch time, I still couldn't watch anime without subtitles.

Although I can communicate with the basics sha.

Like greetings, some insults, tasukete, dai suke, suki, etc

2000 anime series??

seems like ur my sensei
I hail

wow

why??
unbelievable

lhordspy:
If throwing unprinted words of extreme insults at a man old enough to be your father is regard as been "interested" . Then something must be definitely wrong with the entire eastern people upbringings. Like do you people have elders to reprimand you guys atall??

You people act so uncouth and so abusive that leaves one to wonder.

I like peter, i feels he means well for the Nigeria. But i will never vote for a man whose people called Nigeria a zoo.

You can marry a bad wife, but you can never have a bad inlaw

hypocritical nonsense

people don't insult obi? obituary??
people don't insult Igbos?
ipob p!g, myammri?? mkpuriri addicts? barren region??

or do u only analyze things with ur tribalistic lens


PS calling tinubu, old, sick, thief, druglord, etc aren't insults IF they are true

lhordspy:
South East Governors are the luckiest in the world. Their people are not interested in what is going on at home. Imagine been govern by the clueless likes of Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi of Enugu state and the worst governor in the whole world presently in the person of Okezie Ikpeazu of Abia state.

But These my eastern friends will ignore their region that stinks of corruptions ,failed leadership and reeks of gross incompetency BUT their only mission in life is to insult and destroy Tinubu.

I just pray you would have the heart to bear the loss when reality finally hits. I mean peter obi will lose so badly that many of you may want to end it all by jumping off a bridge.

are you saying we should not be interested in someone that's trying to be president of the entire country including south east?

are u saying stupid things on purpose? is this ur tactic to draw in people of like minds?

peacefull:
Yes! I'm happy with my Oga
Thank you so much! I really appreciate you!!

Now I'm feeling so guilty. Very very guilty.
I didn't try to trust him. But I believed what I saw it.
Until I talked with him, I just believed pictures than trust him.
But I must trust him first.
And I only cared my feel and my emotions.
Only I, I, I and me, me, me.
This is so bad. Really really bad. Very selfish.
But my Oga didn't blame me about it. He didn't get angry or blame me till now.
Instead of angry with me or blaming me, he is caring about me. I really really appreciate him.
My Oga is never ever take any nonsense.
That kind of person
But this time, he really understand how my feel. Even my misunderstanding.
Of course I apologized him. I'm a so selfish.

Oh! my banned always anti bot? spam bot?.
Always get banned it from "bot" san.
I will try it! Thank you so much!

Angry and toxic?!
Everybody are very kind to me!
Sorry, politics is still very very difficult to me.
I still don't know about Nigeria politics well.
I think I maybe visited politics section few times.

My English is still very bad.
Most of times I can't understand what peoples are writing especially Nigerian languages and pidgin English.
Only reading English is still very hard.

But if I'm not misunderstanding, I was surprising about somethings and sometimes I'm still surprising.
Like peoples insulting each others, men and women, Igbo person, Yoruba person, Hausa person etc, each other's religions, opinion, cultures, region, other countries etc.
This is surprising me and sometimes make me feel sad.

But Sometimes I'm reading Japanese website and I saw similar things.
So, I think that kind of things are everywhere.

I see this website is very helpful website to me!
I met many many good Nigerian peoples like you
I'm always feeling like I have many many good Nigerian friends!!
And this website is like my textbook.
I'm learning about Nigeria, Nigerian peoples, Nigerian languages, pidgin English and English etc.
Very helpful website to me! I love it and I appreciate it!!

Mostly Japanese peoples don't discussion about politics in daily.
On TV, on website etc, peoples discussion about it. But in life? real life? peoples don't discussion like on TV or on website.
But I don't know much about Japanese peoples on website.
I just reading. Not join it like I joined on here.
And I don't use any other website like Twitter etc. So, I don't know much about internet peoples in Japan.
But I'm sure about here have also toxic peoples.
If talked about Japanese communist party or left wing, they are very toxic!

Peacefull san , you talk about your husband a lot but you never talk about how you met him. You talk about first love, yakuza friend, even stalker friend in diary but not how u met Nigerian husband and why you like him.
Because you weren't interested in friend with lots of money , Nigerian ladies can't do that ( well not all of them) ,Or he wasn't attractive and your Nigerian husband is very attractive?

So I'm curious how peacefull san meet and like Igbo man





Also you need to know what bans you isn't a person but a "robot" (computer program)
And it malfunctions and makes mistakes, so sometimes you get banned not because of what you did but error from the robot okay?
Seun needs to work on it





Also a little about Nigerian politics, Nigeria is a heterogeneous country ,meaning many different tribes (over 300 in Nigeria). Created by British ,didn't ask us if we like each other just say okay all of you are one country now .
So a lot of us get along but some people don't

But it affects politics ,like who will be President? Who was President? One tribe has been president another tribe's turn , lots of fight and competition and anger , people feeling cheated ,some scared if person from this tribe or religion President or governor will people from my tribe be okay?
So politics section very toxic


Nigerian people can be kind to foreigners no problem with foreigner but if Nigerian from another tribe or religion some Nigerians won't be kind
But just some and online

In real life we live just fine with each other, friends ,intermarriage okay ,but politics? Dirty...

Japan is a homogeneous country right??
Like everybody one tribe, ethnicity, Japanese?


Also you are learning English the hard way here, on nairaland we mix English and pidgin English plus slangs and local dialect, difficult to understand ,even Google can't help

But your determination is really strong, I gave up when I tried to learn small Japanese so I can watch anime without subtitles

LienwaltAbel:
I'm sure this is what you use to reassure yourself at night. 99% of Nigerians are natural thieves, liars and lawbreakers. That is why many countries don't want to accept us, if you like keep on crying because of those who have chosen to say the undiluted truth and at the same time, refuse change. E no concern me. After all, it's an inbuilt deformity.

Last last, if I go through your posts, I'll see that you're either a Tinubu supporter, one of those who blame the government for everything (even when they steal o), or you're one of those who cheer Yahoo boys on. Next time, no post your nonsense jingoistic trash for my thread.

nawao, why all these ??
Nigerians have good and bad people

peacefull:
Thank you so much!
I really appreciate you!!

How I write is making my husband always looked like a bad person. Very bad about me.
My Oga is a really good person!
If he really married with someone and hiding it from me, maybe seems like a not good person.
But I believing that there have reason.

What I saw it is I can only say something like camouflage.
That's what I understand now.
Many many things I still can't understand.
But I will try to understand it.

marvinsync san maybe already know about how much I love playing with my Oga and I'm a his big attention seeker!
I wrote about it before on my diary.

Sometimes I'm jokingly tell him to get another woman who is always ask him to buy this, buy that, take her to here and there, give her luxury life, tell him to do this, do that etc.
Then He will know how much peacefull chan, his wife is a good wife!
Some peoples don't wanna know what they had until when they lost it.

Yessss! I'm praising myself front of Oga like I'm a good wife!

My Oga said he think so too and he told me that many peoples who got a second wife or remarried realized that their first wife or first marriage is better than second wife or second marriage, but they didn't know about it before.
He also told me about somebody's talk who married two times. I think famous person in Nigeria or something like that.

And I asked him When did I ask him to buy this and buy that?! When Did I ask him take me to here and there?! When Did I demand him to give me luxury life?! When Did I tell him to do this and do that?! etc.

Oga said No, I didn't ask him or demand him like that.

Then I praising myself again like Yeahhhh! I'm a good wife!
And I told him, I don't know why somebody san (my Oga) don't know peacefull chan is a good wife
He has something wrong

Oga said he don't know

I maybe wrote this before?!

I don't know if I'm a good wife or bad wife.
Only he knows that.
But I really hope he think I'm a good wife and I will try to be a his good wife!
So, anytime if he tried to be with another women, he will always come back to me!
He can't find out more comfortable place than with me

I have learned seun san is a owner of this website?

I don't know which rules I always broke.
I really don't wanna do that.
Maybe I will get long time banned one day?
Because I already got many many times banned.
I hope I will not get banned again!

you're marriage seems good


Next time your banned you would get a message on your profile, maybe you screenshot it and create a thread asking what that message means and why you were banned and people here can tell you your mistake



Also how do you see nairaland??
Many people are angry and toxic here especially the politics section , even I as a Nigerian feel its ugly thing to see the comments

Do some statements shock you or do Japanese people also get very toxic in politics

peacefull:
My mind can't change. I still can't change my mind and I still can't change my love for him.
I'm still in love with him. I still wanna be with him and I want him to be with me.
Maybe seems like I chose easy side.
Oh! only he knows the truth! I just trusting him than trusting what I saw it.
I still wanna always trying to trust him.
But sometimes my emotions don't wanna try it.
Very very bad about me.

Yes! I don't wanna waste our marriage because of my misunderstanding or just my emotions.
Sometimes I'm so emotionally like yesterday.
I was really hurt.
But what I wrote it is before I talked with him.
This is so bad. Very very bad.

I got hurt by myself.
But my Oga already healed me.

I'm not wasting my time.
Yes! I wanna spend more times with him!
I'm still wanna laughing with him!
We will get more old together!

I'm already decided to allow everythings.
And He is still with me. This is proof about him.
He still caring our relationship. If not, he is already leave me long time ago.
He can't be with me just for paper, for pity etc.
He can never ever do that.
I know this. I know him very well.
But I was believing what I saw it.
I was wishing about I wanna see the truth with my eyes and I thought I saw it with my eyes.
But now, I'm trusting him and I'm trusting what I heard from him.

I know I'm a confusing person.

I'm always getting strong!
But sometimes so weak and so emotionally.
In fact, I really don't like it. But sometimes I really get weak and emotionally.
Really really confusing person.

Anytime anybod can change their feelings, mind etc.
I don't even know if my mind will change one day or if my Oga will change his mind one day.
But at least now, I can't change and I don't think I can change it.

Noooo!
I wanna be with him. Not somebody else.

Wow!! Thank you so much!
I hope I'm a wonderful lady!
My happy is be with him
I appreciate you!!


Oh! Thank you so much for reading my diary!
I will continue to write my diary! I really appreciate you!!
But many times I got banned.
Yes! Yesss!! Welcome to Japan!! Sushi!!

I absolutely respect your decision and wish u good luck, seems we all just assumed the worst in your husband because of several other cases
but you've said u have a good man and I believe that's true



as for the banning, sorry about that , seun needs to work on his anti-spam bot, that thing malfunctions sometimes and bans people wrongly

peacefull:
Thank you so much for taking your time for reading!
I appreciate you!!

Yes, I was a bad wife.
I don't know if I'm a good wife or bad wife now.
Maybe I'm still a bad wife. But I'm trying!

I talked with him at last night.
He heard me.
He said if I wanna believed what I saw it, I can believe it and it's ok for him.
But He denied it. He said he is not married with anybody and He don't have any kids.

I even sent him what I saw it.
Because I wanted him to see it by himself.
He checked it and told me that one of pictures with woman is a truly him.
And that woman writing "he is a my partner" and something more.
He also read it.

About company, I think anybody can easily to see their name on internet.
I don't know why I didn't see it until now.
There is clearly writing both their name.
Her name is same his name and I knew her name. Her name was not that name before.

He thought I can't understand if he explained to me about what I saw it.
Because I'm a not Nigerian.
But he told me, he explained to me and I'm trying to understand. Little bit difficult to me. But I'm trying.

I don't have a his kid.
I already have a kid before I met him.
I was a single mother. My marriage with him is my first marriage.
He always saying my kid is a his kid.
So, my kid is a our kid.
I really appreciate him.

If he is married with other woman, that's crime in my country.
I can't support any crime.
But that kind of things like he married with other woman or he cheated on me etc, can't change my mind.
Can't change our relationship.
I still wanna be with him and I still wanna trust him.

But I think I have trust issues.
Because I always say I'm trusting him, but many many times I also dubt him at same time.
That means I maybe not truly trust him.
That's why I believed what I saw before I talked with him.

He took time for me at last night.
I was really hurt and emotionally.
But he never ever get angry. He just heard me.
We didn't have argument. Just talking, talking and talking.

But I don't know why always this same woman.
He said cousin.
This is really hardly to understand me.

Anyway, Thank you so much!
Our relationship can't break easily!
We will get more old together!
I really appreciate you!!

peacefull , you are going through a lot right now, and ur mind can't handle the truth, so to cope you'd much rather believe the easier side than the harder side . maybe we are all wrong and ur husband isn't cheating on u and we are all assuming or maybe we are right,
only u know the truth

u said u Dont want to waste 15+ years of marriage


well DO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE NEXT 20+ YEARS OF THIS?


can u handle more years of distrust and suspicions?

can u waste spend more decades of this,
just trusting him till the end, believing whatever he tells you because its easier

or would it be better to end it soon and go through sometime of heartbreak, maybe a year or so
but u come out stronger , u move on, maybe find somebody else that makes u happy



whatever decision u make I hope ur are happy in the end because u seem like a wonderful lady and I believe u absolutely deserve to be happy .


BTW I am Igbo too and i love ur diary, I must visit Japan ,pls Dont ever stop

Anndrew:
What of Igbo and ikwere...hardly any difference

ikwerre is Igbo
but that's a conversation for another day

ave4:
Hmmmm,I learnt that men will say anything to chop breakfast. God saved me from a man that did everything for me financially and emotionally, he told me that he loved me from the moon and back but got angry that I couldn't make it from my base as planned to spend some days with him. He ended up exposing himself by blurting out the truth. Fear men!

Kai ,simps eh, so person go give u everything u want, to collect just one thing he loves in return is a problem

u sef that wants him to give u everything but give nothing, nawao

so I should fry stone?

diadem10:
Yet you flock in droves to Tinubu's Lagos. Why haven't you been islamised? Yeye dey smell.

tinubu's Lagos?
dey cap like fool
because Lagos started in 1999

Kagd10:
Lmao.

While Peter Obi was graduating with D pass, Tinubu was working as a first class accountant graduate for international companies such as, Arthur Andersen, Deloitte, Haskins, Mobil etc

Tinubu fought for the democratic government and free speech you enjoy today while your Peter Obi was nowhere to be found..

While Tinubu was improving Lagos and initiating wonderful ideas in Lagos such as lekki trade zone, BRT, Lekki seaport, Eko Atlantic, millennium schools, policy to increase Lagos revenues etc..

On the other hand, your Peter Obi was investigating his state funds into his family business . Now he lives in Tinubu's Lagos.

click and read peter obi's achievements


https://theadvocatengr.com/news/1537-All-you-need-to-know-about-Peter-Obi-PDP-VP-Candidate