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Unik3030:
so it is everyone that is getting killed in Nigeria?even d abroad u are running to they have mass shootings too n suicide bombing.

u people hear abroad n u b like it's paradise,at his level I don't think it pays to leave certainty for uncertainty

Thanks bro. I appreciate

If u earn 350k in Nigeria in a permanent work and you have a house too. You are the landlord. Would you still consider traveling abroad to hustle?

Advice needed.

Bendent19:
I saw some people saying you're not supposed to live with someone you plan on marrying untill you marry the person. That's bullshit to me.
For me I have to live with my partner for at least 6 months to know the kind of human being she is and yes, I will test her with annoying stuff and I expect her to do the same. Some are scared staying together will result in pregnancy. That's also bullshit cause it means you are weak and a slave to your genitals cuz if you know what you want, you won't complicate the rest of your life becaure of sex. I have always wanted to say this so don't ask me how it relates to the topic.

Now for the OP. How is it possible that your friend dated her and she even visited but she doesn't know his name. Is it that she doesn't know his full name including his surname or she doesn't know any of his real names at all? Is his online name the same as his real name and did he ever mention his real name to her? I ask because this is very weird and unusual.

she saved his name as Peter in her phone.

But the guy name na Michael.

when the guy saw it he started asking the girl questions.

She told him,,, he tot his name is Peter.

see

My guy wan quit his relationship because his girlfriend doesn't know his name. They both lived in enugu before the guy got work and relocated to Abuja.

Even though the guy has sent her money several times with his mobile app.

And the babe has also visited him in Abuja.

The guy has plans of marrying the babe.

It's a long distance relationship.

she saved his name as Peter in her phone.
But the guy name na Michael.
when the guy saw it he started asking the girl questions.
She told him,,, he tot his name is Peter.

The guy was mad at her. The guy has not been happy..

If u want to enjoy good sex try girls that a not circumsized.. They are the best..

Don't blame her. She is circumsized.. Most girls that are circumsized don't enjoy sex.

I have like 3 girl friends that are not circumsized.

When they are hot.

They will be begging me that they want to come to my house so that I can give them good sex.

I stay in North Central state... Benue State.. That place is too cheap to live.
I bought land there too.
I am an Igbo Guy.

U should have taken the job...

I hope you won't regret later.

I ones dated a good babe but she did not give me bleep. She will come to my house and cook a good food.. We will eat nothing more. She can even buy the food stuffs with her money.. She claimed she loved me but no sex. At a point I was tired. She was a wife material. Very pretty.

My second dating experience..
This my second girl friend will come to my house. She will go street to the bed. UnCloth her self and sleep.. And also get ready for action.
I dated her for one year... She has never cooked for me, she has never helped me do house chores.
She will eat and leave all the plates and pots for me to wash. At a point I was tired... She was even telling me to marry her.
At a point I have to run for my dear life.
She offered me nothing. Always asking me money for her hair.. Every 3 weeks or two weeks.
This babe is just 23.

She is just good at bleeping nothing more.

U can also share your dating experience?

Tunagee:
Bros, no matter how you love a woman, never disclose too much about your personal assets to her unless you have seen that she is not the very materialistic type, and ready to start life with you from grassroot( I mean, even if na face me I slap you you dey live) she is ready to start with you, then maybe a day to wedding you can tell her. Don't use wealth or good plans to entice any woman.

Secondly, after your wedding, you can wait a year or two years before doing court wedding cos this legally gives her access to your assets in case she misbehaves.

Never trust any woman cos when the chips are down, they abscond.

Thank you so much.

I appreciate.

very good advice.

Tickles001:
This is simple. Don't tell about the project. In fact, don't let her know your net worth.
Remember people's character are often influenced by the worth of the person they're dealing with. She'd be more of her real self if you don't tell her and that's exactly what you should be looking for.

You might think it's good to let her know you have a money guzzling project at hand, so she support or cut her demands.
No. It's not a good idea. If she demands more than you can bear. You tell her you don't have, that you got careless with money these days and want to recoup. You don't owe her maintenance.
As for support. (Women don't support anyone but themselves. Anytime they support, it's their future they're trying to secure) You can still ask her for money if you think she has enough to give out. You can always create a story to convince her. Then see how it goes.

Let the estate be a surprise to the one you finally marries. Show it to her like a year after marriage.

U are a genius.. Thank u so much my brother.
I really appreciate.
Very good advice.

Jesse25:
no don't tell her once u get married to her then you can .....she may be going after your money so it now get too find out if she really love you.....

lastly bro send me something nah...nah drop details

Thanks alot my brother.. I appreciate your advice.

Nice one.

I am just 34years with a good job but I am still single. I plan to marry at 35 or latest 36.

Just last month I bought a land in a good environment to build a small estate.. like 6 buildings inside the estate...

Should I tell the woman that I want to marry that I am building a small estate or I should just keep my mouth shut.

Please what do you guys think?

danvault:
You sound like a teenager but that is not a crime. No man in his right mind wants a woman to foot the bills all the time as it is a bruise to his ego and assumed status as the head of the home. But there are exceptions my dear, my dad once lost his job when I was around 6 years old and my mum who was just a teacher took care of us all (3 kids) including my DAD until he got back on his feet. I just wonder how crushed the man would have felt if my mum also had your mindset back then. People who think like you are just selfish and na your type dey record every good deed done to another person while expecting returns. Men really hate selfish women, the easiest way to get gifts or money from me as a man is to show me that you are not selfish as a woman. We learn everyday o, and I wish you the best. Marriage is a collaboration and the burden should never be one sided...

My Guy that babe na goat... My mum paid my school fees from first year to final year..

Because my dad was already a pensioner..

Today i am big boy.

she is just seeking for attention.
Nigeria girls are messed up.
She reasons like an animal.

my girlfriend likes posting pictures of random guys on Facebook.. She said it's for memory.
I have told her I wan to quit the relationship if she continues posting pictures of random guys.
She told me she has never cheated on me. She has been begging me so that we continue our relationship ... But I hate those pictures.
She told me that the post won't affect our relationship... She is always blaming me for not trusting her.. She told me ,,, I used to over react when ever I see her pictures with a guy on social media.



I just want to walk away from the relationship.

My people what do you guys think?

U are too soft on her.. Remind her that you paid for it. it's your right.

Learn to be romantic too.

Even my gf can't deny me sex for a week... Talkless of one month.

The last time I threatened to dumb her because of her mistake... u cried like a baby..

omoolokunEsin:
Paul, this is highly unreasonable of you! You make it look like you and your Sister-in-Law are vying for a trophy. Quite bucolic the way you speak to her. Know what? Your tantrums here is unbecoming of a Star like you and it has really revealed the kind of bottled up anger you're carrying, year in year out like an albatross. You really fall my hand talking this way to a woman. If you ask me, looks like you're the one who has allowed bitterness of the liver to gnaw ceaselessly at your innards.

Wake up and be a man. Nothing your Sister-in-Law may have done is greater than what we Christians did to Jesus Christ.

This one pain this my Guy.

omo see grammar.

lekki1444:
without the north we are dead. the south is overrated. north is the supplier of food

Benue is middle belt.. I live in markudi Benue.
They hate north or hausa people..

God bless you for the insight.. u are smart and intelligent.. if you keep spending on these Nigerian girls u won't go far in life.

allwell51:
“Don’t disrespect Wizkid, if you mess with Starboy you mess with me” - Stargyal Adeola Vows on her Period!!

Watch video here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3S3V4UZYg7w

failed parenting...

See somebody's daughter.

See someone's girlfriend or wife..

Nigerians ,,, we keep chasing shadows.

RevoLutionMedia:
My own be say Las Las, make all these people wey dey the list appear for Video! because e get one BoyStar like that wey feature one foreign artist that year for one jam. The artist no come closer for the video. I no call anybody name! Because no be when Nicki Minaj verse reach for video, Poco Lee and broda shaggy go come dey dance.

chai,, fear who no fear Nigerians..

see bad mouthing..

chisos.

WrittyWritter:
Money can get u d girl but not her love.. ..Other tins will make her love u..but wen there is love money makes it sweeter

gbam.. u are correct..

I just want to advise all my niggaz here..
please stop using money to buy love or spending too much cash just to win a girl's love..

Some of these girls,,, if u flaunt money too much. U might end of solving her whole problems and the problem will never finish.. Her problem will empty your account because u claiming to be rich.

Most Nigerian girls don't have concience ones they understand that u are naive.

One day u will regret it . Just be yourself. live your life and be real to a woman u want to date.

If she likes u ... She will date u...

Don't live a fake life.. Sometimes fake life is more expensive.
Some Nigeria girls don't need much.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

u are such a dummy..

Why won't women marry and ask the men to stay at home too. She will provide everything..

Please, marry and ask your husband to stay at home. Provide nanny 4 him too.

The nanny will take care of the home. let the men enjoy small.

YoonSung54:
if you account balance is below 100k and your salary is below 100k and you are first born of your family and you are single, RUN AWAY FROM Nigerian girls.

u are right my brother... I like that.

Sixfeetbelle:
This is the typical example of the kind of women you all want to date and marry. A dummy who never questions/complains or argues concerning whatever you say, do or give her. She's always so thankful and appreciative, just asslicking so she can get the scraps you dish out when you feel like it, ultimately massaging your stupid ego. A woman without brain is an insult and a waste to the creator who made her.



Tufiakwa gbaa ihe ojo! Thank God I'll never be that kind of woman. Tuehh.

Men done suffer o.. so after a man will end up with a woman like you... it's obvious u don't want to be under a man... This is African my dear.. U are under your husband or your boyfriend.

I love my girl friend and she loves me too..

I have been able to save up #3million from my work.. because she is not too expensive to maintain.. We are real to each other. She is not here for my money. I don't give her scraps.

I have enough food stuffs at home..

She cooks whatever she wants.

I have a good house.

If I invest my money wisely.. She will still enjoy it in future..

U are the dummy here... She is willing to be under a man.. But u are claiming what u don't know.

This is not eaurope or American. This is Nigeria. Men rule... Men are the captains.

Good luck my dear.
Stay blessed.
God will give you somebody that will understand u. That's marriage and relationship 4 u.
It doesn't have formular.

Me and my girlfriend,,, we love and respect each other. We also understand each other.

Liliantalks:
tah shut up , story teller , nollywood

let me just warn you for the last time... Stop misleading people in this forum.. And stop pokenozing into what is not your business.

Anyhow I decide to treat her... She is happy with it. She has never complained.

Liliantalks:
tah shut up , story teller , nollywood

U are just too dumb for my liking..

Call it Bollywood naw.

I am an Engineer... Babe is happy with dat.
I live in a serene environment.. She is happy.
I sub my DStv.. She is ok with it.
I keep all food stuffs at home.. My babe cooks.
I am tall and handsome.. she is happy too.
I pay her TP anytime she comes..

She is so beautiful and sexy. She wants me to tell her about our future.. But I told her,, I am not promising her anything.

her age is 22 to 24.. fresh babe o.

Please kindly advise your son or your brother to spend all her life savings in women like you.

Stop giving people stupid advise on this forum. And please stop misleading people.

Take #50 go buy sense ok.

Liliantalks:
spit , how can u budget 10k for ur gf monthly when u earn 300k

Hahahaha..... U wan drink paracetamol for another person headache... She has never complained. I invest my money wisely and save for rainy day. I am the best Guy she ever dated.

She is madly in love with me. But she doesn't know my worth or how much I earn. She is not materialistic too.

So don't put mouth in what is not your business.
So many ladies wanted my money like mad. But I don't have time for hungry girls looking for rich guys to date. It's a turn off for me.

drop your account number. u get it..

Beverlyjean:
Nonsense... Donald Trumps dad was a construction and real estate magnate...he never told him to go work in the site as a labourer... but donald trump took the business to greater heights when he took charge and is now the world's number 1 citizen... nigerians just love rags to riches stories ...crap

Besides....was the father at anytime a security man... so all successful security outfits are owned by former security men.... again...this is crap

read the story of Donald Trump... He messed the wealth up... He even started a reality TV show..

Two men later showed him the way.

As of today his owing over $700million USD in TAX in USA according to New York times.

Get your facts right..

This man is going the right thing. I know so many people that messed their father's company up.

shantti:
i swear, guys should be careful with sex. i am currently doing post exposture prophylaxis cos the condom i was using burst and i know what am going through right now, as in the drug is too powerful, it makes me vomit all d time, makes me hallucinate, makes me feel dizzy, makes me weak, causes me sleepless nights, makes me restless, makes my mouth bitter, the side effect is just too much and i have to take the drug and endure the side effects for 1 month, imagine what few minuites enjoyment caused. i promised God that when am through with the drug any thing sex is not for me again, my head is even spinning as am typing this

The person u had sex with... Did you check their HIV status or u start taking drugs and assume the person already has HIV.

This has happened to me before... Condom Burst ,, first thing is to go hospital and check their status and your self too.

Two different girls .... Results came out negative for all us ..

I had no option than to start loving one.

Liliantalks:
In my life I hardly met a man who isn’t stingy , the ones i think ain’t that stingy still hv stingy ideology, it has been me and Mum taking care of ourselves, while girls had the luxury from many men, I was taking care of me. No boyfriends help , no nothing , all my phones I bought by myself or the little help from my mum, mean while I was dating some scumbags with false promises.


I hv come to the realization I don’t hv standards when it comes to men, it was always about love, Rubbish !! Mind you : I hustle and got my Mum so I lack nothing and hv all that’s required of an adult. So I am not broke . I realized when u set ur standards on the Man U want physically , financially and otherwise and stand by it , u met better options .

Try work for your money. I have dated so many girls who wanted my money like mad.
But I have left them all . I have a good girl friend she knows how to collect money from me politely.
I budget 5k to 10k for her monthly just for her little expenses but earn more than 300k monthly.

I bought a new phone and gave her the phone I have used for 3 months.
she was very funny...