₦airaland Forum

edoncast:
Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.


Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old


The child needs to start from the scratch: ie alphabets, formation of 2 letter words, simple sentences with a patient teacher.Best in the company of 2 or more other kids.Dull kids pick up more when learning among pears than alone.
He will pick up.I know 12 year olds who can't read and write but started from d scratch, and today they are doing well.
Forget kids on nairaland telling u dt education is not important.If they were not educated at all, they won't be on nairaland
I know adults who live in regret today b/c they can't fill simple form in d bank.

BOSSkesh:
Children need time to develop, holidays are meant for children to refresh and play out their hearts
A child spends 3months or so for an academic term and is given like 3weeks+ for holiday,you’ll see Mumu parents still take that child that is worn out already looking for extra tutors
What will a child learn in 3 weeks that he didn’t learn in. 3 months
8 year olds are already in secondary school… doing what??
Na millennia parents sha

Solsix:
When you born, you can decide on how to train them. Allow people who wants to send thiers for holiday lessons do.

SoftP:
Send them to farm during holidays….

yarimo:
obi should stop looking at married woman boobs

fyzaila:
If you don't kill fornication, fornication will kill you. The day you start furnicating, that day you have use your hand to sign your death warrant.

wrench:
So what happens if I don't pay back the loan, since I didn't request for it?

IconicR:
😂 just like Obi is forcing himself on Nigerians.

accordadoga27:
The E-president has spoken.

His advice is useless.

He should save it for UGM and IPOB.

He should wait for his turn then dictate.

The president of the Federal Republic of Nigeria has the final say and he is not.

We say NO to WAR (Nobody is going to die)

We also say NO to COUP