Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,566 members, 7,955,100 topics. Date: Saturday, 21 September 2024 at 04:55 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Matrix600's Profile / Matrix600's Posts
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (of 7 pages)
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 3:50pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sirfee:who come be the few Africans if you don disqualify us already, how you take know sey we no dey among the few Africans wey u mention. Most of una wey dey form James Bond here na una dey quick dey carry love for head, then sirfee go dey say 'this woman is special to me, she is a gift from God, so I will wait for the Lord's time's <in nairaland accent> , e go forget all this him nairaland post. You made my day sha.. Tnx 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 3:43pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
austyn0:wey d cup?
|
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 3:25pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
austyn0:I win. |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 3:23pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sosa993:There you have your reason 'IF HE IS WORTH IT ', so therefore you will go ahead if he is worth it. Exactly what I've been explaining, 'The worth attached to your spouse versus the worth of having a kid'. Even though a great majority will not for any reason marry an infertile person, few would if the spouse is 'WORTH IT ' 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 3:15pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sirfee:My friend park well, you cannot do something does not mean that those who can are not being honest. Right now somebody somewhere is already doing it. Wetin you dey cap. 'Mr. Not Politically correct '. Who dey talk about cheating on spouse here, na pikin matter we dey talk, no be faithfulness matter. Abi people wey get pikin no dey cheat? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 3:09pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
tosyne2much:They say that all generalizations are false, so generally summarizing doesn't do it. It is equally easy for people to lay their hands on their keypads and 'generally summarize' about people's individual choices. There are always people who do not comply with the herd mentality, the popularity of an idea does not make it stand above the less popular, it just means that most people subscribe to it. If I say that I can marry a person who cannot bear a child, because you do not see from my eyes, do not claim that I am deceiving myself. Even though I agree in this case that it is easier said than done, but do not forget that every thing in this world is easier said than done. But they still get done. By sheer resolve. |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 2:14pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Love is not an illusion my friend, illusion is illusion, love is love. Unlike two AS patients in this scenario only one person has a choice - the person without the problem. And so it boils down to priority.. What is more important in this marriage - spouse or kid. While the majority will pick the 'kid', the few would pick their 'spouse', all subject to the one person's choice and resolution. The consequences he would be ready to bear when already resolved to bear it. A foolish choice is still a choice, a stupid decision is still a decision, and life goes on. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 1:58pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
@ tosyne2much and sirfee, you guys are too quick to label others who do not share your position, stop being immature. If this was a debate, is this how you'll respond to your opponents? On the subject matter, place yourself in the position of the person who is unable to have a child, how would you feel if because of that your spouse leaves you, would you resign yourself to being single all your life, and not secretly wish for someone who will overlook your situation? If you can resign yourself to single life, do you believe you deserve it? If you can't, then you will agree with me that there'll be some kind of joy in you when you realize that you've found someone who will stay.. Some people are there to bring joy into other people's lives. Even if not having kids is the price they pay. I think in the process of convincing you, I've succeeded in convincing myself, so my answer to the OP is YES I CAN. It's all about choice mehn.. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 1:32pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
austyn0:Not everyone is that heartless, there are those who will consider the trauma they would be causing to their spouse if they left them to their misery. Not everyone has the heart to abandon someone they love over something that cannot be helped. This is where resolution comes in, and you hear Men telling their wives /fiancees something like ' I'll love you until the end '. There are a few people who can actually do this, and they live amongst us. Not everybody bows to the pressures you highlighted. Never underestimate the power of love. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 12:01pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Bearing a child is not the ultimate purpose of marriage - there is a handful of people who believe so, as odd as it sounds. There's nothing wrong in arguing outside the typical Nigerian way, it just means that our ideas are mixing up with those of the outside world. I quite agree that there'll be some discomfort in not having your own kid, but there are still people who will be OK with it.. I don't know about myself. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by matrix600(m): 11:33am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Destined2win:are you saying a person that is unable to have a child doesn't deserve to be married? If Yes, that is totally unfair to those people, and that would leave a black mark on the virtues of the marital institution. Meaning that marriage is not meant for all. If No, then you believe that the ones who marry these people are deceiving themselves. You underestimate the power of choice. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by matrix600(m): 12:34pm On Jul 01, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Ok, you're right, likewise 'bad guys' sometimes do not get the best in life, so there was absolutely no reason to make the statement that 'good people sometimes do not get the best in life' if you were not insinuating that many good people do not get the best in life. I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you made an invalid conclusion. |
Romance / Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by matrix600(m): 9:44am On Jul 01, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Classic fallacy |
Career / Re: The Status Of Dangote Refinery by matrix600(m): 11:20am On Jun 26, 2017 |
ultron12345:do you work there? |
Career / Re: The Status Of Dangote Refinery by matrix600(m): 5:10pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
ultron12345:Thank you for the info, what about the fabrication works, and the welding inspections/tests that'll follow, do you have any idea on this? |
Career / Re: The Status Of Dangote Refinery by matrix600(m): 7:58am On Jun 25, 2017 |
ultron12345:Is the Indian company handling everything?, are there no indigenous contractors working with them? |
Career / Re: The Status Of Dangote Refinery by matrix600(m): 1:10pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
I was hoping someone could give me a little information on this.. I'd really appreciate. |
Career / The Status Of Dangote Refinery by matrix600(m): 7:43pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
Good evening people, I don't know if anyone in this section has an idea about what is going on in the dangote refinery, the level of construction they are at, and the contractors operating in the facility. I'm asking because I want to know if I can discover an opportunity for my company to come in being into inspection and servicing. I'd really appreciate any information I can get. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Container Truck Fell Flat On A Car In Port Harcourt And Driver Survives (Photo) by matrix600(m): 7:19pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
lofty900:Yes, you're right about the location.. The driver was actually not in the car, he came down when he foresaw the danger, and was even helping the trailer driver to navigate, but things went wrong in the end. Nevertheless he was far from the car. |
Religion / Re: Was Jesus A Thief? by matrix600(m): 7:56am On Jun 05, 2017 |
orunto27:See defense... Chaii.. Orunto27 at it..
|
Religion / Re: 10 Reasons Why GOD Allows Suffering On His People by matrix600(m): 8:44am On May 21, 2017 |
If suffering wasn't part of God's plan, then how can such a thing ever come into existence? If he doesn't enjoy watching people/animals suffer, why can't he stop it? Being a supposedly omnipotent god. Fantasies and make-believe won't take us anywhere.. 3 Likes
|
Religion / Re: What Is A God? by matrix600(m): 8:55pm On May 20, 2017 |
What a beautiful thread, I would like this thread to be reignited |
Religion / Re: I Am Hardmirror (picture) by matrix600(m): 4:41pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Ishilove:This babe.. U take style spoil sha.. 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: Is Atheism A Religion? by matrix600(m): 8:54am On Apr 18, 2017 |
stephenmorris:Yes ,one can disbelieve in god and still be religious, just like one can believe in god and still be irreligious. The contrasting view to atheism is not religion, which is where most people are missing it, including the OP, it is theism that is in stark contrast to atheism. So religious atheists--- YES irreligious atheists--- YES Religious theists --- YES irreligious theists -- YES |
Religion / Re: Is Atheism A Religion? by matrix600(m): 8:26am On Apr 18, 2017 |
CeoMYN:He's saying that not everyone who lacks belief in god is an atheist. He means that there are people who do not believe in a god, who are also not atheist, he claims that atheism is a lack of belief in religion. And so our argument is thus: anyone who does not believe in a god is an atheist, it is the belief or lack of, that makes the difference, atheism is a lack of belief in a deity/god( says I) |
Religion / Re: Is Atheism A Religion? by matrix600(m): 6:05am On Apr 18, 2017 |
CeoMYN:we all know that |
Family / Re: What's Wrong With Nairalanders? by matrix600(m): 8:55pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Since everyone on this thread is claiming to be mature and sensible, who then are the guilty 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Why Did The Guards At Tomb Of Jesus Take Money To Lie? by matrix600(m): 7:18pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Phi001:re-read your Bible, it clearly stated 'burnt offering', what are we arguing here. |
Religion / Re: Why Did The Guards At Tomb Of Jesus Take Money To Lie? by matrix600(m): 5:55pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Phi001:and how does consecration or sacrifice translate as 'burnt offering'? How can a multitude of women grieve for one woman's virginity? What sense does that make.. When Samuel was offered to the service of God, was he offered as a burnt offering? It's clear that Jephthah's daughter was offered as a 'burnt offering' to God, and here you are saying otherwise. Are you insinuating that the Bible translators could not tell the difference between a living sacrifice and a burnt offering? |
Religion / Re: Why Did The Guards At Tomb Of Jesus Take Money To Lie? by matrix600(m): 3:51pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
walls01:You mean to tell me that he couldn't find a better way to deal with disobedient children? Does it have to involve death? |
Religion / Re: Why Did The Guards At Tomb Of Jesus Take Money To Lie? by matrix600(m): 3:42pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
jfolorun:because I was following the argument. |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (of 7 pages)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 53 |