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gal10: took it: i am INFP, just confirmed what i already knew! i am proud! # TEAM INFP# |
Danhumprey: Wait!!!!!!!!!! What is the full meaning of INFP? ENFP? J? Miner13: I think they should tel us the meaningDo a google search or check this thread...https://www.nairaland.com/1509726/enjoy-another-personality-test |
Am trying to come to terms, with this news. It's really a painful one to hear. She had so much potential, and struck me as someone who knew what she wanted from life. I pray her soul rest in peace and the grace to bear this loss be granted to her family. Personally her death reminds me of the fact, that we all have very limited time to spend here. What counts therefore, is how we spend it. The lives we touch, the impact we leave behind and soul that get transformed for good by our actions and inactions. Death is inevitable, but let it be said of you whenever your time comes, "that you came, saw and conquered". Farewell Vivianc Mathew Briggs the fire wishes you peace |
gal10:Seen it. |
Caracta: You guys should leave us alone na! Wharrizziiit? Please please and please. Haba!SECONDED. |
gal10: why are you always on point? I like you more with each post! *runs away*It's a pity guys don't blush. Inbtw thanks for the compliment. |
I think they always, expect the guys to lead the conversation and ask all the questions. The tide only changes when a girl has a crush on you or finds you intresting. If this is the case, she go ask you question tire. If you both share the same feelings that conversation go sweet die. But aside that they prefer we guys to drive the conversation By default I hardly chat so if i don'nt find her intresting aswell, and there is nothing important to discuss. I don't bother myself the conversation will be like. G- Hello Me-Hi 3days later G- Hello Me-Hi 3 months later G- Hello Me-Hi G - Hmmm you have forgotten me abi. Me - No oh, have you forgetten am one ping away. Lol but if, I really want to chat. I have it at back of my mind that. 1. Every girl has a button, I just have to find it and press it. When I do she'll be the one asking all the questions. 2. I try to start strong. For example instead of asking "hello how was you day". You could start by starting a coversation with something on her pm or dp. Eg " What's up, @dp looks like you had fun today... what were up to... feed me the details? 3. Never make the conversation boring add a touch of humor when necessary. 4. Don't be a pest, dropping by every single day and second. Keep your distance and time ur chat when u know she'll be free. Let the savour of the last chat linger. But it still boils down to if she's not into you she's never going to have you time. #Mathew Briggs |
lynpetra: Start ignoring her partially,gurls no dey dey comfortable when an admirer starts giving them little attention.don'tTrue story... lol I can testify to this. ![]() |
Yield: Off topic: Matthew briggs, you're definitely an INFP. I know you mentioned it in Flytefalls' thread but I do believe so - because it takes an NF to reason like you just did and that is a very good thing. Kudos. I also say that based on your other posts & threads too. =pThanks Yield. #TeamINFP |
Miner13: have you forgotten that pretence is key for e-datingQuite true but, nairaland is not a dating website. So most people forget to pretend. ![]() |
uj_sizzle: *rolls eyes* He had to write an epistle.I couldn't help it. . Someone had to point out the obvious. |
Nairaland for me is quite an ideal place to find someone, if you ask me. Reason been that In the real world we all put on facades, but under the cloak if anonymity most of us let our gaurd down unleashing part of us (behaviour, personality, ideologies) we usally hide from the real world, because of the fear of been judge for who we really are deep down. Therefore Nairaland invariably gives one a clue i.e hint as to who that person you admire really is. Personally, I have learnt to keep an open mind, because by doing so I get to open doors to new experiences. Experiences, that'll redefine the way I see the world. #Mathew Briggs. |
gal10:Gal10 I've been around... but more of an observer. . Matthew briggs is fine. ![]() |
This story is worth turning into a movie or even a TV series. Nice job Royver. |
vivianc: I think people are not even ready to have a mature discussion.Viviance you try, like I pointed out earlier. Your write-up is quite insightful, your point were well researched, ... Moreover personally I wouldn't near any woman that tries to implement all that rules you've stated..., AT ALL. Because for me relationship is not a game of control, of manipulation, of pulling facades. Relationship is not a chess game, it's not an EGO game. Relationship is about two people who are in love with each other, coming together to understand each other better, in a bid to see whether they can build a future together. To effectively build this future, openness, sincerity, LOVE IN IT'S REAL ESSENSE is essential. I understand that one of the key challenge we all face is finding the right person. But personally I believe if we focus on building our self to becoming the ideal mate the right man/woman will find us and vice versa. You attract what you are. I hate MIND GAMES. Once a woman tries to play it with me... I drop her like it's hot... I like my woman real, I like to see her flaws, to witness her tears, her desperation, her sadness, her weakness, her strength, her glory, her passion, her fears, her anger, her dreams. I want to know HER. I want to fall love with her soul. for who she is, I hate facades, the use of games to hide intention. I understand no one wants to feel hurt and therefore tries to guard their heart but I tell you today, been vulnerable is not a sign of weakness but of strength. Been the first person to say I love you, to Care, to go the Extra mile, to say I Want you, to Call, to say how you really feel, is empowereing, It will make you stronger and can help strengthen your relationship.. Watch this ted talk, I think it will change the way you perceive relationships. ( http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html ) It is called The power of vulnerability . #Matthew briggs the fire... #thinks out loud |
@vivianc lenghty but Definitely worth reading... especially the 2nd entry . |
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