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Ihedinobi: How do I know what a woman wants? I was born by one. A strong-ass woman too. God bless my Momma!

I made a thread to explain the differences among the various categories of men. It's still got a great deal of potential because there are things yet unsaid there. But quiye a bit has been already.

There is no such thing as a Nice Jerk.

Love is not manipulative.

Being nice does not translate to being a pushover.

Now, my turn. How would you know what a woman wants?

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- it's like saying there is nothing like the colour gray
- Love is not maniputalitive at the same time not been silly to the point of been manipulated
- Been nice does not translate to been a push over but may at the same mean listening to her needs putting them above your's in most cases. Which is wrong.

Errmhh.... Most women don't know what they really want, only very few do, in most cases It's up to the guy to convince them he's the real deal which happens to be something jerks are good at. (My personal observation).

Wu Zetian: I disagree.

Everyone should better themselves continuously, and that should be a habit. Not some fake persona you put on to attract a female. Oh well, I guess it depends on the female too.

Someone like me will see beyond the 'packaging' and it will irritate the fvck out of me.

That's the word. Be real, because life is too short for pretense, be you a jerk, a nice guy, or a nice jerk have fun been yourself. The most important thing is better your self continously pick and drop traits as you journey towards perfection. Never change becuause of a guy or gurl but for you.

@ihediobie I believe be you a jerk, a nice guy or a half blood prince (nice jerk). There is a woman out there that will like you for you. My decision to be a nice jerk is for my own sanity, it is now who I am no matter the type of argument or point raise can never change my stance.

I love control, I love romance, I love taking charge.
It's my blessing and my curse.

#Team Nice Guy with an attitude.

^^^ Mehn abeg help ask am oh
@Ihedinobie. Been too nice is soooo boring. Like I posted earlier jerks have traits that are quite enviable, good ones I might add. But most importantly, balance my friend is very important.

Ihedinobi: @M.Briggs, long as it's about getting the babes for you, you got yourself a bigass problem.

Let the babes be and do what they will. Just learn to enjoy being you is all. Keep evolving, becoming a better you and all other things shall be added unto you.

Far from it. I think for me It's about getting the One babe that rocks my world and making the ride worth her while, Most importantly It's also about like you said "evolving to be a better me" .

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Different Stroke for different women. Some like their guys nice, some like jerks. I think over time I am gradually meter-morphing from a nice guy into what I call a nice jerk.. Reason been that certain traits of a jerk is quite useful in a relationship. Merging it with my default Niceness, it can help keep things interesting and unpredictable. Enabling one to Stay in control, keeping her on her toes, Making her never see you as weakling or puppet that's predictable or boring.

By default we know most Ladies like to end up marrying the nice guy because of the sense of security he provides, but prefer to date the jerks because of the sense of adventure he give them. Been a nice jerk you get to bring the best of both worlds to the table

#Team Nice Guy with an attitude .

#Mathew briggs no Send you. , Yes you that curvy creature, with a lip I can't wait to kiss.

Not all guys. Especially those that know that, Beauty is just a skin deep. Me I no send.
Most times it shocks them.

#Matthew Briggs.

This is Progress in the right direction.

Javanian: what is the name of your app?

We've not yet submitted. Inbtw is it possible for a developer to continue updating his/her app even as the competition is taking place

Caracta: Whoever is not satisfied with his/her appraisal should please let us know.

We have no favourite contestant.

Personally I think all the judges did a great job, with the appraisals. They were objective and insightful.

#Mathew Briggs.

Javanian:

All apps have been put in the Developers Challenge Category

About 120 apps

Please can you share the link to were you saw them listed

7 years. Currently got in, only to discover I don't need a university education. The whole thing is a complete waste of time for me. Would've dropped out if not for pressure from home.

Special guest. Nice thread you have here, as per the article you posted, try summarizing or bolding the key points. To aid easy reading or scanning.

Beautiful

Wu Zetian: I should stop being a hater and like Mathew Briggs' post. The dude is a hopeless romantic. (in a good way)

Hehehe

Ngokafor: Awwww!..@Mathew B nice one and may God grant you your hearts desire.Your future wife is a lucky lady cos you'll make a good husband.

Amen.

Caracta: You modified this comment three times. I'm watching you in 3D!

Lolz. , same here. Mine is in 4d.

:oWonders shall never cease to happen.