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bukatyne: Expect there are kinds of love, you cannot love a person and cheat on him/ her. Sweetlemon in one thread nailed it The last thing you want to do to someone you love is hurt him or her

Maybe you are mixing love with emotions

@bolded I agree to your statement but also understand that no man or woman is infallible and as humans we make mistakes ...and hurt even those we love dearly due to several factors like ego, incorrect judgements, moments of weakneass, moments when our love is going through fire etc.

EG: I love my mum so much but some timea i piss her off to the extent she threathens to disown me, but i know she loves me to pieces like I do love her

No matter what I am commited to making my relationship with her work because she is my mum.

Thanks for your contribution.

Moreover this is what i told him. I said.
Love is needed for marriage to take place in the first place but for it to work it take commiment. reason been that.

>>Love is not a enough. You can love some one so much and still cheat, hurt the person, quarell and do nasty things.
>> Also love sometimes can fade away when we get lazy and fail to do the work needed to make the mariage work... hence the need for commiment.

Commimemnt means knowing that I love this person, we shall face challenges, but I will do my best and work hard to make this work, for better for worse.

I told him love brings commiment but what sustains commiment is commiment. When love is weak commitment can hold the marriage.

comiment is a concious decision not an emotional decision.

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Hello fathers and mothers... My brother and I, are having a verrrrrry heated debate on what is the key thing that can make a marriage work.

OPTION A- He says it's true love that keeps a mariage.

OPTION B - I say it's commitment to that mariage that keeps it

Please among this two options chose the one you think is correct or closer to been right.

PS. we both decided to put this up to get your opinion to SO we can end this debate once and for all.

Wow Is someone stalking me or very jealous. I smh 4 him.

Caracta: Back off! I smell jealousy. We built that app for you so you won't have to keep hanging around threads like this.

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>>At Op am not a big fan of finding love on the internet... because the people on the internet are the same people u see in the real world.
They are imperfect, have weakness, faults and defects. Some even have a painful past. if can't accept those around you seldom can you accept those here.

I belive if you look around you... at the church, at the office, in your neighboured among your friends.

if you look into eyes of that young lady that greets you every time she sees you, or that freind that has always had your back when the world is against you... you might find someone... if you open your eyes and your mind you will be surprised

Am not saying you can't find someone here. you can and you might, but don't get your hopes high.

Instead of seeking the easy way out, i suggest ... you focus on making yourself loveable.... focus on showing love to others... focus on breaking walls you've built around you. Instead of scaring people bring them closer.

One thing I have learnt about love is that it comes when you least expect.

Finally never tie your happiness to anyone because my friend that's risky.

Live life and enjoy it.
#Mathew briggs .... the fire!!!. wishes you succes IN your search.

Caracta: Single ke? I used to be...not anymore. Biko free me.

All the best...

Caracta: You sha wan spoil my market abi?

@OP, I'm single and beautiful.