₦airaland Forum

WeirdAlien:
Life after marriage??
Does that mean at the end of marriage?
Life after wedding (ceremony) would have been the correct title!

dominique:
Ondo people and all these lengthy surnames

immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

The only good reason for a sane man to seize his girlfriend's phone is if the phone contains the evidence of a serious offense that the girl is trying to deny. And in this case, the man should release the phone once he proves her guilty. And no upright brother of a girl will fight her boyfriend in a case like this.

Will you sound this way if he buys her a phone or pays her school fees? You are very selfish and hypothetical.

Emma1Oj:
Which time he go repair him village road. Bcus that road bad oo

Absuchat:
What were you doing to let her become richer and more famous than you?

Rapmoney:
I went to the market to buy Akpu two days ago because I was very hungry for swallow food but the size of 100 Naira Akpu (fufu) has been giving me sleepless nights. This used to be my favourite swallow. I kept turning on the bed restlessly last night each time I remembered the size of Akpu that goes for 100 Naira now.

Abeg, wetin dey happen for Naija? Abi na to migrate to Gambia or Gabon? I don't really know what this country is turning into.

na so the size of 100 Naira Akpu be for una area?

ukaface:
Remind me NEVER TO EVER SUPPORT NIGERIA IN ANYTHING

jenifer007:
Thank you Lord Jesus for all that you are

Omo my heart cut a billion times

Need to check my BP tomorrow

Kilode the match over choke

Nigeria oko iya won

Omo make I go the other room

My husband a fe ku laleyi

Biglittlelois:
One more goal pls 🙏🏽

Righthussle:
One pastor around my area is always saying "Jesus is coming soon. Very soon ".since Jesus is coming soon, I asked to buy his two plots of land close to my house , he said he's keeping the land for his sons who are 4 and 6 years old to use when they grow up. I wanted to ask him why he's keeping the land for his children when "Jesus is coming very soon" , but I decided to mind my business after all e no concern me.

Giiestv:
Politics of development is taking a new strata in Ondo State. As more road constructions and infrastructure advancement is currently being experienced within and around the State.

Among the development strides of the state government is the ongoing road construction in Igoba Town, Akure, Ondo State, Nigeria

EreluRoz:
This man should not even dream of wining election in Ondo state, a man who can't put a woman in his house is not qualified to govern a state.

His wife left him and she even refused to accept the first lady position because he was abusive.

woginid967:
If it was not discussed before you gave her the connection... Forget it.

The alternative is, you can test her and tell her you have another but you gave it someone else who does what she does because the person promised you a percentage....

Then when she reacts, remind her that its for the profit and you didnt gain anything by referring someone to her.


Thats how you get her to learn. If she doesn't, leave her

EmiDon11:
I am done with this life
If there is heaven and earth then it means life is not fair.
So if I die now,them no go transfer my soul to another European country😭😭😭😭😭

maxiart2:
😂😂🤣
Hope say you no play Barca to win o😄

Solofresh2:
All these because she is light skinned?
Oga any light skinned lady who wants to maintain her light skin should work for the money. No pressure me abeg.By the way,not all light skinned ladies are beautiful.
Omo you never see brown skinned girls wey make sense before sha

marvelck:
Before you marry a light skin girl, be prepared..

As shared by Fidel .

Light skin ladies are naturally beautiful, and usually spend a lot to maintain their beauty

She's always the center of attraction wherever she goes.. if you are the insecure type, a light skin wife or girlfriend no be your spec

And cos of her appearance, she is bound to get a lot of attention from men. If you can't stomach this, biko shift ooo

Don't ever make any attempt to check her phone... Haaa, don't try it if you don't want to have an heart attack

She's soft naturally and won't like to do much hard work. So, be ready to be her helpmate 24/7, especially in the kitchen.

Make sure you have a washing machine at home, a dishwasher, vacuum cleaner, a car and a househelp at her beck and call

Make sure you have a generator at home. A light skin lady's skin is so tender and they don't like heat or hot weather. Make sure you have air condition at home and regular power supply. If you don't want any wahala with her

Also ensure you have a decoder at home, to keep her entertained and happy all the time

Make sure your fridge or freezer is well stocked. Have all the things she would need to prepare sumptous meals or snacks for you all the time

Also have enough money to give her steady allowance, like N200k every month, as upkeep and maintenance money

Be ready to support her incase she wants to go into any business. Don't expect her to be a sit at home nwunye o.

And lastly, be ready to get her an iPhone. The latest version o.. Hope you know the price of the lastest version of an iPhone. Most light skin ladies tend to move with same kind of girls. And it's possible, all her friends have iPhone.

Ance4Liverpool:
Very soon 2027 will come and people will still vote for apc. My happines is that everyone is enjoying it

ibinaboonline:
Person wey get this car no dey fear landlord lai lai. Na landlord dey fear am, sha.

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Supremos:
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Chesster:
I will be graduating in a couple of months..
I studied electrical engineering at a federal university.

While in school, I was fortunate to have saved up about 2.7 million naira having engaged in some online side hustle with a small skill I learnt..but I can't depend on this skill for survival as the incomes are not steady at all.

My mom is about to retire .my dad who lives separately is no longer interested in my care and doesn't want me around as soon as I am done studying.

This means I am literally on my own.
What advice can you give to a me in order to start life and sustain my self.

I once thought of buying a used corolla to begin Uber/bolt.. I also don't have any planned business in mind

Mods pls fp🙏

Mummyimbecile:
From the money you save, buy a brand new laptop with at least 8 to 16gb ram.. In fact, Google the specifications that a laptop should have to be used for coding.

The laptop won't pass 450k, do enough data, go and inquire about a tech school around you were you can learn web programming and design and also video editing.

Learn it with passion, and at night learn on YouTube, when you feel you're perfect, head over to Upwork and open a profile, start bidding for the job, you will surely get your first gig, and believe me, it will get better from there.

And when that happens, you will turn from a struggling dude to a Fresh Dude...


Let me quickly add that I paid for my flight ticket to the United States with part of the money I made from freelancing.

Freelancing pays!

I'm talking from experience.

Carcholce:
In 2024, one thing I really want to do is to be able to completely avoid threads that has to do with man and woman relationship. I don tire to read these things. Reading posts as these is not helpful to the mind, and if you are not strong minded, it plants hates towards the opposite gender.

OP, sorry for not contributing to help your situation. Happy new year in advance. Extend my greetings to your fiancée!

Offpointng:
The Ipob wife is clearly responsible

According to the Igbo culture, let her goan swear and drink the water used to bath her husband to prove she's innocent. Otherwise, we wont take this likely and she should be considered given the abobaku treatment. We still remember how she denied the poor man the opportunity to go for a proper treatment.

YoungBlackRico:
Transatlantic or transgender?