₦airaland Forum

frog12:
at TIMES you wish woman do not have money. the TROUBLES some of them cause is not worth it at all.

once some of them are breadwinners, or think they are, they destabilise everything. it's very BAD !

safarifarms:
The topic title says "My girl" and you claim legally married wife. How did you come about the extra information? Are you the woman with the cravings?



I don't know why you are taking this personal. A female teenager and a married woman are both women. If both are pregnant what disqualifies the teenager from also having cravings? Is she too young? Or being unmarried in her husbands house excludes her? Are you saying teenagers in all Nigerian households can't breath?


Na you sabi. Not every person on nairaland has problem with women as the "Y'all" suggests?

I'm happily married. My wife is not a teenager and has never had strange cravings during pregnancy.

fuckingAyaya:
8k for owambe the remaining 2k for sportybet and babaijebu then small change to drink jekomo

Techwriter:
From Diezani to Beta it seems women's beauty is a measure of how corrupt they're. The more beautiful the more corrupt. Even Lucifer beauty is said to be corrupted

Sucre6:
Y'all here saying op mom is on the right track definitely won't take same sh!t if their wives for examples or mother changes the way she dresses and started looking like someone suffering and the kids cant take care of, or their husband don't take care of as the case may be, op mom have been brain washed by the one-sided preaching of some churches,

I had similar experience too, traveled home sometimes ego and meet my parent dressing shabbily in the name of being chosen, had to sit them down and talked them back to the real world, how can you dress shabbily where the daddy and mommy of the church generally overseers flies first class and wear only the best designers cloths, I even learnt some churches told her people that watching TV is a sin, what a joke😂

Abeg they should not preach the bible one sided to brainwash people, that was how one man refused to allow doctors make a blood transfusion on his heavily pregnant wife in the labour room bleeding to death in the name of our daddy in the lord say it's abomination to transmits blood from one person to another, absolute nonsense and that same daddy in the lord won't hesitate to fly his family abroad to get best treatment when they fall ill

Don't be a blind Christian that worships pastors, hid to what the bible says alone and most times ignore the one-sided preaching of some God of Man these days.

jumokeadele:
every man's dream on a low key . including those men that will quote me and abuse me

Reminderz:
I think this generation ladies have exaggerated the issue of "cravings" when it comes to pregnancy... it now seems like they are the first set of women to get pregnant... the men are now even the promoters of these stupid trends all in the name of stupid love... these low IQ lots using "pregnancy" as a means to ask for crazy stuff and do stupid things... if she asks for stupid stuff at 1am, she will be the one to get it herself... nonsense... women have been getting pregnant and giving birth since centuries, I don't even know what started this shit... and I guess social media is also one of the factors leading to the continuation of this "trend".

these generation females is nothing to write home about...

safarifarms:
Why is it that teenagers hiding pregnancies under their parents roofs never have all these crazy cravings?

Debater:
My own is that the Lebanese idi9t who owns the place will suffer
I was not at ease reading this

tsdarkside:
in the last days the heart of men will grow cold....

before men just became angry and shouted at them when women become annoyin and the issue was over....now its very dangerous for women to become annoyin and men dont see them as the problem in their lives....

bible is not a joke....

Kaycee54321:
Oh, that was a tongue in cheek comment...

I didn't necessarily mean you were naive...his English was just sounding like Nigerian English or the adulterated version of English spoken by Asians...

jossymekoos:
It's so sad that you think feelings has a role in marriage.

Normally, someone should desire to be with a partner with right qualities but this generation put emphasis on physical appearance forgetting that physical beauty will vanish in few years

Fahvvy:
I don't take offense to what very "bright" people have to say tbh ...

And if you had taken time to read and understand before you came crying on my mention like a crazed goat on heat, you would've seen the place where I wrote the following ...

But IT'S YOUR CALL ....
Since this is a deal breaker for you, then TELL HIM OFF ...
If you're a believer, you should SEEK THE FACE OF GOD ON THIS MATTER ...

But I guess this flew past your head ...
You must really have a "high" IQ ...

Kaycee54321:
"Pussy and suck.."

"I swear to God, my money is a fire that cannot be consumed..."


You sure say no be Naija Yahoo boy be this? 😕

elonize:
u can't say wen men start to appreciate d women, dey will bring themselves low.wen our parents married,dey didn't wait for men to praise dem.
If u have been following up wat most of our Nigeria girls do,den u will understand... Smtimes,its hard to explain y fate will not let d good girls meet good guys...maybe ders a lesson dat fate wants dem to learn..just pray..
But u c our modern Nigeria girls,nor vex..most of dem has wired demselves negatively, cos of trends,bad frnds,copying rubbish ideas frm d west..how many of dem av good home training

TheRealestGuy:
Do you have any knowledge of human evolution and the history of civilisations?

You genuinely believe caucasians are a superior race? I'm embarrassed on your behalf.

You need to thoroughly educate yourself to undo such damaging misconceptions in your mind.

Before you respond, at least do some research to understand how humans and civilisations have evolved, and continue to evolve even today.

Your statement is exactly what a mentally and spirituality subjugated negroid would make, which is the objective of "slavery".

Like I said, do some deep research, educate yourself and you'd understand that we are the cornerstone and bedrock of all human civilisations.

Gerrard59:
You made great points about black women's desirability regarding dressing. However, I think it is cultural because, in East Asia, it is perfectly OK for young women to wear short skirts and shorts showing their thighs brazenly. The shorts are so short. Yet, the men don't mind and actually love it. Although, there exists a category that dresses like Deeper Life Women. Basically, half dress like Deeper Life, the other half like Christ Embassy. This is more prevalent among Koreans and Japanese. The Chinese tend to be a little bit conservative. Something like RCCG or Catholic Churches women.

Olayinka8793:
she made it clear she didn't love him bla bla bla. Did she made it clear to us here or to the mugu man?
She coulda made it clear to the man and cut him off rather than wasting his time and money and finally deciding that she don chop the mugu enough and it is time to finally get rid of him. Nonsense greedy thief

Giftedhand47:
You're a fool
I guess you're still in your early twenties
You don't know what you want in life
Good looks fade
Even the so called tall people always bend at the end of their lives

Girl... The only thing that makes a man attractive is the ability to fend for his immediate family without hassle or stress
If he's not failing in this then no problem
But the thing is all girls want a tall dark bla blah.... As if this is what will make the marriage to last

Stopliving in delusion and look for a man that can fend for his family and at least responsible

If you're 40years now I know you won't be picky.. Cus by then age won't be on your side again by then you will almost have been an evening newspaper. I hope you know evening newspaper does not have value

You better be wise

jumokeadele:
but you were collecting his money , and now you want to run away because saying NO at this stage contradicts the amount you've collected from him

Whatisurproblem:
she say she no love him, You be wintch? 🪄🧹

akube34:
I don’t understand. Should she marry who she is not attracted to? See the first is attraction. Others comes second

Fahvvy:
A man possesses the qualities of a good husband and you disqualified him all because of his looks? ...

He provides for your wants...
He treats you well...
He puts up with your excesses...

And yet his only issue is that he's not tall enough or fine enough?

When have you ever heard anyone saying that it's a man's height that makes the marriage work? Or it's his fine face that makes the marriage work? ...

This is how y'all women will pass on, on men that truly care for you for irresponsible men, simply because these men don't meet some ridiculous physical standards that you have in your heads ...

Truth is that the things that make marriages work are not physically based, they're majorly character-based ...

But it's your call ....
Since this is a deal breaker for you, then tell him off ...
My most sincere prayer for you is that you know what you're doing ...
If you're a believer, you should seek the face of God on this matter ...

Eriokanmi:
Yea, be real, be natural. I used to have this white lady as friend. One day, she asked, but how do these black women braid their hair? It looks so unique. They must have spent lots of time doing that. I smiled. Before I realised what was happening, she had been searching online for an African salon. She got one and began plaiting her hair...it was damn so beautiful on her.

I think our women don't promote what makes them beautiful to the outside world. They don't even know they can make millions of dollars doing so. I've seen Rihana and Beyonce wear Ankara on stage. African women aren't doing enough. They mostly like to copy their white counterparts in beauty meanwhile, Africans are very beautiful. It's even a shameful think to breach. Whites love pur women but they love you being real and natural. Why wear fake hair when you can relax yours or plait it with amazing styles and make others copy your styles...

alterego17:
U fyn small shaa but assuming u were single would u hv ghosted any of em??

Eriokanmi:
I worded it according to the bible. Maybe you saw the bring low from its literally perspective

Eriokanmi:
You're probably one of the realistic Nigerian ladies I've seen. In countries where I've been, white ladies are super real. I remember a day I was on greyhounds bus from Cleveland, Ohio to NY Washington Bridge Station, come and see this black lady. She wore a revealing trouser with everything showing. See white guys avoiding to sit close to her. If you want to see more of them, come to America. As a man, I always like decent ladies and those who wear natural hair. Fake things don't last, lol.

JoeEeL:
See this babe o

So na that one dey pain u? U never see anything

Go twitter na. Go and see what fulanis are doing to the people of Plateau and Southern Kaduna, and by extension to the Igbos.

Then go and behold what Igbos and Yorubas are doing to themselves.

It doesn't end there o. Even Edo sef dey clash with Yoruba esp. after d election, con pause, con dey clash with Igbos

After this guy's saga, Dokubo, na Igbo and Ijaw been dey clash (but now reduced).

Mehn, its shameful.

But as for me o, I only get problem with one set of people: and that's fulani terrorists. Or anyone that kills in the name of their god. I won't stop battering or bantering them sha. Make me confess.

Eriokanmi:
It's not me who said so, but the bible. That's where the problem lies when we try to undo or jettison God's laid-down instructions. Men too always get it wrong by not following God's instructions on their roles to their wives .

Rossikk:
You are an ANIMAL.

You are not worthy to discuss among normal humans.

Normal humans do not consider themselves racially inferior like you do.

Strange how you consider yourself inferior, yet expect to be addressed with respect.

Why should you be respected when you lack respect for your own self?

You are worthless.

Filthy, disgusting spittle.