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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by ibinaboonline: 11:59pm On Jan 02 |
superintendents: tell him the bitter truth That his face makes her angry, abi? 😄😄😄 |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by ibinaboonline: 12:01am On Jan 03 |
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 Make una leave me o. Abeg run away from your community for peace of mind. 😆😆😆. Better escape. She even said she's lucky the man doesn't know her parents. Chai. Nwoke ibem. |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by kay29000(m): 12:02am On Jan 03 |
marsup: Exactly. You have said it all. |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by kay29000(m): 12:12am On Jan 03 |
jumokeadele: Exactly |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by KingMack(m): 12:19am On Jan 03 |
Animegirl: If am okey for you Mami..let's make it work in 2024❤️ |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by LordAdam16: 12:20am On Jan 03 |
The day we fix this country, we'd inadvertently be throwing conventionally unattractive men under the bus. This already happens in richer countries. If you got the genetic short end of the stick, you're invisible. I can empathize with the man. He sees himself in the mirror and does not want to pass that misery on to their progeny. If you no fine, try knock up who fine, mk your pikin no resemble masquerade. I'm pretty certain this is not the man's first rodeo. He is defo accustomed to being treated horribly by women and needing lots of money to get a foot in the door. That isn't ever going to change. At least in Nigeria, sink enough money and you'd likely get the cooch. Overseas, even some prostitutes will turn him down. Sucks to be him I guess, but he should chin up and keep trying. The supernatural power that did it for Oshiomole will do it for him. The lady is beyond reproach in this situation. I am picky. So I can't begrudge a woman who's literally fending off propositions for having minimum phenotypical standards. In fact, I sympathize with her. -Lord 2 Likes |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Mayplays(f): 12:40am On Jan 03 |
Fahvvy:So bleeping what? Is all you wrote what keeps a marriage together? Attraction is very important, that’s a no brainer He’s attracted to her, that’s why he’s doing that She’s not attracted to him so she won’t reciprocate the care and attention Leaving him to find who loves him like he loves her is the best thing she can do for him, she is literally disgusted with him and you want her to pretend and reap the benefits his real life partner is supposed to I don’t pray for any male in my family to meet a person with this kind of mentality, no offense but you sound like a user, Abeg advise her to let him go so he can find the love of his life 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Mayplays(f): 12:42am On Jan 03 |
akube34:Don’t mind her |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Mayplays(f): 12:42am On Jan 03 |
Whatisurproblem:Better witch |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Mayplays(f): 12:43am On Jan 03 |
jumokeadele:No one refuses free money, even you |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by LordAdam16: 12:44am On Jan 03 |
Vinnie2000: You dey mind them. Trying to guilt-trip her about the money spent. Yet some of them have a sugar momma they wouldn't commit to even with a gun pressed to their temples. Or maybe they missed the part where she noted that he's still sticking around after she has been rude to him. I get that people will paint themselves in a good light when narrating, but when a woman says she's been rude, best believe she's already pulled several esteem-destroying moves to get him to untangle with some of his dignity intact. But Chairman no 1 gree. Dude is like, "Is that all you've got?" I really hope she can get him to loosen his grip without cranking up the humiliation dial to 11. Women are not renowned for their tact. -Lord 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by latonione: 12:48am On Jan 03 |
Love is misinterpreted, its quite universal, what most describe as love is infatuation and attraction to fulfill sexual and social pride. It's better to marry a good man with good heart and a bit of intelligence and you are settled |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Mayplays(f): 12:50am On Jan 03 |
Giftedhand47:A fool? I thought Nigerian men were tired of women who only wanted them for their money and what they can provide? Gold diggers looking for ready made men? Now she’s looking for who she’s genuinely attracted to and you are calling her a fool? Nigerian men are the most confused beings on Earth. |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Mayplays(f): 12:56am On Jan 03 |
Olayinka8793:You sound like someone stole your money? Several comments insulting the poster badly because of your bad experience with Nigerian girls? Do you realize some chicks will close mouth, finish the man and get married to another dude while still siphoning him? What the hell is you people’s problem on this site? Like Wetin dey worry Una, even if the girl is wrong, does it mean you’ll exhibit this level of bitterness for a stranger that you know nothing about, just a few short words? This site is just filled with terrible people |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by femmoy(m): 1:06am On Jan 03 |
Depriest2020: Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. You be boss for the streets They end up losing at the end. 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Geovanni412(m): 1:17am On Jan 03 |
Animegirl: Op, your predicament is well understood Some girls are like that too towards male counterparts and eventually the guys may start dating them That's how fine boys marry ugly girls normally As for the solution, if you don't like the man, stop accepting his gifts and plead with him to leave you alone If that doesn't work, rent one of your cousins to act as your boyfriend when he is around After 2-3 times of seeing you guys together, he'll understand the situation. |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by CaptainFM1: 1:23am On Jan 03 |
Animegirl: Ah... Annabelle! You have seen me finish! Why not just tell it to my face that I'm short and ugly? Now, you carry me shame for Nairaland. |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by TeeWelz: 1:25am On Jan 03 |
Physical attraction is also important in relationship talk more of a marriage. It’s not a yardstick for measuring a successful relationship or marriage but it’s a refreshing therapy when you think about how attractive your partner is to you in which ever way they posses this extrinsic quality, the intrinsic qualities are the next to consider. If there’s no physical attraction it’s a dead end. 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Trustmea: 1:25am On Jan 03 |
Some men are mumu, someone is giving you sign of rejection or dislike and you are still pushing thinking she will change her mind even to the extent of spending extravagantly on her. Well God knows I can never make such mistakes that's why I like myself, the first day I noticed you are not into me I commot hand if you like fine and get ass pass Nicky minaj 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by dkidd: 1:27am On Jan 03 |
Olayinka8793:Lol u still be learner. Money or no money girl when go fvck u go fvck u. No be by ur money too much or ur mouth too sweet. Of course there are easy girls who can be fvcked by those things but girls still dey that aren't easily moved by them. U go spend tire or turn to modern day Shakespeare yet u nor go ever know her pant color. Except u wan rape her and u know the consequences of that. You're getting me wrong. I no encourage her to chop mugu money. From her write up i could see she was probably considering and contemplating dating the guy or not and na the process the guy see opportunity to use money try win her over hence if na her mugu she wouldn't even bring it here but keep on milking the cash cow. Say the truth and be free and stop making everything gender war. She's trying to do what's right and that i encourage 💯... 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by dkidd: 1:43am On Jan 03 |
Usmanovic95:Na so problems dey start oo but my people nor wan gree. She must marry him by fire by force. Money can do a lot of good YES but it doesn't guarantee a happy and fulfilled home. Most girls today will jump at the opportunity and try to kill two birds with one stone later on in the marriage only for the matter to cast anyhow then we hear married woman found with her ex lover or DNA wahala. And people will start blaming her because she's well taken care of by the husband. Even if eventually she doesn't even cheat on him everyone deserves to be happy na... No be her fault say the guy fall for her but it will be her fault if she frustrates the guy in future because of pent up frustration and sadness over the course of time. No one deserves to live like that abeg. Life short oo 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Authur729(m): 1:52am On Jan 03 |
You no get feelings for am and you d accept things and Money from am na wa madam tell am the bitter truth even though una duh go far but u for duh tell am since and stop to accept things from am o 2 Likes |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by perdollar(m): 1:58am On Jan 03 |
Too much anime movie is developing your brain to fish brain 2 Likes |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by LOVEGINO(m): 2:27am On Jan 03 |
Animegirl:na girls wey never reach 30yrs dey select man. Make u reach 35 40, u go know hwfa. 3 Likes |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by naijastusa: 2:30am On Jan 03 |
Animegirl:Some men be mumu sha, but let's hope you won't marry him for material reasons and then poison or kill him. Thousands of men have died needlessly by failing to run until it's too late. 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Ishilove: 3:17am On Jan 03 |
Animegirl:This is super annoying. You can't summon love for him but his money is good enough to collect? Keep deceiving yourself. He will know you're serious when you stop accepting gifts from him but until then, stop stringing him along! Some of you young ladies are a problem unto yourselves 6 Likes |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by anu3: 3:26am On Jan 03 |
Giftedhand47: It's not supposed to be, friend. I can't marry someone who loves money, cos she will surely disappear if money disappears. What happens to for better for worse... |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by vilight(f): 3:45am On Jan 03 |
Nicepoker:lol i'm yet to see a witch with manners |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Southwestidiot: 3:59am On Jan 03 |
wis3:this is what is wrong with this generation. |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by rickleye: 4:00am On Jan 03 |
Animegirl: I agree with a comments ahead . Stop spending his money and accepting gifts from him. I would even go as far as asking you to return any jewelry and items that he has purchased for you . I applaud you seeking advice on this Issue. That said, I feel you are in your mid 20’s with options cuz I know women who are in their late 30’s seeking a man. Infact any man’s hand in marriage. At a certain time in life height & facial appearance will not be a criterial for marriage but inward appearance. Is he kind , is he fair, does he love me, what do we have in common , is he faithful . So be careful before you discard your benefactor just due to outward attributes. 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by rickleye: 4:00am On Jan 03 |
LOVEGINO: I agreed |
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Southwestidiot: 4:01am On Jan 03 |
Fahvvy:Best response 1 Like |
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