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Tuljaking: see dis fools 1.money 2.yansh 3.boobs 4.arewa like if am on point

Hahahaaaa come on !!!!

Men have to be conscious and understand that the times when they were the only contributors to family's needs are definitively gone. How do you guys expect a woman to appreciate and recognize the value of something she did not earn, or participate in? Men should be more aware of the importance to let their wife earn their own salary and contribute to the marriage..Even if you guys earn 15 times your wife's salary, you have to make sure that you give her the opportunity to participate in the family's expenses.

I am a woman and I cannot imagine myself not earning my own salary and not participating in family's expenses. I am not married yet, but I always said to myself that I will need to earn as much as my husband to feel comfortable...I will not feel ok with a man who will earn more than me, but on the other hand, I will never feel comfortable with a man who will earn less than me.. ..My man has still to be my MAN...

Seriously I don't see the point of that topic. U do not think there is enough problems with African countries to add problems inside a specific country by dividing it Instead of promoting a specific region in a country or a specific country in Africa, African people should start thinking globally. It is not about countries, it is about AFRICA. It is not d time to divide, it is d time to start thinking together and deal together on the African continent. If Africa wants to get stronger, Africans have to put their mind and forces together, and contribute to the rise of the all continent

Countries should not jump and start something they will not be able to finish..The Syria crisis is of grave concern, but I think a military intervention is misplaced and can have unintended consequences particularly in a region as volatile as the Middle East. Before any intervention, countries should analyze d situation carefully.. ....

wow too much work I guess

All d way Manchester United supporter !!!!!!!!!

coolsammy: @Mayra C: Thanks just at a lost why a woman will put her ex- first at d detriment of her marriage

yeah at that point, that does not make sense at all..I think u should have a serious discussion with ur wife and tell her how u feel about all that..Ask her if she will be happy and fine if u do d same stuff with an ex girlfriend ...

sunny t: God is great

Sad pics..I can be wrong but how God is great here? Go and see this child and his family and tell them God is great !!! Seriously...R people stupid or what? We r all free to write comments but those comments have to make a lil sense Pls stop putting God everywhere...This poor child already suffers..d worse thing is that d disease gonna get worse as he ages..Just pray for him and his family..and pray God may help researchers and medecins to find a way to reduce the pain of people suffering from progeria..

coolsammy: Based on some Nairalanders advice, i had to move this story of mine to the family section. i was assured that i was going to get some candid advice from this section that will really help my case. My story goes does;

My wife still relates with her ex- and kept assuring me that there is nothing going on between them. though this her ex does not stay in same town with her. but i discover that she is always engaged with him on the phone and they exchange series of text messages via watapps. i av stumbled on several of such messages on her phone. i av taking time to put up fights with her on several occasions and even quarelled the so called ex- over phone. but they would nt just bulge. i knw my wife sees him whenever he comes to town. he even credits my wife's account occasionally. i knw u guys will be wondering if i dnt fulfill my responsibility as a husband. I do of course, give her monthly allowance that is equal her monthly salary cos she works. i av never for once allowed her to spend her salary on home issues. she spends it all for herself. i av a well paid job. i bought her a car and was even planning to change her car come early next year cos i already told her to start looking for the kind of car she would prefer. i even sat her down to inquire why she is doing this to us but she wouldnt come up wit any tangible excuse, all she kept saying is nothing going on btw them. she even told me of a recent jokingly that the ex- is tryng to buy her a car and try to inquire from me if i will nt be mad with that.
i am just confused about the whole thing. dnt just knw wat step to take any longer. av told myself that divorce is not something i will want to settle for in life and considering again that there are issues btw us. it really make it difficult for me. the said ex- is also married with kids. why they wouldnt let go of each other is wat i am yet to understand. Pls i need a serious and matured advice on this. Thanks

wow Am sorry about all that..Am a woman and I am not gonna lye..Seems like ur wife still has feelings for his ex..na u sabi I can be wrong tho..For how long have they been together? Seems like d guy is encouraging her too..I mean u can break up and still keep in touch and talk, there is nothing wrong with that...I saw ex who became d best friends ever so why not? But all that can only work if no one has no more feelings and no expectations..Seems like ur wife is not hiding nothing, so that's a good point..Relationship r based on trust..I can understand ur feeling tho..Just be confident in urself, and keep being understanding cuz that's a great quality..Relationship r not easy..marriage neither..nothing is perfect..Strongly believe that every relationship is a mix of patience, understanding, forgiveness, ..so we have to make it work..

rman: Lagos to Burkina Faso.

The route was: Lagos >>>> Zaria >>>> Sokoto >>>> Niamey ( Niger) >>>> Ougadugu ( Burkina Faso)

It took us close to 48hrs because with stopped in all the major cities.

It was with a couple of friends ( undergraduate days)

A very interesting road trip.

Where has this adventurous side of me gone?

Just wanna make a lil correction here ..It is Ouagadougou ..not Ougadugu

Donxavier: I laff
You are truly a learner, but I will indulge you
Let's take a nursing mother and her baby, a very good example of true love between the mother and her child where you would think the mother gives her all without expecting anything in return; the mother expects the child to behave well and decently and be appreciative of all her efforts. When the child grows, she expects him/her to help out in the house, do chores, run errands etc....

I said all that to say this Love is about give and take and life is about giving but there is NOTHING FOR FREE IN THIS WORLD. There is always a reaction for every action, and there is no free lunch in this world. You also reap what you sow. The earlier you understand that the better; For your goals and desires to be achieved you need to pay the required price.

As for this matter, the OP sees the sugar daddy as the easiest option and probably just wants to assuage her conscience before going into it. More like trying to justify herself and her actions. There are other options but that's her choice. I really wonder what you think Sugar daddies are for? Are they NGOs or Charity organisations.....even those ones don't do it for free they all have their underlying motivations for doing their so called 'help to humanity' programs. The OP is fully aware of the consequences and has consented to the act in her mind, so she isn't being taken advantaged off.

I give up..What is d relation between a mom and her child and ur situation here Seriously Am sorry again but u not gonna change my mind on that topic ...Again some people have to stop taking advantage of other people's weakeness..If someone really wanna help, u can without taking any advantage of d situation...u cannot give money for helping expecting sex in return .. And again Thanks God there is still people out there who give without expecting nothing !!!!!!!

Donxavier: Two questions

1.Why should anyone give $6500 for free?
2.Why should anyone expect to get $6500 for free?

Why not? Thanks God there is still people on this earth who give without expecting nothing !!!!!!!
Secondly, u can thank d person who gave u d money in another way than giving sex !!!!!!!!!

Donxavier: For starters, the OP concerned is sexually active and is ok with the whole thing. Read her post well and she's smart too I must say cause she understands that there isn't any free lunch anywhere.Everything comes at a price but you don't seem to understand that which is why I asked if you were a learner ?

You are also talking as if it's the man's responsibility to just help her like that. Why must you even expect to get $6500 without giving anything in return That's what's wrong with your thinking which is why people suggested various means to raise the money(writing,entrepreneurship,bank loans,student aid, scholarships)......but the OP sees sleeping with sugar daddy as the easiest way to go and probably the only thing she could offer. Nobody is obligated to do anything about her situation except herself and nobody is judging her but she understands what she needs to do.

First if she put that post, I don't think she's completely ok with that...Secondly,u cannot use d fact that she is sexually active to validate d guy behavior and all this...''everything comes at a price'' Human values, human beings have NO price..By the simple fact of knowing that she needs money so bad and she's ready to do everything she can for that, this guy is just taking advantage of d situation..Pretty sad..Do u really think that she would have been with him if she did not need money...so pls again, some people have to stop taking advantage of other people's weakeness..If someone really wanna help, he can go ahead without taking any advantage of d situation...u cannot give money for helping expecting sex in return ..

Donxavier: Please don't make me laff and how is he taking advantage of her? From what the OP has said she is the one that wants to go with him cos of the money. Besides how can you just borrow someone $6500 dollars?, unless they are your parents, or your wife; It most likely wont end well. Even $100 there is always story when it comes to payback time talkless of $6500.... Is it that easy to give out money like that without any strings attached Even banks sef will demand for collateral,guarantor and then get interest on their principal. Student loans the same you payback with a lot of interest....She will payback when she starts working Are you a learner?

"How he is taking advantage of her'' Seriously ?? Money for sex is what Even if she's d one who wants d deal as u said, that man is not stupid..and I guess is older too..Am sorry but that's not a way to behave..If that is ok for u, fine..Do u have children? girls? Will u be ok if a man behave like that with ur child Pls stop deceiving urself ..
ok u said $ 6500 is a lot of money..I agree..but because it is a lot of money, he allows him to have sex and do whatever he wants..Am sorry..If he really believe in God, he does not need that money, he has to give her without asking for nothing...Yeah banks ask for collateral and that makes sense..So now human beings give money and Sex is d collateral..WOW But again people have to stop using money and other people's weakeness to get whatever they want !!!

Skinni10ne: Its wrong to sell ur body for anything. Try to hustle for money in other ways. Life comes with challenges, dont make immoral decisions because its easy.

I agree but don't think anobody here can judge her..That's just pretty sad that she has to do that..The only thing I wanna say is ''Shame on that guy !!!!" If he really wanna help her and has money, he can't behave like that..he can just lend her d money and she can pay him back when she has a job if he agrees with that...But seriously people have to stop using money and other people's weakeness to get whatever they want !!! Sad..

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Nobody here can judge u..That's just pretty sad that u have to do that..The only thing I wanna say is ''Shame on that guy !!!!" If he really wanna help u and has money, he can't behave like that..he can just lend u d money and u can pay him back when u have a job if he agrees with that...But seriously people have to stop using money and other people's weakeness to get whatever they want !!! Sad..

bukatyne: I don't care the moral codes you live by but don't drag God into this before He gets annoyed with you.

Read Heb 13: 4 and let it sink if you are a Christian. If you are not, I'm sure that the Quran speaks against it.

do u have a boyfriend?

sakaguchi: Dumb OP

I agree lool seriously stop losing ur time

miky: Was about to say the same.. From simple fasting to wanting sharia, then comes extremists.. China is a serious country that has the determination to build its economy and become a betters society not to dabble in religious matters which are not only foreign but troublesome kudos to them!!

P.s they should ban Christianity too, and keep their budda

wow ok China is a serious country, so that gives them d right to ban people from fasting Seriously Let s talk about human rights in China.. There is extremists everywhere, but that does not give u d right to ban d right people. Don't be an extremist urself by banning d right muslim people who want to fast I agree countries should be more aware about extremism and its dangers, but it is not by banning d right muslim..A lil tolerance guys .. U wrote they should also ban Christianity...A powerful economic country that bans everything pls, guys look a lil at d past and what happened to countries who tried to ban everything..Sure China, let s ban everything and do not respect human rights if that makes u stronger why not Until when...I don't known, just saying...Countries have to prevent and be aware of extremism but banning and do not respect human rights is not d right solution

Pennywise: Are we talking sex with or without condom?

Seriously

Poor baby ..Really really sad story.. Lots of sick people in this world

wow so different from what we use to see out there but why not If that makes him happy Am not a big fan tho..lool but showing again that some people dont give a f***

wow just realized i did not saw d pic..Really funny.. Cannot stop laughing.. Lil weird cuz we do not use to but finally why not If she felt confortable doing that

wow did they count them R u sure they did not miss anyone looool

Let them be !!!!!!!

Seriously Wow Something is seriously wrong here With such mom, I am definitively scared for d baby

Implementing conventions to reduce teenage pregnancy How Please, let's start by some basics..EDUCATION..I dont think any law gonna reduce d level of teenage pregnancy...Parents, school have a huge role here..Sometimes, teenagers do not even know d risk they r taking..yeah we are talking about teenage pregnancy, ok but seems like you forgot to talk about another huge issue, AIDS or other sexually transmitted diseases In my opinion, education is a major way to prevent teenage pregnancy. Biology classes should have a huge part related to sexuality..Medecins have to come in class and explain to teenagers what is really going on..what r d risk.., they should also have some testimonies of people who have been pregnant at a early age or people who have AIDS..and see the impact on their life, maybe the next time they gonna have sexual relations, they gonna think better. D only way d government could help here would be by providing funds to high schools to develop campaigns related to those issues, and financing specific classes or meetings related to those issues.. Education is a basis here

[quote author=D-Explorer]Cheating can be accepted depending on the status of the rela.[/quote]"Depending on d status of d relationship" Am sorry but whatever d type of relation (u should read a lil d definition of a relation between 2 persons), relationship and cheating r NOT compatible at all..That s so easy guys, be strong, if u wanna cheat again and again and not stronger enough to be entirely committed to d one u say u "like or love", pls dont be in any kind of relation, be single, it is so easy and just go have fun with d ones who wanna behave d same

miky: thats the difference!! a man cheats and its nothing, absolutely nothing, no attachment zilch!! when a lady cheats you can be rest assured she either has feelings for the guy or about to.. thats just how God made it.. on the contrary no body goes out to cheat, but trying to fight a war that your already loosing blah blah.. na u sabi

"A man who cheats has NO attachment, but a lady who cheats has feelings or she s about too.." Dont try to convince urself here U should just look a lil outside
" thats just how God made it"..now God has something to do with cheating
"Nobody goes out to cheat"...Seriously How can u explain that married men, or in a long lasting relationship r outside every week end, in clubs without their girl.. yeah just for enjoying d music, u r right, not to find someone or cheat.. Seriously, guys stop deceiving urself

miky: why? its just ordinary sex.. whats so special about this..you guys will just zero urself to a corner

Seriously I read lots of men comments on that topic, and that s pretty sad ..Cheating is "just ordinary sex".."what is so special about this.." wow Seems like some men r just trying to minimize d thing for not feeling guilty . Am sorry but cheating is not right, and is not just ordinary sex..Are u trying to convince urself?? Saying u love someone, and cheating are NOT compatible at all..If u want ordinary sex and cannot control urself, just go with some girls who agree with that kind of stuff, and just be SINGLE Seems like nobody never cheated on u..lol..u r such a lucky guy ..If think d day a girl u really like gonna cheat on u, u gonna change ur speech

Seriously Money turned into pieces of paper That only happens in Nigeria !!!!
Can believe in juju but I am sorry this story sounds like a lil fake ...This woman should give back d money or maybe she should try to remember what she did after withdrawing d money from d bank