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Rayban25:
Number one what you're quoting me for is not related to our discussion earlier


Number 2 you're not a child...if I tell you to jump inside fire will you jump?...learn to take responsibility for your actions...stop making excuses for your stupid behavior

Lo.

Again. I am not making excuses and these are not my point of views.

The OP ask a question and I am GIVING REASONS WHY WOMEN BEHAVE WHY THEY BEHAVE.

Like is English so hard to comprehend for y’all?!

I don tire for Una Abeg, I don’t even know why I opened another account on this bullshit site. Most of you refuse to read and only know how to throw needless insults.

Why can’t you all on this site just be objective and read without sentiments?

I am not that broke girl that is killing you or refusing to give you pussy so CHILL.

Babara1994:
White men you say? Do you know what white ladies call FINDOM? You're clearly ignorant.

You made a few good points in your intro, but the others are trash.

Mr Man. The question asked for reasons and I gave REASONS. Learn to comprehend English. These are not my views but I’m giving REASONS why women might behave the way they do. Which one is some points are trash? Whether you like it or not humans mirror each other, everybody treats each other according to what they see.


Read my reply to another person, maybe you will get my point of view.

My brother, I weak o

They asked a question but don’t want to hear the answer.

It’s just like why we women wonder why men cannot only sleep with one woman for the rest of his life. I tell my girls it’s evolution and polygamy has been a part of men for a long time so you can’t blame men. We women have posed ourselves as objects.

Naturally a human will try to acquire as many objects as they can. I can’t say this to women, they will bash me just as much as these clueless guys are bashing me now.

WHY ASK QUESTIONS IF YOU’RE NOT READY TO KNOW THE ANSWER.

Joelobioha:
read wetin u type e get headmtcheew

I will copy answer to another person. Maybe you will get my point of view.

My brother. I weak o.

They asked a question but don’t want to hear the answer.

It’s just like why we women wonder why men cannot only sleep with one woman for the rest of his life. I tell my girls it’s evolution and polygamy has been a part of men for a long time so you can’t blame men. We women have posed ourselves as objects.

Naturally a human will try to acquire as many objects as they can. I can’t say this to women, they will bash me just as much as these clueless guys are bashing me now.




They asked for reasons. I have reasons. Why ask a question if you’re not ready to know the answer?

Jeferious:
Madam, no follow anybody talk again. I bin dey think say these nigg@s get sense, but I now know I'm wrong. Person wey say one single lie dey for wetin you talk....make God punish that person severely with Delilahs wey go chop dem and their destiny join. May they never amount to anything in life, since they have chosen to reject truth. Amen and Amen�

My brother. I weak o.

They asked a question but don’t want to hear the answer.

It’s just like why we women wonder why men cannot only sleep with one woman for the rest of his life. I tell my girls it’s evolution and polygamy has been a part of men for a long time so you can’t blame men. We women have posed ourselves as objects.

Naturally a human will try to acquire as many objects as they can. I can’t say this to women, they will bash me just as much as these clueless guys are bashing me now.


I get insults just like this too. I wonder why people ask questions if they’re not ready to hear the truth.

Jeferious:
That's the thing, but I think my folks are emotionally and psychologically dull. How do I stress myself starting a conversation with someone I don't know? On what valid ground?

Sincerely, I don't blame the ladies, because if someone of the opposite gender walks up to me and profess love and obsession, and unfortunately I don't feel the same way for that person....well I will really struggle with the temptation of taking undue advantage of that person. Because a person who goes about professing affection to strangers who isn't interested in such person, is subtly telling the other person that he/she wishes to be taken advantage of. That's just the plain truth

I’m glad you could see I’m just answering questions. Some people are only full of insults. They don’t accept opinions of others.


Oga Rayban25

Read this and see the reason why women do what they do.

Learn from your fellow men.

Jflex07:
You smoke?

Yes

toujurs:
How is that being smart, why can't the lady say no, i don't give my number to strangers. But she prefer to lead the guy on, so she can extort money from him. Omo look ehn karma comes hard o! You think you are misleading the guy but you don't know, it's bad luck you are attracting to yourself, you are attracting negativity, depression, and all the evil and wicked things in life.

It's a pity, that the guy you would now like, will be the one to make a fool of you, breaking your heart to pieces without looking back. Big time in a way you might never recover from, for a very long period of time.

If you don't like a guy, and dude ask for your number, tell him no. It's simple. It's better to wade off, negativitu from your life, so God blessings can locate you. Most of you ladies are daft, thinking it's a smartness. It's poverty that makes you girls render yourselves to such behaviour. How much is what you want to ask from him, that you can't buy it for your self, if you have a job. Emancipate yourself from poverty mentality.

Lol. You don’t know me from Adam. Poverty and I are not in the same category and there is nothing a man can give me I haven’t already given myself.

I am answering a question the op asked from a neutral point of view.

You are a grown man. Kindly refrain from making assumptions, you should know by now that life is plenty.

Jeferious:
Lies. Fallacy. I don't even know how these guys do it. You just walk up to a total stranger and start telling her how you are attracted to her and want her to be close to you. Like how can a reasonable person do this?

Shaa, maybe I have been lucky with women because I had good looks. But even if I wasn't good looking, that technique still doesn't make sense. First time I tried it with a girl I was fancying at the time, I really felt awkward. Like it's as stupid as anything. Girl gave me her number, but I never called for a day. Wetin I wan even dey talk with her? I think she was disappointed because one of her friends later told me that I'm weird....that I started something I couldn't finish. She no sabi say I dey even blame myself too for even starting the nonsense in the first place.

I have had wonderful relationships in the past with beautiful ladies, and presently I'm in one too. I don't remember walking up to any of them to profess love. All of them just started spontaneously

It is men like you that women fall over themselves for.

Why profess love to a random stranger? How many girls profess love for you that you should give them that gift for free? Interest should be spontaneously mutual if you hope to find true love as man because women see men as targets.

Babara1994:
Valid point here, but women can't offer me anything other than sex, so I just go after the most appealing "sex object" afterall.

This is the point of view of most men. And I completely get your point of view. It is hard to find A woman that can offer you many things you thought you never needed so why bother? They exist though and many men are enjoying lovely relationships with them.

Imagine a woman with the same thought processes as you? Double your net worth, double your joy. Less money spent on airheads. Two heads are always better than one.

Fahvvy:
An adult becomes an entitled beggar and rather than hold THAT adult accountable, you're blaming someone else? What kind of myopic and stupid reasoning is this? ...

Just imagine men blaming women for doing money rituals all because women are "singing" that they don't want broke men...

So on account of that, men do money rituals and then blame the women for their actions, how does that sound Biko? Stupid right? Well, that's exactly how you sound right now ...

Or imagine a guy rap.es his wife and says it's her fault because she denied him se.x, sounds just about right, yeah? Indeed you're super "smart" ...

Well, madam smarty-pants...
EVERY ADULT IS SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS AND MUST BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE

You don't act a certain way and then blame someone else for it, that's just stup.id and irresponsible...

Most women are entitled beggars because THEY CHOOSE to be entitled beggars nothing else, and thinking any other way is tantamount to stupid.ity ....

Mr Gaslighter. Read without sentiments.

Why are women different in other countries? Most men would give excuses for the disgusting things Nigerian men do because there are REASONS people do what they do.

There is a counter reason for every behavior. Why do women act that way? If you were a brain scientist and you were asked to perform an experiment, what will you give an answer? Women are entitled brats? We already know that. WHY ARE THEY ENTITLED BRATS? What caused them to behave that way? Are women like that all over the world? Then there must be a reason.

If I ask you why do men cheat even when they know it is irresponsible and will cause great pain to the woman they love, what will you say? You will say men are polygamous in nature. Not men are indisciplined bastards.


A question was posed and I have answered the question as objectively as I can as woman. Whatever else you choose to say, you say out of sentiments.

Why do men take women for granted that approach them first or love them too much or show them too much attention? It’s the same mentality.

For years women have been told that a man is a provider and they take care of the home. Even your mother is the same way, you will not dare repeat most of the things you say about women to her.


Don’t ask questions if you already know the answer.

Fineman2:
The truth is that you can meet your partner anywhere.

Of course. But not randomly.

98percent of the time, random women will respond to you because of what you have and not what you are.

Fineman2:
Beaches and bars where they dress half-naked

I go to beaches and bars and I am always fully clothed. So do several other women.

Men don’t see us because they’re stunned by the sights of bare breasts and ass.

LOL

Rayban25:
My dear I read..and so did others...your comparison dosent make sense...I dont hate women...its women like you that cant think deeply before commenting that i detest...and lol...I just checked your profile...you have no beauty and no brains my dear dont even flatter yourself

LOL.

Rayban25:
At least we can beg legitimately unlike you that uses your body to do so you fool...so stop thinking you're making sense

Hahahaa. Beg legitimately that I should transfer 1k into their account so they can buy colos? Keep your sentiments aside and read. Your insults do not faze me.

This thread posed a question and I answered.

Drop your hate for women and read objectively Mr man, no one is quarreling you.

advanceDNA:
Why am i not surprised?? Any disgraceful thing a woman does is a man's fault...??lol

Men should keep singing about them and drooling like dogs. Then wondering why they feel so entitled.

Keep asking questions.


LOL.

Rayban25:
You must be a very stupid fellow...you're comparing women that are educated and actually have jobs than to some men who never had the opportunity to go to school or lost an opportunity or one challenge or the other and are still trying to hustle?...the only reason why we are not seeing women on the street is because you can easily use prostitution to get out of your poverty...look at your stupid comparison...do you think naturally men like to borrow money from women?..because yall will tell the whole world..sometimes they do because their guys may not be able to help them ...see your stupid comparison

Lol. Begging is begging sir.


Thanks.

Fineman2:
If you want to beg for money, then beg me without being dubious about it and I will still give you because I am generous.

Why deceiving someone and break the person's heart

You knew deep down that those girls are not attracted to you for anything except what you have. I remember posting my boyfriend for the first time as a young adult, my mother went batshit on me.

She said verbatim ‘Don’t you know other men won’t want to do anything for you if you tell them you have a man in your life’? Meaning? Men are just pockets to women. Literally.

Watch carefully, there are characteristics women display when they love you. Identify them, recognize them and no woman will ever be able to deceive you again.

Also try not to approach women you meet randomly. If you see a very pretty girl that you like on the road, completely ignore her because that girl will never be for anything other than your pockets. Watch for the dressing of a woman, go after the decently dressed.

Go for more natural setting like beaches and a bar and let them come to you. Don’t approach women you don’t know. You are just a treasure chest.

advanceDNA:
In this part of the world..relationships are mostly tramsactional.....women beleive sex is something they give you and not somethimg mutual contributed.....so they want u to show u deserve to be given sex by paying them enough...na u go give yourself brain...

Ive noticed walking up to women u dont know on the road and collecting their number makes her them see u as ATM....its because theres no attraction or likeness on their part....the meeting is not natural or spontaneous ...its something u technically forced to happen ..so they take advantage of it

Smartest man on Nairaland


Modified: I thought he was objective and would read without sentiments. Clearly not. LOL.

advanceDNA:
The point is all these examples u gave are wrong..those doing it know they are wrong...fraudsters know scam is a crime

...only women beg men they just met today with the highest sense of entitlement and still form big girl about it

Begging is begging no matter how you twist it.


As for women feeling entitled, it still the fault of your fellow men.

•You sing about them all the time.
•You gawk at them openly.
•There is this desperation in most men eyes women can identify and leverage.
•A multitude of you are ready to spend your last dime just to slide in.
•Most marry us and believe they are to completely take care of them like they’re children.
•Most women with money are lonely because they have the same characteristics as men, they do what they want and most men would prefer a girl that is less smart and more needy so they can feel like a protector.


I’m smart, beautiful, self made. Most guys that approach me have nothing to offer me unless they work on themselves. I see these guys going after airheads all the time and ignoring me because I DO WHAT I WANT. Not what you feel is best for me.

Men love broke women because they can control them and you know it. Any other thing contrary to that is a huge lie. So you see why these women feel entitled?


African Men should build self respect and stop drooling at every ass and breast they see and women will sit up. White men are busy with their brains and not their dicks, that’s why their women had to sit up.

Fineman2:
The girl you meet for the first time is already asking you for money, this is a big societal problem.

I met this young lady inside the bank, I talked to her and asked for her phone number which she gave me.

When I got home, I called her and asked when we could see and she was like "see ke

The following day she started telling me she was not okay, that she was sick and she didn't have money to buy drugs, but I told her bluntly that I can't be played that way, that I mean business with her if she's serious.

I ask this girl to come to my house which she refused, but that doesn't bother me

Days after I called again and she gave me a location where she will meet me, I agreed, but she went further and suggested that we go to chicken republic in her choose area.

That was how I deleted her number.


Another story

I've been talking to this girl since December last year, we met on Facebook, she was in Abuja then.

We even attended the same school and we were both having some issues then, so I asked her to help me out because I was far away and working as well and she was closer to school.

Sincerely she did tried her best even though it didn't work out for me, but the stupid male lecturer addressed her own issue.

That day she asked me to transfer small money to give the man which I did.

Weeks after we became very close and she started telling me all her plans and asked for my advise, she later said she was broke that day and had nothing to eat so I sent her 2k even though she didn't ask me. She thanked me.

After that period she went incommunicado for months and reappear just last month, she now told me that she was coming to Lagos for job interview and that we might see this time, I said no problem.

Two days later she said she was in Lagos and wasn't too bouyant, she asked me for 1500 naira and I sent her 2k, she said she would see me the following day before going back to Abuja.

The following day,she sent me a voice message on WhatsApp saying she can't come to my house, that I should wait for her at a road junction where we can see, and that I should arrange a bus for her to take off after seeing me.

I politely advised her to go straight to her destination without stopping to see me and wished her safe trip, that was the end of it, she was surprised, but I kept my respect.

Sex is the cheapest thing in town today, i don't know why some ladies keep playing games, saying they can't come to a guy's house.

The wahala of getting a naija girl to come to your house and the money you will spend isn't worth it.

Happy Sunday.





Mynd44

You’re blind to the countless men on the streets begging random people these days? Countless men beg me on the road for 100 naira everyday. Several of my male friends always ask me for cash. Most rich young boys got rich by begging and deceiving white women. I’m sure countless boys harass you too for cash on the road but you’re so excited to bash women you are completely blind to them.

Seems I will open a counter thread asking why men are always begging me for money on the road. Even where I buy my smoke, it is not any different. Some will even have the audacity to ask me to do transfer for them.


We have have the highest amount of poor people in the world and this still surprises you? You are a complete joke of a man.


Grow up.


Nigerian men, grow up. If women start to bash you for these things too, Na Una go vex pass.

Prosperous111:
Lol that won’t end well

We all know say any Chinese products no Dey too last with zero guarantee

China phone
Chinese planes

Your ignorance is alarming.

70 percent of products in the world are assembled in China. Including the iPhones and Samsung’s y’all crazy about. All the larger BRT buses we use are theirs.

CheapHomes1:
Who are "the intelligent"?

Things you do and things that entertain you are directly tied your your intelligence level. You are what you consume.

I’m curious. What is your perspective?

Do you really think a higher iqed person can sit down to watch things created by dullards?

DasaintHope:
You stay in the barracks or something?

My former best friend is a soldier.

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Emperordynasty:
Aunt woke
Living with a man and playing Wife when he has not paid
Your dowry to your parents who raised you till you became a woman that a man can desire is a dishonor to her parents...

And most of the time it is this girls who Offer themselves cheaply like this that are dumped like dry bread and replaced with women who value themselves,

When they saying stuff like this,girls like u will be claiming woke and enlightened but when it happens I won’t be there to give you handkerchief when you start crying woe and heartbreak...

Finally in this life you are free to watch whatever you want, be it Korean, zeeworld, animie, Hollywood, Nollywood or the Asaba movies..you don’t have to stick to a particular production just because it is stereotyped as for the smart ones

There are certified dullards who watch Hollywood movies u know

Lol

DasaintHope:
@op why do you want her to go to military school? Can she survive the rigors of regimental life? I myself am a product of military, from Air force primary, to AFMS, and finally NDA as a naval cadet. Back then being an exboy or an ex-Jam was an added advantage getting into the military. Secondly, my father was a strict disciplinarian W.O who wanted us to learn sense by suffering. Along the line we fell in love with the military, my twin sis and I.
I forgot to mention she is a Flying Officer now.
So op, aside the above reasons, abeg leave your daughter for her own day. Make men no use Malice and Injustice Chawus her.

Chawus


Lol. I’ve heard this word a thousand times but I’ve never seen anyone spell it.

CheapHomes1:
Dude, why are you being condescending? What has being a house wife got to do with preference for nigerian movies? Ladies like your "babe" are rare and it doesn't mean that they are better than ladies who like Nigerian movies. Its all about preference. To shock you, there are professional women in other African countries who can die for nigerian movies. I hate Nigerian movies but I know amazing women who just can't do with them. I know that they watching is shit, but who am I to condemn? Its what they love. Its Korean film that is now the one they watch. They can hold phone for hours watching Korean film

Twist it however you like.

The intelligent do not watch such movies.

Yabsun:
You don't talk about imaginary dinosaur that would fight the whole community or a hero that would disobey gravitation law by jumping off 24 story building without parachute unscathed.. Lol. They like illusion and that's what entertain them while they face reality after the two hours imagination

Fruits of a vivid imagination.

Do you want to talk about Nigerian movies and their illusions? The subject of this whole thread is literally. ‘The pregnant ghost’

Castigating the illusions Hollywood’s create doesn’t make any sense. Those are products of heavily brilliant minds.

Your whole comment doesn’t even make any sense. Movies are literally illusions.

Emperordynasty:
Your statement is so Daft and Childish
So married people are talking and you that is cohabiting with a girl who is dishonoring her parents by living in your house is talking down on a married woman who has the right to watch whatever she wants in her matrimonial home

Oga park well if your girlfriend was so smart as you say she won’t allow you to be using her when the probability of your marrying her is a “Maybe”

House wife Or not she loves watching all those low budget Asaba movies it’s her choice and it’s gives her joy ..it doesn’t in any way determine her IQ or anything ..even foreigners watch those dumb ass movies

Using her? Dishonoring her parents?
What you watch doesn’t determine your iq?

Nairalanders! Lol.

Sergio103:



Omo dis dragging don too much nii

I don laugh tire. Nigerians are so intelligent.

dsocioemmy:
See as OP call 'terrific moment' like say one bad thing happen

Terrific in this context means wonderful, great, pleasing.