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kokaiye:
MY BIRTH STORY.

So, inwas really really tired of being pregnant becs i was experiencing to muxh tiredness and achings... And my mood was really poor, i was always aggressive even towards my son which made me sad within me. N carpel tunnel was dealing with me dearly... Still dealing with me oooo smh.
So on my next midwife appointment I told her i want to opt for CS becs i believe its what i could do to get a date for delivery where i am, she asked why i chose cs, told her i need to plan mysef and get childcare for my son and d person willin to help need to get permission from her boss to be absent from work. So i was booked for consultation... At 37weeks pregnant... On meeting with d doctor for consultation, d doctor convinced me to try induction first n if it didn't go well, den ECS will be done... Told her i dont mind, just let me have a date please. So, she did after she did cervix examination on me and did a sweep n told me i might go into labour on my own because i am 1cm dilated... Told her, i cant afford to go into labour on my own because it will stress me out, who am i gonna leave my aon with? I leave alone n labour ward dont accomodate children so... I wont be looking forward to going into labour Nat on my own.. She said ok.

3days to induct day, hospital called that i have to call antenatal ward be4 coming in because they are short of bed... I said no problem... On induction day, i called antenatal ward and no one pick... Naso i carryy bag woth my son, called my aunt we are leaving that she should meet us at d hospital... Got there n i still got d same ans that no bed and was asked to wait at d waiting area... My aunt arrived n we waited for 4 to 5hours and was called in and given a room... An hour later... I was given lectures on how d induction gpnna be done... I said okay. D midwife left and came back with the pessary ahe was gonna insert... Naso i told dis woman say i wan pee... Dia woman tell me mk she insert first be4 i go (tell me how i was take dey comfortable open toto, while u poke my cervix... My bladder is full na, she no gree) she sha insert n dem complain say i no open toto well... Durh!!! I told u i wan wee be4 abi i no tell u 🙄. She sha left... One hour after pessary insert... I started having contractions... Like play like play... D contractions started increasing until even me started thinking this contractions isnt normal because i have no resting time... I was in severe pain... The CTG plugged to read baby's heart was reading baby's heart 178, 183 and so on... Which means baby isnt doing very well inside me..... My baby heart was 140-150 b4 d induction n it increase so much in just few hours of starting d induction..... D gas n air pain relieve wasnt even working... Thou it mk me so high as a kite... D pain was out of dis world, i was crying like a baby, rivers of tears running down my cheeks.... Thank God another midwife took over n this one know wat she wad doing... She was concerned so she called more experienced personnel and the person told her to remove the pessary immediately n to give me injection to stop d contractions that the baby wasnt happy with d induction... So, d midwife did as she was told... Ladies and gentlemen, this abnormal contractions didnt stop ooo... So, i was wheels from the antenantal ward to labour ward where the monitoring continue n was hand over to another incompetent nigerian midwife that took a look at my baby's ctg readings n said this is a normal reading now... D baby isnt in distress... My ex midwife just look am with one kin eyes n den left... So, a doctor came in check d ctg reading n was alarmed... She went m called another doctor to come look but she was in d theatre n wen she was done she can in quickly, check d ctg n turmed to me... Looks like the induction didnt go well with your body and baby heart rate isnt good... Baby isnt getting oxygen and we need to perform emergency cs for u... I told her pls take me immediately to the theatre now... I dont care how u do it.. Kust take d baby out now. D doctor den bend to check me n said u aint even dilating.... So, wat u gonna do now is signed a doc... Which i did immediately. I was given another 3 more injections to stop d contractions completely... I never felt so much relief in my entire life at dt moment.
I was wheeled into the theatre n was given anesthesia to numb my body waist down... D operation took like 30mins to b over... Couldnt believe it... I didnt even knw wen they cut me open, i just heard my baby crying... I was lik wat? Wat?!! 😲 Couldn't believe my ears... It was like dey performed magic... I told dem let me c d baby... Dey brought her n i n was lik wat again?!! 😅... That was really quick.... They closed me up n was wheeled to d maternity ward where d care of me n my baby continues..... I thank God for everything. It was a really scary day which turn out well... Alhamdulilah robil al amin.

To be sincere CS isn't bad... Infact, its d easiest way of delivering babies but d recovery from cs isn't easy thou... Fart wey b say u dey fart anyhow b4... U go dey look 4 am after cs lol n having ur first pop after cs hmmmn lol.. D contipation wey go hold u... No b here... But after u have ur first fart, first urine n first poop... U will eventually be very ok n relieved.

MY BS SUBMITTED.

Yes so they say . But I think it's for people that do early scan or so. Like my first scan was around 21 wks. EDD is April. Infact all my EDD I have gotten are all in April though the dates vary which is expected. So for me talking of the most accurate is hmmmmmm so I just follow the second EDD i got reason being that its close to my LMP EDD from calculator.net

kokaiye:
stick to ur first scan edd date... It is said to b d most accurate... N yes wen u hv anterior placenta... U cant feel baby kick much.

I'm mbliz. A returnee. EDD April 15 XY

StarryV:
January Roll call for Team April, 25

Welcome to January my fellow belleful mamas, supporting papas and especially my lovely teamies. This is our year of supernatural delivery. Some of us have already entered the 3rd trimester. Please let's remain faithful in taking our medications and not skipping our appointments. If you haven't started your baby shopping, this is the right time to start. Let's also try as much as possible to take fruits no matter how little.
Some teammies are yet to register o... Please come out from your hiding.

S/N ................NAME .............. EDD ....... SEX

1). .............. Starryv ............. 1st April.....??
2). .............. Crestaria .......... 5th April.... ??
3). ............pateffy.................30th April...XX

Abeg if you are in my team and yet to register, kindly whisper your EDD into my ears, and if you have confirmed your baby's gender also notify us so that we can update accordingly.
@pateffy, you have been spotted, kindly update your records with your EDD and gender. We're happy to have you in our team.
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NoToPile:
It can be a long process

Get an affidavit at high court signed by commissioner of oaths, you may ask a lawyer to prepare the format for you, with a passport at the top right corner ,walk in to Ikeja high court ask for commissioner of oaths office its 500naira they will collect to stamp and put their seal.

Publish in the newspaper, you will need the marriage cert, and / or the affidavit its about 3-5k depending on newspaper.

Changing Bvn /bank details, if she's done NIMC and has the slip she can modify its 500naira, take to the nearest NIMC center for modification you will pay 500naira via remitta for modification present your documents (affidavit, newspaper and slip bearing your former name, they insisted on high court affidavit not all these magistrate stuffs) you update your details, they may tell you to come back in some weeks time. (NIMC seems to be the cheapest and easiest of what obanks are now requiring for ID card).

If she has not registered for NIMC slip before she will just register fresh with her new name.

Proceed to bank with all your docs, wedding cert, newspaper, and your NIMC slip (new name)containing NIN number and they willl work on changing your details. I know gtb accepts NIMC slip now .

Inform your workplace, school (if still in school) and present the documents.

As for all documents (certs etc etc)obtained before the change of name they remain valid. So they say you just present your change of name affidavit with the cert bearing old name.

I have visited 3 centers and they all say they can't change the name. 2 licensed agents offices and nin 1 office. Please do you have any contact that can be of help please

Most centers around ibeju lekki said they cannot change the name. That one needs to go to alausa. Hmmm. Do you have any contact that could be of help please

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Ayauche:
Use mupiderm.

been using it but yet to see changes.

Hello mamas.. please what can i use for this? Noticed it few days back. This appears a bit different from the usual heat rash. Pls i need urgent response. Thank you...

Tozilly:
No marriage is devoid of fracas. Majority of couple r just managing themselves. Ur situation is not yet out of control. Ur hubby is suffering from financial insecurity, entitlement mentality n bloated ego. He feels less of a man as he can't provide adequately 4 his family. U NID to save a fixed amount of money every month for Ur personal upkeep no matter wot. Try n find happiness outside him, may b with ur kids. U hv a right to enjoy d fruit of ur labour. Just press ignore button wen he starts acting up. He will either grows over it with time or b humbled by life. D situation will change for better with time. Don't come n kill urself for anybody.

Tozilly i want to add to what u just said. We dnt have a clear knowledge of his financial background or work background. At the same time, men generally are ego centric by nature. I just feel that he is been frustrated because of his current financial state. He is not able to take total responsibility for his family so he gets frustrated. A man who is responsible wants to be in charge, control, command respect and all that.It is normal to get sick once in a while but men generally dnt feel sick like we women do except on critical cases and when a man is sick, give him money and that man go well. So she should just try and develop a savings culture for herself. And encourage the man to do more. Suggest business ideas. And some times too when men are going through their rough moments, they want to be left alone. They need space. So i suggest u give ur hubby some space. Dnt get him choked up. When he needs u around, dat moment just flow with him and when its the opposite, give him space. Dnt try to force things. His attitude will get u pissed but try not to bottle up any ill feelings. Find possible means to be happy. Encourage your hubby when ever he feels less of himself even if he doesnt appreciate it. Communication is key. Keep it when necessary and when otherwise change some rutin

What? Who does that? Female circumcision?hmmm well like the other mama said just take her to the hospital. But for me oo, my mum told me that when bathing a baby girl, u press the ** with the thumb finger instead of circumcision

jumy16:
please I want to ask his question on behave of my neighborhood.. though I warn her not to do it but she said her mother in law and hubby did it...the baby girl was circumcised, and since then she has been bleeding now the baby is weak and they can't take him to hospital, please what can they use to boost his blood.......very urgent please

tatacherie:
I'm so heart broken right now
If someone had told me I will wear this kind of shoe one day I would have sworn for the person
I've not been myself since 4.30pm

My 3 years old daughter was assaulted! She came home with blood stains on her pants. I usually bath her immediately she returns from school and saw it. I immediately checked her vjay lo and behold the idiot finish the place with fingers if you see the picture you will weep for me

I took her straight to children emergency see how nurses were shouting who did this!!! It's serious vandalizing cos she can't urinate without screaming. I've asked her to pls tell me who did it but it seems the person threatened to harm her if she speaks
She's currently doing sitz bath and on antibiotics/pain relief

Lord I need strength right now I can't even eat
I'll report the case to the police station with the blood stained pants as evidence plus the photograph of the site, we must get to the root of this!!! so my child cannot go to school in peace again God!!!

Pls I need professional advice aside police pls help!

i am truly sorry for what happened to your princess. Was moody all through today and seeing this now infact i feel weak...hmm . The other moms have said it all and i believe time heals every wound especially if you let it. Be strong and fight till the end definitely you will get justice... Let me also use this time to encourage we parents to start sex education for our children( boy and girl) atleast from 2 years of age. For example letting them know their body parts and the right names they are called not nicknames. And also letting them know that no body has the right to touch their private body parts and if anyone tries it, they should run away and immediately report to u(parents)...its well with you mama tatacherie. Be strong..

Jeniluv:
ATTENTION PRETTY PREGGY NOVEMBER MAMAS
Issa Roll call something##Smiling

Oh how I love how October is gradually coming to an end...Indeed,our God is faithful..just like yesterday

My gallant teamies,how body?hope we are all good?Let us all be conscious of our diet biko oo cos na this period baby dey add weight most...For our dear Mamas who might port to October,we wish u safe,smooth and easy delivery as well as other Mamas....


November is now the most important month in our lives,as such,our hopes will never be dashed cos our God is faithful...

Please quote me with baby sex o for update .For those Mamas still MIA,pls come online,lets know you are fine e hear?

The good God that has brought us this far will surely see us through to the end ##AMEN.....

Oya,catwalk and answer present......

S/NO. MONIKER. EDD SEX
1. Ruthiegal...........................6thNov.............XY
2. pis23.................................. 12th Nov............XY
3. gratefulme40.....................16th Nov..............
4. Mbliz...................................19th Nov.............
5. blessedmum11...................20th Nov...........
6. Jeniluv................................. 20th Nov..........XX
7. labasulla...............................18th Nov............
8. OnyxGem10..........................23rd Nov.........
9. Ajokeomo..............................16th Nov........XX
10.firstpregnancy.....................27th Nov........
11.wendy26...............................21st Nov........XX
12.sheweezy..............................30th Nov.......XX
13.Positive mummy......................??.............
14. Aneemee..............................11th Nov.......
15. khaffi2...................................12th/18th Nov..
16. Kokaiye..................................30th Nov......
17. Okolinneoma.........................25th Nov......
18. egbaguy2................................8th Nov.....XX
19. ChavivaBrown.........................25th Nov.....XX
20. Henitan24...........................8th Nov......XX
21. Peachbloom........................16th Nov.....XY
##TeamNOV2019
##Teampreggyandgallant
##TeamSwift and safe delivery
##TeamOluwaNoni.

i am present oo.hmm edd 11 & 19 Nov. Team pink. God has been faithful. Dh has been very supportive. And master victory has been encouraging too though naughty sometimes. In all, i am thankful...congrats to the mama's who have dropped and to those of us still waddling, safe delivery is ours.

naylor:
Good morning mamas, I had my baby almost three weeks ago, I am having trouble breastfeeding him as I am not making enough milk so he cries a lot after latching for a while. For now I am augmenting with NAN 1 but I would like to know what I can be taking to produce more breastmilk. I have tried Pap and milk. Thanks

palm wine works magic if you can.

Thank you God for another wonderful month to remember. May God continually see us through this journey IJN. Please mamas.. does anyone has a WECHAT Account? I need a friend to help verify my Registeration urgently.

Jeniluv:
Teamie toh fine,your name is on the roll call naa with an EDD of 19th Nov shey?

Hope you are bouncing?

glad to hear from you able cappo... been so busy coupled with work and my son excess activeness. EDD now 11th Nov. First scan gave 19th nov. going with the former. ..... i thank God so far...

Been a long while.... where are my november Team? Cappo @jenny not seen your mentions oooo

Anugod:
I want to rant.

Truly no two pregnancies are the same. My first, I wasn't even eating much and I was fine. But since this one started, I've been eating like a glutton. Can't count how many times in a day I eat. I have to eat if not terrible nausea sets in. It was not like this before o
At this rate, I can see 150kg romancing me


That said, lemme jus report myself here. So, Giddyperson and Nimi22 jazz finally caught me.
Me that I thought I was an expert o

I promise I don't know how it happened. Honestly, I don't.

I just found myself back here o. Team March/April 2020

yo my cappo that year.... welcome onboard ��

Thank you @ebonyjoke, @Giddyperson for your timely response to my worries. The cefuroxine and muprocin are very effective. Seeing positive results already in less than 24 hours. The surface is dried up already. What a relief for me!!! Thank you all !

Giddyperson:
Calm down you're already doing too much. You should have just listened to the paed at least for a while until he stopped whatever drugs were causing it. Why do you believe it's an infection, is there a kid/kids in his school with the same rash

If you want to go with the pharmacists idea, then know that you sometimes start seeing the physical effect of antibiotics after Day 3 or more, you can't always expect to see changes after the first spoon.

yes there's a kid with same rash in school. Reason why I wasn't comfortable with the response from his Paed. I noticed this morning that new ones are cropping up.. Thanks for the input.. We try to take it cool. First mother hood experience is always like that reason why I brought it here to seek relief from sabi mothers. Lol

Mummies good morning ooo! Please can someone come to my aid? I noticed this skin rash on my son's body few days ago while I was bathing him even though it wasn't as massive as this. Firstly, came out like normal heat rash. So immediately, took him to his PAED doctor only to be told that it's just a skin reaction from the drugs he's been taking that it will go on its own. Out of nervousness I took him to a reputable pharmacy was told it's a infection and was given cefuroxine antibiotics. He started using it yesterday we are yet to see any change. He actually contacted this from school last week.

Jeniluv:
Alright darling...EDD noted!hope you are good?please always come in regularly e hear?stay blessed

yeah doing well dear thanks for checking on us. Having issues with my phone at the moment reason for my irregularity here. But will fix asap. Thanks

Jeniluv:
A wonderful afternoon to all preggy mummies in da house,Happy New month everyone....Big congrats to those that have put to bed,to May mamas,BAs all the way,the Lord will perfect what He started in your lives....AMEN


My NOVEMBER teamies,I greet una specially ooo,positivemummy,where have you been?we haven't heard from you since you announced your BFP,Pls come in and say hello to us...
blessedmum,Mbliz,Aneemee,labasulla,Ruthiegal,firstpregnancy and so on,I will soon begin compiling names for roll call oo,pls quote me with your Edd,sex is certainly unknown for now....


GRACIAS

hello evening capo... Well-done! Edd is still 19th Nov. The last time I checked!!

Wow ... A very big congratulation to u ma. God is faithful

theworldbest:
Thanks everyone for the congratulatory message. It wasn't really easy but God stood through for me n my baby...I labored for 15hours only to be checked n in 4cm,midwife checked again after 3hours of painful contractions n I was just 6cm.she figured out something might be holding the cervix from dilating
Note:baby's head was close bt there was no way n she already poo in the water.
The contractions were so painful n unbearable so I ignored the midwife n started Pushing when the contractions hit me....God be praised what was blocking gave way only for us to see cord round my baby's neck..all in all the midwife manage to remove the cord n my angel came out at exactly 5:33pm.
Please everyone should manage my boring BS....I yam not a good writer
Cappo jina24 n every other pregnant mama...I pray God in heaven will perfect all he has started in our life's.

Jeniluv:
Gallant November teamies,how una dey oo,I know MS is doing some of us strong thing,my own is Evening sickness...body weakness is gradually setting in,I can't wait for school to vacate so that I can rest wella...In all,the Lord is our strength oo
Cc blessedmum11,positivemumny,Ameemee,Mbliz,etc

hello capo... Thanks for checking on us. No morning sickness!! At least for now. Though had a hitch free preggy previously! I hope this one stays that way too. Hubby has been very supportive with the house cores so no much stress except for the kind of food I crave for most times. � �

Gracedom:
Welcome again ma� November was good to you so u came back for it. Enjoy your time here ma

exactly! Thank you

Jeniluv:
Mama d mama,you sha like this November##Smiling...You are highly welcome and Amen to your prayers

November is DH birth month. So it comes as Special birthday gift to him. Lol

Hello good evening all, it feels great to be here again. I rep'd Team November In 2017. This year I also Rep Team November with EDD 19/19. CC November Capo and Team members. Happy Mother's Day to everyone of us. And may all expectant mothers have every cause to smile in Jesus name. May God also visit anyone praying for this special blessing of motherhood in Jesus name......

A woman was telling me about a drug one can use to shrink the boobs after weaning. According to her , when she had miscarriage, doctor prescribed it to return the breast to normal size hence she lost the baby. So my question now is, is it good for mothers who want to wean their baby to use any of such drugs aside paracetamol and are there any side effects to such drugs. And without the drugs, can the breast return to its normal size after weaning? If yes, pls give direction on what to do . thanks

At mama anu thanks a bunch.hhhhh @giddyperson abeg no he your fault ooo hmm uber kee

Anugod:
Thanks mami, and happy birthday in arrears to your baby too
Mami are you in Abuja?
Uber doesn't reach there? Issnor my fault again o You know I love you too much